I just bought a brand new car, and I just recently got my driver's licence, so I asked my husband to go driving with me so that I can get used to driving this new car, the whole trip I was being shouted at, being told how useless I am, how stubborn I am while I don't know anything, the mental abuse, which is the norm, I have to walk on eggshells around him, as much as I now know that the man does not love me, as much as I dont depend on him financially, I jist dont know why I am subjecting myself to this....everytime I get flashbacks of the mental abuse, I get shivers
Madam Speaker you have international viewers, can you put subtitles for us non SA. We end up guessing what she is saying in line with story. You are doing well, your stories relate to so many. Top notch❤❤❤
Madame Speaker Nthabi is telling the truth Women who stand strong in public when we get home we are treated like door mats,I met this guy two yrs ago in the 1st three months into the relationship he started verbally ill treating me, it became so normal every month it was a new story verbal abuse became strong he regarded himself a Saint and me a bitch I dressed him from head to toe including his kids but he will make sure he calls me all this names,one day I looked at myself in the mirror and can't belive that I'm what he says I'm he will go around and bad mouth me amongst my friend while I don't know his friends and family Narcists makes u think you are bad person and they are clean thanks Nthabi❤
What an episode, some men will make you look like your the crazy person. Nthabi has seen it all but never gave up on love. That's because not all men are the same😊
This is quite shocking. I know Nthabi's 2nd husband whom she recently divorced & I was really wondering what actually happened. I am glad she shared her side of the story. The guy used of how much he loves Nthabi; how good she has been to their family; he used to flaunt her around & praise her so much. I was actually surprised when he said they're now divorced. I guess pple choose to show only the good about their lives on social media. This is a sad story. I thought they'd go far together as they both seemed to be from previously troubled marriages. 😢 I guess we also tend to attract the same kinda toxic pple if we don't sever ties spiritually. These tend to be more spiritual if they are now becoming a pattern. I hope they both pull down; destroy & pluck out before they can build something new relationship-wise. Those who are deeply & spiritually inclined will understand what I mean by a curse repeating itself.
There is a saying in Setswana/Tswana, it goes: “Lebitla la Mosadi ke lenyalo”… I’m a Dr 42, Single & celibate for 15 years, no children, never been married. I continue to refuse to settle for anything less than what I BELIEVE I deserve. I don’t care if I meet my soulmate at 70/80. Life goes on!
All that Ntabi went through didn't mean she's weak, she went through that process cause God wanted to use her to be a voice for the voiceless and this was based on experience and not something she read somewhere. Woman should love themselves and through this they will then realise when they not love correctly. I loved this episode,big ups Madam Speaker.
