1. Hi Kati, how do you deal with feeling discouraged when symptoms of mental illness return despite doing everything to prevent it? I have been taking medication for depression for over a year and consistently go to therapy, but my symptoms...
2. Hi Kati! Why is it so hard for me to bear my therapist's silence in sessions? Is it part of me wanting to hear her opinion, so I don't have to be confronted with my own thoughts? I always get anxious and...
3. EDIT!!!! Hi Kati! Why do I feel so responsible for other people's words/actions? I am often on edge when around others because I feel responsible for their words/actions and if they say or do something offensive or hurtful, I can feel super guilty. I also often feel super responsible for how others feel. If someone is in a bad mood or...
4. Hey there! :) What is an appropriate gift for my therapist for the holidays? What gifts have you gotten and what gifts have you had to decline?
5. Hi Kati, I am a frontline healthcare worker and I am so beyond exhausted, I’m not sure how much more I can take. It is so heartbreaking to watch people so sick and dying every shift and it seems nothing is helping. I started having panic attacks at work but I cannot take off my masks for the entire 12 hours except for one short break because it’s too dangerous and the risk is too high. So I try calming techniques but they aren’t helping anymore. I am in therapy and it does help, but every shift is still so brutal. I have PTSD from childhood abuse and the...
6. Hey Kati, could you please say some calming therapisty things, in your therapist voice? I often listen to your podcast to calm down and remind myself of my own therapist in between sessions. But recently my anxiety levels are...
7. Hi Kati. I feel scared. The therapeutic relationship/emotional closeness is making me terribly afraid. I've known my therapist for years now and I am terrified because all I can think about is "eventually she'll leave. Therapy has to end at some point". This is causing two things...
8. How can I wire my brain to do something despite my fears or negative thoughts? I struggle with executing my plans because I am terrified that something might go wrong. I always end up stuck in going through the motions, lose motivation and interest, and go back to square one of...
9. Dear Kati: Please accept some socially distanced holiday cheer, and my personal gratitude for all that you do on both of your channels. My question is about the working alliance between my therapist and I: can you please describe how a client can create or fix their alliance with their therapist? My therapist and I were recently on the verge of termination, for administrative and not therapeutic reasons, (e.g., so she could be freed up to see other patients, who are on a waitlist) which has temporarily been lifted. For the next four months, I’ve been tasked with making therapy a safe...
10. Hi Kati! I hope you're doing great. I wanted to ask: how can I deal with being attracted and falling for older people. I was sexually abused as a little girl, since the age of 6 till I turned 8. I've been in therapy on and off since I was 11. Now that I'm 21, I realized that I tend to fall for people who are much older than me. Right now, I really like a woman who's 15 years older than me. We're both actresses. Lately, I've been getting kind of really close to her, I feel so connected to her and that I can talk with her about stuff I never could with anyone; but I really...
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