I will absolutely, under no circumstances, be addressing Gabbie any longer. I don’t care if she continues to post 2881966 videos about me, I don’t care what people think I SHOULD do in response. I made this video with a very clear intention and made sure to say and show my truth for the parts of this situation that truly hurt and mattered to me. If I dedicated any more of my time to combating every lie Gabbie has and continues to tell about our friendship, I’d never be free of this situation. The back and forth would never end. There are always more screenshots either one of us could show, there’s always more context. It has to end somewhere. My only solution here is to do what most people are waiting for either Gabbie or myself to do right now - and that’s end this. This is a situation that hurts and triggers many people beyond just me. I refuse to prolong it any further. Gabbie can have the last word - I’m going to enjoy my life and spend time with people I love and, very soon, welcome my beautiful daughter into this world. Thank you to those of you who have taken the time to listen.
Thank you Jessi, you've shown 1389348 times you're in the right so you have nothing to worry about. She's ruining her career on her own. Sending you and your beautiful family tons of love, enjoy the rest of your pregnancy💖💖
The fact that she EDITED out a traumatic story from the 3 hr phone call because it’s “her trauma” but she won’t stop bringing up YOURS is SOOOOO HIPOCRITICAL oh my god
not to mention... SHES NOT THE COURT. SHE WAS A FRIEND. THE *COURT* HAS TO BE COMPLETELY UNBIASED. SHE DIDN'T. as a friend, what the fuck makes you think that you are in any position to think it's appropriate to act as an unbiased "court" in a situation where your friend tells you she was attacked. sick. sick in the head.
it’s just a cop out she does that all the F’in time… when she does something problematic, she always deflect her actions by telling people that she has a mental disorder or whatever… she can’t even properly apologise without saying the word “but”… no sincerity just deflecting plus 100% manipulation
Idk, I mean its fine. Guess I shouldn't care what other people do for money. I just worry that this stuff makes it easier for actual rape apologists to spread their narrative . ;(
Actual textbook projection, lol. Assuming it's something everyone just does and doesn't talk about, because it's something she does and doesn't talk about.
@@raulsmusicbox Idk maybe don't exploit your friends sexual assault and how you hurt your friend by befriending her rapist as fucking drama. I wouldn't do that to my worst enemy. Gabbi needs to stir it up. Jessi was minding her own. Who the fuck cared about her before she shit on everyone and bothered Jessi during her pregnancy. Nobody gives af about her music. Her book was a flop. She admitted to buzzfeed *she* is being dramatic for attention. This is someone's fucking trauma.
Someone start the gofundme for Jessi’s lawyers, and i’ll CERTAINLY contribute. If it will help Jessi bring closure to Gabbass Hateful’s torment of Jessi, then i’m all in.
I love how karma does her job. You have everything she doesn't. Grace, brains, a loving husband and family, a baby and one more on the way. Don't worry, the universe always sorts itself out:)
Uh I don't know with this comment. I know how it's meant by you but then you are almost saying Karma did it that she had to go through this trauma situation and so on..
This! It makes my blood boil and I’m a complete outsider - can’t imagine how Jessi feels. I seriously hope she & bub are doing okay right now, her health and well-being are paramount.
HONESTLY THOUGH. you’re the one pulling all this back up EVERY SUMMER and JESSI is YOUR abuser?? get a fucking grip, hanna. THE world is not YOUR world.
"Curtis is a human being who deserves to be heard out, I am not going to judge him, that's for a judge or God to decide" "But Jessi is a narcissistic abuser tho and she should apologise to me"
As a rape victim myself I really wanted to watch this in solidarity but couldn’t make it through - but I want you to know that I could not support you more and really admire you for standing up for yourself in such a graceful and eloquent way. This trauma might get easier to live with but it never goes away and I cannot imagine how much harder it is when someone keeps dragging it all up rather than letting you process it in your own way. I hope you get some peace soon and can relax and enjoy your pregnancy ❤️ your strength is so inspiring for other survivors watching you!
I am very sorry, about this! Just know the fact, that you found a RU-vidr that you support (Jessi) is awesome! I’m very happy that you watch Jessi! I hope that you continue to heal more and know that you are loved. ❤️
Im so sorry about that happening; honestly it’s really strong of you to click on this video with your circumstances though, and I hope you can keep healing, and be strong ❤️
Yet GH says, Jessi is weaponizing her trauma. What a garbage person. A narcissist running around, calling everybody narcissistic, so she can dwell in her own victimization.
This will not end until you get a restraining order or sue her. If you want to be at peace, protect your marriage and family, SUE HER!!! Your mental health, marriage, your family and your supportive followers worth the time and money..
The fact that the instant she came to you and told you that she felt violated by Sam Pepper and you instantly were ready to fight him and she was so willing to continue to be friends with Curtis, shows the differences in the level of respect.
I so٫ SO appreciate that Jessie makes the little "click" sound effect whenever she puts messages٫ tweets٫ emails٫ or even thumbnails or clips from other videos up on the screen because that let's me know to look at the screen when I'm listening to this video while I'm working on something. Not everyone does that but it's so helpful to get more context on what she's discussing. 👏
Unfortunately she will never stop because this is her only way to stay “relevant”. It’s really sad, she needs to get off the internet permanently for her own mental health.
She's out of her fucking mind. I'm not even into youtubers like that and I remember when this shit first kicked off, I cannot believe it has come all this way. I wish you the most peace the universe can offer
she’ll believe a random person on twitter making up fake r*pe allegations, but won’t take a best friend seriously with their abuse?? that’s actually sickening
Get a lawyer. Serve her a restraining order for both personal contact and talking about your issues pubically online, and a cease and desist letter. She probably won't be able to comply, and you can take her to court on her dime.
1:18:32 "you are going to worry your followers on tiktok" she's literally doing that right now. She has faked a 48+ hour long manic episode. I'm honestly so disgusted by her obvious patterns.
Can I ask something? I am not following the whole situation closely, but I saw some of her TikTok’s reposted here and I am wondering what proof there is for her faking this? I am genuinely wondering, not trying to be rude or something. Thanks!
@@mergyshlergy9083 She admitted it now and has in the past, deletes her videos and then all the fans go "There's no evidence, she's not lying!" . It's happened so many times now that I'm getting tired of the whole charade because this is what it literally comes down to. Either way, someone probably the video and either already has posted it or will be soon. I'm sorry to say it, but I really hope that they do.
Most of the time, crying is a form of manipulation. It is done to make people feel sad for you, to deem you as a victim, and to give you something you want. This is a behaviour that children learn from a young age because they cry when they don't get what they want so when they do cry, their parents cater to their needs. We all do this. It's just bad if you are doing this an unhealthy amount of times. There is a difference between being the actual victim and crying because you feel sad or afraid or crying because you want people to feel sad for you when you are in the wrong. The latter is 100% manipulation.
@@arabian8873 Most of the time? Crying is a stress response in both children and adults. That's why some people will cry when they are angry or even incredibly happy. Children learn to fake cry but will quickly stop when they realize people can tell it's fake and it isn't getting them their way. That doesn't mean they don't also cry for real. If crying is manipulation, it isn't usually conscious. You could basically say anything you say or do is manipulation by your standard. Engaging in small talk? Manipulation. Expressing sympathy for someone? Manipulation. Smiling at someone? Manipulation. Having a straight face? Manipulation. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31282699/ psychcentral.com/blog/the-science-of-tears#1
glad Jessi doesn’t care about having the last word and how she’s ending it on her side. jessi is in a happy time in her life with her loving family and she’s not letting a self absorbed whack person get in the way. props to Jessi, she’s handling this with respect and grace, queen 👑
I do the same. It gives me strength, especially when I feel like someone is gaslighting me and invalidating my feelings. I admire Jessie for standing up for herself!
I rewatch it! Jessi really helps me understand my feelings are normal and I’m not overreactive and that someone is manipulating me. It brings me back to reality and trust my instincts better if that makes sense lol
That's the only way this thing will end. It doesn't matter how many times this gets addressed and Jessi tells her to stop. She won't. She has no regard for Jessi's boundaries. It's time to go the legal route to give her peace of mind.
@@CRB06We can’t know what’s going on in GH’s head, of course, but if this isn’t the most obvious case of projection in the history of the universe, I will eat my left boot. I don’t even know who her actual friends are, I only know the people she hates and has been awful to.
I wasn't raped, but I was molested by my ex (bf at that time). And I still can't get over the trauma of being molested. I don't want to share it to public bc I know it would be a 'he said she said case'. And most of the time, people WOULDN'T believe that sexual assault can happen between lovers or even spouses. And I know people will label me stuffs too if I tell em. Sometimes I still cry a lot when the memory resurfacing. I can't imagine how broken you'd feel because of this. You're strong, Jessi. Please stay healthy, you and the baby. 😊
@Hannah Smith thank you for your support, Hannah. Means a lot to me. Yeah, true.. I don't understand why some people think if we agreed to become lovers is equals to always consenting doing sexual stuffs. How could they force it to a girl/boy they loved? Disgusting, man.
@@Katthecateringcat I feel like the people that make those comments can be equated to not understanding consent. Massive red flag. It makes me feel angry and disgusted even thinking about it because if my partner graped* me and I said NO somehow it’s not SA because they have a label. NO and it’s still just as traumatic
Also, her anger outbursts seem calculated (usually, like with the podcast where she was screaming at her "abusers" and suddenly started singing, what angry person does that?) with some exceptions: they do look genuine whenever her manipulation fails and she hates it.
I was raped in highschool by one of my friends. Most of our friend group believed me but even then they would bring it up “in support of me”. Always mentioning how they got people to taunt him and so I was always hearing his name and SEEING him in class. It took my so much longer to heal and I’d take ten steps back because his name was mentioned. And EVERYONE knew about MY rape
SA counselor here. What GH is doing every time she speaks on Jessi’s abuse is re-victimizing Jessi. It’s very sick. Also very disturbing how GH could take a situation she had nothing to do with (she didn’t even know Jessie when it happened) and turn it into a “fell sorry for me” moment. When GH’s life was not the one that was altered for the rest of her life. GH can walk away from this situation at anytime and forget about it. Jessie on the other hand will sadly live with the repercussions of a sick man’s actions for the rest of her life. I am sure GH doesn’t have nightmares, flashbacks that feel so real you have panic attacks, paranoia and/or ptsd. So no GH we aren’t supposed to feel sorry for you because this has NOTHING to do with you! You aren’t the victim here.
thank you so much for this, however so little people on a spectrum of millions will understand what you’re trying to say. that being said those who do listen really appreciate this
The sad thing is that GH has claimed to have CPTSD (which I have) and that makes her behavior even more despicable. To me, that means she knows what she’s doing and trying to trigger Jessi. (In it’s real definition, not the way GH throws it around to invalidate people.)
THIS IS WHAT IM SAYING LIKE IM GENUINELY SHOCKED THAT PEOPLE ARENT FREAKINGOUT AS MUCH LIKE?? THIS IS DEMONIC. GH IS LITEARLLY DOING SOMETHING UNSPEAKABLE AND TO DO IT AS A RU-vidR PUBLICISING THIS SHIT, HOW ARE YOU NOT BANNED OR SOMETHING? WHAT?????
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!! As a survivor the thought of someone constantly hijacking the narrative of my trauma and misrepresenting the facts of what happened, it sends shivers down my spine and makes me seethe with anger, I mean its beyond unbelievable. I would absolutely struggle to not feel like i constantly have to set the record straight. As survivors we so rarely get any justice, and usually the little justice we do get pails in comparison to the damage that was done to us. One of the very few victories we get to sometimes have when our stories are public even if that's just word of mouth in our friendship circles, is that people know the type of person our perpetrator/s are, that at least other people know the monster that person/s is/are. Even if your'e able to get your case prosecuted, these pathetic sentences hardly seem fair considering the lifelong damage that has been done, but people forever knowing what that person/s did it really is one of the so few tangible things to hold on to to feel like some justice was done. What GH is doing is so selfish and disgusting having someone Hijack that narrative it isn't like not a big deal its a massive deal, and its honestly inspiring how composed Jessi has been dealing with all of this I don't know if i could have kept it together. If GH continues with this disgusting behavior RU-vid needs to at minimum de-monetize her channel if not ban her outright for harassment, what she's doing is not okay, and it scares me to think her young fans are going to think its appropriate to act in this way. I understand that Jessi doesn't want to call GH abusive, and i agree that word does get thrown around way too lightly especially by people like GH, but I would say what GH is doing is abusive, and it makes me mad that RU-vid is allowing this to go on.
THIS at this point she has more than enough evidence to get one and she’d never be allowed to contact her again and any public slander could get her into deeper shit the courts really need to take over even if she doesn’t sue her this is an easy fix pretty sure GH doesn’t have to be present when JS gets one just her, the judge, and her evidence
I agree. This is the 4th video I have seen of her just today, and never have heard of her,. Everyone has had hard evidence to contradict her. Wow. She needs some major help, and realize friends don’t do this. I’m so glad I found you, I am struggling right now, and to scared to come forward, when my abuser has a huge position in our county that is causing me extreme trauma. Glad a narcissist brought me to you !!!
gabbi is the female onision, hopefully she’ll be gone from social like him too. you’re a trooper honestly with such little time to heal because this “monsterrrrr” keeps brining up your trauma you still manage to gracefully respond to her slander. been a fan since vine love you jess congrats on everything you’ve done!
everyone keeps being nice and civil to her and its infuriating me she is the female onscion and deserves to be treated like him aka no sympathy and pure digust
How the hell is she the female Onision? When have we heard about her being abusive with partners, grooming children and then sexually preying on them , and neglecting her children so that they fall out of windows? Jeeezuz get a grip!
@@meganstubbs04 A youtuber that had (has?) a habit of grooming underage girls, inviting them to his house and basically trapping them, and supposedly (I don't want to get sued) psychologically and physically abuse them. Chris Hansen made a full documentary about him, and about the problem with a lack of laws regarding grooming and psychological abuse like that since the police isn't able to do anything about it.
Who asks a rapist “their side.” It doesn’t matter what else she says, she’s admitted to wanting to hear “his side.” That’s completely disgusting, if I ran into my friends rapist I would not even bat an eyelash at him
This woman is really saying she can't control what her fans post in the same conversation she's demanding Jessi to control what other people post. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.
Yup. I've said it once and I'll say it again, that biz is a walking/talking whopper of contradictions 😩 She needs help, seriously. Also, the people in ber life enabling her is even worse then her not getting help.
This is sooo interesting especially now. The last 3 minutes of this video jessi says “in a year from now when your music needs promoting you’re gonna worry your fans”. That is too spot on
I genuinely think you need a restraining order. She doesn’t seem like she’s ever going to stop and we all see you’re in the right big time. She is completely unhinged and out of control. I wish you nothing but the best and I truly hope you find peace in this all
Yes, as far as I know you can do something in which she is banned from talking about you online or in interviews. No NDA.agreement necessary, actually court mandate because of her harassment. It's time to go that route Jessie.
@@Porcheria002 Judges will laugh them both out of the courtroom. Imagine this petty ass stupid drama being all you have to worry about. Who gives a shit if she talked to your rapist? You’re still friends with that dude Alex? Dramaaaaaaaaaa
Yes talking about how people cry when they want to be manipulative…. Like no, that’s an actual emotion and action that happens when you’re upset. She literally does it herself … it’s disgusting
The fact that gabbi still has a public platform is horrendous. She is the DEFINITION of a narcissist and listening to your evidence and that phone call legit made me sick. I am sorry this manipulator was introduced into your life and i hope you continue to heal❤️
Idk why this just popped up in my feed, but I have to say jessi handles herself with such grace and is so well spoken. I’m so sorry you’ve had to relive such trauma time and time again literally against her own will. Jessi, you handled this whole situation with such elegance and decorum. ❤
@@rsre2004 it means she’s not some jury and stranger tryna hear both sides to figure out who’s fault it is she’s was supposed to be her best friend and not victim blame
To summarize: a person who has no personal connection to a rape is demanding that the victim of a rape stop talking about her trauma, under threat of legal action and blackmail. Said unconnected person, meanwhile, will go on bringing it up and profiting from it every time she has something to sell. Oh, and the rape victim should apologize to her for this. Un-fucking-believable.
I'm trying to decide by the comments whether or not I should watch this video right now, and this comment has just convinced me that I might not be in a healthy enough mental state.
This situation makes me think of my “friend” who continued to knowingly talk to and hang out my rapist, she wonders to this day why I’m upset... all she can say is “he didn’t hurt me, why should I stop talking to him.” Listening to this hurts, my heart still goes out to Jessi and her family.
Wow I’m so sorry that happened to you. How unsympathetic that person must be to think that hanging out with a person who hurt a close friend so much, is somehow ok. I hope you don’t have to be around people who don’t take your feelings into account. It’s not okay for them to dismiss your concerns like that.
Gabbi is the perfect example of why “my truth” is a problem. Fuck “your truth”! What’s THE TRUTH!! Anyone talking to Gabbi shld record it bc she will manipulate anything and people HAVE TO PROTECT themselves from her
@Lilymoon No, acknowledging that subjectivity exists is not inherently problematic. The idea that differences in lived experience, perspectives, and priorities can create different, equally true or valid interpretations of a single situation shouldn't be completely discounted just because one horrible person uses a couple of vocabulary to try justifying their horrible behavior. The idea that there is an "objective truth" in all situations which must be upheld at all costs is a dangerous one which has been used to silence marginalized people's concerns (particularly over their own treatment in society) for a very, very long time.
@@SeymourDisapproves I mean the objective truth when it comes to things like oppression or racism is pretty one sided yknow - it's bad and the people doing it are bad
When Gabbi says that Jessi is her abuser, i literally laughed out loud. Like are you fucking kidding me? What kind of delusions are going on in this womans head?i genuinly can not understand how she can think that she's the one being wronged here.
That's what's scary, GH believes her delusions... Jessi nailed it when she said something on the lines of: How do you come to an understanding with someone who reads the same words you do, and extracts the complete opposite (and invents fabrications)? No matter what anyone says.. Unless bish gets help for her mental health, I don't see this ending well for GH.
it’s so ironic how when gh is attacking others, she’s just “defending” herself. but when other defend themselves, they’re abusers who are spreading a hate campaign
I can’t believe someone considered a “friend” can be so absolutely horribly disgusting to someone as amazing and strong as you. Keep going girl. Don’t ever look back anymore. You don’t need that in your life with your wonderful little family.
I’m watching this a year later after she posted this and the fact that everything she predicted what gabbi would do for attention to gain followers was correct is just jaw dropping. 😭 You have every right to feel the way that you do gabbi is just a hypocrite.
She sees people crying as manipulative because that’s what SHE does. She cries to try to get attention and empathy from everyone. All she does is project. And how fucking interesting that she doesn’t want to put out something that was traumatic for her but completely disregards the fact that this whole situation was extremely traumatic for Jessi
I was thinking the same thing!! she projects sooo hard, the things she claims she hates about people are usually the things we’re all pissed at HER for 🙃
The reason she thinks your crying is a form of manipulation is because.. that’s what she does. It’s a reflection of herself. If she cries to manipulate someone into feeling empathy for her, that’s the first thing she’s going to think is happening when she sees anyone else crying. Because she doesn’t seem to have any actual real emotions, therefore she can’t comprehend that people can and do actually feel emotions. When there’s no legitimate reason to think someone is doing something, but you get accused anyway… it’s usually because they are guilty of it themselves.
For someone who's been in an abusive relationship, hearing Gabbi throw around the word 'abuser' just because she has an issue with the person is beyond insulting to me. And what makes it so much worse is her young audience, who she's teaching that it's alright to talk that way. Like I'm not some content police but when you KNOW your audience is mostly kids and you act this way, you're being a blight on society. I hope as time passes, she will continue to lose significance until no one has to talk or think about her anymore🙄
Gabi hanna is a Kate prima donna. that woman would have gotten Tulsa , OK set ablaze twice over if this was 1920 . the things her mouth to do a black person.
She clearly is someone who doesn't want to know that she "lost" whatever she is trying to win at here. You are so much stronger than her Jessi! You have been able to pick yourself up and move forward and have a beautiful family, she is still in the same spot. Stay strong! You have so many people behind you and supporting you!
And she lies so much and has been for so long that she can't keep track of anything anymore.. But it doesn't matter, because she's the victim, right?? 😤
I’d even go a little further. She plans her preemptive attacks. She anticipates an attack from someone else & plans an attack to be able to strike first. That’s scary af & a fucking exhausting life to live.
"Curtis is a human being, I think everyone deserves to be heard out, I won't judge, that's for a judge or God to decide" "But Jessi is a narcissistic abuser and I deserve an apology"
She shouldn’t even be giving her damn opinion it didn’t happen to her. You give your support and shut the hell up. She isn’t the court of law so no it’s not about getting both sides of the stories she’s a horrible person.
She is a very scary human being. Her statements about your trauma are so disturbing. What she does is not okay. I’m very sorry you’ve had to deal with this, I wish you nothing but happiness and peace.
When she says that she is willing to hear your literal rapist's side of the story on the phone call you can see how much that hurt you. I am so so sorry that she will not leave you alone. I hope you get a chance to rest and heal.
the fact that you were willing to sign an NDA and she REFUSED speaks volumes about her character. she’s truly horrible and i hope you never have to deal with her again ❤️
i cannot imagine handling this situation with the grace that you have. i admire you so much, you beautiful person. you deserve everything good in life.
Especially when she's saying she's trying not to be mad and upset and saying how she should have handled situations better im like girll f- that i wouldn't have left i woulda found and dragged her a- she did MUCHHH better than me and a lot of people. there was nothing wrong with the way she handled things
Her blatant disregard for your trauma is sickening. I’m so proud of you for being so composed in a situation that is so hurtful. Sending you so much love and support 💓
