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facing my fears! shopping ALONE..... 

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@alondradessy
@alondradessy Месяц назад
I forgot to do the question of the day for the giveaway LMFAOO so the question to enter the $100 giveaway is.... Do you like shopping alone? if yes why?:) also what’s your fave skims item? leave ur cash app with ur comment! Anyways, get y'all some skims mama!!!! giveaway winner from last video is $Ladyarcos btw!
@nicholaswong5086
@nicholaswong5086 Месяц назад
Alo, I like shopping w/ my 👩🏻‍🍼 🙋🏻‍♂️🛍
@cynthiaheart2021
@cynthiaheart2021 Месяц назад
Yes it's me time self love matters ❤️ alot and go shop alone go to Starbucks and target 🎯 .If u have anxiety just eat sour stuff like candy it helps a lot
@cinthiazuniga2535
@cinthiazuniga2535 Месяц назад
Yes 😂but im not good at managing money 😢 $CinthiaC24
@cinthiazuniga2535
@cinthiazuniga2535 Месяц назад
$CinthiaC24
@africanqueen1294
@africanqueen1294 Месяц назад
Girl NOOO 😂😂 I hate it so much I feel like I’m shopping wrong in public. Anxiety can never let me win 😭 The simple things people find easy is hard for people with anxiety, SO PROUD of you for doing this on your own! ❤ $COUMBELE
@Saray4176
@Saray4176 Месяц назад
Starts the target shopping with “my anxiety is not too bad guys” as you RUN through the entrance 😂😂😂
@NancyLove2811
@NancyLove2811 Месяц назад
I’m your neighbor and I’m usually always at home. I suffer from anxiety but love shopping. I could always go with you and record you while you shop lol
@pattyv9506
@pattyv9506 Месяц назад
She’s gonna move after seeing this comment lol
@cynthiasanchez3586
@cynthiasanchez3586 Месяц назад
@@pattyv9506😂😂😂
@Ajade.55
@Ajade.55 Месяц назад
That’s so nice of you! As someone with anxiety it’s sooooo much better when your with a friend.😊😊
@laurenfuentes8626
@laurenfuentes8626 Месяц назад
Aww I hope she sees this comment ❤
@Liz-ll3qf
@Liz-ll3qf Месяц назад
You live in Rosedale too? We should all go ❤
@neomicastellanos4332
@neomicastellanos4332 Месяц назад
Real asf I hate going out alone I get so scared sometimes 😭
@DeeSoriano
@DeeSoriano Месяц назад
I’m proud of you for shopping alone!! I personally don’t like to shop alone, my anxiety be over the roof girl but sometimes we gotta do it 🥲🥲
@faith_God
@faith_God Месяц назад
making time for yourself is good for your mental health . Trust me you will enjoy your time alone once you get the hang of it . I don't get no breaks from my children but once in a while i'll go alone and i love it i feel recharged once i get home 🙌🏽😀
@jeannewishes1688
@jeannewishes1688 Месяц назад
Yessss i agree....mamas should be able to get me time at least 1x a week if they can.and it does help mentally
@faith_God
@faith_God Месяц назад
I think some girls dont like being alone but i love it i take advantage when i can .
@yesmijauregui
@yesmijauregui Месяц назад
I love shopping and eating alone! I don’t have to wait on anyone to go somewhere I have in mind, I can take my time, and be in my own zone 💗🙏🏼 maybe being the only child has helped too 🙊
@jaelenegrioli
@jaelenegrioli Месяц назад
i love shopping alone with nobody rushing me!! im proud of you alo!
@eladiabravo9639
@eladiabravo9639 Месяц назад
I suffer from bad anxiety and trust me when I tell you going shopping alone has definitely helped me with us even if it’s running errands I still have yet to take that big step to go on dates by myself but it’s these little steps that counts love ❤
@agv23agv
@agv23agv Месяц назад
It’s crazy how anxiety works. I get anxious posting on social media, but love shopping alone.
@JoanaJ4
@JoanaJ4 Месяц назад
4:26 Alondra speed walking through target 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️😅 love the new hair 💇🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️❤
@Aabreeezy
@Aabreeezy Месяц назад
Girl, I haven’t even watched the video but I’m just so proud of you for making such a commitment for change. I can really see it and I don’t even know you, but I’m really happy that you’re finding your groove and feeling safe to be you. 🫶✨
@kathleenlizettepedraza9112
@kathleenlizettepedraza9112 Месяц назад
Retail therapy is the best especially when you go alone, take your time and just honestly enjoy your own company. Your energy is different but in a positive way!! I love it 🩷 love that you’re trying to do different things for your anxiety it’s scary but keep trying!
@emilym77180
@emilym77180 Месяц назад
I used to get anxiety shopping alone but now I love it. I get to enjoy myself and take my time just walking around. You did so good! Keep going Alo! 🤩🥰 I haven’t tried any skims items yet. I can’t decide what I want. 😭
@annikagonzalez527
@annikagonzalez527 Месяц назад
Literally love her so much more now that ik she’s a 🍃 queen
@Mpenaloza_
@Mpenaloza_ Месяц назад
Same ✨
@Prettystasi
@Prettystasi Месяц назад
Me too 💕🥰
@shookbitch123
@shookbitch123 Месяц назад
That’s probably why she has sm anxiety
@chunkyrexx9264
@chunkyrexx9264 Месяц назад
seriously lol
@mangofresh9138
@mangofresh9138 Месяц назад
She's definitely NOT a smoker queen tf 😂
@Katalinacmakeup
@Katalinacmakeup Месяц назад
Having anxiety is the worst i literally can’t go anywhere without having someone with me even if it’s a family event 😭😭 I can’t imagine filming in public you are so brave ❤
@Yram0018
@Yram0018 Месяц назад
THIS IS ME!! Even at family events and I’m 23 already
@Babywandaaa
@Babywandaaa Месяц назад
been watching you & elsy for years, I love your new life 🥺❤️
@kenniacabrera3684
@kenniacabrera3684 Месяц назад
I don’t like going to places alone but I LOVE going shopping alone it’s the best therapy for me. 😅🥰
@Xoxo_333.
@Xoxo_333. Месяц назад
I Love the Black Hair and Light Make up fits you so well. Your so Glowing ✨️
@kimberlyrodriguez5530
@kimberlyrodriguez5530 Месяц назад
Alondra , you’re so relatable and it’s so refreshing. I began to have a difficulty with anxiety but even more when I became a mom and wife. There’s so much to get done and several other tasks that it just gets overwhelming and not knowing where to begin cleaning up my messes. Little by little I’ve been getting better at it. Deep breathing exercises and getting a dog has helped me go out for walks and the dog alone has forced me to be speak to people because people really love dogs where I live lol I also realize I feel better when I am not near my phone. That’s what’s helped me :) thank you for sharing your journey with anxiety I enjoy your content very much :)
@_Summertimeallthetime
@_Summertimeallthetime Месяц назад
I love the light makeup & darker hair ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
@btsgot17
@btsgot17 Месяц назад
Look at you go!! You're so brave for doing this and continuing to take these steps to conquer your fears. We're so proud of you, Alondra!! Keep up the amazing work. 🥺
@tjbrat44
@tjbrat44 Месяц назад
Alondra, you are truly the cutest girl ever! I understand your anxiety and stuff...you are handling it great!! Love your content!! Sending lots of love to you and your family, from Utah!! 💗
@deeaviado
@deeaviado Месяц назад
Alo you look so beautiful with light makeup, I love that look on you and loving the dark hair!!!
@griseldamartinez1241
@griseldamartinez1241 Месяц назад
❤ I love that you’re bringing very consistent on your videos Alondra 🎉
@angelaortiz3406
@angelaortiz3406 Месяц назад
He was looking at you girl cause you’re beautiful. Love when you post.❤
@celinadelgado1840
@celinadelgado1840 Месяц назад
This is so relatable 😅 love watching you. I also get anxiety going anywhere alone.
@destinielopezz
@destinielopezz Месяц назад
Alondra your growth has been amazing to see grow !!!!
@awwlove0
@awwlove0 Месяц назад
I was just like this 1 year ago 😭😭😭 but I was determined to be able to go out alone! Now I love it 💕 you’re in your own bubble Alo! ❤ start of small then bigger places
@deboraperez710
@deboraperez710 Месяц назад
Crazy how you had anxiety filming but you eased mine by vlogging lol I love you
@pennyhall7269
@pennyhall7269 Месяц назад
Good job Alondra!!! Way to work through that anxiety! 🙌
@julissaocampo6252
@julissaocampo6252 Месяц назад
Love seeing alo getting out of her comfort zone and going alone to shop. And it wasn’t that bad. Love it !!!!🥰🥰
@emilys.7355
@emilys.7355 Месяц назад
Yes a high grwm !!💖
@adrianatorres586
@adrianatorres586 Месяц назад
The little kid stare omg! Lol 🤣 they always be staring even in church lol. Go Alondra go! You got this! 🫶🥹
@cindymartinez2916
@cindymartinez2916 Месяц назад
I love the darker hair and lighter makeup! ❤❤
@NotSObored188
@NotSObored188 Месяц назад
I actually love shopping alone bc i take forever looking around & trying on clothes and dont have to feel bad i take long but I do get anxiety if I gotta talk to people
@kariesss_6838
@kariesss_6838 Месяц назад
I get anxiety while shopping too, you’re not alone. You’re one of my fav vlogers bc you’re real.
@dayz_89
@dayz_89 Месяц назад
So proud of you Alondra! I get so many anxiety being alone sometimes too! I can only imagine how you feel being an influencer recording and being so pretty! Also by the way you look so pretty with your makeup like that😍 and girl you made me want to get a skims shirt 😂
@nicholaswong5086
@nicholaswong5086 Месяц назад
Alo, you're always glowing 🙋🏻‍♂️😍🥰💖🩷✨️
@gregoriaperez6437
@gregoriaperez6437 Месяц назад
I been watching you for a while now, and the way you have went through so many changes In your life & getting older gets more challenging to find your style outfits and your personality for your time of age, and when I clicked this video OMG, this look makeup hair and clothing colors nails. Fit you so well. Just know your doing amazing and look amazing ❤️
@carmenlanda8311
@carmenlanda8311 Месяц назад
You did good girl!Love your videos QUEEN! ❤
@Iris-espa
@Iris-espa Месяц назад
Girl this is me as well with 2 kids gives me so much anxiety but I don’t think I could ever do this alone , those skims shirt look cute
@Edith90baby
@Edith90baby Месяц назад
I love this type of vlogs!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@yeseniagarcia3596
@yeseniagarcia3596 Месяц назад
Me as a scorpio not wanting to go alone to the store 😂
@cynthiamartinez3260
@cynthiamartinez3260 Месяц назад
Someone with PPA I developed agarophobia and girrlllll it’s so hard to go shopping alone even leaving my house! Seeing you do this makes me so happy for you! ❤️
@michelleisawesome1022
@michelleisawesome1022 Месяц назад
This was me before,all the time,I even went through a time I had severe anxiety I lost weight and would lock myself in my room,couldnt even spend time with my kids as I felt panick and anxiety attacks,I thank God for saving me,now I enjoy those solo trips by myself .Praying for anyone going through anything mentally,your thoughts can be your worst enemy, but remember you hold the power.
@anastasiahuddleston5143
@anastasiahuddleston5143 Месяц назад
Baby steps !! It’s so good to do things outside of your comfort zone even tho it is hellllllla scary ! I prefer to shop alone because I hate feeling rushed if I’m with someone who isn’t really into shopping . I love to look at every single item in the store lol. A trick I use for social anxiety is wearing my air pods , even if I’m not playing any music or talking to anyone lol it just makes me feel less alone for some reason. You did great babe 🫶🏼🩷🙌🏼
@princesstoksik
@princesstoksik Месяц назад
Love you Alo we miss you here on YT thanks for taking us shopping with you now I know what to pick up next time I’m at target for just one thing 🤗😊
@irishchick5528
@irishchick5528 Месяц назад
I suffer from anxiety so I know what your going through, It’s not easy. I liked when that little baby started talking blah blah to you. I think he was really saying keep going your doing good. I hope your anxiety gets better so you can continue to do these things.♥️
@geannaleeverkayk8947
@geannaleeverkayk8947 Месяц назад
Omgee 😮😊 that skims color is so cute I can’t wait to get my hands on that color
@Bellaavii
@Bellaavii Месяц назад
Alondra I feel you girl. Sometimes I go into the store and feel so overwhelmed I end up leaving with half of the things I actually need. It’s stressful. 😣
@lovelydenisecastillo
@lovelydenisecastillo Месяц назад
Omg girl you look Gorgeous i love the layers in your hair it's something I've been wanting to do, but was scared but now l seeing yours inspired, it inspired me to do mine Thanks lAlo I love your videos and get excited when I see a new one. Thanks again, I
@kriskasum7131
@kriskasum7131 Месяц назад
You're doing good. Taking baby steps and knowing your limit is key.
@nks623
@nks623 Месяц назад
I loveeee your makeup here the natural and more lighter lips and lashes
@allfvetizzlest9573
@allfvetizzlest9573 Месяц назад
I love shopping / eating out alone. Being an able to spend my alone time is an important part of taking care of my mental health.
@martharamos3905
@martharamos3905 Месяц назад
Beautiful family!!!❤
@cindytapiamorfin7100
@cindytapiamorfin7100 Месяц назад
OMGG HIII alondra! It was so amazing meeting you at target you were seriously the sweetest person girl you made my whole ass year🥹🥹💕💕
@alondradessy
@alondradessy Месяц назад
Ahhhh you made my day! Thanks for the support babe🥺💖 it was soooo nice meeting you 🥰🫶
@yoselinsandoval2385
@yoselinsandoval2385 Месяц назад
Please do more videos like this, we love it 🖤♥️
@emiliamartinez6233
@emiliamartinez6233 Месяц назад
The baby saying bye to you awww ❤❤❤
@Youlovinkayyy
@Youlovinkayyy Месяц назад
Holddddd onnnn u smoked 🍃 this wholeeee time, why did u hide this from us queen 😫💘
@Solmammas
@Solmammas Месяц назад
Agreee! Love you even more ✨💜
@GabyShomar
@GabyShomar Месяц назад
I hate shopping alone it’s just not the same 😂
@iheartkass_
@iheartkass_ Месяц назад
I'm a strong believer in exposure therapy, what also helps is knowing that it's you against your mind rather than you against people aka social anxiety. Hope that helps
@priscyarias16
@priscyarias16 Месяц назад
I LOVEEEEEE those shave oils leaves my legs so so so soft 🥰
@vampy_mua
@vampy_mua 29 дней назад
It’s nice having alone time sometimes mayb grab a coffee and lunch before shopping maybe get a pedi self care day then shop ❤
@stephii-qr9pv
@stephii-qr9pv Месяц назад
Esoooo!!! So proud of you! ❤
@sadie3192
@sadie3192 Месяц назад
Your makeup looks so gooood
@adelinem.2980
@adelinem.2980 Месяц назад
Hey girl you actually pulled it off . Good job. It'll get easier. 🎉 Keep up the good work ❤
@monicatorres4523
@monicatorres4523 Месяц назад
I can totally relate. I be flying thru the stores cause my anxiety kicks in instantly!
@iselahuerta6935
@iselahuerta6935 Месяц назад
I get anxiety too but it gets worse at the line when im about to check out.😅
@alondradessy
@alondradessy Месяц назад
SAME 😭
@iselahuerta6935
@iselahuerta6935 Месяц назад
Aweee you reply thank you❤ yes my mustache keeps on sweating lol😅
@gunthajinna7845
@gunthajinna7845 Месяц назад
ILY so much ur video are so fun 🥰🥰❤️
@monaamoon1974
@monaamoon1974 Месяц назад
This video gave me anxiety even tho I don’t have any 😂😂 the speed walking tho good job alo u go girl I love shopping alone best thing no one to bug you or rush you through it!
@LorenKnowss
@LorenKnowss Месяц назад
Girl you look so good 👀🩷🩷🩷
@nicholaswong5086
@nicholaswong5086 Месяц назад
Alo, I ❤ you and I ❤ it when you post your videos, and I can't wait to see post another one 🙋🏻‍♂️🫶🏻🙌🏻📹💻❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@princessaxi
@princessaxi Месяц назад
literally me a year ago but now I loveee going out alone so proud of you thoooo! 🫶🏼
@mansoor3159
@mansoor3159 Месяц назад
Its always a good day when Alondra posts a new video🥹💗
@andreacarmona7438
@andreacarmona7438 Месяц назад
Alooo I didn’t know you smoked 👀 You should def make a high video with elsy lol 😫
@arianapomai
@arianapomai Месяц назад
as a person with anxiety, sitting in the car deciding if ur gna get out or not is SO real! thank you for being so transparent with us Alo🥺💗
@Arianafedz95
@Arianafedz95 Месяц назад
This makeup suits you, you look GORGEOUS.
@mahlamor_
@mahlamor_ Месяц назад
Alo this look on you is a 10/10!!!
@Amy-vb7in
@Amy-vb7in Месяц назад
Love shopping alone it’s me time!!! Target runs with a Starbucks in hand ❤😊
@melonielopez5713
@melonielopez5713 Месяц назад
Girl Burlington be having the cutest chairss!!😍
@brendaababey
@brendaababey Месяц назад
That’s how anxiety looses its power by facing it !!!! Good for you
@Purpcedez
@Purpcedez Месяц назад
First off you are so beautiful and that’s probably why people stare. Second no peer pressure but omg yes please do a GWRM vlog lit! Love ya girl!
@Orixbby
@Orixbby Месяц назад
Omg same 😫 ❤ your not alone Alondra
@serinaaa6211
@serinaaa6211 Месяц назад
Definitely need to try those skims tops 😍😍😍 do a video of trying secret menus from a lot places ! 🤭
@aquamarineblue8690
@aquamarineblue8690 Месяц назад
❤ you can do it!❤
@nancyrodriguezdelcompare4890
@nancyrodriguezdelcompare4890 Месяц назад
I love these kinds of videos! You should try TJ max or Marshals or Burlington for dusty pink chairs for your vanity.
@BeautyAG220
@BeautyAG220 Месяц назад
Alo have you ever talked about your lash line and how you started??
@desiraemarie8310
@desiraemarie8310 Месяц назад
Babe wake up Alondra posted another video 🤩 You’re glowing
@erick23570
@erick23570 Месяц назад
OKAAYYYYY SKIMS SPONSORED LOVE IT 😭💕
@hortensiamoreno2768
@hortensiamoreno2768 Месяц назад
I loooove shopping alone because I can look at every single little item lol without feeling rushed!!!
@melhernandez7282
@melhernandez7282 Месяц назад
I love shopping alone cuz no one is rushing me 😂 and the cozy skims pants are the best !!
@dinnacortez2825
@dinnacortez2825 Месяц назад
Good job, Alondra! You did it. You got it, girl. No worries. 👍
@lizortiz9635
@lizortiz9635 Месяц назад
Love going alone , I like to go at my own pace and find better deals . ❤.
@virgocortez08
@virgocortez08 Месяц назад
This was SOOOOO relatable and I feel like I got more anxiety after the pandemic. I do like shopping alone; it lets me focus on something and not focus on people. So I don’t really overthink the fact people are looking at me. Favorite Skim… my thicc ass needs them Spanx to look like you (and I don’t lmaoooo). Thank you so much for this nice video!! As someone that has anxiety; it’s so nice to be reminded that we’re not alone!
@alicedetejas830
@alicedetejas830 Месяц назад
Exposure therapy is always good. I’ve been trying but it’s so hard. 😅 ❤
@SB805Angelita
@SB805Angelita Месяц назад
Very proud of you girlfriend you got through it and you seemed happy at the end of it.
@deboraperez710
@deboraperez710 Месяц назад
My comfort RU-vidr I love you
@lizettebarrera2163
@lizettebarrera2163 29 дней назад
A high grwm would be amaze-ballz! 😊 once in a while is wont hurt love
@angelicagarcia156
@angelicagarcia156 Месяц назад
Girl I'm in the same boat. I took a big step and am in South Korea on vacation and I've cried a lot because of separation anxiety away from my sisters and mom😭
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