Tetrahedral structure. - Settle your kids with great education - Settle your wife by making herself sufficient - Settle yourself by having investments that can protect and provide for you in your moonlight years without relying on your kids
This is all facts. I watched my mom work her whole life and never invest her money. She avoided conversations about retirement and money. Now she’s older, became sick and was forced to sell her home…she lives with my sister now. People need to learn about money, and keep learning, and start investing now!!!! The time is passing fast. You look up one day and you’re 40. Also take care of yourself while you’re earning/investing. Exercise often, eat well, drink water, take your medication, go to doctor/dentist/optometrist once a year, sleep 7-8 hours a night and take your vacations.
Kindly don’t marry somebody’s daughter sir. Create ur own woman nd put ur seeds there. And if u happen to have daughters think abt that man that is thinking like you think in her life. Selfish and Wicked generation!
Dr Apoki, It is an honor to comment on your offering of knowledge, experience and wisdom. I am in the US . I’m the son of a career criminal who died in prison. I grew up dirt poor and I too married early. Today I am 58 and have been married 38 years. I raised my children and the youngest is a medical doctor. I appreciate your gift of serious esoteric, worldly and spiritual guidance. I am the descendant of Africas in West Africa but I do not know my tribe or village thus a bit of my being is lost. Please be encouraged and continue your messages because across the ocean and world they are being received. Blessings.
Go and acquire skills. No man has an excuse not to fight for his welfare and wellbeing today. Do hardwork and know you won't remain in that same position forever
I agree with you to an extent but there's a culture trending in the present generation. Lack of patience and no interest in pursuing skills other than western education. They want to rush to the top in a short space of time. Sometimes I wish they can ban all those entertainment social media to force them to reality.
I like this message. Any man thinking that his children will take care of all the cares about him at his old age should think again. The children will have their problems to deal with. Settle yourself before old age.
Unfortunately, many of us modern men don't present our women with responsibilities, but romance and entertainment. In the long run, the man becomes a mule laden with financial burden. It's always too late to know it and almost impossible to rectify.
If you ask them to pick up bills in the house, you start hearing that's misogyny. That that isn't the type of equality they asked for, and that if you were a "real" man, you'd be taking responsibility for everything and not allowing them to do anything at all. Then they come online and cry asking where the "real" men are
Happiness is from god and so is wealth and financial intelligence, if you’re miserable and have money you’ll be more miserable, if you’re godly and happy while broke; with money you’ll be more godly and happy. Abraham was wealthy and left inheritances for Isaac and Jacob. He even invested in land to bury his wife.
I completed 30 years old this year, and i passed the bar association exam(lawyer) here in my country mozambique , i need take my life very serious after i heard your video i know that im able to reach my potencial, only problem i have now i dont have a mentor that can help me to reach that level..
Plain truth,thank you Dr Charles Apoki.I see old men who were top bankers struggling.The ones who prepared are living comfortably. Once again let's keep the channel hitting a million subscribers now now 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@emily_gemify123 My wife is a rich and fulfilled independent woman proudly married to me for 39 years. She is so independent very few women enjoy the liberty she has.
@@1anre She has nothing to say because she did not watch the video to the end. She must have seen the recent video of my wife and I. You know out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Every comment reflects the content of the speaker. Please forgive her 😂😂😂
Dr., Thanks for all your teachings. The family rules are not the same. Unlike you, I'm first in my family, all my juniors of a man and two ladies, are dead. I trained myself in universities to two masters degrees. I'm married with three boys and one girl. All these details are background study. Your wife must be very submissive. Before I married I had 12 buses doing transport business. My intention was to go into real estate later. I was a civil servant and also my wife. I had a shop where I stay until late in the night. I instructed my wife to bank money rendered by the drivers. She did not do that. She rather kept the money under bed where her brothers and sisters were using them to enjoy themselves. That was how my future got ruined. She is the type that would want to show off without any streams of incomes. All what I'm saying is that the race is not for the swift, ... time and chances happen to them all.
Avoid social media, scrolling 247, reading comments and jumping through blog pages. IG, FB and tiktok will drain ur energy.. Hit the gym, be physically active, avoid porn or anything near it. In less than 1 month, you will feel different
A day doesn't go by without me listening to Dr apoki,sir you are my role model and I will love to work with you in the future to come. Keep pushing and educating we the young ones
I think is wrong to say all this without appreciating the wife, cos there would have been a breach no matter how intelligent you plan. It all came to success because your wife was also a good woman thank you
You are speaking all this because there's no spiritual force distorting your plans or your destiny. Many planned but because there are foundational principalities holding them back they couldn't achieve their goals. Sometimes in life we have to look from different angles, what worked for you may not work for the other person
I do not know if you have a video on this topic but I wish you would touch on it. How to not be trapped in family issues as a young man. I saw a video that talked about avoiding the desire to be a family hero and I feel you will do better justice to this. Thank you!
Hi, I read your post and thought I should recommend a video from another knowledgable man of God. Black Tax from Apostle Femi Lazarus, I hope it helps. You are welcome.
Yes Sir🙏🏽🧘🏾♂️🙏🏽 Settle with obedience a blessing always follows .Eliminate distractions, negative people, places, and things that block our blessings Settle home A lot of boundaries that we're missing are the boundaries that we need with ourselves, around how we operate in our (The most important thing is how you feel and think about yourself purposefully focusing on goals and dreams to help sell your family in the right direction ✅relationships with other people, and how we operate in our relationship with ourselves."peace of mind all else will follow. Use boundaries on yourself and eliminate distractions, confusion, chaos negative people, places, and things that will block your blessings .peace of mind From boundaries are for your well being and healthy relationships from parasites.Yes.protect yourself Positive mental health =Boundaries on yourself discipline and emotional self control protects freedom peace of mind Stops negativity’s from blocking your blessings 🤨With peace of mind all else follows 🙏🏽 we're missing are the boundaries that we need with ourselves, around how we operate in our relationships with other people, and how we operate in our relationship with ourselves."😊
Some parents (fathers) give birth to first borns and have it in their minds that the first born will come and take care of the rest of the siblings. Unwanted stress. Some parents don't qualify to be parents
I can see that our priorities in this world is different, what are u going to gain in the end sacrifisen all ur life settling ppl why not just make it easy enjoy ur life and settle ur self simple carrying all this bagages of kids n wife which will end up unfinish chasing of wealth which in the will left u as the man alone bcos all of them will b with their family and far away in europe or america. What do u gain as a man? Service society n feeding ur ego🤔 "oh my childrens are abroad while old age u are mostlikely to be alone. Guys life is short enjoy wat u can n avoide too much of burden b simple as a minimalist bcos all this this things he said if u follow it u aint gonna enjoy ur youth n dats all u have or u wanna sacrofise all ur life for ppl till u grow old, think about it.
You are right but its only valuable for a man who want to live long and old. Some people only want to live fast and with a lot of adventures and die at an early age. I mean its important to explain the difference. I personally have no interest to reach your age but I totally understand your point
@@80zplug Im not suicidal, I enjoy life. I just don’t feel the need to live long because its a boring cycle repeating itself. Im not really into materialistic stuff like have a family, have a house, have a job so I don’t need to prepare for these things. Im living in the present and ready to go at any moment. I totally respect what this man i saying but its his truth not the same for everybody.
Wow. What I am learning from Dr Apoki , I did not learn most of them from my own father and all education I have had over the years. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us all.
This man is an embodiment of practical wisdom. Thank you Sir. My opinion is that for some people who couldnt start family early, you can set up account with insurances in the name of those children so that their education is secured all through weather you are there or not. Such insurance also has the capacity to pay you some level of interest depending on your capital and duration. Thank you Doc.
Me, i have this already in my 20years plan. I read over 100 books outside academics in 1 year during my nysc year. Atleast, live a good and comfortable life
I'm in Benin republik, i just find your youtube. God bless you. Health Health and Health for what you are doing. I will plan to visiting you in your farm by sur.
I wish i watched many of your Videos in the last 10years. I have learnt many wisdom and lessons of life from you that need rapid adjustment. Thank You Sir for your word of Wisdom!
I live in Australia. The elders here give very bad advice because the times were very good to them. Things have changed. It is harder for younger people in Australia to be truely successful in comparison with boomers.
I love you Dr Charles I'm from Sierra Leone I really like you wisdom towards we the young folks Just advice sir I want to connect with your seminars Please
Thank you Dr. Apoki for your words for wisdom. I am a 23 year old young man in the United States who has lost his way in life since teenage years. I grew up in a single mother household without close connection to my father & I am now realizing the effects of this since hitting my adolescent years during my transition to independent manhood. Your words are a helpful guidance to me in finding a way to build a respectable life for myself and I hope that you continue to spread your wisdom. You are doing a great thing! God bless you sir.
Daddy Dr. Charles Apoki, Thank you immensely for sharing your wisdom with us. I did listen to you from Cameroon and I am grateful. My God the Almighty continue to bless you as you bless others with your wisdom and more.
Thank God that your culture still has submissive women that listen to their husbands in respect and understanding so that you can settle yourself and everyone in your family, from Trinidad and Tobago Repect 👍🏽
Back in the early 2000s there was a McDonald’s commercial where father was taking his daughters out to get a happy meal with his wife and he was asking them what makes them happy and they said something about chicken nuggets or cheap plastic toys but then when they asked the father what makes him happy he said, making my girls happy. For whatever reason I always remember that commercial.
Wow i cant thank you enough sir for this message God bless you sir... But for me i live abroad with my wife we both are working but our income is not enough to accommodate our children they are back in africa with my mum please sir i need your advice on how to put my immediate family together please sir advice me please thank you
May the Lord help you, keep hustling hard, you and your wife and the Lord would open the flood gates of heaven upon your labours….Pls keep praying and studying the scriptures, and the Lord will bring you and your children together.
All these are possible for you because you came from a well-to-do family sir. Many don't have the pedestal to start early like yours sir. There is no one size fit it all sir. Things happen to people that they spend years trying to even get their finances stabilized
Young people say the opportunity back then was good, but now young people can't even eat , yes, that might be true wait until you are old, then what. No excuses.
Much respect ✊ however I want to know at that early age how can young men in Africa do all you’re saying? Where did you get your start up finance from????
I saved like a slave trying to buy his freedom. I did several jobs and I took a small loan from a bank. Frugality and the principle of gradualism and focus are key to becoming a ghetto millionaire.
Zip up, another bomb is forget African men are polygamous nonsense, many men have lost so much money because they sleep around. Self control is another key.
