Fatherhood: How do you define it? | Fridays with Tab and Chance 

I love how Tab looks at Chance. True LOVE.

Shout to chance for being vulnerable! His fear of the camera and how he overcame that and now he sits on here every Friday and opens up for us to help us on our way! DOPE DAD! 👨🏾♥️

Back in the day we had a community of men who would step in, I wish this generation had these experiences

I Love Tabitha and Chance.❤❤❤

A. Chance didnt see a lot of fathers. It wasn't his world. B. He couldn't miss where there was no deficit. C. His family was his normal. D. Life taught him what a father should be. His mother didn't focus on what he didn't have.

Please do an episode with Chance's Mother, if possible, she deserves her flowers for raising Chance. Also can we get an episode with Tabitha's "Deddy"( how she pronounces it). That would just make alot of us smile, May GOD continue to shine upon you to keep spreading that Carolina Joy!!!

I love how how they've been married for years and still learn things about each other..it's so beautiful how their conversation flow and on camera at that..just inspiring.

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 She gave Chance the same look that Choice gives her momma when Tab talk about her and Chance doing the nasty!!🤣🤣🤣

My father passed on when I was 3yrs old but my step father was a big influence on me and taught me that a father is a man that takes you forward in life with wisdom strength and beauty to be absolute and divine.

My life is the female version of what Chance went through, my father was not around and I never missed anything. My uncle and other family members gave me so much love I didn’t think I missed or needed anything else. It was my norm, bc it was what I saw around me growing up.

Chance testimonial on his journey of fatherhood is beautiful.

He didn't realize it, but he needed that apology from his dad.

I’m so blessed to have a husband that doesn’t mind helping with house responsibilities and being hands on with the kids. He’s the only child like Chance and he doesn’t fool with many people like Chance 😂 Happy Father’s Day!

My father was present when my parents were married but once they got a divorce he wasn’t. I wish I never met him then maybe I wouldn’t miss him as much or be envious or jealous of others who have what I once had.

My husband and I started watching Fri w Tab n Chance when we entered Therapy on 10/2022. I'm like you Tab my Dad is everything to me. I called him Cliffee, not Daddy. I lost my Dad on 4/13/2020 and my Mom on 4/19/2020. I miss them every day. The pain is always there but Fri w Tab and Chance get my mind off of them. I laugh so hard. Good show.

Chance is a strong man and father!!!

I was just like chance was. Growing up I don’t think I ever missed him because of all the love I had around me.

Happy Father’s Day to Chance, Your Daddy and all the other Fathers and Father Figures!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

I know exactly how Tabitha feels, because I am also a daddy's girl. And although my dad is no longer here, that special bond that he left with me, will never die! ❤

I’m an only child like Chance and when we are raised by our single mothers our natural instinct is to make her proud of us, listen, stay out of trouble, make good grades and succeed in life. Chance struggled with this topic but I admired his vulnerability and how Tab carefully navigated his experiences with his father. Regardless of the relationship with absent parents there should be some kind of communication between them so that we learn our family history and pass this information along to our children. We owe our ancestors the history behind our family life

Happy (Early) Father's Day to Chance, Tab's Daddy, and all Fathers that read this! 💐

Chance, I so admire you, for your being real about being a father!

The intro song is everythanggg! "Bring the beat in!!" Ayeee Fridays with Tab and Chaaaance 🎶🗣

That is so true, Tab you can’t miss something you never had. I didn’t really have a relationship with my father coming up as a child.

Hey Tab and Chance. I love, love Fridays with Tab and Chance!😊❤❤

I can totally relate to Chance growing up. I wasn't curious about my father until Middle school. The years after him passing away, I thought about him more. I really didn't think too much about him until later in life. I miss him more now.

My son asked me if he had a dad he was about 6 at the time 😮...I answered so quickly " of course"! Lol...he said well where is he?? I said to him " when your daddy grows up and matures to be a real good daddy he's gone come looking for you".. anyways fast forward to now my son is 13 and his dad did just that!! Grew up and came looking for his son to be a father and for all the years my son cried from missing out on fathers day dinners at school etc..because he just wouldn't go or let me take his space fir the events but I feel like all the laughs he shares with his dad now is sooo satisfying! I wish all the fathers who feel guilty for not being there would show up for the kids!! Deal with the guilt/shame with therapy but if the child is willing to meet you fathers out there I say go for it!! 😊

This notification, "Time for Tab & Chance", is the only one I pay attention to / look for. Really do appreciate you both and your sharing yourselves with all of us. Happy Fathers' Day Chance!

Fridays! Fridays! Fridays! with Tab and Chance...

Uncle Chance reminded me that it does take a village to raise a child. Uncle Chance had a real village ❤of elders

I enjoyed the conversation and Chance's perspective was enlightening. His kids are blessed to have him as a father. Great job Chance! I know you will be a part of that same kind of village you were blessed with for other kids when the opportunity arises. Happy Father's Day!

Happy Father's Day Chance and all the men who play a role in any child's life. Enjoy your day!! Happy Heavenly Father's Day to my Dad and the special men that helped form my life your spirit lives on. Tab and Chance, keep bringing us "Fridays with Tab & Chance. I love it!!

Chance, you’re getting it right. Because I believe, you’re giving your children, what you didn’t have. Love, and understanding, wisdom and guidance

Everytime I watch these lovely video’s I Laugh, I cry laughing, and I love the stares you both give each other and the Black Love & Excellence! I love to see love and it’s amazing to see. Please Keep Growing & Glowing! Much Love From Detroit!❤

Happy Father's Day. God always has someone looking out. He's a father to the fatherless.

Chance and I have a similar vantage point. I had a grandfather who was Father I came to know.

Happy Father’s Day to Chance and all of the fathers and father figures out there. *Congratulations Tab on 1M Subscribers.*

This was ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT and BEAUTIFUL!!! Thank you so much for sharing this.❤❤❤

Well you deserve to buy a Father's Day gift for yourself for once. I love watching you guys.

Chance had a lot of puzzle pieces to make him who he is. There are puzzles that have different numbers of pieces. He had like a 200-piece puzzle where others had 20 pieces of puzzles because the men played a bigger role in their life. But both make great men

Salute Team Brown

Yes Tab, Chance, mother did a good job keeping him happy. Thanks Tab, for letting him release is childhood.

I raised my Son’s , and always had guy’s to step in where a male’s influence was important for them!! I have been told that I have raised two great Men! I couldn’t have done this without their presence and their support!! ❤❤❤

Thank you Tab and Chance for taking the time out to have these important conversations ❤

Y’all made it to 1 million subscribers, CONGRATS ❤️❤️❤️

Love 💕 the intro song 🎶🎶🎶🤗 peace and blessings to both of you

Congrats on getting to 1M subscribers! Praying for continuous blessings. 🥰

I’m excited… I anticipate Fridays with uncle Chance and auntie Tab❤

This is a beautiful, poignant discussion! Appreciate you both for wanting to open dialogue on father (biological or not) roles and its impact❣

Tabitha, you blessed to have been raised with your father guiding and teaching you through life. You are truly a daddy's girl. I didn't have that luxury and to many of us; it is a luxury. It's not the norm. I can relate more to Chance, you can't miss something you never had. I met my dad later in life and I even got to know of him as person and a man. I still never met the father in him. I saw a father in others growing up and through life. My understanding of father finally came through my personal growth with God and the understanding of His word. I am a Father's girl too but it is to my Father in Heaven. I think for Chance to be the amazing father and husband is a testimony to a man wanting differently for himself and his children and wife. It's obviously you have to want to be different from your norm. It's a choice rather than making excuses to being what the stats say about your norm. I can relate. Thank you both for this conversation. It's a much needed topic in this day and time back then, but Chance is an excellent example than you can over the fatherless syndrome and still be a GREAT father. It is a CHOICE....Happy Father's Day today and every day after today Chance 💙🙏 I love you both... May God continue to bless you and keep you in good health and spirits.

AWWW❤ I love how he tells his daughters they contributed to the existence of Quest‼💙

Happy Father’s Day Chance. And to all the fathers that are reading this❤

HAPPY FABULOUS💖FRIDAY YALL

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You came here on the lust bus!!!!!!!!!!!! This had me rolling!!!!!!!

This was so good. You're a great father Chance and thank you for being vulnerable and helping us understand fathers in a whole. ❤️

Never brought a Father’s Day gift.. hit home. I haven’t either 😢 Happy Father’s Day Chance!

Chance cracks me up. "They was doing some work....." "They came here on the lust......bus"🤣😂 I'm a Daddy's girl also Tab!!! Love Love Love my Daddy💜💜💜

Completely agree with Chance about not missing my father and actually wanting a big sis. I figured this is how my family is and I was so loved I didn't miss him or really notice.

Hearing tab and chance completely different experience with "fathers" actually explains A LOT about my own. Always Present but NOT PRESENT at the same time.... Hard working, and here, but not loving, patient or present in mine or his grandchildren's lives, so still feel a void🤔

My dad has never been an active father in my life. I have tried to be there for him financially in ways that'd I shouldn't have. I truly feel my kind and generous nature is being taken for grated.

The intro 🙌🏾🔥🔥

Hallelujah, I saw God all up in your story chance.

Auntie Tab can yall talk about setting boundaries with the in-laws and projections on your marriage.

😂😂😂😂 @Chance "the lust bus" 😂😂😂😂

I appreciate these Fridays with Tab and Chance. I appreciate your thoughtful and thought provoking conversations. It’s not easy to be truly open and honest, but I sense that you both are, and it’s also apparent that you’ve both thought about these life issues that you tackle each week. Thank you!

I'm a father's girl as well I'm the only girl out of six boys and and my three best friends didnt have a father but he was a father to them as well we're in our early fifties now my Father is gone home😢 now my mommy as well he was the best thing the smartest man on earth no one on this earth couldn't no way walk a mile in my father's shoes love you Tab and Chance

Amen , Chance, Happy Father’s Day, to all the Fathers!

Happy Father’s Day!❤️🎉🎉

Thanks Tab and Chance! This was awesome!

My dad passed away last year. This is will be my first Father's Day without him here.

My Daddy was present but he definitely didn't Father us he was like one if the Kids. I loved him but I wish he was more active in our lives. I'm grateful for the time we shared and was the last to talk to him before he passed❤. I thank God My Sons are Great Father's to their Sons. I feel Chance deeply and I take my hat off to him bc he is A GREAT HUSBAND AND FATHER.

We need more of this Tab-beautiful to watch👌🏾!

Thanks for providing this segment. Chance my son is 20 years old and although my ex-husband missed out on raising him, other male figures encouraged him. They were there for his basketball games and so forth. My son doesn’t appear to have hate in his heart or anything like that, but it was extremely hurtful for me to watch. I believe my son’s experience will drive him to be a great father as you are when that time comes. Have a Happy Father’s Day!

This was absolutely A Blessing to my ♥️ Thank Yall!! 💯😇

Happy Father's Day Chance. Love you two so much!!!! Keep helping us.

Happy Father’s Day….Thank you sooooo much CHANCE…. for sharing YOUR story with us all… Blessings to you both!!!

Great Convo. Happy Father's Day Chance!

Great Topic, Loved it. Thank you.🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank God for Friday’s with Tab and Chance ❤❤❤

This resonated with me. I knew my dad but he was never a dad to me. I had my step daddy who was dad but when I was younger I always wished my biological dad was there but mom never talked down on my biological dad she let me snd my siblings see that he didn’t want or care for us.

I feel the same way Chance feels My dad was not in my life but I didn’t miss him because I had so much love growing up, I never asked about him either, or missed him. I have no hard feelings towards him because I didn’t think about him. I had a good mother and family.

How can you not love these beautiful people? Congratulations Tab & Chance.❤

This was very good. Another perspective ❤

I really enjoyed this talk. So much truth shared. Thank you

Really great episode Tab and Chance. I especially appreciate the mention of you telling your two daughters that they should be proud that they contributed to the way their younger brother is coming up. As the eldest myself I have definitely struggles with feeling like the guinea pig child. Like all the mistakes were made on me, but I'm so glad my brother and sister (who are 12 and 13 years my junior) are where they are in life. That was a much better perspective on the matter.

I love this!! Happy Father’s Day to y’all!😉👍🏾✊🏾👊🏾 #salute

Happy Fathers Day Chance, we love and appreciate you! 💕

Absolutely Awesome !!

I loved this, ❤❤

Thank you both for your realness and just sharing your positive vibes. You're both an inspiration and the world need more of this! Happy Father's Day to all the fathers/uncles/men who act in the role of a father.

Love y'all Tab and Chance ❤❤❤

This was a wonderful video and topic.

I Love this episode, very true and insightful

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!!!

Happy Father’s Day to you Chance 👏 you are a special kind of a man and your wife appreciates you

Happy Father's Day Chance

Happy Fathers Day Chance and all the great fathers . This had me emotional 🥲 and sad for Chance because like Tab I’m a daddy’s girl. I can’t imagine not knowing or the feeling of not having a father around . I’m grateful, always .

I am so very thankful and grateful for the 2 of you. I appreciate your generosity and willingness to share these thoughts and life lessons with us. Our community needs more like the two of you. Providing guidance, insights, information, and inspiration to uplift us all. Thank you! You are shining brightly the glory of God. You make me want to be a better person.

Congrats Tab, on a Million subscribers!

I absolutely LOVE Uncle Chance and Auntie Tab!!!