Family Frustrations: How to Deal with Challenging Family Members

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Often there is no greater struggle in a person's life than learning to navigate challenging family dynamics. These are the people whose flaws we become intimately familiar with, and who we naturally want to coexist with in peaceful and loving relationships.
When someone is difficult, unkind, unloving, selfish, hurtful, self-harming, or repeatedly lets us down, this can make life unbearable for the recipient of that mistreatment or even the whole family. Other family members may take sides, rifts can occur, and we can struggle to know exactly what to do.
In today's RU-vid video, I talk about how we can heal ourselves, listen to our hearts, communicate more effectively, and move forward in a way that can bring some peace and comfort into our lives.
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@donnawoodford8145 4 месяца назад

My dad used to go outside and work just to get away from mum and when everything got too much for him. I don't remember him being in the house very much. Most of my family members are dense, inflexible in their thinking, and controlling. They think they know what is best for me in my life. I remain calm and patient. It's not my job to fix them or anyone else. It doesn't help to get angry. Just let them be. And laugh! 😂😅😉

@galacticsoul1615 26 дней назад

Ram Dass…”If you think you are awake…just spend a week with your family…”So true.

@davidcoloradosprings2975 4 месяца назад

I am speechless after watching this video. It's better than any of my past therapy sessions; Eastern philosophy truly does teach us how to be our own therapist. Todd is producing some wise and helpful content! Thank you.

@ElisPalmer 4 месяца назад

Needed to hear this right now, thanks so much ~ 🌟🙏🏼🌟

@doc2590 4 месяца назад

This is so true. My girlfriend sometimes says things that I do not like, and instead of just watching the feelings and thoughts, I react... I say things in response that really exacerbates the situation, and then it takes me a long time before I start to feel comfortable again. Watching this has just reminded me to be present particularly when with the girlfriend.

@teresahaines4089 4 месяца назад

Wow, thank you , Todd. I wish I would have had this knowledge decades ago... before I got addicted to thing after thing... I'm 61, have had some of these concepts for a decade or so. Have to say that you really bring it home for me. We are LOVE, so choosing love... Always, makes the most sense. So much gratitude for your devotion to these teachings! 💞💞💞💞

@mskellyman4752 4 месяца назад

Amen. Thank you Todd

@billiejeanferland1786 4 месяца назад

I am love I am light I am energy in it’s purest form Meegwetch ❤ this reminded me to love anyone and everyone who I cannot deal with but to be in moment with

@Colleen858 4 месяца назад

Sending love, light and gratitude❤

@ByrneMary 3 месяца назад

Thank you for calm, kind wisdom😊. Your podcast is very uplifting and thought provoking.

@ToddPerelmuter 3 месяца назад

So glad! 🙏

@anahitbekarian418 3 месяца назад

Thank you 🙏, I needed this right now, thank you for teaching and reminding us ❤️❤️❤️

@suryamithun9759 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much❤ It's so valuable

@sabinamock4799 4 месяца назад

Very intense words! Thank you so much.

@marcijlo 4 месяца назад

Todd you summed a family drama taking place in my world. Thank you for the talk!

@shahivida 4 месяца назад

Thanks a lot for your none stop help 🙏🏼🙏🏼💝💝God bless you 🤲🏻🤗

@beverlys33 4 месяца назад

❤🎉❤love this. Big gratitude for your love gifts

@viridianacarreon7203 4 месяца назад

Im speechless. Thank you, and bless that beautiful mind, body, and soul. 🙏🤗❤

@morganhughes6035 4 месяца назад

Hey Todd. I appreciated your wisdom. I have been very present and difficult situations and then I remove myself and sometimes deal with it at a later date that I feel is more appropriate.

@kathryndeas3102 3 месяца назад

No words….just ❤

@samanthagreen7722 4 месяца назад

Thank you ❤

@jewel2022now 4 месяца назад

Thank you Todd, wonderful message ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@morganhughes6035 4 месяца назад

🙏💕

@DonnaLong-nm2ni 4 месяца назад

I love what you say. I really do. I listen to you alot. I am 59 and have been married for 33 years . My husband has developed a sound sensitivity over the last few years . He cannot take loud bass music from cars. It affects him physically. His reaction to it effects me and I have anxiety about it. I will continue to try to stay in the moment everyday. That's all I can do at this point. Thank you

@laurahopkins7169 4 месяца назад

Love is the most powerful force in the universe! You got this girl 💪🏽❤️💪🏽❤️

@donnawoodford8145 4 месяца назад

Maybe you could drive, and he can relax in the passenger seat, listening to soft music on headphones.

@pradippsm1983 4 месяца назад

❤

@DiamondEyez456 4 месяца назад

My mother & father abuse me.. I don’t know why…

@anweshakar146 4 месяца назад

You don't need to know why, probably because of their own internal trauma. Don't go down their path, seek your own

@DonnaLong-nm2ni 4 месяца назад

Peace to you

@teresahaines4089 4 месяца назад

I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It is all about them. Do your best, love yourself, set boundaries and move through it with love to the best of your ability! You've got this!!! 💞

@maridebhul 4 месяца назад

Dearest one, nobody has any right to abuse you in any way shape or form, parent, sibling, family - nobody, friend, no one. If you have someone you can confide in and they are not caught up in the or any drama and trauma, someone who is calm, measured, kind, warm-hearted, caring, good hearted, compassionate, empathetic - that is the person for you to confide in, we all need someone like this and many like this is our lives and hopefully you know some and will. You deserves so much more, you have your whole life ahead of you, your parents have their own struggles but they are NOT to make THEIR struggles yours. That is not kind, that is not caring, that is not loving and you deserve more and will have more. Find it for yourself, go in that direction. Keep moving forward, onward and upward. Don't look back, there is nothing back there, your life is here and now and a better here and now you can make in every breath you take. You can and you will make better for yourself. Don't allow yourself to be cowed down by anybody, any unkind people whether they are your parents or not. you are not your parents helper/teacher, they are not to burden you with that mess. Look to your own bright future, find your own tribe, your own people (you will know who they are as they will be authentic, genuine, most of all kind, calm and their good energy will lift you up too. These are the good people who will come into your life and you into theirs who will provide you with the kindnesses you deserve. Be well dear one. Take heart. Always believe n your own ability to succeed in whatever you put your mind to, keep up with your studies and education, education is a great help to lift us out of much. Be well. Blessings and all the good energy in the universe sending that to you:) Peace