EPISODE 28 | AGENDAS AND DIFFERENT INSIGHTS 

The little voice winter puts on when she mocks something is hilarious it deserves a montage 😂😂😂😂

Chy, baby, please practice not saying, “I don’t Know” after you voice your opinion. You do know. You are beautiful and you are smart. Don’t be afraid to own what you say, and don’t feel like you have to apologize for your opinion. When you say that, it invalidates your feelings. People online are going to do that, don’t do it to yourself. I love y’all 🥳❤️❤️❤️

Watching while trying to induce my labor🤭 I will neva miss the big sistas weekly talk

Chys skin is EVERYTHING 😩😍

I love that Winter and Chy don't always have the same opinion on everything. I find myself agreeing with Chy a lot of the time and it's refreshing to hear two people say what they truly feel and not be scared of what others will think. Keep being true to yourselves and speaking your mind! My favorite podcast right now ❤️

Winter is so intelligent and insightful when it comes to certain topics. I appreciated her take on the gay subject lol

Winter spoke facts on the Black LGBTQ community & hyper masculinity!! Appreciate you being educated and educating others!

Chy & Winter are both very observant ppl && I love that they as friends they can agree to disagree on topics/views and they don’t try and force views on one another .. ❤

As a long time member of the Roach Family I speak for all of us when I say we NEED more than forty minutes y’all 😂😂😂. I love watching yall this episode had me crying

I agree with Winter on the gay subject. I’ve seen plenty of shows and movies with gay white people.

We love the open and free flowing conversation from both you guys! Don’t ever feel like you should refrain from having a voice Chy , it comes with the territory and also people who know your heart will know it’s full of love. Keep being authentically yourselves , I will always keep tuning in to ‘Behind the Likes’ ❤

Wintrr is so smart. 💯

As a gay man, I do think in most shows, tokenism is a problem. Now, they try to shove all the things into one character its not about pushing an agenda. I do think they should show a diverse range of characters, especially if the show takes place in a diverse country like the us.

There has always been a stigma that black men can't be gay, especially if they're masculine. If you notice the media shining a light on gay masculine black men, it's because they exist and deserve the representation. I love you Chy, so this isn't shade. But I feel like you're just projecting since you made it clear that you're not attracted to feminine or queer men. Gay black masculine characters are not being pushed, and not every man wants to be feminine.

Chy, I love watching you give your thoughts every week and I’m so grateful your friendship with Winter has brought you on my radar. Following your insta and seeing your personality on the pod I KNOW that you always mean well. With that being said lol… as a black gay man from a rural-ish area growing up I haven’t had many places to look to for representation honestly. Not in real life at all and most of the movies, shows, and media that was shown of gay people had them being white. And even in those stories, most of them didn’t even have a happy ending (Milk) or they died (Brokeback Mountain) or were side characters (Mean Girls)… Not seeing yourself in media is sooo damaging. And like Winter said, it can lead black men to feeling like they can’t come out and like being down low is their only option. And I feel like that closeted mindset just sets us back as a (black) community. There have ALWAYS been gay black people. It’s one thing to know it in a *sense* and to theorize how many of them can be in sports or what have you but it’s another thing to see it. I personally think it’s a good thing for it to be normalized… it gives the younger folk a shot to see people like them or even not like them and it not outcast anyone, but include. People gon’ be gay regardless. The media can *push* the agenda about masculine/feminine/gay/straight/trans people all they want but that doesn’t change anything about who people are inside. I’ve seen almost nothing but straight relationships in real life and in media and I STILL turned out gay as hell lmao. I say all this with the utmost love and respect.. just wanted to give you some thoughts from someone who is gay AND black and has had a hard time finding where I belong in the world and wish that some of the stories about gay black men would have been around 10-15 years ago when I needed to see me in someone on screen.

I’ll never get tired hearing yall!!! ❤

Winter being knowing shit!!! I'm so proud of her knowledge and insight on LGBT matters.

The way Chy described the rolling over the feet sound sent me out of orbit. I rewound like 4 times

chy i understand what you’re saying completely.. i would say tho it’s not just black people that movie industries push different sexualities. i would say ever since the summer of 2020 every movie, show, commercial, pushes & opens the ideas of different sexualities & we aren’t always used to that because that’s not what we would watch on tv growing up. i think 2020 opened peoples eyes & personally i think scared a lot of things in the industry because they would have to include everyone from every background. i love you guy & yall should definitely talk about topics that shake the room. stay blessed !!

Chy I can understand what you’re trying to say about the whole “narrative to emasculate black men” however you really don’t know how to strongly support your argument. Winter is giving you valid examples, reasons, and points and you have no response… It comes off like you have a deeper issue with Black Men being gay than you’re saying and that’s okay but say it with your CHEST. I personally don’t understand why it’s such a big deal when there is STILL a large representation of Black people in general that’s vastly coming to the forefront, and the fact that historically Black Men despise/hate gay men, it sends people into an uproar but sugarcoating it with “they’re trying to spin this narrative.” ITS REPRESENTATION. being a black gay man myself, I can say companies are doing too much to show how “woke” they are, but at the same time watching people’s ugly reactions to it supports the point of why it’s needed. Period.

I binge listened to 26 episodes over the weekend. Y'all are awesome!

Chyyyy! Out here speaking facts

You tasted it? Noo.. Oh, me either... Chy is hilarious😂😂

We grew up seeing nothing but hetero stuff and do you see the gays complaining? I don’t see Chy complaining about all the lesbian stuff being pushed on our society. I’m glad she showed her true colors. For the first time I actually agree with Winter! Thank you Win. I hope I can continue watching this podcast bc Chy just blew me. She must have forgot yall have gay listeners smh

Chey is legit so funny without trying bahahaha like girl please don’t try your discharge 😂😂😂😂😂

First time I didn't really have fun with the podcast. I was getting a little iffy about that topic it was kinda rubbing me the wrong way... thankful for you winter for always looking out for the lgbt community 😭😓

Not chy repeating the trainer story, never gets old though!! 😂😂😂 love it

no hate, i like chy but she kinda gives off slight homophobic vibes, sometimes maybe without even realizing it. but I appreciate winters take on it coming from a black man apart of the lgbtq community

Really appreciated Wintrr take on the gay subject, & it is true gay representation for blacks hasn’t been covered enough vs others & not just in the stereotypical fashion everyone knows of gay black men

Chy you and Winter always having me crack up, ya really a vibe. And when I found out you was an Aquarius I was like that’s why I like her ! Btw my birthday the day before yours ♒️

Winter… if you don’t want kids you take precautions. If you don’t, like Chy said, YOURE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT.

Winter and Chy are not only beautiful but the way they talk about topics are real and very entertaining. Wishing yall continued success and God bless both yall beautiful selves❤

Wintr is so well spoken on this topic and it’s so appreciated ❤

You guys are killing it!!! with the behind the likes i'm obsessed lowkey i wish it was longer. The work with the editing say less. I'm so excited for the merch! have a great day!

kudos to you Wintrr for really giving good insight into the the whole hypermasculinity black male narrative and speaking from a more educating place . i like co host but she has strong opinions with a homophobic undertone . (she’s entitled to that) but you’re insight overshadowed her ignorance ! kudos to you again girl !

Y’all are real as hell and that’s so hard to find these days!! Truly unapologetically yourselves. Love ittttt

There’s gay people in the world!! Hello? Black gay men at that. We deserve to be represented as well. What’s wrong with that? I agree with winter at 33:00

Times are different unfortunately , tiktok changed the game more than we’ve ever seen. It’s a bigger demon than even what the BBL era was on IG to us older gen z 😂 at least in middle school we still had justice, and Bethany Mota vids. I don’t see it regressing either , it’ll just turn deeper into a black mirror episode 😅

winters comebacks are CRAZY i love it😭😭😭 teach me ur ways

winter i love what you’re saying around 30:00 🥰 THANK YOU

I just love me some Winter (love u too Chy) her mannerisms, humor, honesty are literally top teir. Cant wait for the merch to drop!❤

I love when chy says ‘me neither’ when she obviously did something 😂😂 me neither chy

Winter is officially my celeb crush 😩🔥

I lovedddd this episode 😍🥰❤️ i really enjoy when u guys discuss controversial topics and debate about your opinions. Now I’m happy. 😊

Winterrrrr can you make a video about confidence and how to not let others take advantage of you and be a boss.Or like girl tips and how to be the best version of yourselff!!!❤❤

Oh my God lmao winter! That response to fresh and fit is hilarious 😂😂😂 he cried into his pillow that night

I didn’t think I was into podcast, but I’m always throughly entertained by you both 😂. I like to think you guys are me if I got out of the house and socialized more. Just vibing, being goofy, and talking shit with your close friend(s).

i like the mics on the outside of yall versus between yall. i’m surprised it took too long to switch it up. but regardless obsessed with this podcast and i look forward to it each wednesday!!!!! ❤❤❤

Chy don’t worry, a lot of people agree with you, a lot of people think the same but don’t say anything, I understand what you were trying to convey some people may misunderstand but the ones that get it get it.

has chy never read winters book?😂 because she doesn’t know a lot of the stories that winter has talked about in her book

Chy: I’m doing dry January Winter: Well, we did just drink the other day Dead 💀 It doesn’t count, Chy. Start over 🤣

Screaming at 11:20! 💀💀 "You know statistic's say.......oh, whatever, I don't really know the statistic's" Girl! 😂😂

I will never miss an episode . Lol

"so you did have gum" 😂😂😂😂😂

Chy and Winter were made for each other! I will always support y’all❤️

Chy & Winter’s voices match them SO well lol

Winter!!! I appreciate her perspective on the LGBTQ+ topic because she is absolutely right! There isn’t much representation for Black queer people. No offense to Chy but representation shouldn’t be an agenda The Color Purple was not pushing an agenda Cellie and Shug’s relationship was in the book.

Please don’t stop i literally watch every week. We’re besties now.!!

Chy is glowing! Like a weight has been lifted off of her shoulders!

Give it ten years, the media landscape and conversation will shift. Just look at how much has changed since 2013… can’t imagine what 2032 bring ! 💀💀(if we make it that far hhaa)

I love Chy 😭😭😭 “you tasted it?” no 😐 “oh me neither “ 😭😭😭😭

“And then Chy threw up ☺️ hehehe” I love y’all! Cant wait to see the episode of cocktails with Heather!

Thanks for posting, ive been binge watching old episodes alll day!

Winter! Can you speak on Keith Lee leaving the Bay Area early on his food tour? A lot of people are mad about him saying it’s not a place for tourists.. (he was also given shellfish from a Bay Area restaurant meanwhile hes allergic) your thoughts??

Honestly there is an agenda to put gay something in everything. It’s literally in every show or movie. And sometimes them being gay is not even apart of the storyline that matters.

Not me singing “a whole new world 🎶 “ at the same time 😂😂

I’m gonna have to disagree with you chy, I think winter is right by this being a positive thing, maybe by your experience, the things that you watched tend to have more gay black men but I do think that this is a positive thing I feel like we have enough representation of very masculine, black men and no one has ever said anything about that. I really do think the black community even with my own and the Hispanic community really struggle with hyper masculinity in a negative way. I think this is something that other ethnicities need to do as well, but I think it’s a really good thing for the black community, and I hope it inspires other men to be comfortable, regardless of how they choose to live their life and it opens up masculine men to the idea that it’s okay to be gay or feminine.

Chy please don’t ever be afraid to speak on what happens in the black community or what narrative the mainstream is trying to push BECAUSE YOU ARE 100% RIGHT. I appreciate you and respect you so much more for voicing your opinions and what you’ve noticed in OUR COMMUNITY✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

Name a funnier duo!! How did y’all go from Stephen Hawkins to Rolling Ray I was screaming 😂

Its so funny when y'all randomly start singing 😂

I love this pod! Hope we get more and more episodes in 2024!

Girl my niece wears makeup and this creams and serum. I wish she would just be a little girl. But I get where yall are coming from. Thought I was the only one who thought like that.

Leaving a negative review while sitting down is so me🤣🤣🤣

I think Chy is a little off w/ this masculinity topic. Sexuality has nothing to do with being masculine or emasculating. I think there is a lot more straight representation than gay w/ any race. Just my opinion 😩🤍

(I say this with love) Chy should reflect on her internal homophobia. The narrative is called inclusion and we need more of it actually. Let's normalize it. Ask yourself why it makes you feel so uncomfortable?

Yes time for my favorite podcast!!

Period wintrr!! U ate that woke sh*t!!! 100% right all facts

Absolutely love your podcast ! Winter,, a long time ago I saw on RU-vid (I think? Or a live) where you talked about your anxiety and having disassociation.. I’m so curious to know how you got through that and if you still deal with that? I’ve been through a lot of trauma so I definitely have dealt with that in my life, and I’m always interested to hear how others cope with theirs too ! Sorry for the long message lol Love this friendship dynamic 😊

I cant believe chy was showing us her fighting skills 😂😂😂😂 and i agree my niece is 11 and has all these skin care stuff .

I see what you are saying chy there is a narrative to emasculate men and specifically black men. I’m glad that you talked about that.

36:51 chy had some major and great points about masculinity being lost

Not me just digging into my sushi right when y'all started talking about discharge 😂😂😂😭 yum

Chy comes off as really close minded. Especially when it comes to gay stuff. It’s so ironic because hearing her talk sometimes, you wouldn’t think she would be so close minded.

Yall really be entertaining me while I cook and eat 🫶🏼 luv that

Can someone explain to me why they say to go behind the likes podcast is that not on RU-vid and only a podcast or no

I literally just hopped on RU-vid, hoping that there was something for me to watch and y’all were here thank God cause RU-vid be boring

I can’t imagine chy fighting someone 🤣

we love your energy + sisterhood

bro, the me, neither gets me every time 😂😂

Watching this while I get ready for haircut I love yall

CHI YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT THE BLACK MAN AND THE BLACK WOMAN. WE NOTICE IT TOO BUT STAY STRONG. ITS IN YOU NOT ON YOU

Lmfaooo bro y’all crack me up. “Clear jelly … look at this !”

I love that jingle you had for chy! "Let's get into the advice with my friend ch y y y " ❤😂

Pinterest is always helpful with exploring new ideas/ aesthetics!

Ya’ll are my favorite thing to watch while i workout lol 😂 making me laugh on the stairmaster 😂

Winter as a mommy❤❤❤

yall should edit pictures and video on the screen .... lol we wanna see too. Love yall

I love it here

Tell me why i been checking to see when you guys we’re gonna pop up lol

this ep feels like a fever dream🤣🤣🤣