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@ladytea697
@ladytea697 7 месяцев назад
This guy is 100% guilty. He conned you. Sold you a dream. Its easy to be the best boyfriend ever when you’re stuck in prison. If he ever did get out, he’d turn into a completely different guy. Watch Love After Lockup😂 Stop wasting your life.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
I’ve lived it. Mine was a master manipulator. I was 17.
@ladytea697
@ladytea697 7 месяцев назад
@@Mysterious_Moon You were 17 though. That’s understandable. This chick is 38 years old. Just goes to show a master’s degree can’t buy a person common sense.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
@@ladytea697I didn’t have an excuse. I stayed and married, until I was 30. Point being, I realized time and my efforts didn’t change who he was or his situation. Someone who would lie, cheat, steal to benefit himself. I learned that once in jail, they become a different breed.
@kimberlysmith7625
@kimberlysmith7625 7 месяцев назад
She should also watch RU-vid channels dedicated to parole hearings of sex offenders. They are skilled manipulators and liars bc that's what works for them....to get what they want.
@mw6346
@mw6346 7 месяцев назад
I watched a coworker marry an inmate and you are completely correct. Once he was released he cheated and was gone in less than a year. She had to pick the pieces back up and begin again.
@soothinggentlesounds
@soothinggentlesounds 7 месяцев назад
She's channeling her energy into proving her boyfriend isn't guilty instead of living her life. She'll look back at this time frame with regret when she's older.
@RoseWater20
@RoseWater20 7 месяцев назад
I hope she sees this comment. This is for her now and future self.
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 7 месяцев назад
For god sakes he isn't her boyfriend, he is some criminal in jail that charmed her into believing he is not guilty and fulfilling his own needs!
@kaglaw
@kaglaw 7 месяцев назад
@@bettysmith4527 and guaranteed, she is paying his legal bills.
@JustinCase780
@JustinCase780 7 месяцев назад
She spent *years* getting involved in his case with a lawyer trying to make his/her career and it was denied in the courts. The guy has zero to lose playing her. Sad pathetic story.
@TonyCox1351
@TonyCox1351 7 месяцев назад
@@bettysmith4527yeah this guy is literally just some child toucher, reaching out from prison to lonely overweight women. He’s probably got 2 or 3 other ones putting money on his books
@alyssapowelltate4000
@alyssapowelltate4000 7 месяцев назад
I’ve worked in a prison. Women fall for it. All. The. Time. There’s inmates with 3-5 different women writing to them, thinking they’re exclusively dating. The women send them money and try to work on their legal cases. It’s CRAZY what these diagnosed psychopaths get away with manipulating women… Oh and inmates aren’t given internet or cellphones, but they’re smuggled in by dirty staff and visitors all the time.
@NvrDieNvrSurrender
@NvrDieNvrSurrender 7 месяцев назад
I worked in a jail sis for almost a decade and my comment is exactly this!
@VS-fo9py
@VS-fo9py 7 месяцев назад
I hope the caller reads these comments, and opens her eyes.
@ConnieFoster1
@ConnieFoster1 7 месяцев назад
I've heard similar things. Inmates are master manipulators and these women want someone to 'save'
@elfascisto6549
@elfascisto6549 7 месяцев назад
​@@VS-fo9py me too
@ES-7766
@ES-7766 7 месяцев назад
Some women just have bad taste in men. They are their own worst enemy. Love yourself first.
@_Coe
@_Coe 7 месяцев назад
It’s very interesting that she says she wants a child the most out of life. But she’s chosen a man in a situation that can’t get her pregnant. And is accused of hurting children. Very strange contrast there.
@slaviapolandia7541
@slaviapolandia7541 6 месяцев назад
great observation
@bakedbeans9546
@bakedbeans9546 6 месяцев назад
Exactly. I hope she never has children, it's women like this who allow their children to get abused. The fact she thinks a convicted pedophile is innocent is just WILD, it takes a lot of evidence to secure a molestation conviction.
@caterapullett6235
@caterapullett6235 6 месяцев назад
I could not have put this better it's a little scary 😟
@eleonora6980
@eleonora6980 5 месяцев назад
Who choosing to artificially inseminate is selfish as well. Shes bringing a child into this world without a second parent intentionally.
@alanarama
@alanarama 5 месяцев назад
Plenty of kids with no parents that were born the "right way" plenty of kids whos parents abandon them. It doesn't hurt in the same way if you're just lacking a parent it's being rejected by one, that does the damage. ​@@eleonora6980
@seasoning7
@seasoning7 7 месяцев назад
Meeting someone online, falling in love and thinking they’re “the one” in less than 3 months all without meeting them once in person? She got catfished and is choosing to roll with it. 🤷‍♀️
@boston312
@boston312 6 месяцев назад
most of the time its lonely gullible men being catfished by a Filipina overseas. The few times ive seen it happen to women is when the woman is well past her prime and she is very desperate to settle down
@coolkidvt01
@coolkidvt01 6 месяцев назад
Delulu
@lucilleyoung4744
@lucilleyoung4744 5 месяцев назад
Why do women make such a big deal about wanting to have children, not everyone should or can't, but can't accept that dreams are unrealistic. Instead of taking responsibility for bad decisions, they justify them. Be happy for yourself and live your life and quit having an unrealistic life that everyone has. When she says she wanted to have a wedding so her mom can see her in a wedding dress. Her whole existence was based on an overpriced dress that would be worn one time.
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 3 месяца назад
You're right and I think her hang up that she's "a smart person" is what keeps her going with this delusional "relationship" with a prison pen pal. A smart girl wouldn't be fooled by a child-molesting con man! Therefore, he must be real and innocent. Lol
@Molbokei
@Molbokei 26 дней назад
​@@boston312so if it's men they are lonely but women are past their prime? And when would this prime be, exactly?
@prody666
@prody666 4 месяца назад
This poor woman would better use that money on a good therapist instead of wasting it on the inmate imaginary boyfriend...
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
Why in the eff aren’t prisons blocking dating websites from inmates? They’re supposed to be rehabilitating AWAY from the public, not unleashed upon them while still serving.
@user-xi8jh8xo4b
@user-xi8jh8xo4b 7 месяцев назад
Bcuz we liberal lawyers, judges and politicians who care so much for the inmates they fight for every right for them.
@tduck828
@tduck828 7 месяцев назад
THISSSSSSS!!!! Why the heck are inmates even allowed to get online???
@MeowmyandMe
@MeowmyandMe 7 месяцев назад
Many of them have friends posting on their behalf and sending the correspondence to them in letters or reading it over phone calls
@ceelothatmane9421
@ceelothatmane9421 7 месяцев назад
Becaus inmates lives matter too right? Inmates don’t deserve love?
@greenAbbot
@greenAbbot 7 месяцев назад
@@user-xi8jh8xo4b No prisons allow internet access outside of monitored texts. And all the evidence shows that recidivism is greatly reduced when inmates are integrated into and connected with society upon release, rather than just punished. Or does talking about data make me too much of a liberal?
@betbabe8222
@betbabe8222 6 месяцев назад
“It’s Easier to Fool People Than It Is to Convince Them That They Have Been Fooled.” - Mark Twain
@kellylott9296
@kellylott9296 5 месяцев назад
This is so incredibly true. I had a boyfriend who was an addict,(though at the time i was also.i just didnt lie to others or do anything to anyone else in order to get my fix) Anyways i worked across the street at a dairy farm, milking cows. While working one night, he came running over, no shoes on, out of breath, saying someone had broken in and had a board for a weapon. I was so freaked out, I ultimately end f up knocking on the boss's door , talking to his wife, using her phone to call 911. I was not there. I was at work. when they pulled in they asked if they could take a look around the perimiter. I said yes. So didn't they end up going inside, seeing paraphernalia and charging me with that. I never gave permission to go inside but I see now life doesn't work like that. I was very frightened after that. I lived alone, you know? Anyways all this to say, i ended up having serious doubts and questions as to whether it even happened. I have come to terms with the fact that it was all more than likely an elaborate lie, that he created and I don't know entirely what his pay off was, I know he asked his dad for help with money to get locks. I'm sure he got far more money than I knew. It was extremely upsetting to think the person I loved would not online deceive me, but take away my sense of safety and security in my own home. So... I feel that quote.
@bethford6884
@bethford6884 7 месяцев назад
"Wrongfully convicted", lady wake up! He also LIED TO YOU/chose not to tell you about being in prison. Of course he's lying about being innocent. You should have been mad enough to end it right then. Love yourself enough to want more for yourself.
@roathripper
@roathripper 7 месяцев назад
everyone in prison can't wait to tell you they are innocent. all those prisoners - innocent! who knew?
@marysaltlife1427
@marysaltlife1427 7 месяцев назад
You said it all, and so well!!!
@annt7384
@annt7384 6 месяцев назад
Enough about him. She’s got some kind of virtue/white knight syndrome, and nobody’s paying her any reward.
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 5 месяцев назад
All she has to do is stop sending him Jpays and see how much he still loves her 😂
@lovetodaylisa3967
@lovetodaylisa3967 9 дней назад
Prisons are filled with " innocent" convicts. How do you know? Just ask them 😂
@SaystheTruth3
@SaystheTruth3 7 месяцев назад
Wrongfully convicted??? Bruh......🙄
@eurekahope5310
@eurekahope5310 7 месяцев назад
He may be, but I wouldn't waste my life hoping he was telling the truth.
@ramblinmama
@ramblinmama 7 месяцев назад
particularly not with a charge like that. @@eurekahope5310
@raraavis7782
@raraavis7782 7 месяцев назад
At the very least the doubt will always be there...
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
Yeah that was a cope
@chuckokoye2410
@chuckokoye2410 7 месяцев назад
It does happen way more than people think in this country. the court system does get it wrong. buuuuuut, that sounds like his problem, not this poor womans who’s been wasting her time dealing with it
@lisaobesaful
@lisaobesaful 7 месяцев назад
I just got married at 38. I sympathize that it's sometimes hard to find the right person. But even in the worst of my loneliness, I wouldn't have put up with this nonsense! This is truly baffling. It's extreme self-sabotage at this point.
@rae7782
@rae7782 6 месяцев назад
Hi Lisa, hope you do not mind answering but I would like to know firstly, how did you know your husband was the one and secondly, how you coped with being a single woman for so long. I desire to be single but sometimes, societal pressure makes it difficult to be a single woman especially when I constantly see women my age getting married and getting pregnant etc. Thank you in advance ❤.
@alanarama
@alanarama 5 месяцев назад
You'll know when some one makes you desire them, more than being single. Never give up a good single life for a mediocre relationship, regardless of the outside noise.​@@rae7782
@amymain2213
@amymain2213 5 месяцев назад
I got married at 39. Oh how I GET this gal. Yeah my life didn't go sideways toward a prisoner (that's my sis - another story 😮) but I did marry someone who turned out to be abusive. Man she is telling my story otherwise.did all the right things. Even her timeline was similar. Instead I married at 39, failed IVF and still sticking it out for pennies. 😢 I appreciate his recommendation to write letters to my younger self. May need to try it. The grief is INTENSE! My life looks NOTHING like I thought!
@turtlevillanueva118
@turtlevillanueva118 16 дней назад
Probably the same concept of hot women seducing lonely men just the opposite. Women desperately in search of companionship the way some men desperately in search of sex
@JaxLittles
@JaxLittles 15 дней назад
​@@rae7782 I'm getting married at 39. I'm grateful every day that I waited to get married. If I married any of the people I dated in my 20s, I'd be miserable. I met my soon to be husband in my early 30s. We could have gotten married, but I wanted to make sure we had enough time to really know each other. During my single times... I dealt with loneliness by working towards being the partner I wanted in someone else. I focused on trying to get as many experiences in life as possible... traveling solo, going on cruises, going to yoga retreats, picking up new hobbies, learning new things like pole fitness, cooking classes, painting classes, video games, etc. What's awesome about that... I made a lot of friends along the way and gained enough confidence to be alone and not date trash people. Trash people are intimidated by people who have lots of life experience and stories. The loneliness goes away when you are deep into living life.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 7 месяцев назад
A child molester (allegedly) as a boyfriend with a prison sentence over his head... Where did she meet that splendid specimen? At some point we have to take responsibility for the choices we make.
@CarnivoreStork
@CarnivoreStork 7 месяцев назад
👍🏼
@angryox3102
@angryox3102 7 месяцев назад
Not allegedly, convicted. He did it.
@pegzpat
@pegzpat 7 месяцев назад
Choosing to date a CONVICTED child molester, while wanting to be a mother... She's not ready to have a child.
@Thetruesauce100
@Thetruesauce100 7 месяцев назад
Not allegedly he has been convicted and sentenced 😂😂 there’s nothing alleged about it
@shivapazoki1881
@shivapazoki1881 7 месяцев назад
@@Thetruesauce100 😂😂😂
@AT-bt1cu
@AT-bt1cu 7 месяцев назад
What’s the difference between being single or with a guy that’s in prison? You’re alone regardless
@JaZmine147
@JaZmine147 7 месяцев назад
At least she always knows where her boyfriend is. 😂
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez 7 месяцев назад
Pahahaahaha!!!! Facts
@MixUpTheVideos
@MixUpTheVideos 7 месяцев назад
It's physically no different. But relationships have many elements apart from the physical.
@lav7161
@lav7161 7 месяцев назад
The guy in prison showers with other men.
@chocolatte8301
@chocolatte8301 7 месяцев назад
Agreed
@Miss_Judy
@Miss_Judy 7 месяцев назад
I'm seriously crying for this lady right now... It's so pathetically sad... I married a man who was a pedophile - unknown to me... After being married to my husband for 9 years, he was accused of raping a child... He swore he never did anything - to my face - crying, denying everything... it was not until I heard the mother's side - the mother of the child he raped... that I realized my husband lied to me - the entire time... He had been so convincing... I believed every word he said... I hope this Megan lady does research on the psychology of pedophiles and their need to lie... this Megan person just breaks my heart that she's throwing away her dreams of having a baby for a pedophile.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
I'm sorry that happened to you, but your situation is very different. You didn't know. She knew, and still decided to stand by this guy. Someone like you would get my empathy, where this woman gets none. She's earned where she is right now. I hope you can do some healing around your situation❤
@emilyemily6316
@emilyemily6316 7 месяцев назад
Ask yourself, what kind of women KNOWINGLY does it? You would not have. That's her!!! Don't feel sorry for her.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
@@emilyemily6316 THANK YOU. I had a friend who was in the situation where, she didn't know and the cops busted him when they were hanging out. Of course she dumped him immediately, and went to therapy. This caller decided to fight for him! The caller is getting exactly what she deserves.
@emilyemily6316
@emilyemily6316 7 месяцев назад
yup!!!@@Veracityseeker7
@olivialisonbee8153
@olivialisonbee8153 5 месяцев назад
I understand this because I also married a pedophile unknowingly. I remember the police showing up to my door and arresting him. The police officer that explained everything to me was so kind even when I didn’t believe him at first. He showed me some evidence that showed they had the right guy. It still didn’t really hit me fully until I sat down with his lawyer and saw the evidence and arrested statements. I picked up divorce papers the next day. I hadn’t been married long, but it was still very traumatic and haunts me. I’m remarried now and have two beautiful children, I never could have had that with my ex. This woman needs to move on, they don’t put you behind bars without evidence. They stalked my ex for three months before they arrested him to make sure he went to jail.
@bleh3039
@bleh3039 5 месяцев назад
As a person who was sa as a kid - do you know how brave that kid was to come forward to report the abuse - and then for the police to find enough evidence to convict the perpetrator? This woman is disgusting to try and find excuses for something he probably did do.
@lovetodaylisa3967
@lovetodaylisa3967 9 дней назад
People forget how hard it is to get a conviction. How bad was it for him to get actual prison time?!?!
@mrsmomrach
@mrsmomrach 7 месяцев назад
Dr John’s poker face is UN👏🏼MATCHED👏🏼
@faraha2826
@faraha2826 7 месяцев назад
I would have been doing so much eye rolling 😄 I don’t know how he does it.
@thecramptons
@thecramptons 7 месяцев назад
😂😂😂
@rz8753
@rz8753 7 месяцев назад
@@faraha2826😂😂😂😂😂 I know lol at this point just meet a guy and have a baby , when women try doing ivf solo I’m like girl there is lots of options
@alicef128
@alicef128 7 месяцев назад
@@faraha2826me too. I’ve about given myself a headache from rolling mine so much just listening. 6 years.
@ihateallyall
@ihateallyall 7 месяцев назад
@@faraha2826well he’s been doing this for years, his face has poker face muscle memory when he hears something cringe 😂😂
@tiffanynicoley
@tiffanynicoley 7 месяцев назад
Oh John tried SO HARD to be nice here lol but we all can clearly see she’s just headed for more pain and more heartbreak. I hope she wakes up.
@faith780
@faith780 7 месяцев назад
Dating a convicted child molester with a felony she can never have kids anywhere near him. They can’t adopt kids. Her only option is to get pregnant by him but he won’t be able to attend school functions or pick the kid up from school. Honestly I side-eye anyone that openly dates/marries children abusers, I start thinking they also hurt kids. Her doubling-down on this relationship gives me the icks. Dr John handled this call with a LOT of patience.
@name9601
@name9601 6 месяцев назад
she's complaining about what her life became then chooses the exact scenario so it stays the same
@name9601
@name9601 6 месяцев назад
best not, her believing bf over kids or worst doesn't care enough denial just to keep him
@JanHagen-rt6qi
@JanHagen-rt6qi 6 месяцев назад
Her choice it’s a good thing she didn’t get what she wanted
@CassandraV-kl4hq
@CassandraV-kl4hq 6 месяцев назад
Even if they were married. He’d have to move out and can’t be around his own kid.
@skeeterbug589
@skeeterbug589 6 месяцев назад
💯
@user-ek6jn6tg6h
@user-ek6jn6tg6h 6 месяцев назад
I met a girl on a flight to Atlanta . We started talking trauma. She then showed me her bf of one year she never met that was in the US military on a peacekeeping mission in Ukraine . I politely mentioned to her that I am quite familiar with the military situation there and the us military does not operate as a peacekeeping in Ukraine . She looked very surprised that I mentioned her online bf was most likely fake
@eveallusion
@eveallusion 7 месяцев назад
This story is beyond disturbing. I hope the caller sees her kindness is being taken advantage of. Please caller, find purpose in finding a great man and building the life you've always wanted. If you decide to stay, which I hope you don't, DO NOT EVER HAVE CHILDREN WITH THIS MAN OR BRING CHILDREN AROUND HIM. EVER.
@ericalashan1923
@ericalashan1923 7 месяцев назад
Please caller...if I knew u in real life I wouldn't bring my children to ur house ever...if he ever gets out. Sorry.
@michelejohnson6459
@michelejohnson6459 7 месяцев назад
Legally he can never be around children. Why did you say sorry? Sorry you won't let your children be around a child molester? 🤔
@Gardenpath11
@Gardenpath11 6 месяцев назад
How do you meet someone online and have fireworks, and know he’s the one without meeting them? That’s insanity.
@marissa7459
@marissa7459 22 дня назад
She’s so desperate that she clings to anything that looks like love or connection…even if it’s from behind bars.
@AvaEFF
@AvaEFF 10 дней назад
And she didn’t even know he was in prison at that point. She basically knew nothing about him.
@tracy5721
@tracy5721 7 месяцев назад
I’m betting she’s paying for his lawyer and legal fees too. I think he’s using her.
@VV-er3zg
@VV-er3zg 23 дня назад
“We found a post conviction lawyer” na na na babes that’s HIS legal issue, even if it was a traffic ticket lmao
@kathleenbueter1272
@kathleenbueter1272 12 дней назад
I think he’s a scammer
@zitroanor
@zitroanor 6 месяцев назад
They're ALWAYS innocent and Prince Charming in prison. She might not even be someone he would choose if he was out. She provides letters, conversations that she pays for, visits, money and whatever else he "needs". He's a stand in, a "fantasy" of the life she dreamed of. This is one of the saddest calls I've heard on this show.
@alinamanoochehri3844
@alinamanoochehri3844 7 месяцев назад
Lady, regardless of him being guilty or not, he didn’t tell you that he was in prison when you met. He started your relationship with lies. Please move on. You still have time to build the life you’ve wanted.
@ders972
@ders972 4 месяца назад
She is mentally ill and he is using her
@heerthbvvff
@heerthbvvff 19 дней назад
This part!
@genevievekeillor8821
@genevievekeillor8821 18 дней назад
💥
@genevievekeillor8821
@genevievekeillor8821 18 дней назад
Having been once married to a child molester they are the MASTER MANIPULATORS
@genevievekeillor8821
@genevievekeillor8821 18 дней назад
That should be the most eye-opening thing for her
@santafilipina9020
@santafilipina9020 7 месяцев назад
I'm innocent and wrongfully convicted are very common refrain of inmates, don't you know?
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 7 месяцев назад
YES AND the fact that they are trying to get him off on a procedural technicality?! HUGE red flag 😳
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 7 месяцев назад
I just hope she hasn't spent her hard earned money trying to get his perv out!! @@mamat1213
@FrankS111
@FrankS111 7 месяцев назад
Imagine throwing your life away for a convicted child sex offender. There is no saving her.
@shivapazoki1881
@shivapazoki1881 7 месяцев назад
I have seen so many late 30s single women who have made insane choices when it comes to dating but this one was whole new level of desperate / crazy 😢
@jaylucas10
@jaylucas10 7 месяцев назад
😂🤣😂
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 7 месяцев назад
Agreed... I eventually learned to just enjoy being single, and if Mr. Right comes along great, if not, that is ok too! Happiness is an inside job!
@shivapazoki1881
@shivapazoki1881 7 месяцев назад
@@bettysmith4527 good for you😊 myself divorced with s child at 21 and single ever since (now 50) to date i have not known one couple whose life is better, more fulfilled because of their relationship. Ppl either have the art of happiness or they don’t. Ppl who are happy in a relationship are those who had a great life when they were single too. Miserable single ppl end up marrying and establishing a miserable family 😂
@Shaara1
@Shaara1 7 месяцев назад
You have to have a large number of insane men who are players, so all these women can choose them. If all these men had integrity no women could find players to ruin their future with. :)
@name9601
@name9601 6 месяцев назад
@@Shaara1 so you settle on insanity, that choice is still on you :)
@gingergann3934
@gingergann3934 7 месяцев назад
Megan, none of them are "guilty". Sorry, 95% are guilty. You feel desperate and unloveable. That is why you're "settling".
@amendaalmonte2236
@amendaalmonte2236 7 месяцев назад
I use to have a friend who also supported her boyfriend at the time who was in prison for “wrongful accusation of child molestation”. She swore up and down his ex was out to get him. Anyways the guy was released and they break up. He went on to be one of those “repent for your sins the end is near” wackos holding a sign. Then contacted her years later to repent for his sins and tell her that he actually was guilty of child molestation. Anytime a man’s name and child molestation are in the same sentence, just turn the other way.
@JacksonvilleTammy
@JacksonvilleTammy 7 месяцев назад
I hate how people say "I met someone" when all they did was talk to someone on the phone or text etc.... You are speaking to someone you didn't meet them
@murdahmammiez
@murdahmammiez 28 дней назад
Well in 6 yrs shes modt probably visite him in prison
@RoseWater20
@RoseWater20 7 месяцев назад
You’re holding her accountable for her choices. I’m glad you emphasized this.
@mexicanachulax3
@mexicanachulax3 7 месяцев назад
Let go of your timeline and let go of this man.
@name9601
@name9601 6 месяцев назад
cinderblock
@miltoncat
@miltoncat 7 месяцев назад
I can’t help but think her choosing to get pregnant on her own isn’t going to complete her life like she thinks it will.
@tishataray
@tishataray 7 месяцев назад
Agreed, being in a similar situation it sucks too when you miss the chance of using your fertile years because life didn't provide the one.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
She'll just project all of her weirdness onto her child.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
​@@tishatarayThat's valid, but in this case she made bad decisions to stick with this dude who was convicted of CM. You could also choose to adopt, and not be so selfish and dedicate your life to an unwanted child.
@tishataray
@tishataray 7 месяцев назад
@@Veracityseeker7 some women desire to experience the journey of pregnancy , the baby kicking and all that. Even if you choose to adopt , you still grieve having your own if that was your dream... I get you tho ...i hope she gets someone better
@tishataray
@tishataray 7 месяцев назад
@@Veracityseeker7 some women desire to experience the journey of pregnancy , the baby kicking and all that. Even if you choose to adopt , you still grieve having your own if that was your dream... I get you tho ...i hope she gets someone better
@JC-ov5yz
@JC-ov5yz 7 месяцев назад
I absolutely hate it when you get falsely imprisoned for child molestation.
@katiewaves
@katiewaves 7 месяцев назад
😂
@TonyCox1351
@TonyCox1351 7 месяцев назад
Happened to me on my way to work this morning
@RepentImmediately
@RepentImmediately 7 месяцев назад
😂
@atdepaulis
@atdepaulis 7 месяцев назад
😂
@Zumcho
@Zumcho 7 месяцев назад
​@@TonyCox1351 same 😂😂😂
@CiaoColeG
@CiaoColeG 7 месяцев назад
First I can empathize as a childless, never married 38 year old woman. I know what it feels like to do "everything right", stay slim, volunteer, be involved in church etc....and still not meet anyone who is compatible at church, at work, on dating apps etc... HOWEVER, I realized around 32/33 that my life is NOW. And I'd rather be single, ambitious, joyfully serve God and others, and live a fun life than lower my standards to hades just to have someone. Being a wife and mother is not where my value lies. Being a child of God and walking with integrity is all I ever need. Singleness can be lonely at times, but I am beyond thankful that God has given me grace when I had desperate moments to not choose a toxic or deadend relationship. He's given me a great family and friends, whom I have more time to pour into because I'm single. I hope this lady shakes herself and wakes up, because life is not a game where if we accumulate enough points we are rewarded with whatever we want. Life itself is the reward.
@tishataray
@tishataray 7 месяцев назад
I wish I had your mindset.
@jillianwickham31
@jillianwickham31 7 месяцев назад
If women don’t have a relationship with God, the One True God, who is our everything, our eternal Husband, our closest Friend, then… women are going to channel their desperation for love into fruitless relationships. Life doesn’t begin once married. It has always been and always will be NOW. Much love and heart peace to you, sister.
@jw70467
@jw70467 7 месяцев назад
You don’t have to lower your standards to Hades, you just have to teach yourself to see the men who aren’t six feet tall and maybe has a boring job he loves and is good at.
@kagnewcobra5228
@kagnewcobra5228 7 месяцев назад
Big difference between being alone and being lonely. Big, big, difference!
@RepentImmediately
@RepentImmediately 7 месяцев назад
If you watch this show you know that many, many married people are lonely and are worse off financially and otherwise than when they were single. Couldn't pay me to get married.
@miltoncat
@miltoncat 7 месяцев назад
I feel for her. I was the same way, expected to meet Mr Right in my 20s and have a kid or two. By 30 I’d had some failed relationships and was so tired of dating and the whole thing. I didn’t want to be single forever and that sadness is SO hard. And it can make you do stupid things. Like trying to tell yourself that a convicted child abuser is really a nice guy and would be a great father. 😮 So as lonely as it was, I just kept living my life. Then at 33, I very randomly met Mr. Right. Got engaged 4 months after we met, and got married 10 months later. Both our families were shocked as to how similar we are. I’m 51 now, marriage got rough sometimes but we still love each other. I wasn’t able to have kids and that about crushed me. I even told my husband he should leave me and get with someone who could have his kid. He knew I was insane at the time and assured me that was never gonna happen. So yeah, life didn’t turn out like I thought, but it’s still pretty dang good. Hang in there.
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 7 месяцев назад
❤❤❤
@TruePathLiving
@TruePathLiving 7 месяцев назад
Wholesome ❤
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip 7 месяцев назад
Women are pushed in different directions at the same time....have a thriving career and have thriving families at the same time. Yet, if both are not achieved they feel like failures. Societal judgement (unwarranted) "Oh, you are a successful lawyer but alone with no kids.... failure." "Oh, you are just a housewife with kids....loser."
@miltoncat
@miltoncat 7 месяцев назад
@@JohnWilliams-cx3ipHmm. I think it’s worse when women don’t have kids, regardless of a career. People always say “Parenting is the hardest and most important job in the world!” Or “You just don’t know what real love is until you’re a mother!” Both are very dismissive and cruel to those who wanted kids and never had them. I could cure cancer, but nope, not as important as popping out a kid. There’s people in my life that I’d take a bullet for, but nope, I just don’t know what real love is. 🙄😒
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip 7 месяцев назад
@@miltoncat Agree 👍
@whitney9429
@whitney9429 7 месяцев назад
Wrongful convictions exist, but come on. She wasn’t even in the picture at this time so she should stay out of it.
@thenorthface4
@thenorthface4 7 месяцев назад
There is an amazing book called “it’s not supposed to be this way” that sheds a lot of light on how to navigate life when it takes a different turn.
@goodgirlvicki
@goodgirlvicki 7 месяцев назад
Author?
@thenorthface4
@thenorthface4 7 месяцев назад
@@goodgirlvicki Lysa Terkeurst 😊
@dudeorduuude5211
@dudeorduuude5211 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this recommendation :-)
@barbarahansen5353
@barbarahansen5353 6 месяцев назад
Fantastic book- I’m reading it as well. Highly recommend!
@christawarrington3795
@christawarrington3795 5 месяцев назад
Thank you! Im going to see if my library has it.
@BMAN1able
@BMAN1able 7 месяцев назад
Be careful with that jail talk, They will tell you anything. once they get out It's a different story.. Guard your heart..
@marissa7459
@marissa7459 22 дня назад
And guard your finances
@Slickmouthsweetie
@Slickmouthsweetie 21 день назад
They sure do!! I know a couple people in prison and they use women constantly for their money. Thankfully I’m not stupid. I’m just there because they were my friends before they got locked up. It’s sick what they do and say to women.
@flashthecorgi2053
@flashthecorgi2053 7 месяцев назад
Megan, please sweetheart RUN from this guy. You are worth so much more than waiting for a guy to get out of prison who is just using you. You could find an amazing man, and start a family if you just grieve and leave this convicted felon. He’s not worth your time and he’s certainly never going to be allowed near a kid that you so badly want. You have no clue (nor do I) if he was wrongly convicted. He can tell you his cute little sob story but the reality is cops don’t just put guys in prison without evidence especially with something that serious, it’s also a red flag that this lawyer you hired who specializes is wrongful conviction cases couldn’t help you. Your life is just worth so much more than waiting around for this guy to get out of prison when chances are it will be a long time and won’t be the fantasy you dream of if he does. Dr. John, me and many others are rooting for you. You have so much more potential than you think! ❤️
@thenorthface4
@thenorthface4 7 месяцев назад
Totally agree! Anytime someone is/was in prison, the first place to go is the evidence and police reports. This dude is lying about sexually related crimes with a minor. Absolutely disgusting. These dudes don’t make it long on the inside… she also forked over her own money for an attorney to help this dude. I could just cry in her behalf. I hope she moves on.
@kcourtney6826
@kcourtney6826 7 месяцев назад
Bless her heart, she’s looking for someone to complete her instead of working on and valuing herself
@gambers20001
@gambers20001 7 месяцев назад
Should be Ex Boyfriend soon...
@ladymusiqka
@ladymusiqka 7 месяцев назад
Spot on
@texasdazzlers
@texasdazzlers 7 месяцев назад
I like how John didn’t try to tackle the elephant in the room - she’s dating a guy in prison for child abuse because she feels like making good choices got her nowhere so what heck…why not? Hopefully once she’s able to make peace with herself, she will accept the things she can’t change and take control of today. Just because life didn’t turn out the way you want doesn’t mean you have to reduce yourself to dating a convicted felon.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 7 месяцев назад
Good point (or elephant 😏) that you mention.
@cbyt8759
@cbyt8759 7 месяцев назад
I understand why he didn’t address it. She’s already been through a lot in his put all her eggs in this basket for this relationship to work out. She chose this relationship out of desperation, and she’s not open to changing her mind because accepting that reality will be devastating for her. He was wise to not judge her choices openly (though he did comment on it), but encourage her that she has to accept what comes with her choices, which is true, whether she was making an amazing decision, or a poor decision, such as this one. Now she won’t see this advice as an argument, and as she follows it, she will naturally have to ask herself honestly, if she is OK with this, and she will convince herself instead of John trying to argue with her.
@socku5850
@socku5850 7 месяцев назад
He was attractive to her.
@Mike-sj9si
@Mike-sj9si 7 месяцев назад
That last sentence should be on a refrigerator magnet
@texasdazzlers
@texasdazzlers 7 месяцев назад
@@mirabella2154 Agreed…she isn’t ready yet. She just would have become defensive. Best for her to figure it out on her own.
@Germania72
@Germania72 7 месяцев назад
She doesn't understand the point he's telling her.
@animsai
@animsai 27 дней назад
She doesn't want to 😢
@cindycarlsonallen72
@cindycarlsonallen72 7 месяцев назад
WTF is wrong with her?? It’s so frightening!! Please lady, think! A jury would take this kind of crime/criminal very seriously and before ruining his life, they would set him free. HE IS GUILTY! RUN as fast as you can!!
@darcycolborne2565
@darcycolborne2565 7 месяцев назад
I really think this lady needs to figure out why, out of all the men in the world, she's drawn to one who is locked away and needing a ton of effort expended on them. Something about him actually being unavailable while at the same time needing you pings your radar. If you can unpack that, you can figure out why you remained unattached for +15 years and never realized what you thought your dream was.
@Sigma_Wolverine
@Sigma_Wolverine 5 месяцев назад
She admitted she had 50 pounds to lose at one point so she has probably struggled with body image insecurity her whole life. She probably struggles to attract men.
@Myraisins1
@Myraisins1 7 месяцев назад
Girl, no. Move on from him! You have time to turn things around.
@Fred2-123
@Fred2-123 7 месяцев назад
That poor girl, she fell for a prison inmate romance scammer.
@catherinewilke5583
@catherinewilke5583 6 месяцев назад
Yep but she won’t let the fantasy go. She said she’s fat so I’m sure that makes irl dating hard so she can lose weight or own it and find someone who likes fatties
@MeowmyandMe
@MeowmyandMe 7 месяцев назад
“I’m the only guilty man in Shawshank!” -Red
@mellowbirddreamer77
@mellowbirddreamer77 7 месяцев назад
Awesome book and good movie!
@CG-MP
@CG-MP 3 месяца назад
"I've always made good choices." --> "I found out he was in prison for child molestation and I've been funding him for six years."
@janetstraw191
@janetstraw191 7 месяцев назад
Poor thing thinks her life is OVER!! At 38?! She still has her whole life ahead of her - she hasn’t even hit her prime yet! I am 77 and I wish I could be 38 again.
@jennprescott2757
@jennprescott2757 5 месяцев назад
She’s past her prime for having a family but doesn’t mean life is over.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 4 месяца назад
You women are funny lol way past her prime
@Monk7791
@Monk7791 3 месяца назад
@@jennprescott2757 That's not true. Many women still have a family, even via the natural way, at that age.
@kaydeemailliard857
@kaydeemailliard857 7 месяцев назад
The chances of him being “wrongfully convicted” are so low, this is disgusting. Be a better woman.
@PinkVisionG
@PinkVisionG 7 месяцев назад
She’s talking like she’s 65…she’s 38!! Plenty of time to actually meet a decent human and make her dreams come true
@IHateNicolasCage
@IHateNicolasCage 6 месяцев назад
Husband, yes. Children, no.
@fishin4bogey
@fishin4bogey 6 месяцев назад
At 38, overweight, no kids.......good damn luck. This poor woman needs two things. A therapist and a personal trainer. She wasted 6 years on a pedophile. Who does that?
@Sigma_Wolverine
@Sigma_Wolverine 5 месяцев назад
The wall is unforgiving.
@PinkVisionG
@PinkVisionG 5 месяцев назад
@@IHateNicolasCage welcome to 2024 where there are women getting pregnant in their 40’s + early 50’s
@Monk7791
@Monk7791 3 месяца назад
@@IHateNicolasCage Why not? There are women much older that get children, the natural way.
@ittybittyspaces
@ittybittyspaces 6 месяцев назад
She really believes she knows the ins and outs of what happened that resulted in his conviction - it’s sad. Her denial is disturbing.
@A_w_200
@A_w_200 7 месяцев назад
This is embarrassing. Reeks of desperation. I’m also a 38 year old woman and I would never stoop this low.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
Yeah that's why I'm having a hard time feeling sorry for her. It's not like this guy was locked up for selling a baggie. Being convicted of CM is the lowest crime you can commit. In my opinion. The fact that she attached herself to him, shows a lot about her own character.
@amandawithlov3908
@amandawithlov3908 7 месяцев назад
I damn near fell out my seat when she threw in the word "wrongful" accusation of child molester. @@Veracityseeker7
@leahsiblerud9537
@leahsiblerud9537 Месяц назад
Be careful standing above others and looking down like you’re better. I’m thankful that there’s people like Dr John who have empathy and don’t speak to people the way you just did.
@A_w_200
@A_w_200 25 дней назад
@@leahsiblerud9537 I will absolutely go on record and say that I am better than someone and will judge someone who willingly dates a child molester, yes. Pathetic.
@leahsiblerud9537
@leahsiblerud9537 25 дней назад
@@A_w_200 Yes. Luckily that’s not what I’m referring to at all or I can see why you’d feel superior to take that stance. You have the ability to listen and understand that this woman firmly believes he has been wrongly accused, so in her head, which is the subject matter here, she’s not dating a child molester.
@LaCantressa
@LaCantressa 2 месяца назад
This woman is incredibly immature. Head full of dreams and perfection. And, trust me, her boyfriend be guilty.
@Heidishereandthere
@Heidishereandthere 7 месяцев назад
I wouldnt care if they were wrongfully accused or not...child molestation??? RUN!! If this woman thinks THAT was "her dream man"... a few screws loose. Don't get me started on her idea of bringing children into the mix without a father being in their lives!! 🙄 THANK GOD
@havwusbsb
@havwusbsb 6 месяцев назад
You wouldn't care if someone was wrongfully convicted? Let's pretend that we aren't talking about this specific person, but your son, brother, father or partner and they WERE wrongfully convicted. You wouldn't care?
@Heidishereandthere
@Heidishereandthere 6 месяцев назад
@@havwusbsb No, I wouldnt care if they were wrongfully ACCUSED!! THERE IS A DIFFERENCE! Go back and read my comment again, and stop putting the WRONG words in my mouth! ACCUSED AND CONVICTED ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT INSTANCES. I WAS MOLESTED BY AN UNCLE, YES, HE WAS GUILTY, BUT... HE WAS WRONGFULLY LET OFF THE HOOK!! SO, THERES THAT!! Lord, help us if you ever get pucked for jury duty of a child molestation case! Youd probably be the one to let the guilty go, and the innocent be hung; due to not hearing out all the details; much like you when you failed to read my comment correctly in its entirety! ! 🙄 Good day
@AvaEFF
@AvaEFF 10 дней назад
@@Heidishereandtherethis is such a strange reply to that person… you didn’t address the actual issue they had and the clarification you made didn’t change a single thing of substance to what they were asking you.
@Ash-kb9hn
@Ash-kb9hn 5 месяцев назад
4:05 She put SIX YEARS into this man and is still completely delusional. Wow. A convicted child molester and she gave away SIX years, six very important years of of her life to try to free him. She is out of her mind. She doesn’t want help, she wants people to feel badly for her and say “aw poor baby it’s not your fault” it is 100% her fault. If she wants to be a mom so bad she could’ve put money towards an adoption attorney instead of her prison inmate, child molester boyfriend. This woman is out of her mind. She’s clearly too far gone for help. Dr. John made some amazing points and spoke them with empathy and she just sat silent because she wasn’t told what she wanted to hear.
@flightsnotfeelings5867
@flightsnotfeelings5867 7 месяцев назад
Getting a masters/PhD or constantly climbing the career ladder to prove to yourself you’re worth something hits so hard to a lot of people.
@neisci
@neisci 7 месяцев назад
Because they are doing for the wrong reasons. Like John said,own your choices. If a Masters ( which is not that hard to get anyways) is what you want for yourself the go for it. It should always be about hour selves, not others.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 4 месяца назад
Women who do this even though they just want to be moms are retards lol maybe she would've found a good husband and had a family if she wasn't at school for 8 years and working constantly. She girl bossed too hard
@emily-zv7fs
@emily-zv7fs 7 месяцев назад
My observation lately is that while we do not properly prepare our young people for married life, we also do not prepare them for the possibility of the single life. While I'd love for all my children to grow up and have families, I've also started trying to teach them how to be single. Recently we read about George Washington Carver and were just blown away by his single life and all that he accomplished and the godly man that he was. Can't recommend his biography enough. I'd much rather see my children single adults than in terrible relationships.
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 7 месяцев назад
Yup. The advice should be, 'get up every day, give it your best and learn as much as possible, no matter what. Take each day seriously, because doing so will stand to you the next. You may not get everything you want, but there's peace to be found in knowing that you did the best you could with what you had.'
@candyluna2929
@candyluna2929 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for the suggestion.❤ I knew a bit about him. I'll look into this book.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
Amen
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 6 месяцев назад
I agree, I hope we can start having match makers for young people to guide them and help them avoid the time wasters and so on...so the don't waste their 20's.
@angel794
@angel794 28 дней назад
Excellent point. There are pros & cons to any lifestyle but knowing how to care for yourself well is essential, no matter if you have a partner or not. People who thrive alone can beuch.bettee partners because they don't depend on another person to make them happy or because they can't do things themselves. I have been in various situations but can truly say that, if you can't be happy alone, you can't be happy with someone else, either.❤
@elainepatterson5587
@elainepatterson5587 7 месяцев назад
She needs to start living life every day, today, in the day. She's living her life somewhere else on the daily.
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 7 месяцев назад
I think she's blinded by how this guy made her feel...from prison, lol. I don't know how she can be so convinced of his innocence, when after 6 years of fighting, he still hasn't been freed, but child abuse is as disturbing as it gets, even more so than certain types of homocide, which can be the result of an accident or self-defence or provocation. I question how suited to motherhood she is, given that she's willing to take a risk on such a man.
@Jugoplastika7
@Jugoplastika7 5 месяцев назад
Bro 6 years of fighting it. Dude doesn’t have a small crime. He’s in there for life it seems.
@katiewaves
@katiewaves 7 месяцев назад
Girl, stand up! Better to be alone than have a boyfriend in prison. 6 years?!!
@my7thoughts7exactly63
@my7thoughts7exactly63 7 месяцев назад
Sis . I thought my life would go a certain way to . I too am husbandless, childless, and alone . It’s painful but please don’t make this choice. You’re moving from desperation. This man has nothing but time to figure you out and be perfect for you (aka manipulation) . He also has nothing but time to figure out how to make you feel that he was wrongly convicted. Beware of someone hiding the truth from you. This is not your golden opportunity, it’s the beginning of your nightmare.
@shannonmorgan2344
@shannonmorgan2344 26 дней назад
If he loved her for REAL… he wouldn’t be dragging her through this
@CaToRi-
@CaToRi- 7 месяцев назад
Biological clock doesn’t care about bachelors or masters degree. The best years for finding a partner were overlapped by your studies and career.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 4 месяца назад
Girl bossed too close to the sun
@LifehasnoNiche
@LifehasnoNiche 7 месяцев назад
IT NOT TOO LATE!. It may hurt to let go but once you become intentional about what you want and going after it you will be surprised. 38yo is not the end, loosing a child is not the end, letting go of a 6 yr relationship is not the end. Many women find love and have children after 38yo you have to decide.
@tparker4458
@tparker4458 7 месяцев назад
Well said !
@tparker4458
@tparker4458 7 месяцев назад
Love your name !
@SoulfulVeg
@SoulfulVeg 7 месяцев назад
I don't know the name, but there is a reality show that follows people who unite after prison. She should watch that. Also, prisoners have all day to talk and lovebomb. They can be so compelling because they need folks on the outside.
@kcourtney6826
@kcourtney6826 7 месяцев назад
Love after Lockup?
@SoulfulVeg
@SoulfulVeg 7 месяцев назад
@@kcourtney6826 That's it. I've seen excerpts on YT Short but haven't watch the show. It looks wild.
@ss7581
@ss7581 7 месяцев назад
I wonder how many women online hes conning with this exact same song and dance. This is so pathetic and sad, caller deserves to do better for herself.
@neisci
@neisci 7 месяцев назад
Love after lock-up is such a trash you. Love it 😂😂😂. She should definitely watch it.
@SoulfulVeg
@SoulfulVeg 7 месяцев назад
@@ss7581 He has all day free. I bet there are many desperate women falling for his BS.
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 5 месяцев назад
This call was insanity to listen to! She says all she wants it to have a child. Yet she attaches herself to an unavailable man for years. A man in prison, for harming children! Her self-awareness of this is very low. Is this limerence - living in a fantasy world, wishing for someone or something that can never be?
@Britty0189
@Britty0189 7 месяцев назад
Did she say “ *WE* spent money on a lawyer” 😱 gurl.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
Bruh… did his use his 0.50/hr commissary money from sweeping the prison floors? 😂
@natalieelliott1984
@natalieelliott1984 7 месяцев назад
This woman needs a lot of therapy and help so that she stops sabotaging her life with the choices she is making.
@ditttch
@ditttch 7 месяцев назад
lol, ask any person in prison if they were wrongfully convicted and the answer will almost always be yes.
@goodgirlvicki
@goodgirlvicki 7 месяцев назад
I wouldn't deprive myself of physical embrace for a guy in prison. Long distance relationships are already challenging It's best to partner up with someone in your city
@missl9348
@missl9348 7 месяцев назад
Easier said than done. Not all of us are in a major metropolitan area. Especially difficult if you're a 40+ year old female trying to date in the Midwest. Its awful. I gave up. All that's left around here are men my age who are liars, cheaters, moochers, abusers, etc.
@name9601
@name9601 6 месяцев назад
​@@missl9348 well there's always prison pen pal, or move city doubt much better may be it's where ur looking
@VS-fo9py
@VS-fo9py 7 месяцев назад
Notice her choice of words like “we” are fighting this conviction. 😬
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
She wants to be his savior and he’s her project. This is not going to end well.
@OopThereItIs77777
@OopThereItIs77777 7 месяцев назад
@@Mysterious_Moonhe’s draining her
@megscott222
@megscott222 7 месяцев назад
Aw, praying she sees her worth and moves on from this guy. She deserves so much better.
@nutellanebula
@nutellanebula 7 месяцев назад
Volunteer, go to church, pray for a decent partner. Good people are out there. Hoping for the best for this caller.
@Magdalene952
@Magdalene952 7 месяцев назад
Dr. John handled this call well. She's got some very serious self esteem issues that have led her down a path of fighting for a man in prison (whether he is guilty or not is not the point) for 6 years to turn up empty handed. She can still fight for him and if he is truly innocent, I hope she keeps fighting for him. But she doesn't have to put her life on hold for that either. That was a choice she made thinking she'll end up with a fairytale and that didn't work out. Look, life is all about choices. If I could go back 6 years and start trying to have a baby I would, but those were choices I (and my husband) made when we did. She needs to work on giving Megan room to heal, grieve, grow, and love herself first. She owes that to herself.
@shimmeringchimps3842
@shimmeringchimps3842 6 месяцев назад
"Own your choices." So simple yet so important! This lady clearly is in a lot of denial and John very patiently showed her the next baby step that she'll be mentally able to take.
@lizwiens671
@lizwiens671 7 месяцев назад
I just feel sick for this lady. She seems like such a genuinely wonderful person. Please FLEE from this dead end relationship, you deserve better ❤
@davidcharnes3623
@davidcharnes3623 7 месяцев назад
For some reason most convicts will swear up and down that they are innocent.
@angel794
@angel794 28 дней назад
For some reason? Convicts say they are innocent because that feeds into their preferred status as a victim of the SYSTEM. If they were inclined to take responsibility for themselves, they most likely would not have committed the crime. Many of them are narcissists with antisocial personality disorder (sociopaths) or psychopaths. Few, if any, are mentally and emotionally healthy.
@pegzpat
@pegzpat 7 месяцев назад
She has to know that just because you have a partner, it doesn't mean you'll have a gd life. This is a case of never go shopping at the supermarket when you're hungry.
@Imzadi
@Imzadi 7 месяцев назад
This lady 🤦🏼‍♀️ EVEN if her bf is innocent why waste time on someone incarcerated?
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
Yeah like I wouldn't even speak to this man, let alone think I'm going to date him? Like wow
@jovitarich7078
@jovitarich7078 7 месяцев назад
@@Veracityseeker7. Exactly…low self stem
@havwusbsb
@havwusbsb 6 месяцев назад
If it was your husband, father, brother or son, you would just let them rot on their own if they are innocent?
@shimmeringchimps3842
@shimmeringchimps3842 6 месяцев назад
​@@havwusbsbThere was no pre-existing relationship plus he didn't even tell her he was incarcerated for the first few months they were talking. At the very least, he's a liar. She has NO obligation to help him.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 4 месяца назад
​@@havwusbsbyou're very naive and get taken advantage of alot, huh?
@tommiller12345
@tommiller12345 7 месяцев назад
John should have told her what to do. She’s stupid to pay for a lawyer to prove her bf’s innocence. She wasted her life with bad decisions. Stop now. John told her to own her decisions, but she doesn’t know what that means. He was too vague.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
I think once she sees a therapist in-person and sorts through her stuff, without the judgement, she’ll leave.
@rosegirl9874
@rosegirl9874 21 день назад
This caller has picked a guy in jail because it keeps her safe from the work of being truly vulnerable with another human.
@42Ccastro
@42Ccastro 7 месяцев назад
You gotta be tough if you're gonna be stupid. -A dad on a meme once said to his daughter. Sound words I live by.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 7 месяцев назад
Thank you. Everybody is being so empathetic with her and I just don't see why.
@kavarnijsenshik
@kavarnijsenshik 7 месяцев назад
ugh.. such prisoners often have more than one "online girfriend". They use them as emotional saviers, suporters to pass prisson time in emotional comfort. But after they are released they disappear.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon 7 месяцев назад
I believe this 💯. People do this anyways online everyday, and all this pedo HAS is time.
@lup6974
@lup6974 23 дня назад
Unfortunately she did not make all the right choices :(. At least the last one having relationship with prisoner and child molestor. I hope she will open her eyes 🙏
@suek7086
@suek7086 7 месяцев назад
I hurt for her and pray she can find peace. I can’t fault her for getting sucked in because she has lost so much. The death of dreams is really tough. It causes immense pain and suffering.
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 7 месяцев назад
Desperation will make you do things you thought you’d never do. It will also put in a situation that you need to escape from because you can’t handle it.
@skamgodt964
@skamgodt964 7 месяцев назад
Notice how men are usually not down bad for women in jail. This is wrong and she will regret it.
@Gabster1990
@Gabster1990 7 месяцев назад
Nah, plenty of men still get with women in prison. Just look at Gypsy Rose.
@Gabster1990
@Gabster1990 7 месяцев назад
Nah, plenty of men still get with women in prison. Just look at Gypsy Rose.
@GAFB1122
@GAFB1122 7 месяцев назад
You're 38. It's not too late, actually it's never too late. This guy does not sound like the one to waste time on. Move on.
@ithinkigottalent4047
@ithinkigottalent4047 7 месяцев назад
Omg bless her heart. Still striving to achieve the fantasy.
@bah-bah29hinks7
@bah-bah29hinks7 2 месяца назад
“We” have been fighting it. 6 years later. Poor lady is so desperate. It’s sad. 💔
@amberklein1560
@amberklein1560 7 месяцев назад
Grieving choices traps us in the past. But taking ownership sets us free. I CHOSE to marry my spouse. I CHOSE to stay with him. I CHOSE to stand up for what I believe is right. I CHOSE my consequences, my life. And I can choose the direction I decide to head in now. Choosing and accepting the losses and gains is calming, and makes life ok.
@tracygomez53
@tracygomez53 9 дней назад
As a lawyer who took a series of post-conviction defense-oriented classes in law school, I know that technical errors leading to an ‘unfair trial’ do not equal innocence.
@taylorspastpresent1014
@taylorspastpresent1014 7 месяцев назад
How does Dr.Delony keep a straight face during these calls? This is heavy. May Jesus bless her. ❤ I pray she heals.
@MeMyselfandI-kc4bi
@MeMyselfandI-kc4bi 6 месяцев назад
What if she's wrong and he is guilty . She is chatting to a man who is sexually attracted to little children 😮 . Innocent little angels . Even the doubt as to whether he is guilty or not is what I'm concerned about . What about the abused children? He doesn't tell you he is in Prison 😮 either . Not trustworthy is he .
@kaitlinkuhn3406
@kaitlinkuhn3406 7 месяцев назад
Maybe she could adopt a couple of children that really really need a mom. She has a lot of love to give
@royalredus
@royalredus 7 месяцев назад
I don't think I'll ever call John because he gives too much homework. Writing letters to your childhood self, your current self, your future self, your deceased parents, your abuser, your unborn children. Carrying around cinder blocks in a backpack... it's exhausting!
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 7 месяцев назад
😂
@SavannahSedai
@SavannahSedai 7 месяцев назад
And I always procrastinated homework....
@royalredus
@royalredus 7 месяцев назад
@@SavannahSedai Hahahaa me too!
@eurekahope5310
@eurekahope5310 7 месяцев назад
Repairing takes work, but I get your point. 😉
@mosim9691
@mosim9691 7 месяцев назад
@royalredus You are hilarious!😅😅😅😅
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