Filipinas Find you CREEPY when you do this... 

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My red flag is going out for dinner and she pays more attention to her phone than her date.

I can give you a list of creepy things filipinas do if you need one.

Most filipinas are simple and calm but tend to enjoy drama and social media and sugar in equal amounts.

Yes staring is creepy. I'm 6'4" when I was there everytime I looked around someone was staring.

Avoid filipinas with too much drama on a daily basis.

your starting tp sound like a western woman , not a good thing

Hi Leah, i find it funny how you Filipina's want us to act and yet you guys have the same flaws as us lol. For your examples like starring i've heard countless guys say on first visit they are starred at all the time lol. As for stalking on social media and being controlling, again Filipina's are masters of this and bombarding with messages of where are you and who you with. If i receive a naughty picture i know the girl is no good and intends to scam so works both ways. Anyway, interesting vlog Leah, hope all is well with family.

Now the women in Philippines are using the term Cringe... Things have started to change.... Wow.... Thailand is now higher on the List...

Creepy guys, don’t know they’re being creepy. They don’t have the emotional intelligence.

Good advice Leah! Always enjoy your channel! You and your family be safe there.

The key to a proper stare is to have drool dripping from your chin. No woman can resist the drooling stare.. Especially if you can stare directly for 10 minutes or more! The more drool the better and bounce your eyebrows up and down periodically.

Great points Leah. It’s good to share some “dont’s” for the foreigners. I never will forget my wife telling me that before we met online, she had chatted other guys and more than once a guy texted her to cam chat and when they did, when the camera opened, all she saw was them playing with their otin, not even a face 😳🤣. We laugh now but she still gets upset and says “BWESET those men!” 🤣🤣 Amping ka dyan Jake

It's natural human nature to stare at things that are different or attractive to you, it's also natural to look at a person's mouth when they are talking. Maybe you should try walking in Gary's shoes to try to understand what it's like for Gary walking down the street. Try walking across the street from him and pay attention to everyone around him and see how much others are staring at him. Don't you think it's uncomfortable for the foreigners to be stared at as well? Telling others not to do something you yourself are doing is hypocritical. I agree being clingy/touchy/needy is bad for a GUY. Women want to feel safe and a "touchy" guy removes that safe feeling. For the woman, being touchy is a subtle sign she's interested in you. I think you should be addressing women more with accepting "No". I think you're wrong about "Women don't want to be chased," they definitely do as so many Filipina's have said in interviews, because it makes them feel more special, important, and gives them more attention. Women want to be pursued and play "hard to get", she may say "No" even though she's interested because she expects him to put in more effort and chase her. If they want a man to stay, then get comfortable with not being pursued. Those long/sweet messages wreak of desperation, which is a turn off for women, a man displaying his feelings makes women see weakness, and again women want to feel safe, remain stoic and keep those feelings bottled up. Some women say "No" when they mean "Yes", some want touchy/clingy (Especially jealous Filipina's) and some don't, some want those sweet messages, some don't, some say they want a man to express his feelings, others don't. The only advice a guy needs is deal with each woman on an individual basis to find out what type she is and give her what makes her happy. There's one thing you are over looking Leah, many men (Only talking American, since I am) have been dealing with unfaithful and disloyal women and it has made them guarded, jaded, and untrusting. My ex-wife cheated while I was deployed to Afghanistan and handed me divorce papers when I returned, since then I have put up a wall around my heart and haven't allowed another woman to get close enough to tear down that wall. They're not being CONTROLLING (That's just a western woman buzz word to not accept boundaries), those men have LEARNED from past mistakes and they are trying to protect themselves from being hurt by another cheating woman. TRUST IS EARNED, and those messages are him trying to see if he should place trust in her or not. Without trust, you have nothing. If she's not willing to EARN his trust, he's not going to commit to her. Thank you Leah for your time and opinions, I hope you and your family have a wonderful day.

The point of staring is to make eye contact. Take it from a dating expert. Show interest!

In the U.S., some people believe as you hold a conversation and look at a person's eyes, if you look up and to the right, breaking eye contact means that you are lying. I do not believe this. It sounds like pseudoscience to me, but some people in the U.S. keep eye contact during the entire conversation without looking around.

My filipina told me in ldr that she liked long letters. I guess in the end we're all different and like different things maybe... God bless your family 🌟 🙏

Good video. Good info. I never understood why a guy (stranger) would think any respectful woman would want to see a picture of his banana..............

You sound so westernized. The word choice, the tone and everything...

I'm an american with blonde hair and blue eyes....I get stared at everywhere constantly by male and female filipinos.... uncomfortably.

Sorry, Leah. As an American I am so used to the government sticking their hands into my pocket that it would feel strange for no hand trying to grab my wallet from it. That is why my hand occasionally enters my pocket. To make sure that the wallet is still there.

Great advice 👏

In other words guys dont act like a dumb teenager in a coming of age movie. Have confidence. Dont be desperate. Move on if the girl doesnt show interest and dont look back.

My best advise to all of you is just be you and you will meet someone like you and be more compatible. Be confident in who you are.

Good topic, haven't heard it discussed before. Great advice too.

Hahahahah...very entertaining video Leah. Hope you and your family are well.

Thanks for the video Leah! Great job as always sharing your view. Greatly appreciated. Of course you are going to get the round of negative comments from the keyboard warriors. Always remember, you have more supporters than detractors. Keep up the great work!

Thanks for another interesting and informative vlog

Thank you I'm trying to trick Filipinas into thinking I am normal

I had to respond to this one. I'm 68 in October, and I can remember my cultured Uncle involved in my brother's and my rearing, wanting us to be "refined" from the ghetto, or 'hood we were from taught us how to keep your hands out of your pocket and learn how to be comfortable with them hanging by your side. It took awhile but I finally got it. Today, guys are playing "pocket pool" while looking at women or it demonstrates simply no couth. Even one hand in one's pocket takes away from a man's appearance. Being critical? Perhaps, but how others see you is important especially if you're trying to make an impression.

Everyone is a fool for something.

You either have chemistry or not. Don't bother forcing it

What's wrong with having your hands in your pocket? My hands in my pocket creep you out then maybe your not for me

Good advice😊 I get called a creep alot on RU-vid because my wife looks so young 😅 but it's ok because I know the truth 😊 great video 😊

8:53 Texting and trying to keep track of where the other person has been all the time is much much more a woman thing than a man thing, though. Maybe that’s why it seems creepy when a man does it? Because I agree, it does seem creepy.

Hi Leah. It's funny when I meet women that can't understand that many men are attracted to all parts of a woman's body. Your feet are part of you. You get pedicures to make them look nice and pretty so you shouldn't be too surprised that men enjoy them. Guys...NEVER ask for pics of women's body parts until you actually know the woman. Some guys are just creepy.

it's usually in the province where the locals will stare at me; i'm no longer bothered by it.

Thanks for the "Creepy" education. 😅

Leah, very interesting and impressive video. A percentage of men are inappropriate unfortunately. Women respect men more when they respect the boundaries of women. Thank you for this video. GOD SPEED PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭

I did that at Meijer my previous job, in this military complex controlled the woman to tell me off. And I know it was them

Talking is the most important thing

Yeah I find it really weird and strange I follow a lot of Filipinas on RU-vid often times men would ask to see their feet on their livestream I don’t understand it either

Some guys like pretty feet, some a pretty face, some only settle for a pretty soul.

My love always prioritize me thank god. We have good communication

I love how she says the word creepy ❤

Many things in Filipino culture are strange to us too.

Being stared at by another man is creepy to me!

Filipinas are the actual kings of social media stalking, i had to set my friend list and certain details to private.

you say that about the staring, but my pinay GF starred at me for like 45 minutes almost, the first time we met, lol. Before even saying hi.

So just be cool

Very funny episode hahaha

Comedy gold.

I think men like to watch women to decide if he wants to know her. So the staring thing coming up on a creepy list could surprise some fellows who also might be the same ones walking around with the hands in their pockets.

I have my hands in my pockets almost all the time. 😂 It isn't creepy in the west. It's just a relaxed thing to do. Anyone who thinks it is creepy or pervy is revealing more about their own mind than they are reading the guy's. 🤣

It's funny with the eye contact thing because if you hold eye contact then you are creepy. However ... if you keep looking away she will get jealous and think you are looking at other Filipinas! Lose lose fellas! Welcome to dating Filipinas LOL!

My Filipina was in aww with me…..we will be celebrating our 1 yr together

When we step off the plane.....lol

In summary… Don’t do anything creepy in the Philippines/to Filipinas that would be labeled as creepy anywhere Lesson over

❤.

I was at a graduation ceremony in Danao and was stared at the whole time. Then again, I was the only white man there in the auditorium lol

Try not to be like Mr. Burns from the Simpsons.

3D world entertainment-All is truly well 🌺🌹🥀❤

I have lived in the Philippines since 1981. I'm no expert, womanizer, or drunkard. I have had several girlfriends but never married because I always felt like a Filipina was taking advantage of me. I run several successful businesses, but it takes up a lot of my free time. I am 67 years old but look around 50. I take care of myself unlike so many fat expats. I have found the best Filipinas are in church. Yes, some may laugh and say things like I don't believe in God. I'm not judging...just my advice. Walk around in the slum areas of the Big cities and you will be amazed at what you find.😊😊😊😊

I love you 🤎💜❤️

Do I sense that you're picking up a bit of Gary's accent? Those trailing R's are getting real soft...

For me if I chatted with someone for a long time and if I’m curious of what her feet look like it’s not a sexual thing for me. I wouldn’t ask for many foot pics because I don’t have a fetish but I chatted with a girl I liked and one of my turnoffs was she was young, like 18 but her feet looked like a old persons feet. So for me it’s just making sure so I don’t just waste many days of chatting and just dump her after I see discussing feet. So yeah not many creepy photos but I would say out of curiosity could I see your feet? I’ve never thought about it before her but I was shocked that her feet were so gross

You Weird 🇺🇸 I’m 6’5 They Were All Staring At Me.

5:10 Always ask TWICE ;) But be POLITE. A lot of women will automaticly say No, out of defensive mechanism. So relax, have sime calm conversations, see if vibe/flow naturally.... THEN ask. So 1 denial is not always the final. You are allowed to give a 2nd impression.... before asking again :) But never garass a lady. Be polite, and show that you are a good guy :) 5:48 ALL Women wants to be "chased". This video was ok, until this part;) Neber ever seen a girl who do not want to be sort of "chased". In the philippines there is even tradition of "wooing" the girl. All girls wants to feel special, to feel the guy is chasing her. BUT it is a very muddy/fine line between gentleman ronantic vs creepy stalkerish. So learn some SOCIAL skills first, so can evaluate when its appropriate etc. Wonen like being chased... if its from quality guy. And he does not give her creeper eeek vibes.

Wow... your subject on this video ...tells me that filipina are so picky on what they don't like and what they want . Explain to me why some filipinas always say that they are shy . But yet the get on facebook or instragram or other social idea and dance very provocative and sexy and skimpy dresses or shorts or panties but then they expect respect ? First they have to respect themselves to get respect .can you please answer that. Thank you

WHY are women so "uncomfortable" all the time? .......... sounds "creepy" to me.

Thought provoking stuff.......some points perhaps, could have been explained better. I'm sure most of those seeking a Ph wife etc, will know what is and isn't appropriate. Everyone is different...

Leah, That guy your sister was chatting with that requested a photo of her foot probably had a fetish for feet. It’s not bad, but, it does seem like a creepy request to make to someone you barely know. 😂

It seems like you have a lot of friends that make videos talking about the big banana and also wearing disrespectful booty shorts . What happens when the rolls reverse in the coffee shop or mall and fillapino woman are staring at foreigners acting shy to approach them. If your married it seems you wouldn't be good to give so many negative examples of foreigners. You forgot to mention that foreigners should only pay for their own meals and entertainment with the fillapino until shes comfortable with him. I think thats a fair deal. Also fillapino woman are very clinky,I just dont see where this video is going. Why dont you discuss the things a foreigner puts up with just to date a fillapino. Its too many smart and beautiful women in the world to think a foreigner must date only a fillapino. Also please speak about the baggage that comes along with trying to date a fillapino.

So basically we must act like we DON'T like her? Dont look, dont touch, dont look at her eyes, don't try to talk to her everyday/stalking. Ok I got it.

Tell me I'm wrong.

Lol...

Leah, some people have foot fetish. Like shape and smell of feet can make them turned on etc for example when they see bare feet of pretty girl, or nice feet in socks etc

Hmmm...so overall: Just treat her like you would (and should) any other person you meet...with common courtesy and respect. No new revelations or any earth-shattering.

I don’t have a foot thing going on but some men do. So if your LDR person wants a picture of your feet why not send it, especially if you don’t consider it a sexualized part of your body.

You talk about clingy! Filipinas are clingy not foreigners so much! LOL! I do not like to be touched by people I don’t know! Any guy who sends you banana pics should be reported and banned or blocked immediately. Never send your pics of private parts either, or any other strange requests. So, I agree with part of the video but find other parts very different from my experiences in PH!

American women go through the same things. Over here, women are getting more masculine and men are getting more feminine. 75% of us are overweight to obese. So i think you'll see these qualities a lot more often in American men.

It is sad that millions of guys need this video. The cultural ignorance is off the charts.

Sounds like a lot of beta male behaviours.

Do you find men that send women that they never met money weird?

Why do Filipinas that have these LDRs sleep with the man as soon as they get off the plane that day. They truly don’t know that person, I don’t care if they been talking online for 2 years. Before you see a person face to face y’all are not in a relationship.

Are we talking about Filipinas in general, or maybe just your likes and dislikes?

boring

Haha plenty of old pensioners butt hurt

Bet you’re single