Fun Would-You-Rather! 

Hi over25! A therapist here and I thought I would answer that last question of what to replace the intrusive thoughts with 😄. Answer with what the facts are or counter the negative thought with an alternative positive approach. For example "what if I fail?" - Fact: "I won't know if I don't do it" , or "I have not done this before so there is no proof that I will fail". Or an alternative approach to that would be "what if I succeed?" Another way to approach it is to ask yourself what your biggest fear is if that intrusive thought actually happens. Same example - what if I fail? - ask yourself "what's the worst thing that would happen if I fail?" I hope that helps.

This reminded me of Over25 pre-2019: more carefree, relaxed, unfiltered, wine on set, more banter (yes, I know they prefaced it by saying this will a fun, easy-going video). Maybe it's nolstagia speaking here but I love the feeling I'm experiencing watching today's video.

Jules your realness and authenticity italupeleka mbali sana. Amen.

For disappearing messages on WhatsApp they disappear from both ends Screenshots is a must Always a pleasure watching you guys Hope you’ll leave us with some episodes for the festive season

You guys should organize for us a ka smash or pass grown up edition just for fun I would like to see whether your tastes have really changed since the last edition fun video

Everything about Ivy is giving boss babe vibes. Love the woman she's become😍.

Ivy’s charisma is at a high level ❤

Why are some comments triggered by Ivy’s clarity of what she wants? Some people simply know what they want out of life and are bold and unapologetic about it. I happen to also share similar personality traits to Ivy, and even found it interesting that I could answer for her most of the questions. Why some people tend to have issues with people who know their minds has always baffled me.

Ivy keep doing what your doing ...I love ,love your energy and clarity❤️ . Shikie and Jules alll you ladies are a vibe 😅😅😅.I really enjoyed this one .Keep up the good work ladies .

Ivy and Jules are a reflection of who I am. I love them so much💓

I read somewhere " by not taking risks you certainly avoid all risks of failure, but also, back away from the reasonable risks that are fundamental to your success. " ( No alternative available). 🥂

Classic Jules finding nuances in every situation 😂😂😂💀

This was fun! Minute 35 was vibes💯💯💯 Ivy is so self aware, Love it ❤. For fun or not it's hard to miss an insightful episode around here. ❤‍🔥

Jules explaining the severity of bad breath has made my day 😂 I was literally screaming at my phone "Nooooo. Bad breath never!!" Thank you Jules. Like yeah body odour is the pits, but bad breath is something else!

Richest pls.... I will stop talking to keep the dumbness on the inside 😂😂😂😂😂

These babes are not a monolith yawa. If you don’t relate to Ivy, do you, no need to spew hatorade. Her views are valid, even if they don’t neatly fit into the box you want her in. Happy New Year Y’all.

It’s crazy how I relate so much to Jule’s personality and preferences. I think it’s a thing with Pisces and cancers 😂. I’m more of a grey person than ,’black and white’, unlike Ivy. No wonder I’m so indecisive and more of a half-empty person. What’s sad is I think capitalism rewards the decisive people mostly. Just my opinion. I enjoyed this episode. Happy holidays.

Never waited for a video this long... life has been lifying for a min and ran a marathon through your channel. Y'all dont know how much you contribute to the sanity of some of us Kenyans. Much love from my side and thanks so much to over 25 for you guys always being you. ❤❤ Also am the 7th commenter 😁😁😁 for once niko top ten 😅

I love love Jules since day 1😍 Love also makes me so happy😂 I always relate to Shikie coz I'm an introvert and I'd like to get to the level at which Ivy is. So positive and full of life. This was a great episode🥰 I miss Lornzie and I feel she'd be more of Ivy😂 She is always calm and doesn't overthink😂

I am with Jules on the bad breath! she explained it excatly how i would.😍😍😍😍

Smart can make riches.. I love you guys

Just ivy , , your personality is 😍😍i love..

Gheeels looking finnne❤ we miss lonzie wooi😢

I have been a fan for so long, that was getting many of their answers are. Interesting

I prefer to have evening calls ; if it’s a morning call , let it be over the weekend 😀. Then I prefer texts to phone calls also

I enjoyed this... It made me really think on certain things.

I ALWAYS RESONATE WITH JULES AND ADMIRE IVY SO MUCH.

I once heard a podcast convo on own with Alicia Keys, she explained how she no longer used some words and it really made sense. Like for 'if' she replaced it with "when".

Jules was def def tipsy at 15mins in😂❤❤ love her energy

Love the questions!!

I relate with Jules and Shikie more. Much love❣❣

I believe I am more of an Ivy, black and white!

A fool and his money are soon parted

Early gang💃🏿🔥🔥 see what you did there Jana was a holiday leo ndio Monday😂😂.Hiyo last quiz is basically cramps😭. Nawapenda💕. Lornzie❤️.

@Shikie the whatsapp disappearing messages is for both sides... Screenshot that shit!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

I was eating while watching this. The bad breath, bad odor conversation...let's just say am no longer eating

Jules at 22:02 is the "Wait, wait, wait, let me tell you something" meme. 😂😂

Who said we will learn nothing on this episode 🤔 always learn here 👍🏾

I think “show” too 🤣

I swear Ivy and I are soul mates 😂😂😂 I'm here like what are you guys thinking 😅

I love Shikie's Surname ❤

I was with Ivy on everything but bonus and intense pain

Whatsapp, it disappears for both. Happened to me on a very important discussion I had with someone on procuring land

I've been laughing through this whole episode 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

loved these Qs!

I enjoyed this

Jules is too confused.She still doesn't know herself. It will be curious to see how she evolves with time. I wonder if this same contradiction in communicating her needs bleeds into other aspects of her daily life and relationships whether it's work, art life, etc....I only say that because she says she wants a certain type of man but has opened up about dating the complete opposite of that...Happy Discovery Jules :). I can't wait to see you get clear on these things.

Funnnnn

I cried when we had to pick between bad breath and bad odor 😭😭 both are so so terrible it stings ,chokes aaa-aaa

Amazing 😍🤩 action

Related with Jules and Misstiramisu

I'm so Jules on the calling time

actually the disappearing messages is on both ends.

I know I'm super late, but I'm really loving the new intro. Always gives me the urge to twerk ♥️♥️

Jules is so me with this😄

Definitely sort by rating over here! Wueh

Mali Safii👍 Akili Mingiii🔥🔥🔥🔥 Wooow 🥰♥️💓❤️♥️

jules & shiki are relatable & realistic. Ivy gives superficial traits. Theres more to life than tangible stuff. Things u cant touch and see,which bring fulfilment .

♥️♥️♥️♥️

Ivy is my twin

How do I subscribe to your channel again??😅 love you ladies so much. Please make a plan to visit us in South Africa 🇿🇦 tafadhali

Bad breath is baaaad!

😁👌

Am an Ivy anyday

But I think rich people are also smart. You have to be smart to know how to make money.

😍😍

What happened here😢 no new episode

Nice episode👏🏾

I wanna comment on what happens in my head with the what-ifs and how I chase them away but I don't want the devil to know cause he can't be in my head.

Gaaaang

First today😊😊

OMG! WhatsApp messages disappear on both ends, some even after 24hrs..it's crazy out here

Signs that your getting old...1: You find the club to loud @jules😂

I miss a Jules intro/Moderation.

Jules and Shikkie are always the best gems in over 25 ,then Lornzie but Ivy acts like she doesn't live on planet earth ni kama she lives in her own bubble ama world ...too perfect to be real ...lol

Bad breath, thanks to masks!!

I just love Shiike. So we share the same love language.🤍