Just left the gym and I must say, it’s the older black women, young Asian/Indian and white chicks who be looking real good. Too many black women are depending on just having curves to get them around.
That's on us the guys accepting anything with a pussy on it. If we raise our standards, they will raise theirs. Conversely, we gotta get tight in mind and body as well.
Speaking from experience as a woman that has been very physically active for more than three decades, fit women have a higher frequency; more mental clarity and are better organized. looking great naked is just a bonus.
Women need to begin looking at fitness as a means to prevent obesity rather than treat it. It's so much easier to make working out part of your lifestyle before your weight gets out of control than to start once damage has been done.
I am 20 and my girl is 19 she's very fit and in shape and I push her to be that way. We live in Texas and there are no black women in the gym she's the only one. Black women don't think they need the gym because simps praise their thickness "fat stomachs" thick ass waist which looks silly as hell. The best lookin women are in the gym and that's facts.
I work in a gym in a predominately black neighborhood. I'm happy to say that I see alot of black women and men coming to the gym (I'd say it's about 52% men 48% women), but at the same time the ones canceling their membership at a higher rate black women. I try so hard to get them to reconsider, but most of them are simply don not want to pay 10-20$ for a membership. Me I'm getting my membership for free, I'm not playing around. I got goals health and fitness is apart of that.
Because I'm an old school Brooklyn house-head and have been banging in all kinds of gyms since my teens I've always been around earthy athletic and sexy black women. Never had a problem finding or attracting them. Also throughout my life I've mainly done the upscale clubs and various cultural events. The top notch sistaz are doing all sorts of activities so I suggest some of the brothas start expanding their horizons.
True. Men have to go beyond the plantation of the local hood nightclub. That's like fishing in a polluted river. The world is definitely so much bigger.
I do see your point Rom. In my local community when I see sisters in the gym it looks like they are not putting in any work or the intensity is not there. For example, I see white, Hispanic and Asian women put in a lot of work in the gym. I do give sisters credit for wanting to at least be there. It's a start in the right direction
Broseph at my gym in NC there are like 2 black chicks that bust it out hard but other than that it's like trying to find vampires in a garlic factory....nonexistent but yes sir the white chicks of course are in there and starting to see more Latina chicks.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been out w/ my daughters and had an alpha male inquire about my workout routine. Men are intrigued w/ sisters who are in shape. Particularly when your head is on straight and you have your shit together.
We have to change our mentality towards health we have to approach health and fitness with same vigor that we attack that 10 PC box from Popeyes or Harold’s I’m from chi lol but seriously not only that we have to stop being afraid of the doctor too and dentist we wait til we real sick or coughing up our lungs before we go to gym excellent video sir
This video just scrolled up on my suggested videos. Great points Mr. Wills. I find myself agreeing with a lot of your videos. I'll say this, as a fit 39 year old black woman with a banging body... Guys, men of ALL races come at us all the time. So make sure you come correct too. Get in the gym, take care of yourself, take care of your health, be about that LIFESTYLE too. They always say like attract like unto itself. Oh, and when you see us in the gym... Come on over and don't be shy. Say hi, we don't bite lol.
Appreciate you saying that. I see women in the gym and most of the time, I'm debating whether I should say something. I guess it depends on if she appears open or closed off.
Yep. Younger women look like they're in shape simply because they're young, and the metabolism hasn't slowed yet (usually in the mid-20's). But because they don't have good habits now, once the body starts to naturally put on weight they can't stop it. They're unlikely to START good habits later. They'll just hop on the fat-acceptance "I'm beautiful at any size" movement. And because they're enough guys out there that'll still smash, they'll falsely think they're actually desirable.
I got a gym membership in a predominantly black low income part of town here in Birmingham Alabama. I actually find a lot of the middle to upper middle-class black women go to this gym and I don't see too many ratchets. If I do they stick out like a sore thumb. My point is, you have to go where they are even if that means moving or finding another gym to go to. They're out there, you just got to find out where the classy black women workout. Great video Rom.
Great upload Professor Rom! Brothers absolutely need to leave these fat (thick, curvy, big boned, etc) women alone. If you are a man trying to get into better shape or just live healthy, the last thing you need is any of the above. Women like those are very negative toward any self-improvement, because all they want is attention. Find a woman that's also into a healthy journey of her own. She may or may not be black, but whatever color she is, the chances that she will actually be in accord with you and your health goals will be much higher. You living a healthy lifestyle and Shenequa's deep fried, junk food lifestyle is not compatible and will be the catalyst for lot of trouble in a relationship.
This is gold! Gyms are an awesome place to meet great, quality women. But like you say you gotta be in the gym to get at least a look. Hell if it even matters that along with a good diet helps in the bedroom too lol. I remember I live in Nashville it was thick chocolate sister, toned, fit, cute, with dreads and had a phat round booty. She stayed in the gym and everyone including white guys were salivating. Tried but she wasn't going lol.
Once I started getting back into the gym heavy, I started to realize I love women who are nice and fit. For the longest I would only go after females who were “thick”(obese by white society standards). That being the case, I can’t find Black females who are fit and keep their body in shape like these other girls (Whites,Mexicans,Asian)
Rom I understand what you are saying bro..but out here in Connecticut a fit black woman that isn't ratchet with a cute face is VERY RARE. and if you ever see those chicks then are wifed up already.
Rom, you are so right. Just wish more sistas were in the gym. Can't deal with the weather girls! Love BW too much to let them be comfortable when I'm never satisfied with where I am. Always stepping up my game and staying on point!
If you were any kind of athlete growing up, in high school, in college, etc, you pretty much already know how to either get in stay or stay in shape. It just gotta be more of a priority. I enjoy being in shape. I feel that's one area in my life that I got down pat.
Uncle Rom i talk to all women only to improve on ma social skills.when it comes to checking the sisters out,the one's whom i find unattractive,are indeed invisible.
I go biking twice a week about 10-15 miles. What I don't see are black women. I see them once or twice a month mostly couples. I see a lot of white people though and hispanics. I have tried suggesting it to some sisters and they respond with "oh you calling me fat!!!!??" Lol
There's a geographic component to this. I live in the deep south, Louisiana, my former gym was in the middle of a Black area yet in still the gym was filled with Black men and White folks. Sisters were barely in there. The Baltimore, DC area is full of non-ratchet, fit Black women. I think culturally in the deep south outside of Atlanta, Houston, and Dallas, most Black women simply don't workout. I'm moving out of Louisiana in a few months.
Im from lousyana too. Im in the same boat. Ive been in an out of gyms for years in the new Orleans area i can count the times on 1 hand how many sisters been in the gym while im there.
Ornell, I'm in Baton Rouge. I used to work out at the YMCA locations here and even the location near Southern University you will find very few young Black women let alone ones who are in shape. That location near Southern University is frequented by mostly retirees. Now, since I'm working at LSU I can workout there for free.
This video is all facts! I've maintained a fit lifestyle since I was 7 when my mom and dad got me and my brothers involved in it. I have had brothers tell me all kinds of things to discourage me from working out and it's sad.
The northern and southern burbs of Chicago is where you'll find some fit black women BUT they also are known for settling for a provider Beta male type early on (early to mid 20s )which leads them too be divorced by 35 and or cheating on there beta provider type of male throughout the relationship/marriage very expensive suburbs....easily finessed women due to lack of dating experience for a true finesser lol....dont let a job title of 'assistant associate co director' intimidate you cuz most black woman won't out earn a gainfully employed male.....
I'm in the Bay and I get surprised to see any black women in my gym. There aren't as many black folks in my area but you will see more brothas. It ain't even close. I'm actually trying to get my weight up as I'm more of the slim athletic type. I noticed women respect athletic men even if you aren't buffed out. The best thing a man can do is focus on building himself and cut out the drama. Women will find you when YOU find YOU.
Well I do workout at home and see results the main reason why is to do this for me, not public notice. Yet at still have had men show interest in me while fat.
Sorry, I know alot sisters in the gym go for brothers, but I am always cautious about the "swirlers". I'd say watch out for the ones who obsess about their body too much. But you're right, Rom don't focus on the negative aspects. I am not a fan, but even a man like Tommy Sotomayor has a thing for fit sistas and he bangs em. If he can get fit and submissive black women by just thinking about them, so can we.
