ESFJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities 

You know this series is esfp-made when half of them are party-based

"I don't normally put INFPs at the kids table, they just sort of find their way there anyway" sigh

I love how the ESFJ talks as though she's instructing preschoolers how to do arts and crafts. The passive aggressive tone just makes the video. Also, it's not surprising that she relates everything back to a party theme. "If you're not gifting, our friendship is drifting."

Ah yes, the kids table. Also known as the ''don't talk to me unless it's not small talk'' zone lolol

ENTP: I know that not bringing a gift triggers you. More fun for me right from the get-go. 🤣🤣🤣

I love the totally NOT judgmental tone when discussing the INFP playing with grass and/or starting an introvert hub. LOL

Hey, "hostess", I am the gift! LOL

How to get an INTJ to your party: Make it their responsibility to show up. Then we WILL bring a gift, we WILL help out and we WILL play any game you have *pre-informed* us of. And as soon as you pull out something that you haven’t communicated, that is brand new, we’re out.

Kristin, you're a gift to this world use this for next time you attend one of Marty's parties unprepared!

We love the esfj for accommodating everyone's party needs even when she's secretly about to blow a fuse. Its a skill and we love her for it.

9:28 I'm sorry, ESFJs. You can't incentivise (read: lure) us. That's dishonest. Don't mess with our Fi. Keep releasing great videos like this at our own pace, Kristin! -INTJ

kristin doesn’t know that kids in the US are taught a song of all the states in alphabetical order & it shows :) i can say them all in 18 seconds -entj

HAHAHA as soon as you mentioned the group "wants to help with things so they dont have to talk.." I knew istp.. i like to help. physically.. i hate talking at group gatherings.. i usually place myself on cleaning duty to avoid people. been doing this my whole life.

The real party is at the 🌈✨️🩷 k i d s t a b l e 💜✨️🦄

“Party? Great! When can I not show up ?”

What about the INFP who brings a handmade gift (if it’s a birthday/ baby shower etc.) because they’re an artist but then proceeds to hang out by the snack table and/or play with the pets the whole time? … Asking for a friend 👀

"Where people can go to...introvert" - Dear Kristin 2024

That subtle superiority complex by the esfj elevates the vid so much.

INTP: *Hopefully gets put in a kids table since they arent any other better options.* ESFJ: INTPs were born for the kids table. INTP: Nice! Also ESFJ: "They're too slow with tasks" INTP: Good, I would rather be. Why would I do chores of your responsibility of your party? Good video nonetheless!

INTP: I truly appreciate how aggressively welcoming and accommodating the ESF*s are portrayed as being towards all the other personalities (even those with the audacity to not bring a gift!). Even when they don't understand, they are understandING, and we all need someone like that in our lives. ❤️ My party vibe is that of an undercover Starfleet researcher trying to blend in to an alien civilization in order to observe, so "INTPs were born for the kids' table" is the most accurate statement ever. 🤣🤣🤣

** shows up just to name all 50 US states (and their capital cities)…then leaves. - an intj

"Time for the intuitives! I'm just going to take a vitamin C..." killed me

"ENTPs are... valued extroverts, with... valuable things to say..." You can feel the inner rage lol

As an INTP, I'll normally take the INTJ approach of just not showing up, unless all of the following conditions are met: 1) The party is organized by someone I know and care about; 2) I know most of the other guests and find them bearable to talk to; 3) There's a substantial meal involved, not just drinks and chips/nachos; 4) I'm not expected to do much beyond attending, eating and talking, unless it's something I really enjoy (i.e. not drinking, singing and dancing).

INTP here. I've known more xSFJs than I can even begin to count, including my parents. While we experience the world in very different ways most of the time, and my house is NEVER going to be as tidy as theirs, there's no one I trust more to look out for the people around them, be they friends, family or a random stranger who wandered too close. They ALWAYS give more than they take. They may not understand my point of view 73.6% of the time (which, coincidentally, is the same percentage of statistics that are made up on the spot), but they're always there when they're needed.

Challenge Accepted: Arizona, Alabama, Alaska, Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Iowa, Idaho, Kansas, Louisiana, Montana, Missouri, Minnesota, Mississippi, Illinois, Indiana, Maine, Nevada, New Hampshire, NOrth Carolina, North Dakota, New Mexico, Oregon, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, Tennessee, Virginia, West Virginia, Kentucky, Utah, South Carolina, South Dakota, Washington, California, New York, New Jersey, Maryland, Connecticut, Delaware, Michigan, Wisconsin (best one ;) ), Nebraska, Wyoming, Vermont, Arkansas, Massachusetts, Texas - 15 minutes (longer than it used to take when my brain box was fresher) - INFP (and, yes, Wisconsin is the best one :) )

Teaming up with INFPs ✨

"There's something to be learned for everyone in this video" Already triggered

The INTP, INFP, ENTP’s and even INTJ’s will scan the whole room for finding their own tribe; and if not sit by themselves

unrelated but i remembered a while ago how i much i miss typing teas 😭

LOL I am an INFP with a 3 year old and I always end up hanging out with the kids adults are dumb and I couldn't care less what they have to say, much prefer playing with stuffed animals

If you don't feel strongly about your integrity, ESFJ, why should I? Good luck with your party. All the best. I'm sure all those guests genuinely care about you.

as Kristin innocently claims that ENFJs wouldn't try to rearrange stuff behind ur back . . .my Mother. . .a TRUE ENFJ . . . rearranges not only tea towels. NOT only the whole Kitchen and contents BUT will redecorate ur whole house and life if they get the chance. . .

INFJ here. I'd firmly put myself in the "will help so they don't have to talk to people" category. 😅

Another corker to add to this hilarious series! 😂

As an INTP with an ESFJ mom , I can confirm she hella judgy, this lady loves to cook and party.

Here it goes: completely another meaning and atmosphere of a "party" from an ESFP one, and I'd better go to ESFP's for sure. (ENTP) Also having an INTJ regularly coming to my house for entertainment, cozy watching/playing parties etc and always asking for more time together I treasure it now even more after looking at this ESFJ xD

I don't honestly know why it was so good. But that has to be my favourite in the tier-ranking category.

Well as an INTP i'm not gonna show up to the party unless you are a close friend and I am very social with my close friends. If i am unexpectedly found in a stranger's party i will gladly join the kids table with INFP they are cool.

Funny how both ESFX types based their tier list on how they both would rank the types on how they would be at parties

I love how INFP doesn't even know where they are and INTP is just too slow and ENTP doesn't know how to say 'hello' and 'thank you'

At the states challenge, I instinctively paused the video and started listing all the states in my head, concluding that they can most definitely all be named in the space of an average party. I’m an INTP. It’s scary sometimes how predictable that makes me.

Lol, I'd put me in "will help so they don't have to talk to people". As an INFJ, I always find myself helping clean dishes, set the table, etc., just to avoid socializing for a while. I even rewash things just to delay going back into the sensory-overload action (...and extraverts). *terrified look* But yes, the xSFJ's passive-agressive looks will work on me. And I do end up in a secluded corner with a circle of other introverts, haha. -- Ana

I would definitely end up at the Kids' Table, since I'm an INFJ who rarely attends parties, so wouldn't get on well with Marty. She likely wouldn't even know who I am! 😹

Oh no she caught on to the folding-napkins-as-an-excuse-to-avoid-eye-contact-and-small-talk strategy -an ISTJ

....I am so surprised people should bring gifts to parties. Now i am rethinking etiquete. -ISFJ

ENFP are great gifters when we want to be and it's unexpected, just because. Bringing a gift because it's expected is completely different. It doesn't mean anything.

I have never heard of this gift giving things for parties. Closest I've heard is "Oh yeah, its your job to bring X food to the party" and everyone is supposed to bring something so its not expensive for the host.

INTP here: if you don't have a cat, rent one. We love cats and will stay all night to pet one.

I Love ESFJs ^°^ -infj

As an ENTP I never forget to bring gifts buuuut by the time I’m ready to leave a party, it’s because I’m drained and will not be putting in the effort to get stuck in an additional ten minute goodbye 😂

Lol I’m cracking 😂 ESFJ to us ENTP is like karen next door. Hahahahhahhaha

As an INFP... Yes Kids Table 💖💖💖

I can feel the passive aggression of the esfj seeping through the screen

HOW are you so good at filling in these roles? Just trying to imagine this party is making me uncomfortable. Intp btw

Me at a house party...get my security beverage...guzzle security beverage then get stability beverage...inspect all bookshelves and knickknacks to gain information on established values of the domain...find observation perch where I will spend the rest of the party ~INTP

I love the infj part about giving us the passively aggressive smile to make us join. Which is honestly true because sometimes, deep down I do feel guilty. 😅

I have an Esfj friend and she really see me like a filler… I guess it’s because im not an extrovert 😭-ISFJ

About right. The infp would go to the kids table. We are kids at heart

I was explaining to my intp sister how you were an esfp pretending to be an esfj ranking the other mbti types “Wow that’s meta” haha

I love how Kristin's ESFJ characters has changed from the Mary Poppins-like vibes of her earlier work (case in point: "The 16 Personalities' Inner Monologs at A Party "), to the catty, passive-aggressive vibe of her latest videos (cases in point: ""The 16 Personalities Through The Eyes Of An ISFJ," "The 16 Personalities Working Retail," and "The 16 Personalities at A Parent-teacher Conference.").

As an INFJ feeling like extrovert next to INFPs, INTPs, INTJs...

4:23 That line slaps hard ngl

As an INTJ I attended a party ONCE in my entire life and it was my best friends birthday party. And I went there only because my bf is an ENTP and he thought that telling everyone that there will be a party is organised enough [he didn't even mention an hour, nor date], so I was obligated to help. Never again, parties are boring.

I'm annoyed that I get invited - INTP

ENFP here, i get what you mean with the forget to bring a gift thing but i however ALWAYS bring gifts that i made myself three seconds before the party. And they are pretty creative most of the times because i am scared that the person i gift will be disappointed lmao

Me, an ESFP (before the video started): "Oh, this ESFJ would put me in S tier but watch, she's gonna be jealous and stick me in A tier instead." Kristen you totally get it xD

As an INTJ...meta-discussions about the party would entice me. Like, pretend "throwing the party is a strategy game" explain some basic concepts and how to spot them and then set me loose. Because if you frame a party as something I can optimize...Imma wanna optimize it.

Gets to the intuitive types, and says she's taking vitamin C. XD Me an INFP seeing INFP is next. Uhhhhhh, should I be concern? 👁👁 So, what your saying is, INFPs would be great at hosting parties if we put the dedication to plan for a party? :D . . . Although that does sound like it could be a lot of work. Unless we consider 3 is a crowd, which means: I, me, and myself are more than enough to have a great party! XD

As an INFP who likes to play with grass and prefers the kids table I feel called out

I am an ESFJ and I always avoid the passive agressive approach, I've noticed we do have this tendency and it can make people feel awful which is something we definitely don't want. I feel that I've also had time to mature some things with time, there must be some advantage of turning 42 lol. Anyways, thanks for this, because as much as I don't see myself in this behaviour anymore, I entirely agree with the list and it can actually be useful to manage different folks during a party 😅

Well i'm glad that's over and done with -INTP

I just imagine INFP and INTP sitting at the kids table, drinking tea and trying to realize where they are

Challenge accepted. Maine, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Vermont, Connecticut, New York, Pennslyvania, New Jersey, Maryland, Delaware, Virginia, Ohio, West Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Florida, Georgia, Tennessee, Kentucky, Indiana, Mississippi, Alabama, Illinois, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, Missouri, Louisiana, Arkansas, Texas, Iowa, Oklahoma, Kansas, Nebraska, North Dakota, South Dakota, Montana, Wyoming, Colorado, New Mexico, Utah, Arizona, Idaho, Nevada, California, Oregon, Washington, Hawaii, Alaska. Finished. Timed at 2 minutes. I think you forgot to invite your local geography nut to the party. Probably the INTJ. -ENFP

I clicked on the video just because we are polar opposites _INTP

this is awesome!! I love it your acting is fab! -Enfj

As a person who grew up in the USA, some of us learned a song for all 50 States in alphabetical order, so I could def do that challenge. To be fair though... I don't know a lot about regions in Australia... so don't be impressed ^_^

As an ENFP that has only heard the tier descriptions, I was tempted to put myself in tier 1 until I heard "vibe change" because that sounds so potential me. Oh wait...me and ENTPs are going to the kids table After the video: omg what! I AM the gift at a party! 😂

INTJ here . Give me a good food without to much talking and asking to intj . We will come .

That lawnmower improv was incredible. And scary.

i was so ready to feel offended but that was not as bad as i thought! judgy, sure but what can one say when one has played with grass at a party? - infp

As INFP, I usually wear something plain and simple dress. So no one will pay attention on me. If you are nice, I will bring some cupcakes or donuts to your house. Then, I immediately going to the back side and check the foods. Mwehehehehe... Check where is the toilet. Then, I put my cat out and let him play around. If anyone like cat, let's have fun. Or just sit alone and read my books.

Currently having a little situation with an ESFJ girl who tries to interpret everything I say into something highly vulnerable emotional, even though it is purely fact based. She got a ragy backlash from me and still tries to become 'close'. Super annoying. All ISTPs be warned ;) On the others side: I have a language-learning-tandem-ESFJ-friend. So if the relationship has a clear purpose, ESFJs can be very useful... especially with consistent meetings :)

I didn't know i had such an effect on an ESFJ ~INTJ

I need photos from the Pointy Objects Party

as an INTJ, I can confirm that ranking me in 'super guest' is pretty honorable and it made me love you. 🤩🤩🤩🥰🥰🥰

3:14 oh you think you can control us istps, oh trust me, if someone tries to ruin my isolated fun, I can turn my practical help into a practical nightmare :> (here’s a tip, don’t give me fire duty)

I am an ENFJ and I fully agree to this explanation. 😂 But my tea towels are folded properly!

As an INFJ, yes I’m a great filler guest unless the host has a cat and then I lose interest in the people unless they want to talk about cats

As an INTJ who has been forced to be present for some parties by my ESTJ mother, we're either helpful so we don't have to socialise (but the loud environment and lots of people drain us pretty quickly) or vibing introvertly at the kids table. Though that is if we're genuinely forced to stay and cannot escape. My mum's 50th birthday party went on until about 3 am and I left with my ISFJ grandma around 9 pm after four hours of waiting for it to be over with earplugs in because I don't have a car and grandma was driving. My ideal image of a "party" is a quiet discussion of various sociopolitically-philosophical-environmental-literary topics at the library - if I somehow am sure that there won't be people making wild claims having done zero research and getting personally offended by constructive feedback. I would actually be more than happy to attend this kind of a party with once a week to once a month frequency. Still would probably be stressed out as hell about the first few. PS: When I was a child, I kid you not, the most blissful parts of visiting any friends of my parents who had children was finding their room in terrible mess and being allowed to clean it up. It was amazing, I once spent half a birthday party of some girl reorganising the furniture in her dollhouse. My Se is miserably weak but the Si, inherited along with some OCD from my grandma, is thriving. Thanks for listening to my TED talk.

You are placing INTJs at the top of the tier for not doing anything in regards to a party thus incentivizing us not to come to any future parties yet still having a high honour. Thank you. P.S. INTJs will not bring a gift unless it is communicated to us that it is a social norm to bring a gift. Once communicated, we will always bring a gift when we come.

Eh, ESFJs take on the ISFJ being grateful for not having to plan a party isn't always accurate when I'm the one planning the outings, the parties, what have you lmao. I think the ESFJ should be scared of me actually. Also what is her deal with gifts lmao. If I invite you to a party, all I need is your presence lol. I usually have everything taken care of but if you bring something extra I'll definitely be grateful lol Edit: Ahhh I might have missed that she's most likely talking about a birthday party

As an INTJ who actually shows up to the ESFJ`s parties (his house is within walking distance) I appreciate being put in S tier.

"eating all the food without giving back any small talk" just screams Esfj

l am INFJ...where is my brothers???

As an INTP who is only a couple of strong drinks away from being an ENTP, if there is booze at the kids table, the ESFJ should be ready for a vibe change.

To me I am a super guest. I bring gifts, show up on time, initiate activities and help cleaning up. However I can see how when there are substances at play my mere pressence might turn a party upside down. -Entj

The ESFJ looks like those sisters in the chrurch 😁

wow the ESFP one is so accurate it hurts, has to be that ESFJ vibe. or it might be that the maker of this video just knows the ESFP so well :p

I am so pleasantly surprised by the ISFP placement! This shows your understanding of us and that you didn't base this purely on an introvert stereotype, because among the Ixxx types, we're truly the ones closest to being extroverted. We're just...extremely picky about when we do it 😆 An ISFP will be very active at your party...if they decide to show up!