The “laughing behind my wine glass” is such a middle sibling thing to do. They literally live for stuff like this and this person definitely wanted karma to strike down the younger sister ⚡️
honestly, gotta love the forethought that went into Adam's decision to talk to OP rather than his wife about Sally's texts. Dude went "okay yeah I gotta talk about this" but knew that OP would be the better option due to having less emotional attachment to him.
He knew OP hated Sally and her parents for all that happened over the years. He also knew OP would do whatever she could to protect her sister, especially with her being pregnant.
One of my biggest wishes in life is to raise my future children correctly, from teaching them how to behave to how they should be treated by others, with no favouritism whatsoever, until they become a fully mature adults that respect others and receive respect from others.
NOOOOOOOO!!!! The parents got a slap in the face with how bad their golden child actually was and now they want to beg the other two back! IT'S A TRAP! DON'T DO IT! They ruined their relationship with you and your sister by catering and playing favorites with one child over two! LET THEM GO!!!!
Honestly I struggle with this. It’s so easy for people online to say “cut them off” bc we aren’t living it, but realistically, the parents are probably getting old, and I don’t think at least trying to mend a relationship before they go is the absolute worst idea. It depends on the person and how deep the emotional trauma actually goes, we never know those extents just through text, but it is closure that she should be able to consider if she wants to. She’s an adult, she knows them, so she knows what to look out for better than we do.
I think in op's place, I would pity my parents too much to remain no contact after they went so far as to kick Sally out. I imagine that they'll never be close. But some contact is better than none-plus, the older daughters sounds like they'll have really good boundaries. (And if those boundaries get violated Adam will COOK)
@@figurativelyliterally9796no they dont deserve anything. For how many years did they treat maya like shit, beating her up every time thanks to sister lying about things. I understand a slap but wasnt her ass completly bruesed one time? Thats domestic abuse in my book. The parents deserve nothing at best.
Them being your parents means absolutely nothing you sharing DNA with someone does not make you love them, or make you obligated to treat them well as your parents have shown do not forgive your dad, or your mom they’re facing their own music
Adam had more than every right to call out Sally on her behavior. She should be somewhat responsible, but the parents are mostly at fault. If this actually happened, Adam, you are the epitome of what a hero is.
“At the end of the day they’re my parents” no at the end of the day you are their child they shouldn’t have ever done that to you, your sister and everyone else
"At the end of the day, they're my parents." No,no they're not. They never cared or loved you or your sister. They weren't Parents to either of you, only Sally. With everything Sally did to OP and her sister, they backed Sally completely. Not until Sally stole money from them that they "realized" how disgusting she is. They loved her,praised her for everything she ever did. Until they discovered she stabbed them in the back. Yes they kicked her out. They will let her back in eventually.
I feel bad for the dad, honestly. Probably went along with the mother for the most part. Maybe Sally had her personally from her mother. But be skeptical with those parents... they need to prove to YOU that they want you, not the other way around. Maybe plan a day with the father to see his side of things, but the mother in this story doesn't seem to care like Sally, so I wouldn't give her the time of day.
But how The Voice actually said: PalETTE had me like f****** dying and also that sister is a b**** like she needs more than that of a reality check she needs to go into a home where she's abused and not the favorite Child and see how she likes it... 🫣😑😅
If I was going to that gathering I would make sure to have two bottles of wine ready for Maya and her husband as a "thank you for saving me the energy of calling out my asshole of a relative" gift and as a little way to give them something to enjoy when they need it. I know I would be great full if after my sister did that to me someone gave me a little pick me up for when I get home.
@@strxyclips7475how did he spoil? All he said is Gojo cooked… how bad is your reading comprehension? Also, you’re literally the one spoiling us rn. Hypocrite.
Yeah, when people used that on me (my sperm donor and a couple exes) all I just said was "well, is down the river, not across the street". I grew up with narcissistic parents, I'm immune to emotional blackmail. And my exes are still alive, go figure.
Adam reminds me of that one Army college ROTC instructor who came to our JROTC class and legit scared the shit out of everyone yelling motivatingly. He was also buff as hell and named “(1st?)SG Buck” 😭.
Aha, the fact that Maya could hide her laughter is great, my senc3 of humor would have unleashed at the second sentence 💀 Either way I wouldn't feel so bad for "my" parents if they did this to me and unborn child even after this, as th3 saying goes: "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" But in this case they played gambling their whole ass life. 😂