Things We Know For Sure 

Jule's first 'what she knows?' I can tell you, it cant be truer. I was born with a disability and I would say that the first 20 years of my life, it was my BIG PAIN. I got into therapy at 20 ivi. Let me tell you, at 26 I have build a whole career around disability. It has served me, my family and my community. I cannot believe it myself sometimes. It is in the radical acceptance of myself that I made a beautiful, beautiful life for myself. Jules is usually in a different vibration, that why she cant even express her thoughts in our normal words 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 I fvcking love her. Love OVER25

I understand where Jules is coming from. For example, you could feel disorganized or messy and completely feel terrible about it maybe because everyone around you is very organized , very plan oriented or whatever, maybe even your parents keep telling you that you’re disorganized. Kumbe that “weakness” is tied to something like art, or creativity, and you use it to create beautiful things, maybe because your mind wonders a lot…

I'm definitely digging Ivy's look 😍😍😍

What i know for sure is that engaging with your content is one of the best decisions I ever made.

Completely agree with Jules...I always thought I was different coz I couldn't concentrate and my mind would be everywhere I forgot things time and again and I used to HATE myself for it. I couldn't find my purpose in life and I literally listened to every podcast on how to find your purpose on RU-vid. Turns out me listening to all those video was part of my purpose cause through that I learnt Soo much and I can creatively come up with ideas that help people....inshort your point of pain, anger and frustrations is aligned to why God brought you here. And if you learn to get through it then you become a holding hand to the people behind you experiencing the same

I am 44, but you guys have influenced me. Thank you 😊 💓. My one thing that I know for sure is you can learn from anyone.

I think things l know for sure is; 1. There is a higher power who is in control of everyone that happen in life 2. Life is a journey nothing happens by mistake 3.what you think is what you become.

I’m an older woman 65 to be exact! I really enjoy your videos and individually as well. I follow you on instagram as well. Keep up the good work

"yet you are able to attract yoghurt, very quickly" 🤣😅😂🤣 also Lornzie saying mmm...is so soothing 😊

This is such an insightful conversation. Going into my late 20s has been like an epiphany: you can dream all you want but without action you'll always be going in circles. You have to be intentional about where you want to be in life, it's not default. Another thing I know for sure: trash in, trash out. What you feed yourself mentally comprises your quality as a human. Be careful what you let in. It's always an "aha" moment with you guys. Keep being a positive influence to the world ❤.

"From your greatest pain will come your greatest triumph". Amen to that.

One thing I realized recently and discovered is you attract who you are , universe supply you with what you need you just need to have intentional vibration

Jules is so deep I LOVE IT!

No coincidences in life. Just today I came across my late dad's writings, he loved to write. It went thus: Sow an action, you reap a habit, sow a habit, you reap a character, sow a character, you reap a destiny. My dad has been long gone, he died October 2020, but I see the notes today, only for me to hear Ivy say the same thing just now.

I love these. Thank you, ladies. When life gives you lemons, you make lemonade! To add on Jules point to having weaknesses or facing adversity, a crisis, or even misfortune, you have to use that to your advantage and turn it into a positive thing. Most of the radio or Tv personalities I know today used to be referred to as really loud individuals saying they talk too much/noise makers as if it was a bad thing. But today, look what they are doing? Keeping people entertained with their noise. Many RU-vidrs at some point were regarded as ''oversharers'' and it still happens in some spaces somewhere in social circles but see what it has birthed! Communities of helpful and insightful spaces on inexhaustible daily life topics and challenges. Work-life balance does not exist but you can excel at many things in a given time frame. I did not want to bring my spirituality and Bible here but there is a reason God said we cannot serve two masters at ago! You need to concentrate on a thing per time. For example; you can not go drinking and partying every night and then manage to get the kids ready for school every morning and then go to work and remain productive functioning like this 24/7. You can split your hours among things, your days as well, and your months and the year. School time should be school time so that work time does not suffer and work time should be work time so that home time does not suffer etc. There are tools that help with this too. And also, the boundaries help, what are you really hoping to achieve more should set the pace. I know I will get heat for this but to women especially mothers, you need that 20 minutes, 30 minutes, a day off to yourself; the house will not catch fire hopefully but you need to fix yourself somewhere in this equation if it should ever balance at all. Find time to rest.

I think Jules is trying to relay that we all occupy a space that needs to be occupied. Your strengths are there to fill a certain gap, and the same goes for your ‘weaknesses’.

"start your day with a completed task" is certainly the oil for motivation! Thanks Ivy ❤️

This was a beautiful and timely episode. Thank you for sharing! One thing I know for sure, is nothing changes if nothing changes. Another thing I know for sure is, wherever you are, there you are. You cannot run away from yourself.

About work life balance. I read a snippet from Shonda Rhime's book "Year of yes" where she said that she got to a point of acceptance that work-life balance might be an illusion. She realised that when she's winning in her career, she's not fully present for her children as she'd want to, and vice versa in different aspects of her life. I found that insightful. So glad you're back💃🏾

Loved the conversation. Very insightful. What I know for sure:- 1. Consistency is key 2. Life takes care of life 3. Done is better than perfect -whatever is worth doing, is worth doing poorly

I absolutely get what Jules said. A good example of myself is growing up, I always asked questions and never accepted how adults and the society at large expects us to follow some 'rules' even when they don't make sense. My curiosity was not welcomed majorly because in my tribe, children and girls are seen as a decoration and are not expected to contribute any intellectual meaning to life. I never stopped asking questions and this caused friction at home especially with my mom because i was not being a 'good model daughter'. Now in my twenties and truly finding my ground with the kind of life i want to live, I have realized that me using my voice is my greatest joy and contribution towards creating a better world. For sure it comes with consequences but i realize that the backlash i received in my childhood has built me and now i can speak on behalf of those who cannot. My voice cannot be silenced and i have embraced it and just like the women who sacrificed so much of their lives to fight for a world that is worthy of living in, I am keeping that torch alive, using my voice, to pass it on to those who are yet to come. ☺

Totally agree with Jules...your greatest pain gives you purpose. My early widowhood has given purpose to my life so if you have friends going through this send them my way!!!

Love love this. There's so much we learn from you guys. The therapists we needed :)

Very insightful episode.... Really needed this in my life right now. I really related to most of the examples ...Thank you so much Over 25!!!!!

When Julia was trying to explain… all I could think of was.. “ All things are working for my good. Even the “bad”

Jules- whatever challenges you most lies the Divine purpose. Find a purpose in it, it’s a area of your gifting. This was a very good convo thanks for bringing this thought to light

Ivy looks sooo good. love love her look

This episode has been eye opening for me, so much to learn and think about

I understand exactly what Jules is trying to say. Every human being born into this world will always experience a certain pain that is so unique to them based on their upbringing and environment and only until you overcome that thing in your life is when you can live in your true purpose! There are so many things in our lives that are challenges to us but in reality, they are rooted in something else. Eg. Anger is an emotion rooted in fear. Vengeance is an emotion rooted in the offense. In fact, a lot of things we struggle with are rooted in fear, so it is fear that we need to overcome but instead, we spend years of our lives fighting anger, vengeance, etc when the entire time we didn't realize it is fear that was always behind the circumstances happening around us.

What a comeback 🥺missed you guys! This episode was so insightful full of growth nuggets❤

Shikie really loves jules...it's so cuute❤😆

Lornzie's mic was so loud. You have to resonate with her 'mmmmhhh's😂 subconsciously

WELCOME BACK LADIES! I lovvveeddd the episode. This one was such an alignment episode for me since the weekend where we were learning on being a virtuous woman and the impacts we leave and carry with us and for others plus the experience on life altogether. Talk about aha! moments. I specifically loved the candidness in this one....YES, Motivation comes after the work put in. I love how you guys were shouting so profoundly yet softly on GROWTH AND REINVENTION towards our becoming. Thank you Lornzie, Ivy, Shikie and Jules!

Wueeh my favorites are back, so excited to see you. Looking good ladies

I feel like this was shot for me, I definitely needed it and the lessons are so real. My take home is " death is coming and we don't have to be scared"

Girls, you're truly sent from above, This is what I needed to take me through the week 🤗

This was such a deep episode! Jules felt everythiing I definitely relate much with Jules and Ivy much.. Vibrations and energies are real and nothing is a coincidence!

You guys are so right, everything you're talking about I've been going through. Thank you for this episode sometimes you know the answer but you just need someone to tell you again to align your focus. Don't go missing again 💘

Huraaahhhhh👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿welcome back ladies 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Damn! An episode could never have been more timely! Looove it! ❤

Powerful message: realizing that your weaknesses and the worst parts of yourself is where your purpose lies. 1.realizing that you can use it for good. 2. Redirecting the negativity towards it to a positive place. 3. Using it to help others.

I loved this, what an awesome way to come back

Thanks julez for making the point on your weakness being directly connected to your purpose. I totally get what you're saying cause I'm dealing with something and I keep wondering why though deep down I know when I figure it out so many things will fall into place. so thank you.

Thank you for sharing, ladies. Glad to have you back. For me, one thing I know for sure is that life is not suppossed to be the same for everybody. Everyday is going to be different. We are constantly changing and experiencing some level of growth even when we don't notice. Times will keep shifting and every season is going to be different. Just because you are going through a difficult situation right now, it doesn't mean you are doomed for eternity. It too shall pass. So will happy times. Just live life as it comes and keep pushing.

The mindset lessons really stood out for me. You ladies are wise! Keep up the good work 🙂.

Jules,... So much wisdom is in you but you often find it hard to articulate it. I can so relate.

This is My absolute favourite episode 💓🌸 I love you welcome back!!

This was a beautiful and very insightful grown conversation, learnt and taken note of a lot of things. Glad you ladies are back❤

Happy to have you back guys. It was too informative. Love from UG

There is no work-life balance, just work-life harmony. Sometimes work is taking more of your time, and sometimes it's your kids but the harmony should still remain.

These ladies... the intellect, the eloquence, the love & support for each, the sage nuggets they drop on us the viewers...I ❤️ it for the ladies & I ❤️ it for us. Thank u so much ladies, may u all soar to heights beyond ya wildest dreams.

Insightful is the word , of your videos this one speaks to me in so many ways . Thanks for always taking your time to put up amazing content . 💡

Julia on spirituality, I am there with you girl! Ivy, good work keeping me to challenge myself.

Missed you gals,welcome back. I agree with mama G~life is so unfair🤦🏾‍♀️

Lorna your first point reasonates with me on another level…….life has given me wueh moments but at the same time good things are actually happening to me….in as much as it would be great having it all I feel like life has to have that balance…..…so I’m learning to take those lessons and taking one step at a time working towards getting better….

Wow Jules ..that was profound,those challenges will propel you to your destiny and success 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Before I watch, I need to say this; I HAVE MISSED YOU GUYS!! I didn't realise how happy a new episode would make me. Now lemme go and watch :-)

Just the 1st point. I really needed to hear that today. Life is not fair.

Literally grateful you answered my question ❤️❤️❤️.thank you !

Great content as always, enjoyed it! One thing I know for sure is a scarcity and negative mindset can never result into an abundant and positive life. Your mindset is indeed everything! P.S: The audio was quite imbalanced, I could barely hear Jules and Ivy. Lornzie's "Hmmm" were way more audible😅

Happy to see you guys.... It's surely been a minute and how I missed you guys 😊

Happy to always hear from you ladies

Great comeback. I jotted down some notes.

One thing I'm sure of is whenever I believe something with all my mind,it comes to pass. My faith has activated thing I don't think I know I would have on my own

Thankyou girls....I really needed to hear this...lots of love💖

Here's my 2 cents on the conversation about dedication: My background is in Finance however my goal is to shift to marketing and I am currently pursuing a Digital Marketing Course. However, because I am qualified to get Finance jobs, I decided to dedicate myself to the Finance job as I get through Marketing school and when I'm done I'll be qualified to work in the Marketing Industry and will be able to fully immerse myself in Marketing. Also, working in general is giving me the experience that I require such that when I start working in marketing I'll be so versed and enriched in business operations. Sometimes you may not love what you do, but as Julia said, it's definitely aligned to a greater purpose

good to have you'll back i've learnt so much this was not just rich it was gold

Glad to have you back ladies

Great n deep conversation....welcome back girls.

You have really come back with a bang and i love you so much gals welcome back and thanks for making me understand that my weakness are directly linked to my purpose and that dedication beats talent .

I sure will save this for reminders. I'm so inspired

my girls are Back ❤️❤️❤️....and you'll glowing 🌟🥰🥰🥰

17mins into this and I'm a Life Guru.... juu weeee this is deep and I really needed this ....thank you y'all and I agree,Jules, its literally accepting your yin and yang.

Jules, I get what you are saying. Our experiences, our circumstances are not coincidental, we go through them to come full circle. They are what it takes to bring us to our purpose or complete person.

It's how Lornz is quite while Jules is really trying to explain herself for me😂. I really learnt a lot tho from this episode.. thank you Ladies 💯😍

Wowowowow so powerful 👌 especially Jules really loved what you said "your weaknesses are the place of your purpose and greatest opportunities" Well for me what I know for sure is Being intentional about being consistently disciplined (at whatever it is you want) its so so so powerful

Missed y'all...Great episode!

I thought about over 25 when I woke up. So glad ya'll are back!

Everytime it gets better and better with conversations..daaamn!

"What you appreciate appreciates..." That's a good one.

I had missed you guys so much ❤so glad your back

Jules you're such an artist!

The amount of things I've learned or come to understand through Jules is just 🙌🙌The way i am inspired with Ivy 👍The way Shikie is calm and lovely that's what i would love to be🥰The way Lornzie is Smart and her listening skills are just out of this world I am learning through this girls to this date 📌 Ps:I am rewatching this episode 😢

Am the most happy to have you beautiful ladies back. There's a way u guys just lift my spirit 😊

OmG I am so happy this morning 🌄 welcome back big sisters 😩

Wow , Jules I get you..the awakening, there's no better way to express it than you have, one just has to experience, and I think that now depends on the universe's timing ,God's time when one is ready. In bible terms our faith gets tested, our bit is just to hang on ,then our faith moves the "mountain " ,cos most of the times ,one got out, it wasn't by there might,,problems with blessings that solved them.ours is just to keep the faith, be authentic, grateful and it happens 🙏🏽 Love ❤️ this episode Thanks

Glad to have you guys back! the sound on this episode though....

Finally!!!!! A video from you guys. I had missed you so much.

That last part i like how Shicky is happy for Jules and her books.... 🥰 absolutely loved this episode.

Welcome back. Feeling this content. So, Destiny Cycle >Habits become patterns...patterns become beliefs and back to thoughts. That's how it passes on to your children and guys start to believe 'that family is cursed' or something. The patterns.

Thank you Jules for your first point😊

Love you guys so far you've all been my inspiration in so many aspects

I've literally just balled out because of Jules first point, because she's described my current season in life & omg! I needed that

Ivy those LV archlight sneakers are GORGEOUS 😮‍💨😍

What I know for sure? Deliberate practice precedes flow. Before you can start doing something effortlessly, you have to do it effortfully numerous times. 10,000-hour rule

Back with a Bang!! You were definitely missed

They say a word is enough for the wise, and I have picked alot of wisdom here,thank you beautiful ladies and welcome back

I understood your point Jules...100%

This was a fantastic episode.Learnt so much.

I needed to hear this today..thanks