Hi Eva, Thanks a lot for what you do. I have mostly been able to have my RJ under control, although it did lower my spirit a lot and my self-esteem. I'm a guy, and my partner's past used to haunt me, but now it is way less aggressive thanks to your help and reading, etc. Could you maybe talk about this feeling of being less than other people or like less than your partner especially as a guy for having limited experiences prior to your gf it feels like I should have had more in this area, for example I never had a hookup or anything of that sort, it didn't ever used to bother me but I find myself stressing out about growing old and having feelings of regret for not experiencing more sexually with different partners cause I am 22 now so I am at my peak years if that makes sense lol, I stress about this a lot EVEN THOUGH my goal was always to experience life and have all these sexual experiences with one partner was what I always strived for, thanks so much!!!
@@rambezz9671 I have this video on it: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vgLTmc0hT6U.htmlsi=75466Eh6djkcc7YN Let me know if you have any questions I can talk about:)
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety hmmm great video and I would say my reason for this feeling is just cause I wanna say "I did that too" in the future so it is coming from a place of my ego I can see that and also know it might be wrong and distorted, I don’t want to date other people or feel like i am not ready to settle down i do think my partner is an amazing match, is there any way you can discuss how to overcome these feelings when they come from a place of ego and fear of regretting not having had more experiences like your partner but also you are sure you love and want your partner?, I hate this conflict so much, thanks!!!!
@@rambezz9671 I think a lot of suffering comes from indecision. Make a choice and stick with it, people with RJ often are perfectionists and "want it all" but this keeps us stuck.
@@arnavchill_cool yes, it might take you some time to calm down and think clearly if you have found out a lot of information you don’t like. It is possible to overcome it though.
