Fighting In Public, Boundaries For Child Birth and Sleep Divorce - Your Couple Tea EP. 29

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Fighting in public, we are guilty of this in the past and spill all the tea. For the first time ever we discuss our boundaries for child birth and talking about divorce? Sleep Divorce that is..
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@meghanthompson7910 Год назад

Like my husband says, childbirth is not a spectator sport. 🤣

@kbeasley7613 Год назад

I only wanted my husband in the delivery room when it was time to push. It made the experience so much more intimate and such a special experience. It also allowed us to bond with our babies a few minutes before everyone else came in. Those first few moments are so surreal💕 Typically baby is discharged 24-48 hours after an uncomplicated vaginal birth. Mom is monitored for blood loss, blood clots, & other post delivery care. Mom also has to have a bowl movement. Baby will have to pass “car seat” test. They put the baby in the car seat and monitor breathing and baby heart rate to make sure they tolerate it well.

@moevande3822 Год назад

I’m a 23 year old mom of 3 baby girls. As a women giving birth is such a powerful feeling 🫶🏼 I’m excited to see your beautiful blessing!!

@ahseel28 Год назад

It’s funny listening to Katie talk about labour………..Book yourselves into some classes. 💖

@kathyhosier1291 Год назад

Child birth is a very emotional experience and I personally think it should be just you to share that experience. Grandparents should be un waiting room

@kortniefouchey348 Год назад

Amen

@kiramusic904 Год назад

When it comes to birth, definitely the person birthing is the one that needs to be comfortable. Of course you should always try to be kind and considerate, but in the end it’s your experience and your body and your birth, no one else matters. Don’t let someone pressure you to be in the hospital, set boundaries and stick to it

@oliviapaige8028 Год назад

ahhh a new jatie podcast for my pool day!! love you guys!

@sharpiefineline752 Год назад

they talk over each other sooooo much lol

@nikkie3524 Год назад

and talk in circles. never gets to the point. “it’s like it’s something of something like, but like it’s almost like it’s like this”

@ameliasmith520 Год назад

Katie, I know someone that when she gave birth to her daughter, the doctors took out her placenta dried it out, grounded it and put it into capsules for her daughter when she is older with her period. It helps her daughter with cramps and such. The capsules give her more nutrients when she needs it. I totally suggest it. I hope that helps❤ We love you!❤

@moxbo Год назад

I'm an L&D nurse. You will be at the hospital for a minimum of 24 hours from time of delivery, not including how long you labor. We will recover you, watch your bleeding, teach you breastfeeding, help you walk after epidural, etc. Newborn testing also starts at 24 hours, so that will need completed. It really just depends on time of delivery, most vaginal deliveries & first time moms stay 2 days. Also, there are no health benefits of consuming your placenta, it can actually be dangerous. Plant some flowers with it or something cute!

@Mylifedailyshorts Год назад

I gave birth in March with my first and let me tell you if it was anything like mine you will not care who is looking - you will want that baby out. The pushing is not the bad part. It’s the contractions. And I had an epidural. BUT you will quickly forget the pain.

@haleykeef2489 Год назад

I only had my husband in the room and it was the best! The only person I need coaching me through birth are the nurses and doctors😂

@jasonclay8069 Год назад

I don't c either of u sleeping alone Got to love the family cuddles

@Divine1767 Год назад

I just can't see you guys sleeping apart because Josh loves his cuddles😂and I'm with Katie..I love drama that I'm not involved in it but mostly like 97% of the time,keep me out of it like the Selena Gomez and Hailey Bieber drama,I couldn't care less about it😅.. The way he casually said "are we eating the placenta"🤣🤣

@kristenhellmann5038 Год назад

I was 48 hours for both my kids and that was the normal . Nowadays they may let you out 24-36 after. They have to check for jaundice and the baby’s vitals , then normally feeding , baby bath . Then for the mom they have to check to make sure you can go to the bathroom and peri care is all normal. So excited for you guys , such an incredible experience . I had my mom in the first time and then just my husband and I for our second and it was definitely what I preferred !

@marybillington8235 Год назад

Josh will faint

@courtneyc4 Год назад

Wow Josh, you should really start watching birth vlogs. 24 hrs is NOT a lot. Learns bout postpartum depression and what caused it in women. Not cute to be ignorant. Your wife is going to be going through so much… like SO MUCH after and will need you. Her body is going to be trying to rebalance and heal and also care for another human being. Tougher than being pregnant. The bleeding and pain and swelling, etc you should read about. Do as many night shifts as you can so she can rest. Make her filling healthy meals, give her her vitamins and care for baby and bond as often as you can. Give her changes to shower and always check in. Katie, don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Wishing the best for you guys.

@rachaelchilders6086 Год назад

You will spend at least 1 night in the hospital no matter what time you give birth! You are bleeding “down there” and will get stitches most likely, and they need to check you aren’t bleeding too much and urinate the appropriate amount.. check baby for jaundice and their vitals are good. Lots of things to check before you are just sent on your way!

@samirossman4215 Год назад

my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and we sleep separately most night. honestly, we just both sleep better when we are separate. also, i have a consistent work schedule 7-3 and his work schedule fluctuates, so i would sleep early and get up early where sometimes he isn’t coming home until 12-1 AM and then wants to sleep in the morning.

@courtneyc4 Год назад

They don’t let you record down passed your waist. You have to stay up by her side if you’re recording. Unless you do home births. Nobody can stop you 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Divine1767 Год назад

Been waiting for this episode and I know it's going to be super interesting😊❤️❤️

@marybillington8235 Год назад

I think y’all should just have yourselves and maybe Katie’s Mom or her sister! Only two extra people besides Katie at the most! I prefer my husband or boyfriend!

@courtneyc4 Год назад

Girl, your grandparents did not like each other… back then, especially religious people, people didn’t believe in divorce. It’s a sin and also frowned against. A lot of older people stayed together for this reason but sleep separately.

@brittnihitchcock7011 Год назад

I got my tonsils out when I was a kid because I constantly had strep throat and tonsilitis. My tonsils used to swell so bad it was difficult to breath. After reoccurring strep and tonsilitis they recommended a tonsillectomy. Apparently its a very common reason to get them removed :)

@HenrySorensen-d8g 9 месяцев назад

Some time my husband and I do sleep separately because he snores I just can’t sleep at night and because my allergies tossing and turning

@chelseacarroll7903 Год назад

My in-laws sleep separate because my FIL loves it super cold in the room at night with multiple fans on while sleeping and my MIL just gets too cold in there with him.

@Amandagreen-km4jm Год назад

my dad always sleep in basement and my mom sleep in her room upstairs but only reason cause my dad didn't sleep good and hurt but main reason he liked it cold and my mom liked it warm.but they were happy with eachother

@Amandagreen-km4jm Год назад

in Indiana if it's your first day they make you stay 3 days make sure you and baby ok and if you can take care baby ok.but once you have had 1 then you can leave next day.ive had 3 but this is also in Indiana

@islanewman7024 Год назад

My parents sleep apart because when I was little I would sleep with them and then I got to big and then my little sister was born and we would both sleep with our mum and my sister still sleeps with her so my dad sleeps in another room 🤍🤍

@lisawayts4674 Год назад

When I had my first I only wanted my husband in the room the entire time. Everyone else was in the waiting room and came in at different times when I was ok with it. I loved that it was just my husband when I needed him and I did not feel like I had to “entertain” people.

@Skyler_12 Год назад

to the part where they were talking about sleep divorce my grandma and grandpa don’t sleep together anymore but it’s because my grandpa is like really tall so he takes up a lot of space in the bed

@christinapalmer6636 Год назад

You do spend 24 hours in the hospital regardless if the birth goes good or not plus however long you are in labor so in all it's over 24 hours by the time you go home.

@Denny-up3pi Год назад

5 months aqo I gave birth and it was me and my husband only and only person I listened to was my doctor…

@peppermccullar3479 Год назад

I believe that fighting or arguing is more healthy in a marriage because if u keep it in it, it will eat u up, but not in public and I don't like going to bed mad at each other!

@debraolson8122 Год назад

I only wanted my husband in the delivery room. Our families lived a distance away and gave us time to adjust and get settled at home before coming to meet their first grandchild. I felt it was an important time for the three of us to bond and recover. We do not sleep separate from each other as it just feels off to me. We made a bond at marriage and stick by it. We do not fight in public, but discuss our differences in private and come to a conclusion. Great podcast and great pros and cons of each of these topics!

@dawndoehrmann2682 Год назад

Josh you need to take some classes a lot of times you stay 48 hours and your wife needs healing time she will be exhausted

@amym1460 Год назад

My dad actually had his tonsils and adenoids for snoring. His snoring was caused by severe sleep apnea. That surgery helped with his breathing at night which helped his snoring.

@Amyr-iw4omp Год назад

i feel like someone does this when they have children becausethey sleep training the child so only one parent is awake ata time

@taylorkaufman4574 Год назад

Josh is right about having your mom in the room. For my first daughter my mom was there and I felt weird about it but come that day you don't even care and your mom had you so it's a whole new level and it made me and my mom closer. It was very special for her to be there.

@kimpurgason4921 Год назад

My parents sleep separate because my dad snores way too loud that nobody else can sleep.

@Amyr-iw4omp Год назад

josh is right they cansend you straight home aftera few hours

@traceypoole999 Год назад

A great podcast as always, the eating placenta conversation, hilarious 🤣, a placenta smoothie 🤔, think I would have to draw the line at that 😂🤣 💕

@chantelspencer3439 Год назад

Old started at 30... check engine light came on && sleeping is rough! My husband SNORES BAD I used to end up on the couch but I use ear plugs now..

@chantelspencer3439 Год назад

I'm crazy when I get woken up bc I take medicine to sleep... so if I get woken up before my meds are worn off it's awful! I can hear a pin drop on the 2nd story bathroom even with fans going.. so any sound wakes me up

@mariacloud5317 Год назад

I love how she keeps saying "I saw this on on tiktok"

@taylorkaufman4574 Год назад

And also they have you stay at least 36 hours after a baby.

@marieclark9938 Год назад

Loved this one, I was in the hospital for three days after I give birth, it was smooth for me❤️

@brendachaves6375 Год назад

Hey Katie and josh ❤

@autumnickes3514 Год назад

I seriously recommend that you guys go into a labor and delivery class because you’re gonna want to know what’s going on They will explain everything about your labor. Everything about after you have baby your postpartum care. I definitely recommend you guys find a class.

@SamiG247 Год назад

My husband snores so loud like…SO loud but I still can’t not sleep in the same bed as him. Sometimes I wear earplugs. Sometimes I suffer lol. Sometimes I nudge him every two seconds.

@tessremy-detty5025 Год назад

At 24 hrs baby will have hearing screen, recheck of weight, jaundice, congenital heart and metabolic screening!

@michellewilliams8188 Год назад

My husband snores awfully. Earplugs do not work. I asked him to please get a device that will help his snoring for sleep apnea. I sleep in another room. I need my sleep. Love him to death.

@Claire-vj9nu Год назад

It may be different depending where you are but generally it is 48 hours before they discharge you so they can keep an eye on the moms and babies vitals, making sure baby is eating and having enough dirty diapers, and help you with your postpartum care and babies overall care. It can be longer for c-section or if any complications arise. I had my daughter at 1:41 AM on a Tuesday and then we wanted to go home before the Thursday morning (since that would have technically been 48 hours), our baby and I were fine, and a snowstorm/ice storm was supposed to hit on Thursday so we wanted to get ourselves home so we didn’t have to stay longer. They were a little hesitant but said if we wanted to and everything was good with both of us then the earliest they would discharge us would be Wednesday night (which is when we went home) and they had some things they wanted us to keep an eye out for (like jaundice) and to call them if we needed anything.

@amandasawatsky5523 Год назад

My husband and I are blanket divorced. He likes a weighted blanket that I feel is trying to eat me, so separate blankets on a king bed it is!

@patriciacaliento7156 Год назад

Sleeping: husband reads I watch shows, he goes to bed late, me earlier, he’s a lights on to read I’m a lights off I like a cooler room nope for him… well you get it. I feel he’s not a compromiser so we sleep separately but have been married for 43 yrs and love each other. No mysteries no deep meanings. Just a decent night’s sleep 😊

@shayshay2068 Год назад

With my first i was pushing and when i push obviously the baby comes out a bit more when i stop goes back in well my husband would be like oooh he is right there then he goes aw man he went back in lol so i said SHUT UPPPPP 😂

@nadinekba8989 Год назад

Just a different perspective, Joshs mother is just as much a grandparent as Yours Katie. They both deserve to be there imo. Obv everyone has different outlooks and that’s okay. The selflessness that comes with motherhood starts during pregnancy. You really won’t care who’s seeing what during the delivery, it’ll be the least of your worries. I understand the ones giving birth need to be comfortable but dads/dada family are also important. You always stay at the hospital, the baby needs to have many tests done, make sure they aren’t losing too much weight, breastfeeding is going okay, Katie’s not bleeeing too heavily etc.

@Divine1767 Год назад

The thing is Josh's mum is still having some issues with her health which is why she wasn't there for the gender reveal because her doctor said it isn't smart for her to fly but hey,September is still 3 months from now so we will see because they've said they are giving birth to her in Arizona

@nadinekba8989 Год назад

Yes this is true, but they’re talking about who they’re comfortable having in the room.

@Divine1767 Год назад

@@nadinekba8989 Maybe she would be extra,extra comfortable with just her mum and Josh..I've watched different labor and delivery vlogs with just the lady's mum and the lady's partner obviously

@kbeasley7613 Год назад

I understand where you’re coming from, but as a mother myself, labor is stressful enough without having to worry about who sees you and all your glory. And yes, I thought about that. I only wanted my husband in the room. We were the only ones there for conception and we decided to be the only ones in the room for the birth. It really pissed some ppl off, but at the end of the day this was our decision. We were completely selfish with those first few moments with our babies. I wouldn’t change a thing about that. It is really mom’s choice to decide who she feels comfortable with. She is the one laboring and she needs to best environment for her.

@nadinekba8989 Год назад

@@kbeasley7613 I understand most perspectives as much as I can. Some people look at it as this the first time they’re giving birth, they don’t want anyone seeing their body etc. There are ways for other people to be there and not see a thing. I’ve experienced that and respected it 100%. I just look at it as a new life is being brought into this world. I’m a bit older 34, so I guess I just don’t see why people get so worried about female family members seeing any part of them, when they are there to support the mama, their son and watch their grandchild come into the world.

@kiramusic904 Год назад

Yes my husband and I are temporarily sleep divorced because he has a job and I stay home with the kids and I cosleep with the kids for now, just a season of life

@Divine1767 Год назад

5:47 You get your tonsils removed to treat inflammation and infection of the tonsils (tonsillitis)

@Havens4 Год назад

You guys should do a Q&A pod cast

@jmelll93 Год назад

24-48 hours in the hospital

@amandamenezes5617 Год назад

I love the new intro!!!

@anniepayne2005 Год назад

Love y’all

@jessl1921 Год назад

Fav pod ❤️

@Denny-up3pi Год назад

And for Josh trust me it is way better to be in hospital 24 to 48 hours and check baby and Katie if all is good and also help with brestfeeding which is not easy …