FTM PASSING TIPS- HOW TO PASS AS MALE 

I remember once at a gas station my mom sent my inside to get ice.I was wearing a flannel, decent sized jeans, high tops, and a bandanna. When I checked out the ice she said, “Have a great day, young man!” I wasn’t out yet (and still am not) I had the long hair sadly. I was so happy she called me a young man. Then my mom went inside for something, and the lady at the register said “That’s a nice son you have! He was so kind :)” then I heard my mom yell “S H E ‘ S A G I R L ! “ She kinda got a little angry so I admit, I kindagotalittleangry

Me in the closet: hmm. Yes. edit: not in the closet anymore 😎👉👉

"Don't overdo the gel. It's not a look." Blaine Anderson from Glee: *am I a joke to you?*

Me : *GRABS COCONUT OIL RIGHT WHEN YOU SAY IT CAN HELP YOU PASS*

Tip for achieving a voice you’re comfortable with: learn how to speak as a male character you like the voice of, even if you can only match tone. Good luck my fellow ftms!

Damn ok this is my new bible

“Dorito shape” love it

I’ll definitely have to start doing some of this stuff to pass a bit better!

6. I size-up my clothes but that is because I really love over-sized clothes. I want to pass as male but I also don’t really want to copy the guys around me or blend in like that

Brah that emoji thing was funny to watch when your eyes were moving about L00000L great video tho I need to see that exercise video

2:50 see the Dorito, be the Dorito

my adoptive mother has been refusing to call me by he/him or Ozzy, so, she now calls me "Child" "object" "gay thing" ect, so im going to show her and all her friends, that i go by he/him, i will be packing, and making a chest binder( because im extreamly poor so i cant afford one :/ ) and i know im going to get my ass beat because of it, but, im just 13, trying to be myself, and trying to have a great relationship with my boyfriend (that mother dosent know about, and hes already agreed that in three years ill be living with him so i can get top and bottom surgery! hes very supportive and hes now glad hes dating a male, he thinks its fun) oh and, sorry for bad spelling ive been crying for 7 hours, and its now 1:30 AM, my whole family is very homophobic and i hate it, i cant wait till i move in with my boyfriend..... ill be able to be free from the physical and emotional abuse, anyways, theres my life story i guess?? lol - Ozzy

dude i got so happy when he said that acne could help you pass

Hey man, I came here from reddit. I'm pretty far along in transition but I wanted to say you are giving great advice in every video I've seen and I subbed for support, keep it up!

What I like about this video is that you mentioned every thing about passing . thank you

Reminder you don’t have to follow all of these! This isn’t any hate on the video, in fact this was helpful for us. This is just a reminder for people who think they have to do everything in this video to be a valid trans male :)

Him : be confident! Me, who wants to be shy guy : Uhhhhhhh

Once I was at the supermarket with some family I wasn't out to yet, and one of my friends saw me. He rushed up and said (and I quote): "Altas! (my preferred name) Bro, I did NOT expect to see my favorite boy here, at the supermarket! How you doin' king?" I didn't know what to do- My family looked confused af but I was litterally so happy- ALSO HE CALLED ME KING HUSBAND MATERIAL 🛐🛐

I’m so happy that I’m naturally tall and don’t have a Farley high voice, so that tones my dysphoria a bit haha

This video is really well made. It seems really useful, and I shared it with my friend that’s going through this kind of gender dysphoria so I hope they can use it : )

I started voice training and working out and I'm about to get a shorter hair cut. Also a tip from me : when you don't or can't have a binder, then you can use sport bras. I don't know if they are helpful for everyone, but for the ones with a smaller chest, I definitly recommend. Also confidence is the hardest point on this list because in public I'm always feeling like I'm in disguise and I'm about to get caught and then bullied by everyone 😅

Timestamsp: 0:00 beginning 0:40 hair 1:38 face 2:19 voice 2:48 build 3:35 binding 4:20 clothing 5:35 packing 6:03 hight 6:37 body language 7:20 confidence

I made a packer earlier out of a sock and the euphoria I'm feeling while wearing it rn is indescribable

''I don't recommend any crazy hair color'' me having half green half purple: well...already failing💀

A way to help not walk with a sway is slightly away ur shoulders instead and don't spread your legs too far you eventually just do it naturally. And certain stands are okay at times, but when guys have their hands on their hips it's normally when working and figuring out solutions

Thanks so much! I am trying to identify outside as non binary. I really want to dress as a male now, but I have dysphoria around my hips, hair, thighs and chest. I bought a gc2b binder a few days ago Which is solving the problem :) this helped a ton! Thanks! (From an awkward 12 year old in Canada)

This is very helpful. I’m wearing more sweatpants and basketball ball shorts. During gym and XC practice I get gendered as male a lot and I love it. It started to make me feel more confident in myself and a little less dysphoric. Thank you for this video it really helps

AHHH thank you so muchhhhh!! , I'm a trans male (13) and I don't wanna do testosterone because I could regret it. Obviously I can't alter my body because I don't want to and it's dangerous for kids, I'm already pretty masculine, I'm pretty chubby and my jaw is way more masculine. The lunch ladies always called me "young man" whenever I was in public school, it gave me a rush of adrenaline and happiness. I don't have a deep voice that much but I definitely don't look like a girl, I also have muscles along with my slightly chubby figure, I also wear male clothing, I'm getting a binder soon! But I bind with my sports bras for now. I might start a discord server to help other trans men, you really inspired me and also helped a lot. 🖤 I really appreciate you, thank you.

I'm so happy I have a deep voice FoR a GiRl although I'm not a girl lol

Okay but your accent is amaazing

look at what the boys around you are wearing and copy them what the boys around me wear: adidas pants, supreme shirts, and soccer socks with white sneakers what if i want style tho.

Found this in my recommended, really helpful as a masculine nonbinary!

i think makeup actually helps me pass if i contour my cheekbones and nose but that might not be for everyone!

me: nahh, I´m not trans. I just watch it because of research and stuff. also me: taking notes on how to pass better as a boy I guess I´m a boy. Thank you by the way for this video. It helped me and my researching very well.

Thank you bro. You’re a lifesaver. 👍🏻 This Channel deserves more supporter.

I’ve been binging passing tips videos and I have to say this is the best one yet it’s less complicated and definitely helps a lot thanks man

This is incredible! Congrats dude! I know a lot of guys will be able to benefit from this.

6:49 but fuck, crossing legs is like so comfortable when I do something on phone lol btw: Thank u so mmuuuuch

The walking tip is a lifesaver I've been trying to find out a more masculine way to walk and this is perfect thank you bro

This helps a lot. Thanks for putting your time into making this

Comment anything i might have missed or improvements I could make :) full playlist : ru-vid.com/group/PLazd2y1qlOcAE7ZKb5iUx9yCNdZwD00Rr

yesssss someone mentions body language!!! great video dude! only thing is im pretty sure youre not supposed to wear the tape as long because it has less room for movement and breathing. in cosplay we call it open chest binding, and we only do it when the character had an open shirt because binders are safer and can be worn longer

girly gossip? Sweety I may be a trans man but I am still gay🙄💅🏼

Amazing video. I love that it's very well explained and organised. I hope more people discover your channel because it's very helpful for trans guys.

Good news, this video helped me build up the courage to tell my dad that I want to wear a binder and stuff so as to pass as more masculine! Bad news, he was talking down to me the entire time and didn't listen to what I was trying to say.

I have.... I hate to say but c cup and I’m like 5.2 in height... -_- sometimes I wanna die... *siiiiigh*

this is so frickin useful! especially for teens thank you!

okay but like i really love this. omg you're so underrated. 💕💕

I’m a woman I don’t want to be a man but I want to be a masc woman for my future girlfriend this helped a lot thank you Edit:I commented this 9 months ago and I’m trans now lol

Love this!! I'll have to use these steps

Even 5 years later I still agree with all of these tips. Already know all of them due to personal experience but I watch it occasionally for a small confidence booster. Props to you.

These guys from my old school used to say "are you a guy" as a joke, mainly cuz I have a kind of deep voice. I guess they knew I was trans before I did

Jasper Rose 1 year ago Fair warning for the minoxidil, please be very careful if you have pets. This is very poisonous to cats and even kill them, please if you have animals think about this. Along with that please try this on your wrists before putting it on your face, you could be allergic. My personal use, is it helped a bit, but I was unbearably itchy after five days and had to rinse it out and throw it out so no animals can get a hold of it.

Tip for dudes with a femme voice, hum with your head going up and down until your vocal chords don't feel tight, then open your mouth. Feel how your throat kind of opens too? Close your mouth, but keep your throat open. Relax your shoulders, and talk. That should make your voice sound deeper.

This guide is very helpful! It looks like I'm already on the right track with a lot of these. I cant help but feel a little bitter at how we have to do all of this analysing and tweaking just to be perceived as who we are while others don't even have to think about it, but I try to remember that things worth having don't come easy.

Thanks for this video ! I'm a trans guy, and I'm pre T, I need to get my hair cut differently, because mine is feminine even though I go to the barber.

I recommend Spectrum Outfitters for Binders as well. They are UK based. Although at face value the look more expensive with the shipping you’d pay for GC2B it works out at around the same price. They also only have the compressing material on the front meaning less strain on your back.

If you have type 4c hair like me you can get dreads and twist because they look amazing

Love this alot..This made my passing a bit..Thx for the help :)))

Thank you so so much for giving me those guys accounts you don’t believe how that helped me

Holy shit, this is a lot more than expected. This is really nice, thank you for your info. :)

And remember that gender expression and gender are DIFFERENT. I was uncomfortable at first wearing funky earrings because I was afraid not to "pass", but seeing Frederic Chen's channel and his amazing looks made me more confident to express myself however I want. Remember, you do not HAVE TO pass to be considered transgender. If you feel like something feels uncomfortable for you, don't do it.

Hey man, brilliant video! Can I ask, how did you get a little avatar of you & sync up with the narration?

Thanks i haven’t had surgery and this is amazing

Wow, that was really well put together. I agree with everything you mentioned. You were respectful while you were at it. I have seen a few transmen complained about not being able to pass...while they're wearing a dress/skirt with makeup on. The reality is...if you want to pass as male but leaning towards feminine looking.....you're going to be mistaken as a female. Those who tend to pass really well as men tend to do all or most of everything you had mentioned in this video.

You see, I wanna look masculine, but I don't wanna look straight

remember passing is not a necessity, people who don't pass are just as trans as people who do and looks are not the determining factor of your gender identity and passing is not the goal of everyones trans journey.

im not trans but these videos help me to do vocal impressions so thank you a lot :)

Honestly I didn’t know a lot of the stuff on this list and I really needed this so thank you!(Gonna send this to my friend who recently came out to me as trans ftm hehe)

Hi! I know that not many people will even want to follow this or have a strong connection with their hair but I'm native american and I care a lot about my hair, so here's my tip for long haired men: (ps, i only have tips for straight or wavy hair, sorry.) -Wear in tight, low ponytails. -Comb hair-line back and put into a poorly done bun, dont worry about it being too high. -Copy the tight low ponytail but put it into a really tight braid, try not to make it too fluffy, it might seem feminine. -Let it free, no need to style it, your long hair is just as masculine as short hair!

one tip for walking to help your hips sway less is imagine a line on the ground from where you are to where you're going and walk with one foot on either side of the line, instead of walking on the line. walking with your feet directly in front of each other reads more feminine, so avoiding that can be good ❤

The thumbnail “you too shall pass!” Is too funny heheh

I do the slow talking all the time, it helps with my voice a lot, sure it makes me quieter but it makes me more comfortable, I also found working out can decrease chest size, and there are certain workouts to help get a smaller chest, doing basically any arm workout can help

thank you! you've helped so much.

Thanks for this...I really needed some help so..hehe

ur my new favourite youtuber

Great video for Trans men :) , Im a Pre T trans man & I been sitting like a man since i was a kid & and fighting with myself 3 years ago trying to see what was wrong with me.... Started wearing clothes from the mens section & was comfortable for once in my life. So picking mens clothes come natural to a trans they just pick what they like on them. Already people think im a boy for thats great for me :D , and body shape not much of a choice people have depends on your bone structure too & Body fat. Im im hoping for Inverted triangle.

hi love your channel great tips have a super crazy rad day!!!:-)

one note, you did recommend trans tape, but id like to say that you should NOT use trans tape if you have sensitive skin!!! i tried it once having eczema and it definitely scarred 😕

yoooo this video is so good!! im rlly thankful that i look masculine already and that my hair helps me pass more even though it's kinda long. still might use some of these tips tho!

Honestly this video really helped, tysm

I'm struggling sooo much with my voice, it always gives me away because I have such a high voice 😢

I just want to say this to yall: WELCOME TO THE BOOOOOOOOOYS!

This video is really useful! 👍🧡

Aye nice first video man

Thanks for the tips I got called sir for the first time:)

I’m a trans femboy tho-

i got referred to as a boy by mistake but they never bothered to fix it and im feelin really good 😌✨

pretty good tips overall, working out can do a lot for body shape and you can socialize with gym bros which are the most manly men

On my first day of going out for shopping groceries after coming out and being confident with it I still was insecure about my walk. Because I have really obvious feminine hips and legs and I have to wear heels due to knee problems I automatically was swinging my hips a lot. A lot. So I spend an hour walking with my hands down my pockets because that would restrict me from swinging my hips freely if I forgot about it and I had such muscle strain at the end of the day just from walking like a normal person. 10/10 would do again.

I have been struggling with my gender for years now, and as an afab this feels like a really safe place for me, so firstly I'd just like to thank you for making these videos. secondly I was wondering if anyone would be able to tell me a little more about trusting myself? because I've very recently decided to go with genderflux as my "label" because I go though so many phases with gender. though the times I feel most feminine, I tend to convince myself I've been faking everything else. idk if I'm the only one but I just needed a place to get this out and here seemed like the safest.

Thanks for sharing buddy

“the pictures slowly get worse” HAD ME DYINHGGG also this is really helpful

I keep coming back to your videos aha

Him: to pass with height you can get platforms to be taller Me who’s ftm who’s taller then every girl I’ve met:

Thank you so much this video helped so much!!!!!

I'm able to pass now after following tips from this vid after seeing it a few months ago and tysm dude. really highly appreciate it. any tips for a haircut for someone w a round face shape who doesn't like to style my hair/has no time to? I'm kinda lazy lol

Omg this helped so much thx :D

Thank you for this it helps a lot

Me dressing like a jojo character 😃👍