Fakeness, Wives & Competition - Q&A with my boss

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We finally took the time to sit down and film a video for our channels together - here's me answering your questions with ‪@aliabdaal‬ - this is a VERY rambly one, you've been warned, there's almost no cuts involved in this.
PLEASE let me know: is the fluff something I should add more of in my videos?
Thanks Ali, for getting me started with this whole thing ❤️
The first half of this video on Ali's channel: • Answering Uncomfortabl...
To make your life easier:
0:00 Intro
1:13 Why isn't Elizabeth your personal assistant anymore?
3:11 Will you always work with each other?
4:06 What's the most annoying thing about each other?
5:01 What's your take on toxic productivity?
7:49 How does Ali react when he's angry?
8:09 How do you not let online trolls or judgement get to you?
9:19 How do you stay motivated to publish content outside of work?
10:59 Why do you always look the same?
11:13 Are you related?
12:06 Why did you want to be a doctor?
13:09 Do you ever have self doubt?
14:26 What is the most annoying thing about each other?
15:25 Do you ever find yourselves in competition with each other?
16:49 How do you compare to your offline persona?
20:19 Does it annoy you when Ali sticks a camera in your face?
21:23 Is there something you've tried to get Ali to do that he's refused?
23:05 If Ali cut your pay in half, would you leave?
24:06 Outro
25:01 Ali's bonus question
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@aliabdaal 3 года назад

haha I prefer the colour grade on yours :) loved the candid chats, let's do this more often

@aadilranesh 3 года назад

The unscripted conversation bit was actually refreshing. Would love to see more of those.

@avieshek 3 года назад

@@aadilranesh This what gave MKBHD or iJustine the success aka why TikTok went up.

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Any day ;)

@sushmit6415 3 года назад

I forgot to ask my question in the qna but asking here:) Top 5 reasons why Ali didn't marry Elizabeth!!!

@gikumar 3 года назад

@@sushmit6415 he wants to...

@BrendanEvan 3 года назад

Turns out Ali is a chronic transformer of med students into RU-vidrs

@Wingedmagician 3 года назад

I loved how this is the perfect mix of wholesome and uncomfortable lol

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

if this doesn't define these videos

@shakir4969 3 года назад

perfect representation!

@BrendanEvan 3 года назад

Perfect synopsis

@MarkEm Год назад

Some 'real' lessons in here!

@mohammadsk2974 3 года назад

Now I believe Ali when he says he’s BAD at talking to pretty girls

@abdallababikir4473 3 года назад

Yep

@nevaehjol9319 2 года назад

not BAD, it's SO BAD🤣 "like i said, half the speed"

@joeking6972 Год назад

At least the first step to solving a problem is recognizing you have one...

@amolkhobaragade Год назад

And his ex assistant not even pretty enough!

@dash2212 Год назад

Tbh looks like he was just having a bad day

@ariaalarie828 3 года назад

What you think is 'fluff' are actually the good bits and makes you relatable and human. Authenticity is how we can feel more connected to you. So yes, more of it please!

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Ok I think I'm being slowly convinced!

@ariaalarie828 3 года назад

@@elizabethfilips do whatever you feel comfortable with 😊

@Ayesha_F 2 года назад

🙌🏼 this

@IrrIdk 2 года назад

@@elizabethfilips yeah like the bonus question at the end, I watched an enjoyed 😁

@Thomasfrank 3 года назад

Do the sleep video! I want to see your take 😁

@brianm3160 3 года назад

Hi Thomas 👋

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

YESSS have to do it now!

@shrey768 3 года назад

Why does this have divorce talk at lawyer's energy ? 😄

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Lol

@IndianClassical97 3 года назад

Passionate but not motivated. My life has just been described. Hallelujah!

@lip5729 3 года назад

Yesss

@Martina_E 3 года назад

Yes

@Maria14178 2 года назад

9:46 "When you are having fun productivity takes care of itself." This is my new favourite quote.

@yatindersingh_ 3 года назад

For the recoerd Elizabeth, I saw your video first and his later. Just so it helps you get over the doubt about “outgrowing him”. Definitely possible. Great content!

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Ahhh thank you! But I very much doubt it :)

@areebamasood7237 3 года назад

Same. I watched Elizabeth's first too

@tanu4637 3 года назад

@@elizabethfilips be consistent i think you can out grow him

@evelynchiroque3507 3 года назад

Watching Elizabeth’s first right now 😅🥳

@yasimmeaa 3 года назад

Ok, but I swear for the first bit of the video, it felt so emotional. Especially with the song in the background. Kinda like the two main characters were about to break up. Or they broke up and they finally met up after a long time to discuss why they broke up in the first place

@rakinarafat3716 3 года назад

😆😆ikr

@SoroushTorkian 3 года назад

lmfao

@skibididomp 3 года назад

Yes thats right 🤣

@tasyafahira 3 года назад

lol

@rajsekharroychowdhury1017 3 года назад

So here's what I see in this vid. Someone who has moved on and is completely honest with the highs and lows of the work she did. With someone who still struggles with the business setup, misses the other person, has conflicted views on the current scenario but he knows he made the right call at that time.

@Dtagcity Год назад

damn you summed up the exact vibe I was getting lol. That or Ali was not having the best time for whatever reason.

@JoeySalinas12 3 года назад

"Life's too short to get a PhD"... as I painfully pursue a PhD...

@VickkyMama 2 года назад

Now I'm second-guessing pursuing a PhD

@yalazha 3 года назад

Love Sheen in the background not letting Ali skip a hard question!

@StephaniRoberts 2 года назад

So much wisdom from Ali. He’s spot on with leaving in your depth vs. editing it out Liz. Show us all of the layers of who you are. Keeping it real as you are here is so attractive! You’re gorgeous, brilliant, emotionally tuned in and so darn likable!! I can see why Ali is frustrated and a bit intimidated. He SEES your full depth and potential. He knows you’ll surpass him and legitimately feels it but you don’t seem to believe him. He respects and admires you but also sees that you’re censoring out some of the best aspects of who you are. I’d listen and I’d honestly be flattered. No idea what’s happening behind the scenes but that’s what I detect.

@benjaminho6064 3 года назад

I believe that Ali's comment regarding your clean edit is correct. I like your video, don't get me wrong, you're fantastic and knowledgeable. However, sometimes being just a touch more rambly feels so much more human and nice. Keep up the good work and please be kind to yourself! Love your work!

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Ah, thank you Benjamin!

@benjaminho6064 3 года назад

@@elizabethfilips You're very very welcome and I'm happy to get a response from the gurl herself, Elizabeth!

@iznab4164 3 года назад

I SO want @the body language guy to make an analysis of this conversation 👀💙

@SoroushTorkian 3 года назад

You mean "charisma on command"?

@madzwrld14 2 года назад

ohmygod yes i want him to analyze boths vids soo bad

@puneetyadav9112 2 года назад

wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

@iznab4164 2 года назад

@@SoroushTorkian I think so, yes.

@introvertssolitarypursuits3463 2 года назад

Yes yes yes..?

@ipsitaparida4471 3 года назад

It genuinely broke my heart when Ali said the thing he hates about Elizabeth was that he feels inadequate because of the energy that she brings into a room

@asherwade 3 года назад

My impression of this video, as an old psychotherapist, is that I've found that the ol`saying, "Too Much Insight Never Made Anyone Feel Good," is spot on.

@vaibhavi.singh. 3 года назад

Damn, that's so true!

@TicketToLiterature 3 года назад

That's on point...

@jackiedelvalle 3 года назад

Exactly!!!!!

@miiiaaaooowww 2 года назад

Yes

@nope4309 Год назад

But what does that mean ? Is it necessary even so or is jt not

@ramo1026 3 года назад

Ali's deffo behaving differently!! The connection between you guys' crazy!

@BaneZr994 3 года назад

I love how deeply Ali thinks about his responses

@wiktoria2474 3 года назад

i didnt plan to watch the whole thing but i found it somehow very relaxing and watched till the end. I feel like you didn't edit it that much so it feels as a natural conversation. very refreshing 😌

@sijanshares2695 3 года назад

The fact that Elizabeth decided to make this video pure , as Ali said without cutting out extra bits of it that could have been cut out 🙌🏻🙌🏻

@joannaa1724 3 года назад

Elisabeth - can't wait to see your Sleep video. Ali - up to half way I was really surprised how you seem put off, until the answer came that is your resting pose. Ali really animates only when he's talking. Not a bad thing, just hard to see when usually in videos so smiley animated. Learnt so much from this video. Thank you both (and off camera audience 😆)

@candiceseretin7230 2 года назад

I love watching Ali's videos and this is how I came across you. I absolutely love your bubbly personality, it shows and shines through on camera.

@beautyofbengal6119 3 года назад

Damn!! This girl is on a mission of hearting every single nice comment❤

@munirone 3 года назад

I loved the end part, the candid conversation when the both of you were engaging and being honest 💚

@jezabeltokio 2 года назад

Aw oh my goodness, something seems off about him and I never saw this version of him in my life. I feel he might benefit from a little break from everything, I'm sure he can with the amount of success he's built. He seems to be quite intelligent but also can be draining to navigate all of life like that. Unsure if he's insecure with you, or just overall seems a bit sad. You're super genuine though, love the videos

@a320nick 9 месяцев назад

@jezabeltokio: Yep, being stuck in front of a RU-vid camera would certainly be intimidating with more than a million people watching YOU!

@lillienath2967 Год назад

I really like your vibes together and the way you improve each other, it shows through the screen !! Loved this

@taysheikh1876 2 года назад

I think Ali is so proud of you, and likes to see you growing. It is so lovely to see a a motivating and nurturing mentor/boss and employee relationship. I also Think your an amazing employee and soaks up everything around you.

@Jayarajarulsamji 2 года назад

love the team and genuine openess, the experience that you guys have shared is so real and uncanny. great video.

@raelynnwinston6945 3 года назад

The way Ali answers is like Elizabeth is his ex girlfriend, like you know so secretive, and uncomfortable almost as if it’s painful to remember the memories

@Coastpsych_fi99 2 года назад

Exactly or even ex-wife or something- kept waiting for them to say it’s because they are dating or on a break or something dramatix

@ramosfx221 3 года назад

Might be just me but Ali seems reserved/serious with less eye contact etc during this video, but on Ali’s video he’s more animated and comfortable 🤷🏽‍♂️

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

And I'm so uncomfortable in that other one!

@Anon-xz6hu 3 года назад

@@elizabethfilips 😂😅

@pauljinadu 3 года назад

It was his channel thats why now its her Channel.

@Roshan_More 3 года назад

I was also thinking same. 🤔

@SheenGurrib 3 года назад

Loved being the heckler in the background

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

I only hope to one day repay you 😈

@MotivateAndChill 3 года назад

It's sad to hear that you have cried because of some of the negative comments others have commented on your channel. The two of you are far more successful and in control of your lives to give these trolls any power over your emotions. Keep up the great work!

@funastacia 2 года назад

To the toxic productivity - I think this stems from the fact that some viewers think a channel’s content is representative of a creator’s life. The analogy here for me would be to talk about ‘toxic weathermanship’ because the weather people only talk about weather on screen. The productivity RU-vidr is not more obsessed with productivity than the cooking RU-vidr is obsessed with food or the fitness RU-vidr with fitness. It’s the focus of a job, which ofc hopefully people are passionate about, but it tells us nothing about what else they are passionate aside from that one thing we see.

@losasakarosa9050 2 года назад

Yes!

@DrivingTV 3 года назад

Congratulation to Elizabeth with her channel. She has grown very fast with her channel and I think her channel will only get better and bigger. Ali is great and his channel is an example. I enjoyed this Q&A video and good luck to both.

@milliegarcia1536 2 года назад

4:06 What's the most annoying thing about each other? 14:26 What is the most annoying thing about each other? same question different answers

@dreamy665 Год назад

Lol different answers

@raven_kyc 3 года назад

The video we were all waiting for!!

@atst65 3 года назад

I truly appreciate how Ali's answers are more delicate and takes into consideration Elizabeth's feelings. That's a gentleman right there!

@SoroushTorkian 3 года назад

They look so cute together, I mean that platonically. :)

@themehstan8740 3 года назад

Nice one;)

@yaserjanahi3922 3 года назад

Lol not at all. She is waaaaay out of his league in every possible way (even platonically) and they don’t really have chemistry. He is very stiff and she is very open and honest. Part of what’s entertaining about this is how uncomfortable she’s making him by all her honest answers

@ychickshateme11 3 года назад

@@yaserjanahi3922 why do you think he's so stiff next to her?

@benjamin7114 3 года назад

@@yaserjanahi3922 Lol! It's Ali who's above her league. Intelligent millionaire with thousands of female admirers way more beautiful.

@CherylD 3 года назад

@@benjamin7114 being rich and successful with thousands of female admirers chasing after you doesn’t make you desirable to EVERYONE. I think he’s talking about her energy, how she cares about others feelings and stuff like that and not just… money. Lol.

@sbegberibin2502 3 года назад

Nobody: Absolutely no one at all Elizabeth every 5 second: this can't go into the video.

@gabbygray9267 3 года назад

I enjoyed having the entire video. I agree with Ali and think it was interesting to hear you guys talk about the issues you all are having.

@ericjoshua_ 3 года назад

This content is sooo good! I love the authenticity!

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Thanks Eric :)

@pratyasharoy8200 3 года назад

We want more videos like thissss!!!! Just you two talking. This is so wholesome

@lonerista4778 3 года назад

This has been long awaited! 💕✨ I'm still sad I never got the chance to interview for the job or possibly docit because, if nothing else y'all seem to be an awesome group of people and a great team! 💪 I'm happy this Q&A happened! 🥳

@debbieakamine3583 3 года назад

Hi Liz, I'm happy to see you uploading again :) I love watching this video with Ali and you... xoxo It's rare for me to leave comments on videos, but when it comes to yours...I always like to say hi from time to time :) and I was really happy to see how much potential Ali sees in you (when he said you will eventually outgrow him, that's so sweet!) xoxox

@ParaicCullen 2 года назад

So funny you were saying "this cant go in the video" but the bonus question was THE BEST past of this!!! The most real, most authentic and most interesting

@cbsdaigle 3 года назад

Sounds like Ali needs an HR Manager who can sit with everyone, write the job descriptions, run the hiring process and help with finding any temp help on a project basis. :D Loved the interviews on both channels. Quite insightful behind the machine.

@JousefM 3 года назад

Talking about the editing skills - your video looks more friendly and better "color graded"? :D Love the Q&A between you, very good chemistry :)

@obonyoemmy 3 года назад

I started a Tiktok and Ali had a lot to do with that, so Thank you, Ali. You're helping more people than you think.

@kadzo6614 2 года назад

Miriambo smh

@dopamine5081 3 года назад

The video that we've been waiting for💚💚💚

@erdemakturk9574 3 года назад

These videos are so fun to watch because it feels so honest. Would love to see more 😃❤

@artchemist4460 3 года назад

Ngl, I love these Q&A sessions because they reveal more relatables side of both of you

@syanhc 3 года назад

I think I’m in love with Elizabeth. Her laugh, her mannerisms…so lovely!

@lunalys5075 Год назад

She's absolutely lovely 🌹😍

@freakyfunkymonkey22 3 года назад

Got the feeling that Ali's hiding something. Not saying that he should say anything about it. Edit: I agree with Ali on leaving the "uglier" bits in.

@coolibrium 3 года назад

You guys are amazing! 'Thank you' to both of you for the content that you put out. Stay cool 🙌

@abhishekjoshi8413 3 года назад

Wow this was good, and also the other videos, they are also informative, also surprisingly they have a kind of calming effect, maybe because you are so honest in your videos. Keep up the great content.

@princesslacson6291 3 года назад

I love how thoughtful are you Elizabeth

@XxMiSsTessxX19 3 года назад

I loved this conversation, watched both videos. And I’m glad you’ve added that last question

@snatchedwig2650 3 года назад

So happy you’re back! hope you’re doing well Elizabeth !

@ivyzhu1995 2 года назад

Thank you for the honesty. This is definitely a unique video and really sparked my thoughts as well.

@kuarize2091 3 года назад

tbh, this is one of the best videos on your channel because of how minimal cuts you have done. I actually loved the "fluff" parts because it feels more honest and authentic.

@aliabdaal6931 3 года назад

Thank you for your comment, endeavor to write as soon for more enlightenment or tips +1...9...0.....9....7....1...5...5....1...0...0.

@wilhelmina8843 3 года назад

Wow, this is also a great video. I can tell from this and the other video that they have a good working relationship. And Elizabeth is so engaging. Lol, I’m glad Ali explain about his resting bored face. I’m glad you left the extra bits in. I found Ali charming in this video too.

@screenods 3 года назад

You guys have a great friendship and business partnership. Loved this!

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Thanks Miko!

@palomapeter-dzoho4669 3 года назад

What are the odds that I run into you on RU-vid Miko lol. Ali and Elizabeth are one of my faves !!

@screenods 3 года назад

@@palomapeter-dzoho4669 Haha this is awesome. We're going to have to connect for a 1-1 sometime at this point

@gideonpepple 2 года назад

Hello @@palomapeter-dzoho4669, I'd like to feature you on my Channel 😜

@bpmore 3 года назад

I subscribed because of the extra content. Deal with this daily as a manager and it’s good to see I’m not alone in this.

@vocab-pl9hh 3 года назад

The background music is so soothing. Appreciate it! And the video is wholesome 😀

@TicketToLiterature 3 года назад

You are looking more confident and accurate in this one... Love to watch you both together... Keep growing ❤️

@tamer4273 3 года назад

I really liked your answer on toxic productivity and the 10 hour study with me, you gave me a new perspective.

@obrianstudio Год назад

This was really dope, also really glad you added the bonus content👌 authentic and hilarious🤣

@nagelfamily Год назад

We need honesty like this. Two separate personalities, two separate cultures --- same passion with different drives. i'd say never doubt this one. RU-vid is starving of healthy, constructive dissodence. That's all. Way to go. (BTW - never knew you both were connected)

@kiaschaos8818 3 года назад

i’ve been waiting for this!

@pauljinadu 3 года назад

That Bonus Question Humanizes the whole team and shows how much Dr Ali evolves. Loved it❤🙌

@Izzy- 3 года назад

I'm so glad Liz that you are back girl! 💅🏻 Stay safe 🥰

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

@ruokuosolo2nd 3 года назад

Elizabeth, you are just so mesmerizingly beautiful, quiet smart, cute and feels like fun to be around once you get close to people and trust em, God bless you. ❤️

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

Oh my, thank you Ruokuo!

@ruokuosolo2nd 3 года назад

@@elizabethfilips anytime Elizabeth ❤️

@teeI0ck 3 года назад

this is the type of video i was waiting for

@aksharaagrawal6647 3 года назад

I think, this video is going to change the whole scenario of your cannel lizi. I donno why, just getting these kind of vibes. Anyways I love you and your videos forever. U r a great inspiration to me.

@essamzee594 3 года назад

i am happy that you are back, LOVE

@swarajchillal891 3 года назад

Take a shot, whenever Elizabeth says 'If that makes sense'

@elizabethfilips 3 года назад

😅😅😅

@swarajchillal891 3 года назад

I meant it in a funny way, if that makes sense...

@Rupadarshi-Ray 3 года назад

@@swarajchillal891 😂🤣👌

@MA-zg2pz 2 года назад

Or “interesting”

@larafungaming3374 2 года назад

I am staggering 😂

@TahaButt 3 года назад

17:29 Your frustration with Ali’s answers was hilarious 😂 loved the video!

@munaaliii 3 года назад

“I don’t have money so I have to get these multiple jobs to cover my rent” and stuff.. wow! Elizabeth can you do an ethnicity tag and talk about your personal background and how you grew up. It sounds sad but it will resonate with many.. who came from similar backgrounds. Interested! I must say.

@ThatGuyInCambodia 2 года назад

Love Ali’s honest answers!

@amerabbas1386 3 года назад

Liz, I am glad to see you back. 🙌🏽

@pauljinadu 3 года назад

Its good to know that We all Cry.

@DrHenriettaCook 3 года назад

Love this! Definitely agree about leaving in the ‘fluff’ haha 💓

@earthandsustainability9973 3 года назад

Loving this video ... I am able to relate the conversation to lot of different emotional state like in office culture....you both are so different in style in terms of productivity and it's great to have different perspective of two different ppl really trying to understand each other...though I wish to be like Ali in terms of productivity, I also feel burnout and therefore could totally relate to Elizabeth....

@1amxyz 3 года назад

Good to see u after long time ❤️❤️❤️

@steinhorst25 3 года назад

Relationship goals: have someone that looks at you the way Elizabeth looks at Ali :) Loved the video. Still laughing about the resting bitch face bit!

@MA-zg2pz 2 года назад

🥺❤️

@amolkhobaragade Год назад

Are they dating?

@davidmorello3431 Год назад

@@amolkhobaragade no but i think liz is having crush on ali or used to have crush on him

@keepproductive 3 года назад

Great conversation guys!

@paulheartsongs 3 года назад

Live your own life, Elizabeth. You are an amazing and talented person. You don’t need someone else to define you.

@annegott1156 Год назад

i just how those 2 people are absolutely hit accuracy by just being honest to appreciate their - and + . So pretty

@mehbubarahman2004 3 года назад

Can't wait to watch this!

@SimsVlog 3 года назад

I'm glad you kept it in the video!

@kingsleyyuan4311 3 года назад

Good to see Ali in this channel , god bless both of you , love u 2

@jes1630 3 года назад

love this spontaneous honest style of video guys x

@themehstan8740 3 года назад

I felt cozy for a QnA ❤️

@nizwanahmmed646 3 года назад

I love that Ali said that he watches your every video in his channel(part 1 of this) and he proved it here..

@dua99919 2 года назад

I used to watch Ali's videos and that's how I ended up at your channel, honestly going through multiple videos I feel that you seem more real and genuine than Ali, Though Ali's amazing but seem a little made up than natural plus, I also feel that maybe that's why people like his content because he's speedy, quick, and 'acts' more clear, even at instance it seemed that while ali was listening to your responses he seemed that his mind was planning on what next step he should take or what will be the best suitable response to attract more watchers or will the watchers will stay if I respond in that manner. I also did felt he seemed to compose his laugh and reactions over and over again, and seemed to give some shallow and responses that might seem quick and interesting but are just something that won't be relevant to what you just said. However, when ever he responded you seem so submersed in listening to him which felt that you cared more of the person than having your brain auto programmed with invisible watchers.. The way Ali is I know it sells. But I feel it's madeup. P.S this is just my perception of you guys, Just a opinion. Not a solid representation of you guys.