thank you for your courage in discussing this sensitive issue. I have dealt with depression since I was 12 and it's just a miracle I'm still here. again thank you :)
Awesome video! Is it okay with you if I use your video as part of a college presentation on Gender and Mental Health? I'll credit you! I think my class could learn a lot from this.
Hey found you here on youtube :) this doesnt like relate to the video but i need help. Like how can i convince my parents to allow me to get a short haircut? And its really hard to pass male with long hair :( thanks
Glad you found me! Good to virtually meet you! I'm sorry you're going through this. What would happen if you came home and your hair was short? Else, you could ease your way into it, go for a "pixie" cut - pretty popular trend! I mean, even at the barber, you could explain saying hey, I want a masculine cut but I'm worried about what my parents will say. If you find a stylist that is more well versed in diversity, especially with gender, they can help you achieve a cut that best fits you. I know parents can be difficult when it comes to things like these. But ultimately, it is your body, your hair, your choice. I do not know your home situation, but I'd say, if you feel safe cutting it off, cut it off. If this is what would make you happy and allow you to explore your identity, what is there to lose? You should be able to feel comfortable in your skin and if short hair is part of that piece, do it. You're happiness is the most important thing in your life. Be you, be proud.
Hey thank you soo much! :) but my moms like no you cant get a short cut then guys wont look at you... im soo pissed like why... i dont give a s*it if they dont look at me i rather be happy as me. Shes scared that i wont get a boyfriend.. its soo annoying and unsuporting of her
No diss to a fellow FTM, but this is an algorithm fail. For myself not depressed because Im FTM. Not depressed at all. Im annoyed by the unnecessary obstacles put in my way by trans ppl because my FTM journey very unique. From overcoming fibroids to accessing T and looking gender affirming surgeons specifically for FTM.
Hey there, thanks for watching and sharing your input. I am happy you do not suffer from depression. However, I do want to note, everyone's depression looks different, similar to people's transitions - no experience is identical, as you said, it is unique. Also, I want to be very clear in saying I do not suffer from depression because I am transgender. It is my brain, ever since I was a child, and sure, some hard lived experiences, but not because I am trans. My transition gives me life. And yes, the obstacles are a bummer, but I wouldn't change my life for anything. Every moment from starting t, to changing my name/pronouns, to surgery - all those are hard to go through, especially mustering through it with depression, but those are the moments I cherish and celebrate. Because ultimately, it's made me a patient, empathetic, and humble man today. But again, thanks for the input and I am truly happy that you are fortunate enough to not suffer from depression. For a more recent take and thought on depression/suicidality, check out my Suicide Awareness video - its more of an accurate representation of my life experience with depression. Best of luck to you my friend.
@@hmmoonshine90 I'm not suicidal despite ppl wanting myself to be due to their obsessive and incessant thinking that theyre entitled to my life. And when I refuse to allow that, then the mission is to ruin my life. I'm Single Proud Independent Dreadhead Dark Skin Hetero FTM, lives my life as a straight masculine man. I'm spiritual not religious and a targeted individual. Im running for President as an Independent. Not jewpendent.
@@supaswagg251 Hey man, thanks for sharing again! So great you are proud of the person you are, you should be. I apologize if I have stirred anything up within these comments, it was not my intention. I appreciate you sharing a little about yourself, continue to be you and be proud of the person you are. Best of luck to you.
