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Funny Responses to "How Are You?" that will make people laugh 

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How many times are you faced with the dreaded question, "how are you?" and how many times do you answer "good!" when maybe you'd rather answer any other way?
My answers to those questions? Far too many times. I've been thinking about funny ways to answer this question, break the social script, and maybe even get a little giggle out of someone.
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:45 Funny response #1: Better inside
1:15 Funny response #2: Figuring it out
1:45 Funny response #3: Bring the energyyyyyyy
2:52 Funny response #4: The age formula
3:37 Bottom line
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@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 года назад
Learn more about responses to "how are you?" in the full article: www.scienceofpeople.com/funny-responses/
@frankdelahue9761
@frankdelahue9761 2 года назад
You lost a lot of weight!
@aryankashyap3117
@aryankashyap3117 2 года назад
Please analyze Stephen Amell because he has the best personality in the world.😊🙏
@Josh-od3pb
@Josh-od3pb 2 года назад
@Vanessa Van Edwards Today I finally got the courage to talk to this girl that’s been gazing at me when I workout. She works at the gym and the first time we saw each other we both smiled so big and ridiculous, my friend asked me if I knew her! That was 7 months ago but the looks and smiles never stopped. I told myself that today was the day and knew how I was going to break the ice. I was going to introduce myself and ask for her name then offer her a sticker.(I love stickers and giving them to other people) That all went fine and we both had been maintaining eye contact and smiling so big! For me, my thoughts were “FINALLY! YOU’RE TALKING TO HER!” The only downside was that my hands were shaking terribly when I pulled the stickers out. I’m certain she noticed but she didn’t change demeanor at all. She still seemed so happy that we were talking and even loved the stickers I had. I let her pick whichever one she wanted and then bid her farewell and left the gym. My question is, is this bad? Have I scuffed things for a future interaction? Please, please, please help! 🤦‍♂️😂
@carolynnmazzei4001
@carolynnmazzei4001 Год назад
Vanessa can you do more interviews or collab again (on any topic at this point!!) with Lewis Howes? Your interview together was MAGNETIC. You guys just worked very well together and I would keep him around in your business contacts/circle. It was just super well-done and you are fabulous.
@Iksiksinski.
@Iksiksinski. Год назад
Thanx IT was awesome. Can U give more things how to be funny ?
@johnwaters602
@johnwaters602 2 года назад
When asked how I am, I frequently answer, "Why, what have you heard?" That's catches people completely off guard.
@Juan-tm9rs
@Juan-tm9rs Год назад
I'ma use this 😂
@elijahsmall5873
@elijahsmall5873 Год назад
@@Juan-tm9rs same
@myrtila
@myrtila Год назад
There’s this comedy in my country that in one episode used the exact same line
@CallMeGailyn
@CallMeGailyn Год назад
So Mel!
@davidsoto6610
@davidsoto6610 8 месяцев назад
@@Juan-tm9rsfacts lol
@justincarrillo226
@justincarrillo226 2 года назад
Dave Ramsey’s “better than I deserve” response to “how are you” Is one of my favorites.
@realliving7340
@realliving7340 2 года назад
That is a good one!
@pinkfox08.f28
@pinkfox08.f28 2 года назад
Me too!
@loe3175
@loe3175 2 года назад
I really like that one. Done right, it can lead to a conservation about faith and gratitude that can become a very meaningful exchange.
@kaizenborntowin
@kaizenborntowin Год назад
Preach it brother! :)
@elijahsmall5873
@elijahsmall5873 Год назад
Love this one
@matthewsinclair6879
@matthewsinclair6879 Год назад
I sometimes say, this is the second best day of my life. They normally ask " whats your first?" and I say, hopefully tomorow.
@lisapagliari9232
@lisapagliari9232 2 месяца назад
love that one.
@RoxAqui
@RoxAqui Год назад
Sometimes I go with "do you want the social answer or do you want the truth?"
@kiaratheexplorer4
@kiaratheexplorer4 27 дней назад
I came up with saying “medium rare” or “medium well” and I love it 🤣🤣🤣
@sagapamkeshav2385
@sagapamkeshav2385 2 года назад
1. Better Inside than Outside 2. Still haven't figured it out 3. Amasinnnnng 🎼🎵🎶 I am GgRrreat 4. I am ( x age ) but I feel ( x + stereotypical age related feeling you are going through ATM )
@Justme-ep3rc
@Justme-ep3rc 2 года назад
No ma’am..if you sing “amazing” like that, in response to a simple question, I’m walking away. 🤣
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 года назад
😂😂 aw man
@alexanderlyon
@alexanderlyon 2 года назад
10 other people will walk forward and take your place. Come on! Embrace the fun.
@realliving7340
@realliving7340 2 года назад
I agree😆!
@RegineBrady
@RegineBrady Год назад
Vanessa is adorable, but if a pure stranger had that response, I’d CRACK UP!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
@tkma15
@tkma15 Год назад
😂😂😂
@alexanderlyon
@alexanderlyon 2 года назад
I loved this video. I'm going to use these as inspiration to craft some of my own funny replies. Great stuff, as always. BTW, the little shoulder shimmy from Betty White @1:55 is how we should all enter the room from now on.
@gregorydavid7755
@gregorydavid7755 2 года назад
Great video Vanessa. Many years ago, probably 30 or more, I went to see Zig Ziglar and his answer to the "How Are You " question was " Super, but I'll get better " and over the years when I've used that line 90% of the time people stop, look at you and then they smile or a short conversation starts.. I find the generic " How are You" is a fleeting thing and people just blurt it out never changing their train of thought so I love using the Super line as it snaps people into the moment..
@brendagraham8611
@brendagraham8611 2 года назад
"Super, but I'll get better", that's a good one, I'm going to give that one a try!
@alexanderwindh4830
@alexanderwindh4830 9 месяцев назад
Thank you.
@amypola5903
@amypola5903 Год назад
I love not asking how are you, but instead asking what's good. The Chinese ask have you eaten, but they don't do anything about it if you haven't. Lol.
@marcusherts9345
@marcusherts9345 2 года назад
My favourite one is…”I’m great!…especially now my monkeypox has gone!”
@ChereeLS
@ChereeLS 2 года назад
I'm going to a family reunion this weekend and this helps a lot! We joke about how, as kids, the distant family members at these reunions would ask us the SAME few questions every year, "How old are you now?" "What grade are you in now?". Then that morphed into, "Have you graduated yet?" "When are you going to get married?". LOL We wanted to make handouts and pass them around before the event, so that we would not have to answer those same questions and we could get into real conversations or avoid talking to some of the relatives altogether! Ha! I would love to break the awkward, auto-pilot this year and get into more caring and genuine conversations at these family reunions. Thank you for all that you do!!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 года назад
Omg! What an amazing idea! You all are definitely breaking the social script, I love to see it! I hope you have a fun family reunion! =)
@358life6
@358life6 Год назад
You should totally do that! Please reply here if you do to say how it went...
@ChereeLS
@ChereeLS Год назад
The family reunion was pretty fun! I think it was enriched because everyone was glad to actually be in-person and there was something healing about that. I tried some of these funny starters and conversation starters with some of them. Some were a little thrown off, I think because they had to stop and think about what they wanted to say. But, all in all, those types of converstations were the most meaningful to me and engaging--rusty as they may have started. The thought crossed my mind that day of how neat it is that these interesting and nice people and I are related and spread out across the country. I could stop in Pennsylvania and know that this 2nd cousin is eagerly anticipating the Christmas in July week that Hallmark movie channel has scheduled. Or this 3rd cousin is home sick in North Carolina but really trying to keep a long distance relationship going while also working on advnacing in her career field. The day was so much richer! Thank you again for the ideas @vanessavanedwards !! :)
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Год назад
@@ChereeLS This is amazing, I'm so glad to know you had a great turn out & that the conversations were meaningful and engaging =) This is awesome!
@baysbill
@baysbill Год назад
My usual response: If I were any better, I would be you! I like this one, because it usually tells me something about the other person that may be useful if the interaction continues. If they respond with something like: "Oh no, you don't want to be me." This gives me the opening to say something positive about them. "You look cheerful". "Nice shoes (or whatever)". Or perhaps it suggests they are in a difficult place and I can ask them if they would like to share more. If they respond with a positive comment, then I can simply affirm their positive comment. Either way, I am recognizing and affirming the other person. And if they are asking how I am because they really want to know, then I will respect their question and give as honest personal assessment as appropriate and as time and circumstances permit.
@FrancescaCadhit
@FrancescaCadhit Год назад
Thanks, Vanessa! I always say the standard response, and these are fantastic suggestions for mixing things up.
@matthewfunk6658
@matthewfunk6658 Год назад
"So good it hurts!" has been my goto, usually gets people thinking!
@TheUnchainedLife
@TheUnchainedLife Год назад
I love the "I feel like [first thing that comes to mind]. And after the curiosity/confusion follow it up with something that (sorta) makes sense. I feel like a TV show... Primetime baby! I feel like a bicycle... I'm two tired right now. Things like that.
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Год назад
😂😂 The two tired got me. These are amazing!
@TheUnchainedLife
@TheUnchainedLife Год назад
@@ScienceOfPeople Thank you! I try to be creative with these kinds of things. :)
@oglehhassan2040
@oglehhassan2040 2 года назад
Instead of how are you, I sometimes ask people how is life and I get deep answers.
@israelguerrero8253
@israelguerrero8253 Месяц назад
"I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS",THANK YOU VANESSA!!🙏🙏🙏🙏👁️👁️
@royrieder2113
@royrieder2113 2 года назад
I LOVE this video! Great actionable tips for breaking a social script!
@user-mi5xq8zj7u
@user-mi5xq8zj7u 2 года назад
How about an honest response? “I’m not great but I’m choosing to be optimistic”
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 года назад
Yes! This is perfect, especially if you're not in a joking mood!
@khloe38
@khloe38 2 года назад
I like that. I could just say I'm optimistic. Which is true 95% of the time.
@cuppadiem
@cuppadiem 2 года назад
Great point! Often I kinda ignore the "question" and just say hello, or maybe ask what is new
@DawnBehling
@DawnBehling Год назад
I usually try to avoid asking "How are you?" in general. If I see someone I know, I just say "Hey! Good to see you! You look great!" and then keep walking….. LOL!!
@NicoleSlays
@NicoleSlays 2 года назад
I really enjoyed this! This has been so helpful 🥰
@serenab3399
@serenab3399 2 года назад
I enjoyed this video. I always think of my brother, "Stu" in these type of situations. His response to this, that most people didn't know how to respond to or questioned what they heard was...He would just simply nod and say "and you?"
@SawgrassMoonshine
@SawgrassMoonshine 2 года назад
Great advice as always. 💗💗💗
@euphoricash13
@euphoricash13 2 года назад
Ah, time to upgrade my repertoire. Thank you, Vanessa! 🤗
@carmenortiz1342
@carmenortiz1342 2 года назад
,👋 thanks Vanessa... You always make me laugh 🤣 😂, i love ur creativity, 👍👍
@JanezWorld1
@JanezWorld1 2 года назад
Whenever people ask me this, i just say "Im alive" and everyone assumes im ok and never ever question it
@kyatrixxkush9312
@kyatrixxkush9312 Год назад
Hey Vanessa. Really big fan of your work and i think it would be even more awesome if you were to have Charisma On Command on your world's most interesting series
@everblu
@everblu Год назад
Great advice as always💙 I’ll pretend like that Tony the tiger/princess part doesn’t exist lol Thank you for these clips!
@sarahalghamdi1922
@sarahalghamdi1922 Год назад
another amazing video, Thank you Vanessa Thank you 🙏
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Год назад
Thank you for watching!
@nicole11823
@nicole11823 Год назад
I loved response #3😂🤭 i bet they wouldnt expect that one!
@vinnythompson5861
@vinnythompson5861 Год назад
I love and appreciate your content 💜
@rampartranger7749
@rampartranger7749 2 года назад
Even better than yesterday! Why better? I get to be with you!
@user-vy6kt1rv3r
@user-vy6kt1rv3r 27 дней назад
Thank you, Vanessa
@gayetrinayar981
@gayetrinayar981 2 года назад
Vanessa!! I don't know what happened to you, but it seems like you're so much more open, comfortable and you in this video! I LOVE THAT! Like this is the kind of weird stuff that could go either way, but your commitment and comfort in yourself, the confidence - made it so you looked like the coolest person!! As a fellow recovering awkward person, hoping you would reflect more on what brought that on and make a video on it too! Love the new book btw, Gayetri
@Sunny-fi6rs
@Sunny-fi6rs 10 месяцев назад
One of my fav responses to that question is "I'm great! How are you percolating?" This has elicited a few surprised reactions from people. It made a couple of ppl start reminiscing how they or their mother used to percolate the coffee back in the day. One person teased me about using such an old fashioned word but that lead to us teasing each other and having a good laugh, so it was still great! Thanks for the wonderful content! ❤
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 9 месяцев назад
Aw love that! Thank you for sharing ❤
@wernerklotz8207
@wernerklotz8207 Год назад
One of my standard answers is: ‘How much time do you have?’ Also, my respond to people answer my question with: ‘Good!’, I’m asking them back: ‘Why?’ It throws them off every time; we always know the reason when something is bad, so it trains people to think deeper to find the reason for why something is good.
@timauth
@timauth 11 месяцев назад
Someone once asked me where I was from, I responded: "With the way the earth is rotating and wobbling on a tilted axis while revolving around the sun, all while the sun is revolving around a galaxy, that in relation to the positions of other galaxies, is also moving around the universe....how can anyone know where they are from?" They never responded...lol
@jaiahsheli3086
@jaiahsheli3086 2 года назад
haha amaziiiing!. Love your smile Vanessa! 🤗
@sarabernpaintner4704
@sarabernpaintner4704 Год назад
This is one of the best videos that I’ve seen today! 😂😊
@growingtruedisciples
@growingtruedisciples Год назад
Vanessa, thank you for just insightful and well thought out videos. They are a blessing :) Do you edit your own videos? They are really well done!
@bipingudhka1050
@bipingudhka1050 Год назад
Nice one! You are lovely person and definitely not awkward!
@citigirlcountrified1927
@citigirlcountrified1927 2 года назад
I always say great... they give me down eyes. Blink blink.... also answer the phone with hi. That one is a show stopper
@kristinmyhr
@kristinmyhr Год назад
Great! I felt 90 this morning, but now I’m back to menopausal 50!
@marianavaldezcoach
@marianavaldezcoach Год назад
Love these!
@Man-vs-Metal
@Man-vs-Metal 2 года назад
I used to say "better than I deserve", now I tend to go for "pissed off and crazy". I get mixed responses.
@dukepeterson
@dukepeterson Год назад
“How do I need to feel?” “That depends on who’s asking.”
@avantegarde7797
@avantegarde7797 9 месяцев назад
My, go to response is "Life Is Good".
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 9 месяцев назад
Nice! Very positive
@urdivine
@urdivine Год назад
To that question I often respond, "Do you really want to know?", [or something similar]. Of course, they will always answer "Yes". This throws grocery store checkers off, since they are clearly programmed to ask "How are you?"
@donnakennedy430
@donnakennedy430 Год назад
Locally, they have changed the question to 'Did you find everything you came for?'
@urdivine
@urdivine Год назад
@@donnakennedy430 OH, yes, you're right. I never answer it straight. For that I usually say something like, "Well I came to find a thousand dollar bill on the floor, but, no luck". That usually wakes them up and they smile.
@donnakennedy430
@donnakennedy430 Год назад
@@urdivine Yesterday, we had one that followed up with 'How are yall doing today?' I looked at hubby and told him I was tossing him under the bus. Told her and the bagger how he had just endangered his life walking around the store twice [he's not cleared to walk that much yet, he was looking very pale, he did this knowing he shouldn't after I'd left his side to run grab something from the other end of the store. I was afraid and naggy]. Cashier laughed and said he was trying to give me a heart attack. I grouched that if he died, I was gonna kill him. He, very grandly, stated that he gave me permission to kill him if he was dead. Everyone around us cracked up laughing.
@luishernandez1795
@luishernandez1795 2 года назад
Really good to see you again
@mrs.wright32
@mrs.wright32 2 года назад
50 but feeling 21... love that one!!
@jsmalec
@jsmalec Год назад
My favorite response is "Better than I deserve".
@Sunflower-xk5lk
@Sunflower-xk5lk 2 года назад
can you please make a video on how to be less anxious in any situation ( like during phone calls, meeting someone etc) that would be really helpful .
@gregorioavalos1256
@gregorioavalos1256 10 месяцев назад
How are you? Feeling like a Disney princess
@barbaraannscarlet7885
@barbaraannscarlet7885 11 месяцев назад
Excellent! Thankyou ❤
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 11 месяцев назад
You're so welcome! ♥
@michael_the.girl.
@michael_the.girl. 2 года назад
Hahaha, I love this! Such a good idea and it made me laugh 😄
@chewie1355
@chewie1355 Год назад
Thank You…you are awesome
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Год назад
Thank YOU! You are awesome 🤗
@spyhunter66
@spyhunter66 2 года назад
Sometimes when someone asks me How are you? I respond: Who cares! How the heck are YOU?
@alfredoroach8782
@alfredoroach8782 Год назад
I am preparing for a business meeting today I wanted some tactics to shift the energy. I immediately ask to myself, what Vanessa would do in this situation? And, voila! here's this great video with what I was needing. Thank you!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Год назад
Thank you for watching!! Glad to be of some help. Good luck on your business meeting!
@lizzie3658
@lizzie3658 Год назад
I worked at the door of a store and so many people would say how are you I found saying “pretty good for a ” Pretty good for a Tuesday morning etc.” I found was the most popular! Similar to the age one
@greggboone3158
@greggboone3158 2 года назад
Something I like to use is "I'm amazing, but I'm getting better! "
@ManuelGuzman
@ManuelGuzman 2 года назад
I use a similar response to "I still haven't figured it out yet". If it is before noon, I say "Too early to tell".
@lucaspavlas
@lucaspavlas 11 месяцев назад
This is amazing !
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 11 месяцев назад
Thank you! I'm so glad you liked it!
@ThriveTools_Eden
@ThriveTools_Eden 6 месяцев назад
That was such a good video except the 2 parts where you were singing: that was TERRIBLE! Nah, just kidding 😅 I love your content. Thanks for sharing all this awesomeness, learning lots from you 🙏🏾🤍✨
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 6 месяцев назад
LOL thank you!! I appreciate you being here ❤
@ceeehm9220
@ceeehm9220 Год назад
If I'm meeting up with someone in person I let them be the one to ask "how are you?" first. I respond with "I'm happy to see you!". It seems to surprise and delight them every time.
@englishcakewalk8332
@englishcakewalk8332 Год назад
That's a pleasant and thoughtful way of responding!
@kennywilson2129
@kennywilson2129 11 дней назад
Same as you, breathe in, breathe out, left, right, left, right. Same as you, Mom met Dad, nine months later, me. Same as you. :) Enjoy your day.
@pamwise9013
@pamwise9013 4 месяца назад
When asked I say "Wonderful, and I hope the same for you today".
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 4 месяца назад
Love that!
@jennifercarroll7668
@jennifercarroll7668 Год назад
Great video! I love it❤️
@itsjohannes7057
@itsjohannes7057 Год назад
Just say fantastic! In Ur most sarcastic tone...aud to make u laugh and confuse the heck out of the other person😂
@steadypace7224
@steadypace7224 Месяц назад
"all the better for seeing you" is my fave :)
@MadhawaHabarakada
@MadhawaHabarakada Год назад
"Amaziiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing" !!!!! Are you a singer???!!! I loved No.2.
@kylek29
@kylek29 Год назад
I had a witty coworker who would sometimes answer this with: "I'm good, but I'd appreciate it if you stayed out of my personal affairs." It's a tweak on Ace Ventura and if delivered in the right setting / tone, can usually get a good chuckle because it's such an overreaction to the generic question it catches people off guard. Other good ones were absurd analogies .. "about as good as a hamster in a wheel factory"
@LymariArzola
@LymariArzola 9 месяцев назад
I love this!
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 9 месяцев назад
I'm so glad! Thank you for watching :)
@dwbush777
@dwbush777 4 месяца назад
When certain people ask me how I’m doing, I usually say: “If I was any better, there might be an investigation. Try that with H.R., your manager, Business Ethics & Compliance, Legal, or your spouse. It’s an eyebrow raiser. 🤨
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 4 месяца назад
Lol! Thanks for sharing!
@BaraSchmidt
@BaraSchmidt 5 месяцев назад
Love the "Amaziiiiiiiiiiiing!" 😂 How about if someone is asking "HOW" are you? You know, existentially speaking? How about: "Jury's still out..."
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 5 месяцев назад
Love it - it's a creative and humorous response!
@Underdog_Basketball
@Underdog_Basketball 2 года назад
That was so GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD AND AMAZING AND GREATTYYYYYTYYYBYAYAYAY!!!
@ligiasommers
@ligiasommers 2 года назад
Loved it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻✨
@marvinlusk7303
@marvinlusk7303 5 месяцев назад
RE: "Answering on auto-pilot, ... I often get asked how I am doing, I reply on auto-pilot because I don't want to discuss anything, but I do not inquire about the other person, yet their next response is "Fine, thank you." It shows me that they are doing things on auto-pilot and I doubt whether they care how I am doing at all. Just an oservation.
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 5 месяцев назад
I know what you mean! Funny responses like this are great for breaking this autopilot.
@brookelpeterson
@brookelpeterson Год назад
My dad always says "upright and able to take nourishment" - It's one of my personal go-to's ;)
@Indielizard711
@Indielizard711 Год назад
“Better now 😊” is my go to
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople Год назад
Love that one!
@OlayinaAstur
@OlayinaAstur 2 года назад
I loved number 2. 😂
@IIC-GusBadran
@IIC-GusBadran Год назад
tickety-boo used in the In the UK. Definition of tickety-boo British. : fine, okay everything is going to be tickety-boo eventually- A. J. Liebling.
@DruSolis
@DruSolis 2 года назад
"How are you?" "Thanks, you too!" 🤦‍♂️
@imdxpertm
@imdxpertm 2 года назад
How are youuuu? Just the way you are , Awesome!
@17Mikal
@17Mikal Год назад
The “ Amazing “ part is a NO NO 🚫 Don’t do it ! Lol
@joanneplunkett3936
@joanneplunkett3936 2 года назад
I think I'm good, but it's too early for me to be sure.
@ScienceOfPeople
@ScienceOfPeople 2 года назад
😂 I love this one!
@AmandaE329
@AmandaE329 4 месяца назад
I am SO grateful your answer wasn't "Living the dream."
@RebeccasHomeZone
@RebeccasHomeZone Год назад
Something that always gets people laughing. “If I was any better I couldn’t stand it!”
@matthewsinclair6879
@matthewsinclair6879 Год назад
Oh my gosh, that is what I say also!
@babagrimaldo
@babagrimaldo 2 месяца назад
3:29 When you wear the Hofmann-Lenses. 😂
@mauricelowery3910
@mauricelowery3910 Год назад
😭😭 I'm dying laughing right now but I bet I freeze up on "how are you" tomorrow imma laugh before trying it I'm a usually a straight face guy in public fam 🤣👌🏽
@jonathanaugustin647
@jonathanaugustin647 Месяц назад
*AMAZIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIING!!!*
@kaijohnson5685
@kaijohnson5685 5 дней назад
I have another response that works well. I use "How is treating you?" Sometimes I use the right day, sometimes yesterday, sometimes tomorrow or Friday on an earlier day of the week.
@spinnetti
@spinnetti 24 дня назад
My dad used to say (always confusing the audience but technically true) - "I feel more like I do now than I did when I got here!"... that shakes people off autopilot immediately. You can still say "fine", but drag out your answer so they think you are going to say something novel - still breaks auto pilot. (how are you) "mmmmm, well, fine! What's new with you?" PS, my license plate on my R8 is GRRRRR8 lol. If you know your audience is music (specifically James Brown) savvy, you can say "I feel better than James Brown!" (because he feels GOOD!) lol. Also, even if down, nobody wants a downer answer, so may as well fake it and in so doing, decide to not be down.
@srikkanthank
@srikkanthank 10 дней назад
Hi Vanessa, I bought your book "Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People" immediately after seeing this video which came out of nowhere in youtube suggestions. It came in the right time when I needed this most. By the way, the linkedin link in description is not working. You may want to correct it. And, this comment section is awesome, so many funny and interesting responses.
@jhonadam1420
@jhonadam1420 9 месяцев назад
I am better than I was before I was worse than I am now, thank you.
@hughsalter7769
@hughsalter7769 Год назад
i needed to listen to a foreigner explain that how are you is just a greeting like hello they are not really asking how you are
@ashishgawade6696
@ashishgawade6696 Год назад
At work I just respond.. "still surviving".. catches people off guard ;)
@bigdeank
@bigdeank Год назад
I usually use fantastic as my response. And it usually put a smile on people's face. Some people say "with a little sarcasm" which there isn't. In Australia people usually say "not bad" and it annoys me.
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