Do you have low emotional intelligence? If you display any of these five things it might be a sign that you need to work on this area of your life! #life #success #emotionalintelligence #goals #improve #mentor #selfhelp #truth #wisdom
This isn’t emotional intelligence. They’ve taken responsibility, patience/control, and agreeableness and slammed a sticker on it. Stop listening to these fools
That's... Emotional intelligence. It's okay to categorise things. Believe it or not, some people don't have these traits. and why is it bad to slap a label on it?
@@I_the_Taco because it’s not real. There is no real metric for it. And every study is different and has different metrics for it. It’s essentially a smorgasbord of trendy therapy phrases. Then when “experts” talk on it, they are literally just talking about people with normal social skills. It’s bad because it has an ever changing meaning and for some it’s not even valuable. For example being empathetic is all great but what if someone doesn’t need more empathy but rather to be pushed out of their pity party and transcend to another level of personal growth through accountability? Emotional intelligence per it’s vague words dejour isn’t going to help them.
@@MLI0369 the reason why empathy typically accompanies EQ is because it involves deeply knowing your own emotions. EQ is when you can appropriately recognise, hence manage your emotions, which in forth means you can also recognise (empathise) and manage other peoples emotions. Theres alot of research and studies about it actually, its pretty nice to KNOW yourself and how you react and hence manage by coping in effective strategies. Ignoring your emotions dont make them go away, it lingers.
@@MLI0369I think you are conflating emotional intelligence for empathy. Empathy is just a part. Let’s continue down your line of reasoning and say that someone does need to have a serious reality check. It would only be possible for an emotionally intelligent person to get that point through to that person. You are absolutely correct when you say there is no real metric but not everything that has value to people can necessarily be quantified. Art is a perfect example of that. In many ways emotional intelligence like an art form. Is EQ necessary? No. Does it have practical value to everyday life in general? Absolutely. I think that’s a simpler way to measure whether if it’s even worth considering.
How come every time someone tells you that true happiness doesn't come from money, they always look financially stable? It's like theyve never heard of Maslow's hierarchy.
I actually learned in life that peoples action can lead you into a down word spiral sometimes its how you take those experiences to learn and grow but that won’t stop others for attacking you world has gotten to that point trick is to create your own space where you alone can have peace in this messed up world makes dealing with those people like dealing with a fly a nuisance but you can eventually get rid of them but it will take a risk but a worthy risk
It's called depression. Not low emotional intelligence. Plus i thought this was a thing that the smart people tell the dumb people that they have so they dont get sad about being dumb. Edit: was talking about specifically #3
You can be sad and still be emotionally intelligent. That falls under self-awareness where you can recognize your own emotions. Self-awareness/understanding falls under the emotional intelligence umbrella.
This is a Hodge podge of circumstances being forced under one umbrella. Seek God and all of this will be taken care of. Galatians 5:16-24 ESV But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, ...
I cannot control my emotions when it comes to love. The girl i love can easily control me. Is this enough to say that i have low eq? Thats probably only weakness i have how can i improve it
Great question. Just like anything, it takes work. The #1 thing I tell people is that the skillset of recognizing when you are displaying low EI is the first step to huge progress. Once you recognize it you can learn to calm your mind and to respond in a more productive manner. The book Emotional Intelligence 2.0 is fantastic for helping
Women in general have higher emotional intelligence than men, but the differences in emotional intelligence scores between men and women are not very big, though. If women ussually, reacts bad to your critics, might be due to the fact that your criticism doesn't have any good purpose. If you just call out mistakes, is not criticism is hate or bullying. The purpose of a critique is to help the person criticised to improve. Anyone can complain about issues, but only smart people can find solutions.
@@cristobal.palmero4919 Just because you might have no emotional intelligence, which would make you a psychopath, doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. Psychopaths have 0 emotional intelligence, therefore they can commit crimes. You are either unaware of your level of emotional intelligence or you really have no emotional intelligence which makes you a psychopath. Any kind of relationships that you form and keep in your life is based on your level of emotional intelligence. Whether is professional, family, friends, or relationships with authorities, respecting the law, and so on, all these requires emotional intelligence.
@@cristobal.palmero4919 emotion is not opposite to intelligence it is a subset of intelligence. If there were no need for it than humans wouldn’t have evolved (or been created) to have them. The very existence proves they serve some purposes.
