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Episode 133 - Adoption And Jehovah's Witnesses - Ashley Is Shunned 

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Fostered by a woman in the congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses, little Ashley caught the eye of the person that would adopt her as a part of their family. All Ashley wanted was to be "normal", but her adoptive parents were in a cult that didn't allow for such. She would do all of the things asked of her by her adoptive family and tried to connect to the performative spirituality around her while ultimately feeling empty in that environment. Sadly, as Jehovah's Witnesses do, the very people that made the choice to adopt her into their family would also make the choice to shun her later when she wasn't who they wanted her to be.
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Комментарии : 17   
@laymanphil8513
@laymanphil8513 Год назад
I had to fully realize that I had joined a fundamentalist sect to begin to rebuild myself on the ruins of my irrational beliefs. Today I have never been so good with myself because I am finally myself. This fulfillment made it possible to evacuate all my chronic infections which were rotting my existence as a JW.
@hildyboo
@hildyboo Год назад
Ashley, you are so beautiful!I I am so sorry you ended up suffering in this cult. I grew up in it as well and relate so much to your story. You are strong, wise and resilient! welcome to freedom, you've earned it!!!! I am sending you love!
@StefWokeUp
@StefWokeUp Год назад
Such an inspiring story. I’m so proud of you! You have a lot of bravery.
@IrisMontgomery
@IrisMontgomery 2 месяца назад
You are a beautiful human being. And Michael, you are amazing. Godd bless you. And, you are hilarious 💜
@cindyjohnson7883
@cindyjohnson7883 Год назад
Every grain of hope, humanity, positivity & love I contain being sent to you from my heart to yours💝KEEP GLOWING GODDESS🎇YOU are a living, breathing MIRACLE!
@markmello1366
@markmello1366 Год назад
I'm really appreciating your explanation of the co dependent relationships that develop amongst us JWs. Keep up the great work
@BeckyInKorea
@BeckyInKorea Год назад
Really thankful for this online community that is supporting me! I'm very lost right now as it's only been a few months. Let's keep supporting one another 🙏
@suzannep
@suzannep Год назад
I really relate to that codependency and parentification. I remember reading about being made into the surrogate partner emotionally speaking by my mom and finding it explained my life so much. The JW environment just added another unhealthy aspect on top of that family dynamic that I grew up in.
@evaarnold5838
@evaarnold5838 Год назад
@ashley what a great testimony, you are a beautiful example of a young person leaving the JW’s and doing it with love respect and dignity. I’m glad things have come together for you and wish nothing but love and success in the future. Great interview ‼️♥️‼️
@stopdrinkingthekoolaid9543
@stopdrinkingthekoolaid9543 Год назад
Great Channel
@rochelle_johnston2703
@rochelle_johnston2703 Год назад
The world-wide Pandemic helped the over-population problem! I had the vid-flu and after several weeks of having a lasting fatigue, I believe my asthma has worsened and one of my friends who didn't have asthma does now!? I'm thrilled to hear that you have re-connected with your brother and that it is as no time has passed. Good luck (something we can say now), with getting into College, I have always told my two girls that "knowledge is Power" and we need power in our lives especially as women who aren't quite equal citizens! I keep thinking and using this analogy from the movie "Ants"; Women are the billions of ants while Men are the millions of grasshoppers | We freaking well "OUT NUMBER THEM WOMEN, LETS FINALLY GET TOGEHTER TO BE EQUAL....
@evaarnold5838
@evaarnold5838 Год назад
Ashley, I’m sorry your Dad was very misogynistic, very typical for JW men…that is why your Dad did help your Mom around the house, emotionally absent with narcissistic tendencies. Your mom, because she pent up all her frustration, control and anger would explode….I know I lived it. I hate it for my boys, thankfully I left JW. Such bad pairing in marriages lead to much turmoil. Spot on! Best wishes in a beautiful future for a beautiful young woman ‼️♥️‼️
@nataliegrandauthorofcultgi1231
💜💜💜
@davidnewsom9166
@davidnewsom9166 Год назад
If you have proof that you paid for your furniture, and adopted your cats, You can file a lawsuit to retrieve your property and pets in small claims court to get them back. You should search the Ex-JW/ Anti-JW communities to see if you can find anyone to give you legal advice on how to word the actual lawsuit you would be filing.
@nowandafter3258
@nowandafter3258 Год назад
Is a *CULT*
@rochelle_johnston2703
@rochelle_johnston2703 Год назад
EQUAL CITIZENS WITH RIGHTS THAT WE SHOULD not HAVE TO FIGHT FOR in the bloody year 2023 fffs! My bad, went on a bit of a rant there....lolz Actually the sad thing is it is still unbearably our cross to bear, however I feel a change happening, let's get together Ladies and correct this major wrong, abuse of all kinds to be endured, sexualized for what we wear; NO MORE We should be able to be naked in public and not be assaulted "for what were you wearing"? "What are you wearing 'Tight-Pants' GB member Tony Morris", No Tony being drunk is not an excuse you moron. Warmest love you Ashley (no conditions I promise), Very proud of you too. Rochelle aka Mumma.
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