Although communicated regulary, my boyfriend doesn't seem to respect any boundaries, instead asks me to adjust and understand. How do I deal with this?
I'm sorry to hear that. When it comes to boundaries I tend to advise on reflecting on the values it has for you. Are these high valued boundaries and are they "deal breakers". That is the intention of discussing values in a relationship to identify if it is "negotiable" or what has to be comprised and enforced based on your values. If the boundary infringement is against a high value that is a "deal breaker" then it is up to you on what kind of adjustments you can and are willing to make if any. I hope that helps.
