The ones not married dont realize how common this is lol, me and my husband were too exhausted by the end of the night and just went to bed and honestly that feeling of being married and sleeping in the same bed was just as beautiful feeling
I'm not married...I'm actually just 100%...no...200% single and when I think about it, I'll just be happy to sleep with my husband in the same bed and cuddling. That's the best feeling ❤
How old were you? I'm 30. And yet to ever lay in bed a single time with a women and not want it. I will lay there rolling around for hours before I can sleep. So I'd usually go back home or sleep on the couch if she passed out early. God I remember being so sick in 2016 with strep throat. Could hardly keep food down. I remember my girlfriend asking me if I needed anything. I only asked for sex. I had pedialyte and nyquil. Sex and sleep was all I wanted. 😂 I could not imagine the level of pissed off and sad I'd be if the person I'm marrying didn't wanna have sex ON OUR WEDDING NIGHT. That's full blown baffling. Obviously there are certain situations. If someone is very sick. Or they just had a baby. But if you're completely fine. And are like "I've got a headache" on our wedding night. I'm not gonna be happy. I could have a full on Migrane. I'd just lay there and let her ride me while I put a pillow over my head for less noise and no lights. Not gonna tell her no on our damn wedding night.
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@@ibrahimismail577 If you are struggling read this~ I know I’m young but I would just like to say that, In 7th grade I was in a very dark place. I couldn’t feel much emotion and I HAD thoughts of revenge and other things. But God saved me, He gave me the people in my life and He showed Himself to me. Even in my darkest days He was there with me, He never left me. One day while I was in bed I started to pray with my hand to the sky and I felt something holding my hand. At that very moment I knew it was Him. I repent of all of the sins I have committed. I am ready to begin a new life with Him. There is still time go repent love one another and believe in Christ for He will forgive you❤️ He helped me in hard times and he will help you too:). Just pray! I will pray for you! Pls pin so more people can see!
@@user-vl6dc2mc8hwhy is every Christian “recruitment” Message about someone having bad life bla bla and then the life gets better and then somehow they are convinced it was Jesus, so therefore Christianity must be true. Why do you guys never try to use rational and logical arguments to explain your faith instead of using “personal experiences” that every other religion claims aswell?
If its a marriage where they arent allowed to alone together until after the marriage then the couple may need time to get to know each other. Shes not a purchased play doll.
@@user-ho4uc9pu6x nikah - marriage contract … the word actually means sexual intercourse. Usually there is a dowry and the woman can choose money, gold a house ect. Payment for the marriage. Bought and paid for.
im not sure if you being sarcastic or not, but if you are remember that while less stalky, yt has a alghoritm for targeted content. advice and comfort are for the people reading the comments, which yt demead would relate to the short.
Honestly idk y people are so mad in the comment section. It is teaching us that women have the right to say no and that consent matters. Give her time to be comfortable
The msg this ppl gave is not fully right....If u start taking morals from such youtubers it will lead to fitnah...In marriage individuals gives ultimate consent to come together & form 1 unit...They've rights over one another...Even after that if a person behaviour is individualistic then marital bond weakens & violation of marital rights takes place...!
@@ProfessorWolverine yes but even in marriage consent is important. asking is still important and respecting the other is also important. we live in a society where girls consent isnt even taken into consideration because of the marriage contract. neitther the husband or the wife has to say yes all the time. and both should be considerate of each other. just because sometimes one says no doesnt mean its a violation of right.
@@nimrarashid552 yes in Islamic framework there is a degree of consent but it's not the same level of consent like that of people who are individuals and not related to you... Here I am saying about behaving like individualistic person after marriage where you put consent very similar to an Individualistic person which is not the behaviour of marital relations and if anybody does that then it's a major red 🚩...Also I do consider that Muslim society don't follow Shariah fully...but still there is a degree of morality in them which makes them much better then other cultures & societies!
Haaaaa that reminded me of how my husband and I sat for 30 minutes taking pins out of my hair 😂, we barely managed to pray 2 Rakaat to Allah and we were so exhausted 😂
@sulekha3771, i know you mean it in a good way, but 1) Not everyone needs Allahs agreement , cus not everyone believes in him 2) Why would you care? What are you to him? Nothing. 3) You dont get to set the rules on other peoples livestile. Life your life as you want to but expect no one to follow it. Because YOU are NOT a God or a higher being. You are just as small and unimportant as every other human. Go, be happy outside the internet, and grow up to realise that people can be very okay with not needing allahs agreement or your views.
You meed to respect it, its her body and she'll be ready when she's ready 🤷🏻♀️ dont bug her about it she will let you know when shes ready just because you get married doesn't mean you have to have sex
My dress was so heavy and hot, my sweet husband was like, “please get some rest, it’s been a long night.” Edit: I didnt realize my English would come across incorrectly. I mean it was a heavy gown and a hot evening (temperature) since we married in late summer. I don’t share our intimate details, of course. Just that my husband cares that I’m safe and comfortable always.
dude thats literally the bare minimum. wedding nights r very tiring especially for the bride. no one should make her feel obligated to do things she doesn't want to when she doesn't feel like it
@@Taylor.Hertz.no this is different. Muslims do arranged mareiage so its understandable why it took a month, she needs to get to know him and feel comfortable enough around him, they didn't really know each other before marriage
@@Taylor.Hertz.If doing intercourse the only way you give affection to your husband then you should rethink the marriage. Imagine how tiring it would be if constantly your husband was asking for intercourse as his only way to feel affection. That must feel miserable. There are many other ways to show you love and have genuine desire to your partner.
@@user-bm4qk6br2r Sex is very important for men, it's one of the main thing that makes men feel loved and appreciated. A wife who refuses to have sex most of the time is similar to a husband who is lazy and can't provide financially for his wife and family.
My husband spent our wedding Night helping me remove the sewed in weave from my hair and then my period started 3 days early. We just showered and went to bed 😅
Yeah lots of girls they give up seats when man sit next to them on public transport, even when these girls arrived from.third world. Their sh1t and hypocrisy are 2nd to none.
--تنبيه-- تجنبوا إخواني في الله وضع صور تحتوي على نساء متبرجات وصور عورات بشكل عام(عورة مرأة وعورة رجل)حتى لا تأخذوا إثم على من يراها وأيضا المعازف إلا المعازف يغفل عنها كثير
I never understood how anyone though that you have to do IT on your wedding night? Like is it something that completes a marriage ritual?😅 I heard somewhere that without doing it on your wedding night you aren't actually married. like???
Yes its called consummating the marriage. Many cultures value consummation on the night of the wedding. In fact, it is law in many places that you can divorce for not doing it (doesnt have to be the wedding night tho).
@@melhorfutebol451 some people are mad in the comments because she doesn't wanna have sex with her husband the first night. I still don't get why people took this video so seriously.
if she's saying "You're Just A Friend" then she needs to explain what she means or the first thing getting done on the next day, is an Annulment. being tired is one thing being new to sex and fearful is another being told "you're just a friend" with no expectation of consummating the marriage, is an end to the marriage
You realise that it was voice of another video and she fit it as much as it could. And no one says their husband is their friend hence won't get intimate.
Dawood is hilarious the way he's gesturing with his palms before approaching her well no smart man does like that and he knows as well but that's a good one for laugh 😂
Im hoping you say this because the voice over is talking about a friend. But if your saying this out of belief, then let me tell you, you just proved that men only care about marriage to get themselves a human they can f*** without feeling bad for it. Thanks for telling women we arent allowed to not be ready for that disgusting thing you lot do straight away. I dare you to tell your mom this too
Damn, I thought sex on your wedding night was normal/ even a must so I felt kinda bad for being too tired at the end of the day. But all these comments really gave me a reality check lol
I mean... isn't your contents going a little overboard as Muslims? I'm not a perfect Muslim myself but just saying.. may God guide us all the right path.
@@fatimagh462 when you're not a perfect muslim then why saying it? Nobody is actually they're responsible for their deeds and you're responsible for yours if you don't like watching their content just unsubscribe it simple.
@@palwashadurrani4551 1st, i'm not their subscriber, this just popped out. 2. Nobody's perfect. It's our job to nicely give advices or reminders. I didn't offend anyone. 3. Muhammad pbuh said: The most *hated of speech to Allaah* is when one man says to another, ‘Fear Allaah,’ and the other says, *‘Mind your own business!’”* (al-Silsilah al-Saheehah by al-Albaani, no. 2598) & as a Muslim you should know our duty is to order what's right & deny what's wrong. Peace.
Because it’s want the groom has been wanting and waiting for his whole life. One of the reasons why they are ready to get married. Most females don’t think about it until after the wedding and they realize…… oh no I am not ready. 😉
A western man should date a woman at least few times (on average after 3rd date) before having sex 😅 Similarly, a Muslim man should date his wife (after wedding) at least few times before having sex 😂 Muslim community forbid dating before marriage, hence it’s awkward to have sex before getting to know each other and develop some feelings ❤
I stupidly worked midnight shift the night before my wedding, I was so tired at the reception, 8 o'clock rolled around I was packing up. I realize now that I'll always regret not calling off and partying with my wife more
I don't like the idea of doing that the first night especially when it's an arranged marriage. I could know the man for years (as in I have worked with him for years) but even when I get engaged there's no way I'd think of my fiancé in a sexual way until we get married. Also when two people get married they'd be hella tired because of how much they went through. I'm so surprised how alot of married couples can have enough energy to do that. I'd want my first time to be full of energy from both sides and not just few minutes or few rounds but the rest of the night where we could both laugh, enjoy and chat even during the act..
I can’t even imagine how awkward the first night would be as a Muslim, I mean this guy hasn’t seen your hair not to mention your entire body. I would feel very shy. Do muslims normally consummate on the first night?
From what I know, he must have seen her hair and been with her for long enough that it should’t be that awkward.. Islamically you’re supposed to have sex only after marriage.
No, you got it all wrong. First, it depends on the culture we are not all the same. Second, in islam when meeting someone for marriage it actually encourages you to wear clothes that show ur body Shape and hair. This is for woman and men
hi this is a bit late but no i don’t think so. this is completely a joke. if they want to, sure that’s fine but from what i know, most don’t. it takes time and that is perfectly allowed in islam, as long as it happens at one point.
i have a story so i was at this resturnant and i saw a women that looked like jasmine and a guy that looked liked dawood. and they had a kid! so i dont live where they live i live ina differng countey so i thought they were on vacation. but they had a kid so i was like”wait a dang minute, that is not them” . so i went closer and the women was somone else and so was the guy. i felt so embarresd bc i was going to say “ hii im such a big fan of yours! “
Y'all, if you just spent the whole evening getting in cars and planes and cabs then waiting in line to get on the cruise ship, 10am before brunch is a great time to consummate that marriage.
All the comments take the fun out the joke. I thought my life was dull and boring. These people are married and clearly this is a joke. I highly doubt these 2 gorgeous people are abstaining 😒
