I discovered you a week ago and you have been a GOD SENT GIFT to me; I'm sure countless people here agree to this. Thank you for being you and for caring enough for us . May God Bless and your family
Yes it is God's will for Christians to get married. We need to trust God that He will bring the right Christian man at the right time. There seems to be a shortage of them
My circumstance sucks, so everytime I look at it I feel down. Trying to shift my focus on God cuz he can change anything anytime no matter how hopeless it looks.
God bless you so much..kindly remember me in prayers..for God to connect me with my kingdom spouse..am 35 single never married no children..i believe in the scriptures that my body is the holy temple of the Lord..i therefore trust and believe..that God will direct my steps to the one he chose for me..in Jesus name..
Hi Rashima, thank you for watching and for your comment. I pray that God will guide you regarding your desire for marriage for you and your daughter. Merry Xmas and God bless
Hey Everyone! hope you are all keeping well 😊 I Hope you found this helpful and encouraging .Do you struggle to believe it's God's will for you to marry? If you feel comfortable sharing please comment below why you struggle to believe God wants you married. God bless & HAPPY THANKSGIVING to those who are celebrating it next week!💖
Wow. Excellent question. I thought that the olde I got I wouldn’t be as beautiful to my Kingdom husband; in addition I made so many mistakes and struggled seeing God’s love for me. I thought I would get married a long time ago and tried to force relationships that were not right for me. I am looking at Jesus now more and more.🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️
It's because, an evangelist, a man of God so called, prophesied over me saying that there is no marriage in my life. But after talking to him about a few candidates in church, he changed his mind and told me that I could go ahead. So, I was abit confused then, as if God is fickle minded? That issue was addressed by the pastors. But, I am 45 this year and am still single, and not dating. Hence the doubt. I shall doubt no more! As God's promises are always "yes" and "amen"!! Thank you!
After experiencing separation & divorce of a 20 year relationship, I was broken but allowed God to heal me. During the beginning of my season of singleness, I felt guilt & shame & doubted that God desired for me to remarry - I felt unworthy. As He healed me & I focus on wholeness(fully being who He called me to be), I now believe that it is His will for me to remarry. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom, encouragement, & guidance. Your ministry is truly a blessing.
Hi there, thanks for your words of wisdom. I turn 45 in a couple of weeks. At the end of the year, it gets hard as another year goes by and I am still single. I really struggle not understanding why the blessing has been delayed and I look around and see soo many friends married. Some of them married 2x and I can't get one opportunity. So I doubt God's promises because I don't know how it will all work itself out given my age and my desire to have children with very little opportunities to date men who are compatible.
Hi Annette, thank you for watching and for your heartfelt comment. I know that it must be difficult holding on to your faith when nothing seems to be happening and you wonder if your desires for marriage and children will ever be fulfilled. There is a passage of scripture that I’d like to share ‘cast your cares (worries, fears, anxieties, concerns etc) on God for he cares for you lovingly and he cares for you watchfully’. You may not know how it will all work itself out BUT God knows. He knows exactly what needs to be done for you to marry the man he has chosen for and for you to be the mother he has destined you to be. Trust him to take care of everything. I know it isn’t easy when you look at your situation but nothing is too hard for God. God doesn’t want you in a bad marriage. Look for scriptures concerning God’s promises on marriage as well as examples of God’s miraculous work. Meditate on those scriptures even if its 1 a day. When you feel anxious about the situation cast all your anxieties and worries on him. Keep reminding yourself that he cares for you, he cares about your desire for marriage. God is faithful and you can trust him to keep his promises. It is well. God bless & take care
@@funkechristian203 thank you so very much for taking the time to write such heartfelt words of encouragement, it is greatly appreciated. May God bless you for your willingness to serve 🙏🏽💖
@@chuppets77able Hi there, yes indeed I have a testimony to share. I did share this with Funke but forgot I posted on RU-vid as well. In March 2021 I reconnected with my ex-boyfriend. At first it was just casual as I was starting up my ice cream business and wanted some taste testers. Maybe it was the ice cream but he was soo emotional from seeing me. He asked if he could call me and I said yes. He never called and I never thought much of it. He then texted a month later to apologize because he had to make sure that he was intentional and did not want to mess with my feelings. He asked if I would be open to dating, we went on a date and he laid everything out regarding what I wanted in terms of marriage and children. We started dating in April, got engaged in August and were married Oct.9, 2021, so we just recently celebrated our first wedding anniversary. Yes God is faithful. He's answered my prayers abouts buying an apartment, blessing me with a husband. Now I am praying to be blessed to bare a child in my old age. Each experience helps to ground me in my faith, it's not perfect but it's always present.
Thank you for giving me hope for marriage and helping us believe that God is remains faithful in every season. And that He’s faithful to bless us with the desire of our hearts. May the Lord bless your ministry to reach many more people.
I met a man in a hostel two weeks ago because I got the wrong phone charger from home, so I had to borrow the correct phone charger from the hostel for my phone.I went to the lounge to charge my phone.I ended up chatting to this man who happened to be there.I really enjoyed my chat with this man.We happened to talk about various topics.He seems to be a man who holds some really good values,and a potential family man if he ever gets married.He had two relationships before,and he was upset it didn't last to the end.He is not a Christian but he believes there is a God in this world,but people not necessarily having to attend church.I really like him to be honest,and I did talk about myself being a Christian brliefly with him.I don't have his contact or anything but somehow I did pray for his salvation and wish if God allows,I may see this man again.Don't know why it feels like this man knows and understands me well even it was just the first time we met.I have been single for a few years,and kind of being okay with it and learning to take it easy.I really like this man though(we seems to share similar life values in different things),but I guess there is no much I can do except pray about it or just let it go.
Hi Brenda, thank you for sharing this. You are doing the best and most effective thing you can do which is to pray. Nothing is too hard for God, keep praying for his salvation. If this man is part of God's plan for you God will do it. God bless & take care
LOVE your videos sis! I stumbled across your channel a little over a week ago and been listening to you every day 👏🏽👏🏽 Thank you for allowing GOD to use you to deliver a message that us singles (not for long) need to hear ! 🤗🤗
"none of us becomes a born again Christian to fight the devil" 🤣 so true. This video has been such a blessing to me. Was in tears earlier this week trying to believe God's will for me. Thank you so much - so on time and encouraging.
I am so scared, all my friends are married and I am still single. I almost thirty and I used online apps because I never meet men in my daily life. I am not in to partying and get a bit tired of dating by apps. Years back men asked you out in public.💗💗
Hi Lisa, thanks for watching and for your honest comment. Don't be dicouragraged or worried. It is never too late with God. If you haven't already watched my videos on building intimacy with God, preparing for Godly marriage as well as my video for discouraged singles then please watch them you may find them helpful. take care & God bless 💖
Hi Simone, thank you for watching and for your comment. I'm glad you found the videos helpful as God does desire marriage for those that believers that desire it. God bless & take care
I’m struggling with the whole concept of Its Gods will for us to be married but some people who desire to get married never are married. That’s discouraging to me :(
Hi Anna, thanks you for watching and for your honest comment. I also thought about this when I was single. It is true that not everyone who desires marriage will get married but this is not because God has changed his mind or because he doesn't keep his promises. In the Bible in many scriptures, we see that God is a promise keeping God and he does not lie. As Christians we have a part to play in receiving from God; building a deep relationship with God in Christ, repenting when we sin, building our faith to receive from God (this is very important - because the Bible tells us that we receive from God by faith), waiting on God patiently and trusting in God alone. We won’t always know why some people seem to do everything that is needed but still don’t get married but we can be sure it’s not because God changes his mind in some way. When I was single and was worried about this, I would remind myself to trust in God and in his faithfulness. if you haven't already you can watch my video for christian singles who have given up hope of ever getting married ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ecxjSJHsiJ0.html and how to build intimacy with God ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TPQOQPblNPo.html I hope this helps. God bless & take care
Thank you. Was a bit down, but all things work out for our good. Hard to be patient, but this builds our strength in God. Sending love and blessings for this lovely word. Take Care.
HI Joanne, thank you for watching and for your comment. I'm glad you found the video encouraging. I know that the wait can be hard but God is faithful and he is able. God bless & take care
I desire marriage but never got married. I am one of those people who wants to be married but God never blessed me with marriage. I think he doesn't love me or hear my prayer's. I don't know what to do.
Thank you precious sister in Christ. I love someone very much. I decree marriage with my love, in Jesus name. My hope is in God’s will to make us strong and lovely in our marriage each day, for each other. Your words are healing and your tenderness in understanding is heartfelt. Thank you.
Hi Bizzcuits and Honey, thank you for watching and for your lovely comment. I appreciate it! God desires us to be in blessed marriages so trust him to help you and guide you, he wants the best for you. God bless & take care
I really believe that God can bless me with a marriage, but I have a strong thinking that I DONT DO NOTHING to receive it, in mind it is my fault, I not yet got it. Sometimes I also think that I might not get it because I can not change myself.
Hi Flavia, thanks for watching and for your comment. I hope the video helped you see that you don't have to do anything to earn blessings from God because Jesus has already done everyhthing that needs to be done. God still blesses us even though we are not perfect and we make mistakes. God bless & take care
Hi Michal, thanks for your comment. I know that sometimes it can be hard to know how to get to know God better. Devotionals or bible reading plans can really help you to read the bible and understand what you are reading. I have a post on instagram for devotionals i recommend. here is the link : instagram.com/p/CLuQi3Crn0o/ I also recommend reading good christian books which will also help to explain the bible better. i have just done a video on highly recommended books for singles. here is the link ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-vw2sMDk98qY.html. Reading the bible is very important and these should help you understand it better. I hope this helps. God bless & take care
Hi Grace, thanks for watching. I did share some pictures on my IG stories a while back. I will do something again though. Thanks. Take care & God bless
Just found your channel. What a blessing! Been watching your videos from the start and been so blessed and encouraged! You look amazing 🤩 Can you also pls share your fitness tips as well in your upcoming videos. Thanks a lot ☺️
Hi Mimi, thanks for watching and for your lovely comment. Glad you found the video helpful. Thanks for the request, i will definitely do a video on that soon. Take care & God bless.
No I will never be married. It's my choice. I just don't want this state. I struggled for years until I gave up. And once I did that I learned that I actually want to be unmarried. So I am!
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted. Lord bless me a good man for my dreams in 2021. AMEN 🙏
I have a question in relation to the teaching why is it that some people who seek God's guidance for marriage , believe, pray and entirely avail themselves to God still end up not being able to find a suitable person for marriage ?? Like it has been said time and again, "not every one was meant to get married!!" what is your say on this? God bless you amazing woman of God.
Alice Nahayo . I feel that God won't bring a husband/wife to us if he sees we may derail that person in anyway. So I think we have to ask if we are ready to be married in earnest . Our definition of ready may be different to God's. You can't push God up a hill. If he brings it to pass in the nursing home its still his timing.
Hi Alice, thanks you for watching and for your comment. I also thought about this when I was single. It is true that not everyone who desires marriage will get married but this is not because God has changed his mind or because he doesn't keep his promises or because marriage is not his will for them. In the Bible we see that God is a promise keeping God and he does not lie. As Christians we have a part to play in receiving from God; living Godly lives, repenting when we sin, building our faith to receive from God (this is important), waiting on God patiently and trusting in God alone. We won’t always know the reason why some people who desire marriage don’t get married but we can be sure it’s not because God changes his mind in some way. When I was single and was worried about this, I would remind myself to trust in God and in his faithfulness. I hope this helps. God bless & take care
Just had a feeling about caring for someone from a distance. And these feelings aren't familiar to me. In the past, I've been infatuated with the idea of being in a relationship. But this time, I genuinely care and miss this person. I talked to God about this. What is this feeling that I'm feeling?
Hi Ashley, thank you for watching and for your comment and question. Only God can reveal to you fully what these feelings mean. You are definitley doing the right thing by seeking God on it. Continue to seek God and don't act on anything until you are sure. The good news is that as the bible says God is not the author of confusion so if he is revealing something to you he will ensure that you understand it fully so you can do your part. God bless and take care
Do u have an answer for christians who strugle with anger and frustration because God didn't fufill this desire in there lives? How would u advice someone who carries a lot of inner anger and frustration and also who doesn't trusts God anymore that will answer to this desire/ request of being married?
Hi AS, thank you for watching and taking the time to leave a comment. My advice would be: yes, not everyone, even those that desire it, will get married but that is not because God does not want marriage for them. God created marriage and said it was a good thing to find a wife. And the Bible tells us that God will withhold no good thing from us. I know it’s difficult but please do not go by how long you’ve waited and how old you are etc instead go by what the bible says, that God will never change his mind, he will not fail you or forsake you and that nothing is too hard for him and that he will grant you the desires of your heart. I don’t know why the wait has been so long…but don’t give up because God is more than able. Be encouraged and don’t stop believing God for marriage, ask him to guide you and reveal things to you. I have a video titled for Christian single women worried they won’t get married here is the link ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gE2XiD-VTQs.html. Please watch it when you get the chance. I think you will find it helpful. Thanks again for the comment and I hope this has been of help. God bless and take care.
Its interesting I have been born again from 23 and I am still single at 45. So whereas you endured 5 years of singleness i Have endured 22 years of singleness. I will never have children. Even if i do get married it will be sort of like getting second hand clothing. Receiving scraps.
Hi Freda, thanks for watching and for your request. I plan to do a video on meditating on the word of God. I also talk about meditation in my video Dealingh with fear and anxiety in difficult times ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-fiDfJ6hlVXg.html. God bless & take care
