Feel you're not "trans enough"? Watch this!  

do you suffer imposter syndrome? or did you used to and got over it yourself? let us know how below, help your fellow babytrans.

[watches video to end] ...wait, am I cis enough?

As a much older (49) and yet much younger (11 mo. on HRT) trans woman who also enjoys DRG to insane levels, I am glad to have come across your channel. Don't ever stop, you are amazing! Oh, and as for the Imposter Syndrome thing, it is most definitely something I've gone through and agonized over (still occasionally do), even though starting my transition was the best decision I ever made. Much love, and keep up the good work!🏳‍⚧💜

100%! I recently gave up boymode and the weight that was lifted was indescribable. I wish I could get my voice as far as long as yours though

Very calm vibes. It was great to hear such a unique perspective

Thanks so much for this, I’ve felt this way too and “are you cis enough to be cis” helped me see the imposter syndrome for what it is.

While I identify as a femboy because of my age and what I look like I feel like I'm not good enough to be one. I mostly feel that way from ageists shaming me for my age even though I'm only 31.

I started questioning my gender about a month ago. Im not very secure in my identity yet but Im trying to get there. Thank you so much for your story. Ive been dealing with a lot of mental health issues my whole life, and impostor syndrome likes to use that as ammo against me. I keep thinking its not real and its just my depression/anxiety/whatever talking, but its good to remember that my confusion and frustration dont mean im wrong. They mean its a struggle, but if moving forward will help me, then theres no reason not to. Im so glad youre in a better place now. Ive never been able to imagine myself happy as a woman, but as a man? It finally seems possible. Thank you.

This video cracked my egg. "Am I cis enough to be cis?" This simple question flipped my entire perspective on my gender identity and made me realize I was in denial for the longest time.

When i first relized that not every boy wishes they could be a girl my whole world view changed. Now im almost 3 month on hormones and i have no regrets although i still default to boy mode because i dont believe anyone will see me as a girl. Either way thank you so much big sis loved the video ❤!!!!

When in doubt, don't be trans. You can be a feminine man (like me) or a masculine woman and still be(come) comfortable in your cisness. Trans regret is a real thing.

Thank you for this, your openness is so brave and reassuring. I appreciate it ❤

Thank you for your video. Im an alcholic, soba 12yrs now im 39 and come out as trans last yrs. I was never male inside and suppressed myself with dring and drugs. Last year i couldn't hide my feelings and wish id be honest with myself before. Ive never been able to look at myself in the mirror with cringing. Im on the waiting list for gender treatment. ❤

Your voice is so nice and calming! I love listening to it! The story you told was quite the contrast to that!

As someone who recently started down the path of self-discovery (felt my egg shatter about three weeks ago or so), I've been wrestling with that question a lot. The first week I truly started asking myself that I was a distressed wreck, but I've gotten a lot better at processing my emotions with the help of friends (some trans, some not) and a therapist. Although there's still a part of me that wished I never needed to be on this path, it's been an enlightening journey so far. I found this channel after I basically started to binge watch a bunch of trans people talk about their experiences, and it's taught me a lot and helped me stay sane while I've been losing my mind. I just want to say thank you for sharing your experiences. It's helping me to know that I'm not alone and that there's people who have already gone through this journey willing to help. Also, this might be a weird thing to say, but I started by watching some of your older videos, and hearing your voice in the new videos has been jarring in the best way possible. I don't know if you're using a voice changer or not, but I know voice dysmorphia is a huge issue in general for trans girls. If you've been training your voice to sound like that, I can tell you've put in a lot of work to make it your own. Hopefully that's something I can say. Also, I like the DRG aestetic on the channel as a fellow miner. I'd love to meet up in game for some spelunking if our paths cross on Hoxxes. Rock and stone, sister!

Not only are you a real trans person, you're a real girl. :) You also have a very cute voice. ^_^

Im not trans enough to be trans but i still decided to go on hrt because i felt bad enough about masculinizing more and more to do anything to stop that Idk what i am i dont really even care, but at least now im pretty haha

oh my gosh!! I was just recommended this video, and I've been literally today thinking about the idea of gender identity as a spectrum. Like... This might be weird to describe or read, but I have been feeling like I'm 25% transfem. Enough to notice a difference in myself, but not too much to feel like I'm wearing the wrong body entirely (i feel for the people who do. You'll get there one day!) Growing up I've always enjoyed the company of girls rather than guys, enjoyed softer activities and (mostly) always played female characters in video games. I've roleplayed female characters in DnD and MMOs before, but I was always hesitant to get more into it because I am/was a guy irl, and have been really, REALLY self concious about GuysWritingGirls trope, especially when I knew I was playing with other ladies. Like, I was afraid of acting like a woman incorrectly so much that I reserved myself to the shyest character roles and never really put myself out on the spotlight too much. This actually gives me something to talk to my friends about, but its been so long ago that idk if anyone would remember anything. Edit: That and being caught being a guy IRL cuz that was the thing of the time. everyone assumed your avatar was your IRL gender lol

"Am I cis enough to be cis?" Most of me is inclined to say yes, but that feels almost disingenuous when I think about my fascination with identities that fall under the nonbinary umbrella and the fact that I'm gonna go back to re-examining it less than ten minutes from now 🙃

This was really cool. Thank you for your help! Mwah

I don't typically watch vr people. But I'm happy for you. You are what you are, what you identity as and what you see in your reflection in a mirror. If being a woman makes you happy. Do it girlfriend! I'm working on my own transition. Being a woman just makes me more happy.

You're a good girl. Love the video.❤

I know for sure that I'm not a man, so I'm using non binary and don't really see a need for hormones, so not a woman, wish I could explore that a bit more but all I have is just the art i'm learning instead of being out in public, specially since i'm moving to a very conservative country. Some people don't consider NB as trans and I'm not sure if I do or not, kind of been keeping it in and ignoring that side of me since I found it a couple of years ago. Oh also, I always thought growing up that my life would be easier if I was a girl, like I would just be me but a girl and that's a whole egg moment right there.

oh. that... put it in a different light. "cis people do not question their gender". huh.

5:16 i used to believe this too XD

Thank you so much for sharing your story you are awesome again thank you thank you thank you so much❤❤❤

How many years have you been in therapy with a professional psychologist or psychiatrist? What have they said, how they did assist you with make you reach a better understanding of your life? Or is this a path you took only by yourself?

Yep this video helped a lot and now I know I’m a trans man 😊

yeah. fuck. this might be the video to make me start hrt. Maybe asking my friends to call me a feminine name for... years, now... isn't the most cis thing to do.

Lol yeah, spent 3 years transitioning hormonally in denial not acknowledging I'm trans at all. What pulled me out of the closet was my boobs got too big to comfortably hide with a binder and realized I would hate detransitioning.

I am trans enougj 🏳️‍⚧️

im just not gonna say anything

Why this is in my recommendations.

i was trying to follow you on twitter, but your account seems to be suspended sadly!

I agree. You can't be cis if you question your birth gender and do stuff opposite of your birth gender.

You're cute ❤

try not to become a statistic before it's too late chief, never too late. unless you got one of those permanant surgeries or something then good luck living with yourself