@@giii7599 those experts that have “actually” investigated the case would be breaking ethos & laws if they are releasing the info to the general public. Please do not make the claim that your personally aligning resources are more reliable then others. All information is speculative at the moment. The actual court case evidence & files will be the closest information based on fact & truth that we will get. Please do not promote fake information at any time, especially when it is to confirm your own bias: it is just harmful to your own critical thinking ability
I appreciate this as a recovering domestic abuse survivor. It is hard to understand if you don't live it or study it. It always escalates and narcissist are always, always, always dangerous.
I’m so sorry for your experience with a narcissist. What l’m confused about, concerning Brian, is whether or not he planned this or flew into a violent irreversible rage. My heart breaks for Gabby’s family.
I don't think it was premeditated. I do think that he caused behavior changes in Gabby by terrifying her (on at least one occasion that we know of) and that change in behavior gradually made him more irate. Which caused him to snap. Besides, if this was premeditated he didn't think about any details that's for sure. Plus, why would he post, or record on travel vlogs and social media if he was planning on killing her from the start? He probably felt untouchable after the cops in Moab saw laundrie as the victim. Gabby probably felt more isolated, as though not even the cops would be able to help her.
@@jbates725 THANK You and Goddess BLESS Dear Gabby---this F'd up world did NOT deserve her---she thought B was husband potentiality--she wanted the "Dream" and obviously didn;t have women around her holding the behavior accountable..Others knew I'm sure...we all sold her short--SPEAK up Crones and post Notice 2 the Young!!!
They lied & helped him escape authorities - they aided him. They are culpable & should have to answer for their own actions. All 3 of them need to be brought to justice.
Sabrina: Sincerely believe law enforcement has been held back from responding due to legal restraint that protects US all from "Police Brutality, and Overstepping Authority"" that has been #1 Hot Topic in the Nation. Evenmore, taking actions that violate Brian's Right s, that result in Slam Duck cases being thrown out of court based on a "technicality."
Yes, that was very condescending of him, and that's one of the many tools in the abusers tool kit: condescension. Anyone can be a blogger, there's always someone out there interested in whatever pretty much anyone wants to talk and / or blog about.
If it wasn't for Dr.Grande I probably would have ended up like Gaby , but lucky for me his videos about narcissism and borderline personality disorders saved my life. I was able to get out of a controlling abusive relationship bc I finally understood what was happening and that I wasn't crazy. I will be forever grateful to him for posting these very important videos that educate the public about very dangerous personality types 🙏
@@priscilalondon And, Dr. Carter! All have been tremendously instrumental to my recent education! I, also, wish I had learned about these ideas and their terms. I would have been FAR better off than my life has turned out.
That's awesome. I've seen some criticism about "true crime" fans viewing these things as pure entertainment, some surely do, but I think a lot of us are ultimately so interested in analyzing these cases because deep down, we know how chaotic the world is and that we could easily become a victim ourselves. I think many of us have a morbid curiosity because we want to be educated should we find ourselves in similar situations.
I'm so glad u did. I relate. I'm trying to not get sucked back in. This sad Gabby story has scared me straight. Hopefully a lot of others in toxic relationships or trying to stay out too. Single not ready to mingle lol Rest in peace Angel Abby.
I was thinking the same thing... She was portrayed as the aggressor and he was portrayed as the victim... And, now we have the witnesses from the restaurant that paint a totally different picture of Laundrie
nice vid, thanks As a retired detective, brian seemed to be the control guy on the traffic stop and Gabby was the insecure victim, trying to protect her abuser and not get him in trouble since she knew what would happen if she pissed him off. I did not blame the cops like many do, but I did see it different than most. I have a playlist on my take as a cop called Gabby Murder Investigation, if you care for a cops perspective. You gave me more info than I had so good job on vid.
This. Exactly what I thought when I saw the footage. It looked like the victim protecting the abuser. Not the first time I saw that happening and certainly not the last time.
@@spudbencer7179 Plus she said that he didn´t believe she could become a good vlogger, or something like that. He didn´t like the idea of her being successful... sounds very narcissistic to me. Even here in Germany this case is in the news....
But isn’t this still a case of police failing? If you could see he was the controlling abuser, but they couldn’t, why?? That’s the issue. Police are not trained to pick up on this. What are your thoughts on what police should be trained on, and what do you think would have been the appropriate action they should have taken? What would you have done? And what can we learn from this?
One thing is for sure: abuser will always make you look and feel like they are the victim and you are the one abusing them. That's what we could see in the bodycam video. I feel so sad for Gabby's parents, family and friends. Rest in peace, angel.
So true. I had a friend tell me recently that she was a narcissist and she was working on herself, but I know her husband and he is definitely the narcissistic abuser, he was the same with his first wife. I have always kept my distance from him because I can see it. But I guess he has convinced her she is the one who has issues. It is heartbreaking.
@@adams5414 unfortunately, for those with experience in abusive relationships the observation that @panajotov makes is 100% true. Abusive relationships have this in common. The abuser will present themselves as the victim. They gaslight the actual victim and the victim becomes trauma bonded. That's why victims often don't speak up or find it difficult to move forward and leave the relationship. Abusive relationships are never as cut and dry or as some (those who have not been in abusive relationships) would think.
@@adams5414 There has been no enabling the victim mentality here. The "yes sir"/apologizing "if he was speeding "is manipulative behavior. Again, those who do not recognize or see these types of behaviors may perhaps be lucky as they themselves have not been in or experienced abusive relationships. There are always many facets to any relationship and most often the clear or obvious answer/response from some people is often a knee-jerk reaction. Regardless whether or not you agree with me on this point I think we can both agree that the whole thing is sad. I doubt Brian will be found alive, as I think he likely has committed suic*de.
@@adams5414 There's a psychologist here on youtube and her channel is called Live Abuse Free. She does a very good job discussing this issue and also includes the 911 call made by a man who saw Brian slapping Gabby.
She met Brian!! She was far more attractive, you’d never expect to see someone like Gabby with a man like that! He knew his days were numbered especially when her blog took off!!!
The way Brian kept trying to suck up to the cops with his "if I was speeding, I'm really sorry" act was one sign of his manipulative modus operandi. He apparently had Gabby convinced that it was "her OCD" that was the problem in the relationship, not his controlling ways. The fact that she was terrified that he locked her out of the van and kept the keys away from her (even though it was apparently her van), shows how much he controlled her through intimidation and manipulation. What young woman wouldn't be scared of being abandoned in the middle of desert terrain?
@TL D. Good call. I think it's all about games to Brian with his control, manipulation and gaslighting. And Gabby only wanted to love him and make him happy. She was the perfect target for him, sweet and kind. I think she was trying to get away. But he just wouldn't allow it. His control was too powerful and he isolated her in the middle of nowhere and then did the unthinkable. So terribly heartbreaking. May God rest Gabby's beautiful soul. 💔🙏🏻🙏🏻 May Brian be found and justice served, and may God have mercy on his guilty soul.
My abusive husband used to take me into the Alaska wilderness and disappear on purpose so I would be terrified. Brings back so many bad memories. I got away.
I am a survivor of a 15 yr domestic violence. I left that toxic relationship and definitely don’t know how I wasn’t killed. Thankful and sad 😢 at the same time for the others that were not so fortunate. Emotional, and mental abuse , plus physical added to that can be extremely debilitating to a person’s ability to think critically and make decisions. It’s a dangerous place to be. 🥲 Gabby suffered.
@@nikolaos1991 don't do that 😒 if you don't get it, judgement shouldn't replace your lack of understanding.. 15 years or 15 days, she got OUT and I celebrate her
Hey Gabriela. I am so so sorry to hear about your horrific experience and so pleased that you have come through alive. I have also been in a very similar situation. I think that DV survivors have felt this one pretty hard. I don't think that it is a matter of downplaying harm, to be determined that such a shining, smiling light like Gabby should be remembered with that focus. And I think that we all know that it is a miracle that she was found. I felt just over a day before that she would show them where she was. I don't know whether that is a coping mechanism. But then she was found exactly like I felt. But I just really felt like getting home, and giving her family that certainty and closure was so important for her, because she was such a good girl. Yes- lots of assumption and delusion, but it seems like a more fitting memory to assign to her, than picturing a grizzly demise.
@Amy Weinholtz One of the most awesome things within my DV group is that there is no differentation made between physical abuse and things like coercion, alienation, financial control and gaslighting. Everything is just domestic violence- it is all domestic violence.
In the cop body cam footage, she's crying and says how theyre arguing and he wouldn't let her in the van. That's very telling of the type of guy he is. That van was their only shelter, its transportation and its home. And he's denying her access to safety and her belongings.
This puzzle pieces of his behaviours are terrifyingly SAME as my abusive ex boyfriend, for example he took my phone and stuff and locked himself in a room for eternity, i couldn't do or go anywhere, but making ME look crazy infront of other people and him being "so nice guy". The worst type of people...
@@ktermalkut8332 If Brian needed some time to cool off and some distance he should've taken a walk by himself… He should've forced her out of the van. He ended up staying in a hotel room by himself. He could've done that without the police telling him he needed to do so. He should have never taken her keys and forced her into an unsafe environment when it wasn't her own idea
I really wanted her to be alive, but something about Brian's way of being too charming to the police already told me he had killed her. He was behaving way too awkward IMO. I strongly believe that he is the murderer.
I’m leaning more and more to believing there’s high probability of his guilt. My initial impulse was to defend due process and his behavior. He said he loves her blah blah. I had a camper van trip go South on me at their age. I didn’t fight with her but she just split when I was volunteering for 3 days at a wilderness outing. She hitchhiked home. If she had been killed I would have been accused of it and looked very suspicious. I dont know how I would have reacted as I was very insecure at the time. Very low self esteem. A part of me wanted myself to be punished because I had been brainwashed I was bad. So, my point is it’s not always simple as it looks. I just thought the girl was illogical. Why not just wait a couple days for me to return and then say “take me home” please. I hardly knew her and didn’t understand girls emotions. I just wanted someone excited to be going on adventures with and it might grow into a relationship. She wanted the emotional security of a relationship then go on adventures. RIP, Gabrielle. I am beginning to think he was enjoying abusing her and it got out of hand. She might have turned on him and rejected him and said she was going to the police. Then he might have done the terrible deed.
@@seanj5893 - Wrong! Whether he “heard voices” (potentially a symptom of a mental health disorder) or not, *_he_* physically killed her. Hopefully, the autopsy results, as well as evidence collected by police and FBI, will indisputably prove Laundrie was the murderer.
@@paulbaker3144 Good point Paul. Could very well be that he left her, and someone else killed her? But I highly doubt that scenario, being that he was the last person to slap her. Occam's razor comes to mind at this point.
@@jumpinjohnnyruss Well, he certainly provides solid, well-thought-out insight. However, he is a mental health professional, so if we're going to nit-pick, I suppose I'm not sure I would consider his opinions in regards to criminal justice to be "expert" opinions. Either way, I wouldn't completely dismiss them, as I would still consider them to be highly educated opinions. Definitely more valuable than the vast majority of these armchair investigators who seem to be launching their unfounded assumptions all over the place.
@@Strype13 mmmm???well Dr. G can analyze mental illness as cleary seen in her rapid speaking,,and fearfullness,his speaking as well yes I have watched the full vid on them being pulled over,its trippy, and bizarre,mmm I just hope she's ok....damn it!!
And he was constantly asking the officers: “what is she saying, what is she saying?” Was afraid to be exposed, but had probably intimidated her enough not to tell the cops what actually had taken place.
Maybe if the police got the proper information. I don't see a counselor helping in anyway. Most counselors I've met. I have met hundreds of counselors over the years are absolutely worthless. Because of liberal schools. Taking classes will never explain what it's like to be a addict. Do you understand what I'm saying.
@@richardhenry1969 show me statistics and leave politics out of it. My opinion, police officers should know the DSM-5 from front to cover. They should also have several psych classes with their training and yes, domestic violence counselors at the scene. Calling the police and telling them someone is threatening you, they have said they can't do anything till the person actually does something. Do you know how many lives could have been saved if they would have done something about those threats.. or just knowing who's the victim and who's the abuser, after what I've been through personally and the knowledge I have gained through research, I clearly see who was the abuser and who was the victim in this case.
@@nancyappel5645 How do you make a statement like that then say leave politics out. When everyone knows democrat run cities instead of better training and vetting they do the opposite. I don't believe it's the police job to consult people or bring a counselor. It's their job to separate people so something bad doesn't happen. People shouldn't need a second mother. Just like it's not the police job to punish a criminal. We have other systems for that.
Anyone who needs to hear this, you aren’t crazy- the other person probably is. Find help stay with a friend and don’t look back. Psychological abuse is real, you are not alone.
Psychological abuse is the worst, most insidious kind of abuse. It leads to life-long trauma, and no one sympathizes with the victim unless they have been abused too.
Your analysis was definitely more interesting than “Annihilation.” It’s very sad that a beautiful, loving young life has been lost! My heart goes out to Gabby’s family. Justice for Gabby.
Here's what's happened, although no one wants to admit it. Cute little blonde girl with a nice arsss......has always got her way. She's privledged little pretty white girl that has always manipulated people into doing what she wanted. And if she didn't get her way , she would start crying and throwing a fit.....start talking gibberish (pretend she's crazy) and play the victim. She's always been cute and always got what she wanted (especially if men were around). Then one day she was throwing a fit on her boyfriend (no one else was around) so he gave her a solid left hook in the mouth. She fell down and cracked her head on a rock (or something along those lines) and is now dead. Sad?? sure.......welcome to gynocentrism run a muck.
@@cormacsugrue7135 He's obviously a POS coward. This is all pretty obvious. When I first saw the police footage aa few things were apparent , this is an incongruous relationship, she's a lovely beautiful girl, he's a shot. bald brooding guy. You can see that he's controlling and afraid she'll leave him. The interview with Gabby's friend confirms all of it. We've known guys like this and relationships like this. The girl needs/tries to leave, but he has his hooks in her. Dr Grande is correct, this often ends in valence and tragedy. The is the Star 80 phenomenon.
OMG!!!! A video at 10:30 pm!?!?! Yes, please!!! On a serious note thank you for the update. This case has taken a horrifying turn. Definitely not how we were hoping to have found Gabby.
Well, one of her best friends said she had to stay at her house between 7 -10 times to "get way from him", and he took her ID without her knowing when she tried to go out dancing with a girlfriend.
Taking someone's ID is a huge sign of abuse in my eyes. I thought I lost my wallet, so I cancelled all my cards etc. But all of a sudden, over night I lost independence. Suddenly my husband was the only one who had access to our banking, I couldn't drive myself around confident I wouldn't be arrested. And I couldn't get anything replaced because he wouldn't give me the money to do so. I now know he took my wallet and any form of ID I had at home.
@@teresatano193 why thank you. But actually no, we got sober, attended a shit load of counseling and worked our asses off 😂 We've been married for 15 years now and things are good. He hasn't layed a hand on me in years. I can't stress enough to people this isn't a "stick by your man" story at all. It's a leave before someone dies warning. Our situation was different because we didn't have an abusive situation dating or for years of marriage at first. Our violence was only tied to substance abuse because of the monster it is. Should have split up, got help and reconnected later. Stay safe everyone 💕
@@jbs8704all young couples want that dream of time alone. Her because she was in love, him because he was in love and showed that through control and manipulation. I guess you haven't been abused as a child or adult. Its all psychological warfare... The physical part comes later, after you are trapped. You obviously haven't experienced this personally... But don't you think all those women would just leave? Do you think she thought she was going to die? And she actively chose to die? Come on, it doesn't make any sense but we still do it
I'm normally suspect of internet experts who have no first-hand knowledge of the people or circumstances of which (or of whom) they publicly opine, but Doc Grande seems to stay humble and just report the facts and analysis as he sees it, sans sensationalism. Good job, Grande.
I think it’s interesting how the Moab police continuously state that the august 15th incident was a “mental health crisis” instead of a “crime”….I think it should be noted that many situations, including this one, can easily be classified as BOTH 🤷🏼♀️
I think the reason they didn’t want to address it as a crime is bc if they were going to arrest or ticket someone it would have to be both of them as Brian had some scratches on him. They knew she didn’t do anything wrong but didn’t have evidence that he was hurting her.
@@xsimbyx I did watch this video. And the entire hour and twenty-some minute police bodycam footage as well…several times actually. I agree with you that if anything SHE would have been the one charged….and despite what literally EVERYONE else seems to think about this case, I STILL am doing my best to keep an open mind when it comes to Brian and have spent quite a lot of time the past week or so here considering EVERY possible route that we could have arrived here-including many options that don’t involve him 🤷🏼♀️ I actually live in Sarasota too (which is only about a 20 minute drive north of Northport)….also, I do think that the police officers here did a very good job given the info they were presented with in this situation and obviously not knowing where it would eventually lead. I’m not sure if my comment came off in the wrong way, but I was just making an observation ab mental health and how it very often does play into crime…I really wasn’t trying to say anything else about the details of this specific case 🤷🏼♀️
not that I'm very familiar with the legalities of what went on, but to establish that incident as a crime would mean that something illegal happened. and if that was the case, I seriously doubt they would have let any one of the two walk away.
@@langjosol426 there was an altercation in which a passerby saw them yelling at each other and reported to the police that he saw a possible domestic violence incident in which “Brian pushed/hit Gabby”….but when the police caught up to their vehicle to to follow up on the report, Brian is the one who had multiple visible injuries on his face and Gabby admitted that she had been the one that smacked/scratched him. So yes, they 100% would have been within the letter of the law to charge Gabby with a crime-I’m not an attorney, but specifically, I’m pretty certain they could have hit her with domestic violence and/or assault…at the very least, they could have charged Brian with speeding, and if they really wanted to be ass holes, I would imagine they could’ve also given him “failure to control” for when he crossed over the double yellow lines and hit the curb. Additionally, perhaps they could have charged them both with disorderly conduct for their very public altercation. Again, these officers had no clue what this would lead to, so in my opinion, I think they actually went above and beyond the call of duty here by spending so much time talking with each of them, hearing them out and giving them the benefit of the doubt so they wouldn’t have to go to jail/have pending charges in the state of Utah (which would’ve been an incredible pain in the ass since they don’t reside in that state). Again though, with my original comment, I was just wanting to point out that these domestic violence situations are most often VERY complicated and intricate, and they VERY often can be classified as BOTH mental health issues AND criminal violations of the law 🤷🏼♀️ I know this is an unpopular opinion to many people out there at this point, but I suppose I’m backing up the actions of the officers here…I think that they exercised their discretion (which is a huge part of their daily responsibilities) and in the end thought they were doing what was best for these specific people in this specific situation. Definitely sucks that it all turned out how it did though 😟
So interesting to hear this. It makes sense that his mental health was getting worse over time. The book filled his mind with a story that took him from reality so he didn't have to focus on the fact that she wasn't really his fiance and they weren't getting married after all. It's like he knew the relationship was over, and no one was going to have her if he couldn't.
If it turns out that the body is indeed of Gabby, and that Brian is the killer, whether law enforcement find dead or alive, I think Brian's parents and his lawyer should be held accountable for cover up.
Well, you are an imbecile. Exercising your rights can never be converted to a crime. He has no obligation to help the police, or even to speak at all - and that's not even close to "cover up" (it's called conspiracy btw).
@F. Aduke Femi-Babalola Well you could've actually listened in your civics class instead of goofing off.. It's because of people like you that our constitution is being eroded. Don't be offended, just fix it
Incredibly toxic relationship fueled by a desire to be known for a happy relationship, feelings don't allows lead down the path we need, I've seen people remain in toxic relationships for years. She didn't deserve to die but Brian needs to come forward now. Too many strange coincidences to call this an accident.
Typical social media BS, messed up people pretending to be deliriously happy. Saddest is they suck other kids trying to escape reality into a fantasy to do the same. Like these happy solo female backpackers who end up raped and beheaded in a foreign country, or are never found at all.
@@nhmooytis7058 You said it right. I believe she was the one to posted that type of facade just for her fans. I think it's a terrible tragedy for both.
There are tons of people depressed because their own life is not as grand as the made up lives they are reading about. They fail to realize those picture perfect lives they look at have a limited link to reality.
Oh definitely. I hope his parents get charged for their part in this. They also should foot the bill for all the tax payer money and resources wasted on that massive search they did looking for their son, in a place where they knew he really wasn’t. I wonder how many tens of thousands of dollars that search cost.
The car WAS found in that park. The police had left a note on it saying it should be moved - certainly they have the record of their citation. Now the rest, we don't know.
Excellent assessment of what is known about this case! Brian tried to make it look like she was the problem in the relationship! He very calmly tried to control every situation. Gabby was so afraid of his outburst of uncontrollable aggression toward her, she could only cry as he made it look like all the bad stuff was her fault! He killed her in a fit of rage and then took her van and left her to the elements in an isolated spot. He rushed home to mama to help him fix his problem! He is now either in Mexico hiding or he actually went into the reserve and committed suicide when everything came crashing down on him!! So sad for Gabby and her family!! They may never find him!!!
She was conditioned by his persistent sabotage of her joy to believe she was to blame for how he effected her mood. He literally wanted her happiness and her joy for himself, so took it away from her repeatedly. He only felt happy if she was sad.
The 200$ offer was made, knowing it would be turned down, because grandiose compensation offers (and gratuitous apologizing) are a form of manipulation. The "offer" was meant to instill good feelings in Miranda towards brian. It didn't work.
Exactly. Also isn’t interesting how he had no money for a hotel on the 12th of Aug yet he managed to fly home for a week and then have 200 for a 10 mile ride?
Thank you Dr. Grande for placing doubt on the importance of the books they read, and their favorite movies. Way too many people are trying to make mountains out of these molehills. I'm into true crime and mysteries. A lot of us here are. It doesn't mean we're psychopaths or violent.
Way too many people also need to remember, just because they're into true crime and mysteries, doesn't make them a detective nor mental health, or human behavior expert.
Dr. Grande is a Licensed Professional Counselor of Mental Health (LPCMH) and Licensed Chemical Dependency Professional (LCDP) in the State of Delaware and is a National Certified Counselor (NCC). He holds a Master’s of Science in Community Counseling from Wilmington University and a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from Regent University. wow GO DOCTOR!!!!!!
@@patsyhodge9071 Most counselors don't have PhD's. He does so he's a doctor. My Aunt is a Dr. She studies rocks. My grandfather was a Dr. of music. If you have a PhD. you are a doctor. He earned the title for studying 8 years of college or more. There are different kinds of doctors.
Been following this story on the news since the beginning, this whole incident is having my head spin, so much information yet so many questions still yet needing answered. I just hope he is found and brought to justice, it’s not a matter of “if” but “when” RIP Gabby.
I cannot even describe my shock and heartfelt for this case. Especially because I sometimes sense the awful scary feeling „this could have been me“ after my very similar abusive relationship with a narcissistic boyfriend who was manipulating, gaslighting and blaming me for 2 years while I was trying to make the relationship better, trying always to be kind, in a good mood and blamed myself everytime he was in a bad mood and he accused me of the wildest things. It is particularly hard to follow this case since last week because I could tick so many boxes of similar situations I was in. If anybody has similar feelings like mine in their relationship, then this is my warning to get out of it before it is too late. You are worth so much more. My heart goes out to Gabbys family.
I'm really sorry you went through all of that. Glad you got out. Doesn't it seem like these narcissistic abusers are ALL doing the same things? Your story is so familiar to me. It's like they all read the same book!
Great analysis! I didn’t think of Brian offering the $200 as a possible way to establish an alibi. You do something outrageous so people will remember you.
Or desperate to get to his destination. No one does anything for free these days. i have acquaintances and even family members who wont take me a few miles without throwing down $20 for "Gas"
That has been debunked, those people were just looking for quick internet fame. Besides the fact that Brian didn’t have any money on him and he needed money from his father for a hotel stay. The other fact that it would be nearly impossible to drive from Wyoming to Florida in 2 days. It’s like a 35 hour drive
@@milskillz123 What has been debunked? I heard, from quite a few sources that this report led to finding Gabby. She does have video of the van. I do not know who drove the van back to Fl., maybe not Brian. We will see. I have not heard Brian had no money on them.Gabby’s parent paid for a hotel. We have no way of knowing, at this point, if Brian had money. It would seem that Brians family has allowed him to get ahead of searchers. You think they wouldnt have wired him money during the trip? How were they eating? Weren’t there reports of them in a bar? That takes money.
Spot on. I thought the same thing about the hitchhiking and him specifically mentioning "he was camping alone WITHOUT his fiancé" and then he says where Gabby is. The minute I saw that video I thought that was a guy trying to establish an alibi. Patti Bee, M.S., LPC, Madison, WI
A late night post!? Dr. Grande: the PhD working OT for us. ❤️ You’re on it like white on rice! Thank you for the hard work! God bless Gabby and her family. May her family find peace and justice. 💔
Case 2021-001108 Moab Police Department "Before leaving, I spoke with the male driver of the van, the female passenger, and also called Chris (911 caller/witness) to get more information from him. All three individuals game me a similar and consistent story... No-one reported the male struck the female"
@@TheDarthJesus The 911 call has been released and the man reports seeing the male slap then strike the female. I wonder why the written report contradicts this. Could there have been more than one 911 call?
@@TheDarthJesus 911 CALL TRANSCRIPT: Dispatcher: Grand County Sheriff's Office. Caller: Hi, can you hear me, sir? Dispatcher: Yeah, I can hear you. Caller: Hi, I’m calling, I’m right on the corner of Main Street by Moonflower and we're driving by and I'd like to report a domestic dispute, Florida with a white van, Florida license plate, white van. Dispatcher: Where's it at? Caller: They just drove off. They're going down Main Street. They made a right on Main Street from Moonflower. Dispatcher: What were they doing? Caller: What'd you say? Dispatcher: What were they doing? Caller: We drove by 'em, a gentleman was slapping the girl. Dispatcher: He was slapping her? Caller: Yes, and then we stopped, they ran up and down the sidewalk, he proceeded to hit her, hopped in the car and they drove off. Dispatcher: OK, you say that's a white van? Caller: It's a white van. I can give you the license plate if you give me one [second] I took a picture of it.
Dr.Grande is right on the mark when stating that Brian's issues were worsening. Unfortunately, Gabby appears to be the one that suffered the consequences of his worsening psychosis along with manipulative and controlling behavior.
Sadly, he didnt look at all the facts. Case 2021-001108 Moab Police Department "Before leaving, I spoke with the male driver of the van, the female passenger, and also called Chris (911 caller/witness) to get more information from him. All three individuals game me a similar and consistent story... No-one reported the male struck the female"
A person raised in a healthy household would easily find red flags in toxic situations or individuals. The fact that he could manipulate her so easily and get away with it indicates that she did not value herself enough.
Here's my conclusions: 1. He killed her. 2. He planned it to look like an accident/suicide. 3. Something went wrong with his plan, and now it inevitably points to him as her killer. 4. He told his parents of her death, but embellished it to make him innocent. 5. He was home without her for 10 days before her family reported her missing, so his parents helped him get away. 6. He will never be found alive, or possibly not at all. 7. His family will maintain his innocence to protect themselves from being charged as accessories after the fact. 8. Finally, he may be charged with her murder in absentia, which won't mean sh!t because he's dead anyways. Besides being a tragic story, it will frustrate because we'll never know the truth. I almost guarantee he'll kill himself without explaining any of the facts. And the parents will never tell the truth because they don't want to be charged. Sad...
I am with you on all of this except, Brian offing himself. He and his parents have gone to great lengths to make him come out unscathed, with no consequences. He has plenty to live for. Starting a new life with no remorse
@@margaretwebb6372 Or trying to start over. We'll see how far he gets with that one. I hope he's found, personally, and charged. Throw the book at him.
@@margaretwebb6372 , Melbourne, Australia. I agree with you. I think his parents lied when they said he went to the reserve. They just diverted police/FBI attention. Brian is most probably in Mexico and getting help from some Mexicans. He has the money.
She was so passionate about all her endeavours just to have this gy brin her down, demoralize her. Such a looser hidding behind mommy and daddy. I hope girls realize their worth; he wasn't worth it any one bit.
You’re on 🔥 today, Dr. Grande! A+! I was just about to go to bed but was gladly delayed by your update. Such a tragedy. A young woman in the prime of her life needlessly dies and the one who said he loves her won’t tell us what he knows. Unbelievable. I thought the police officers were also unprofessional in their attempt to befriend Brian and disclose information about a spouse’s mental health complications. Also unbelievable.
I'm sure the cop never thought this discussion would make national news, but his wife has got to be furious now that everybody knows about her mental health issues!
In interrogations a lot of cops take the “conversational/relatable/we’re all friends here” approach to get the suspect to divulge more info. Probably wasn’t the best time though.
If the cop's wife was anxious BEFORE she saw the body cam footage, she's got to be even more anxious, now! And so mad at him. 😲😲😲 Maybe he should try the van life for a couple of weeks.
With numerous news stories flying around about this case, I always find Dr Grande’s summaries helpful to concisely explain the facts as well as speculate on credible possibilities rather than conspiracy theories.
I get a boost of serotonin everytime I hear "Hello, this is Dr. Grande" 😊 Thanks for being on top of this story! I rewatched your Faith Hedgepeth video after the arrest. Thank you Dr. Grande! ⭐️
What I don’t get is if he asked for a ride to Jackson he then panicked when the driver mentioned Jackson HOLE. Maybe he realized he should have dug a deeper HOLE to bury Gabby and went back?
Important lessons to learn from Gabby’s tragic life and death. 1. Based on the body camera video posted by the officers who pulled Gabby and her fiancé over for suspicious driving, some viewers assumed Gabby was suffering from mental illness and Brian was the stable one. 2. Some people may have assumed both partners were equally abusive and equally at fault. The old “it takes two” myth that doesn’t really apply to most abusive situations. 3. Some people may have even assumed Gabby was the abuser and Brian was the victim. 4. These assumptions are classic. Why? Because, in many cases, the target manages to keep things together until her breaking point, at which time others may see her crying or hear her yelling or see her breaking, and then they assume she’s “crazy.” 5. Meanwhile, the abuser plays the part of the poor, patient partner who has to deal with this crazy person. But all the while, he’s been acting very differently behind closed doors, pushing her to this point intentionally and feeding on her emotional break. He LOVES to see evidence that he has hurt her. He LOVES to see her pain. 6. For this reason, “breaking her” has been his goal from the start. It may take him hours or weeks or months or even years to break her, but he won’t stop until he gets that reaction, and then he’ll point the finger and say, “See? She’s crazy. I’m just trying to keep her calm.” And then he’ll do it again. And again. And again. 7. As a result, some people will buy into that false narrative. Even the target. Which brings me to my next point. 8. In the video, we see Gabby making many excuses for Brian’s behavior, and she takes all the blame for everything he does. 9. We also see Brian blaming Gabby and saying he was just trying to keep her calm. 10. This is also the norm for victims of long-standing abuse. A target becomes conditioned to believe everything the abuser does is her fault. 11. Also, she clearly doesn’t want Brian to be in trouble. She’d rather pay the price and protect the man she loves. Also, remember she truly believes he only acted this way because of her, so she doesn’t want him to be blamed. This is also the norm. 12. Smart officers see right through this. Others buy the cover-up story. (And because some officers are also abusers, they all too frequently side with the abuser even when they know exactly what’s going on.) 13. I actually credit the police in Gabby’s situation. They were calm, they separated the couple, they interviewed them individually, they split them up for the night, they did everything right. I’m sure the officer has tremendous guilt about the end result and wonders if he could have prevented it, but I don’t blame the officers in this case. I was actually pretty surprised and impressed with how well they treated both Brian and Gabby (and, sadly, I was thinking how rare it is to see that.) 14. Many people have been shocked by Brian’s family’s refusal to cooperate with police. I’m not shocked at all. Let’s look at that a little more closely. 15. I’m also not surprised to learn that Gabby lived with the Laundrie family for a year. We all see this family will do anything to protect their son, even at the cost of an innocent young woman who was a real part of their family and soon to be their daughter in law. While most of us can certainly understand them wanting to protect their child, they crossed a moral line when Gabby went missing. 16. But I think it goes deeper than that. I think it shows them as a system of enablers who not only allowed Brian to abuse Gabby over a long term (which probably led to her intense anxiety) but also a system of gaslighters who were probably always shifting the truth to keep Gabby confused and make her believe she’s the problem. She was caught in an entire system of abuse. And once you’re in that web, it’s very very very difficult to see a way out. 17. I imagine they probably contributed to her abuse from the start and encouraged their son’s abusive behaviors by rewarding him, making excuses for him, blaming Gabby, flipping the script, and keeping her in the fog that breaks down a person’s psyche and spirit over time. 18. Gabby and Brian had been together since their teens. This is also common. These immature relationships work beautifully when both partners grow together and mature emotionally. But when one wants to keep the other down, naive, and under his control…and the other is growing, learning, and maturing, it doesn’t work. 19. We hear Gabby tell the officer that Brain didn’t think she could do her travel blog. It seems clear that he didn’t believe in her and was trying to make her not believe in herself. 20. She also says he didn’t like her working and that he locked her out of the van because she wouldn’t calm down. But when you listen to the full video, it sounds like he was upset because they’d spent too much time at the coffee shop with her working on her website when he wanted to go hiking. She wasn’t in her seat when he was ready to leave. Control issues?! He squeezed her face with his hand in anger. He cut her down and criticized her, verbally abusing her until she was a wreck of tears. He was breaking her spirit, intentionally. 21. Why? Because her focus wasn’t 100% on him. And because she had found a job she enjoyed and was good at and that allowed her to connect with other people, when he wanted her all to himself. 22. She now had this one little piece of her life that he couldn’t completely control, so he wanted fo get rid of that. It angered him. He punished her for it. See the pattern? 23. The overall takeaway? When you see someone crying like this, don’t assume she’s crazy. Don’t buy into the false narrative given by the abuser. Don’t believe the cover-up story by the target who has been conditioned to carry all the blame and shame. And don’t assume she’s going to be okay. She just may end up your next recovered body. 24. If you or someone you love are in an unhealthy relationship, please don’t assume it will get better in time. I haven’t heard one single story where it got better. Not one. Not with therapy. Not with church. Not with prayer or forgiveness or complete surrender. Nothing works when the abuser is determined to destroy that target. He will not stop until she is erased from this world or from her life. And in many cases, he’ll walk away without any consequences. Please don’t let the next Gabby be you or someone you love. Domestic violence hotline: 1-800-799-7233
She was so beautiful and didn't deserve this. He dad said he was not aware of her having OCD. I guess the dirty Laundry's told her that because she liked to be neat.
There was a 911 call made by a driver that saw Brian hit Gabby. I suspect the information was relayed badly to the patroling cops the 911 dispatcher was as aloof as can when asking questions to the caller.. Thats the opinion I got from it.
It’s the quiet ones u got to watch...err no ,it most of them tbh. Your lucky if you get a nice chap thses days that really is kind and takes care of you.
Unfortunately Gabby and Brian had a toxic relationship, and this kind of situation usually ends in tears and sometimes even tragically like this one. My heart and prayers go to Gabby's family! I feel sorry for Gabby as well since a young life has been cut short!
The leading cause of death for women under 40 in the United States is homicide committed by an intimate partner. Think about how staggering that is. We’re more likely to die at the hands of the person we love, than accident, disease or any other numerous reason young women are dying.
It isn’t a “toxic relationship” - it is domestic violence and it needs to be confronted head-on without the description that imply both partners are violent. Gabby was abused.
The two are pulled over by cops, and after a long interview were separated for the night. All the time, Brian was laughing as he was questioned. Gabby, was taken off the camper van, crying and questioned in the back of the cop car. 1. She was seen abandoned with her back pack, and she struggled to get back in. 2. She was getting more involved with her social media apps to start something of her own, Brian resented this. 3.Gabby was totally dependent on Brian. 4. Do not know if they had some sort of income. Why marry in difficult situations. 5. Why drive into a national reserve, return back alone, hire an attorney, and exercise his rights to remain silent. When he was all along saying he loves her? 6. A tragedy that had all the signs of it coming. Even the cops could see this, but let them go cause of their age. Too young to get messed up. So they gave them lots of good advice and did not press any changes. God bless Gabby, may her soul rest in peace.
Brian was very vocal and kept talking with laughter. He soon realised, she had been perceived as the aggressor. Looks like, she was drained emotionally and a planned ditching. Which looks all planned and evil.
Thank you for bringing that up. Few people are bringing up that witnesses reported that he attempted to lock her out of the van. In the police interview he says he wanted them to walk off in different directions. No, his plan was to drive off.
Nancy Grace and John Walsh have both monopolized on (and made a career out of) the tragic deaths of their (supposed) loved ones. I find them both pathetic at best.
Thanks for the update Dr. Grande! ❤️ This case has had my stomach in knots. I didn't know anything about the TikTok video. Weird. Everything is so bizarre about this case.
Great video , looking forward to another analysis maybe after they find him or even just in general an update. I hope the family can get the closure they deserve 💕
I'm a pretty new subscriber and would like to thank you Dr. Grande for your time and dedication to informing us all with videos like this. We all greatly appreciate it! Thank you again and keep up the amazing work! Best of health to you Dr. Grande and everyone in the comments and your loved ones! ✌🏻❤️🤍👍🏻 RIP Gabby You will be greatly missed! 🤍❤️🤍❤️
I think Brian does not have enough gumption to kill himself. He has maybe been bailed out his entire life by his parents. But this time it's not going to work. Apparently they were both off their meds?
@@maryjwatt everyone I've met on meds or needs them is battling with liberalism because it's goes against the whole fabric of reality people have severe mental aversions and reactions to it. STOP BRAINWASHING CHILDREN THROUGH LIBERAL EDUMACATION.
If the lawyers have their way we will be waiting a long time. There is to much time that has past and unlikely anyone will give accurate information about her death.
Brian is completely a narcissist! No empathy, jealousy, controlling and yes leaving her behind showed lots of narcissistic traits and yet She was the victim! She showed fear all over her body language!! Soooo sad!! There was no one there to help her😢
Such a sad story. So happy I found your channel. Learning a lot, and everything you discuss is highly informative. I agree with everyone else, yellow is a great color on you.
The ol' PSYCHOTIC Boyfriend trick.....everything's "normal", but it was all an act. I watched the whole Moab PD video and what I saw was....a terrified young woman, terrified of the aftermath, and I saw a bf that was attempting to curry favor w/ the cops, distorting the reality of the facts. Battered Woman syndrome....and Laundrie is for want of a better word, just WEIRD. I felt like this whole social media thing WASN'T what he wanted/needed....it was Gabby's idea.
Was story of working in storage unit made up. Did Brian’s dad fly to Utah and then was it him that drove vehicle back to Florida? Was Brian even in Florida? Did anyone see him?
This! Is there any actual evidence that Brian drove the van back home to FL? Or are the authorities just taking the families word that he came home? Something isn’t right with his families story….
Gabby and I were the same age when I left a very abusive relationship while pregnant. It was very hard to leave because I was manipulated and gas light. I never wanted to say anything with fear of ruining his life so I can definitely see this happening with Gabby and how she felt. RIP Beautiful Angel 💜 🦋
I'm so glad you were able to see through the manipulation and gas lighting. It's very hard that young (I know as I was there too, and couldn't fathom the behaviour especially when he'd blow hot and cold) to understand what's going on. You're young and don't have reference points or anything to go on and you have the mixed up confusion of manipulation, control and also the bonding and the feelings of love and the good times too. So, it gets all confusing to assess with clarity because you've been gas lighted and brainwashed that it's all you. And in Gabby's case too I believe that was exactly what was going on until she believed that her own positive dreams, goals, drive, dedication was turned and twisted into by him as OCD and mania until she actually believed it herself. He really brainwashed her that it was all her. So with that it can get really hard to get clarity and leave and so young too because you just don't have reference points that being a little older can give you. I'm so glad you were able to do so and leave for both you and your baby. God bless you and you child. And Rest In Peace Beautiful Young Butterfly Gabby, may you have joy unspeakable in heaven and continue to do lots of amazing things there! (He can never take that from you.) 💗🦋🌈
It would be interesting if you could analyse the body cam video from Utah police. Especially the behaviour of Brian. There was something so off about him there imo
Sad. My friends have a 1 year old. To watch how much effort and love it takes to raise a kid for just one year, I can only imagine the bond after 22 years. For someone to take that away instant and unexpectedly is just unfathomable. I imagine you have to be a parent to truly understand how they must feel.
Why run and hide, if he has nothing to be guilty of... Why did Brian return to Florida and to his parents without Gabby? Why did he not report her as missing? He's hiding something, likely the fact, that he's the cause of her death... innocent people don't run away. I can't believe his parents didn't report him missing for several days before alerting the authorities. I hope they find him alive, and that he faces justice. Prayers for Gabby's family and friends.
I thought I remembered hearing Brian ask the officer/s if there was a charge for the hotel, that he did not have funds. That was at least my impression. For him to offer to give these strangers $200 for a ride, tells me that something had happened that he got the mon3ey she might have been withholding from him, since it was her camper, her job she had quit and had planned the trip for her blog to be created. So to me, this is very telling that he somehow came into money, took the van and left without her, without notifying authorities of her disappearance as well. He is definitely primo suspect no. 1 in my mind. It's all about control and he did his big power play of control by locking her out of her own van, before it escalated to the point of overpowerment, which is what I think happened. I have been with people who could charm the birds out of a tree, but in private, he was abusive, pulling a gun on me at one point, throwing me on the floor and rupturing discs in my back, before I was finally convinced it was time to get out. Then he stalked me and harassed me after the fact. At the time, I could not file a restraining order because they said I was not married to him. Well, that law has since changed, but it would have been nice to have had it in place when I felt my life was in danger. I finally hid all his guns before leaving him, knowing he would come after me, and he did, without his guns. So, I am a survivor thank God, and I know what these weirdo, insecure baby brains can do. THey are big and mean and you never knew what to expect from them. This guy could be smiling when drove in, but when he hit the door, he was screaming at nothing. So he did it to keep me off balance so I would not have any footing, or means of control over what was going to happen, and he blamed me for everything that didn't even exist. He was a nut case, to say the least, so I know h9ow things can happen. His constant laugh during the first part of the stop in Moab, is very telling. He was laughing at his guilt. You might take a look at his middle finger on his right hand. It looked bruised and swollen to me, but it might have been dirt or something else. I just thought it looked swollen. Also, what was disturbing to me was the fact that the only picture they took of Gabby was her sitting in the police car while she was being interrogated. They never asked her to show her back or any body part for photos, in case there was something they overlooked. Whereas, with Brian, they had him raise his shirt, show his scratches and any red marks. Where were her photos? Yes, I agree that she might have fought back, but she didn't do it by herself. she was either provoked or bullied in some way to get her that upset. She was obviously trying to make peace but he kept taunting her until she reacted. Perhaps that is what he wanted, to get her out of the van so he could get to her money, she obviously had kept in hiding, since he said he did not have any funds for a motel, when told and questioned about being separated for the night. Also being passive aggressive like Brian seems to portend to be, in some ways, it is a mental disorder. He was laughing the entire time he was being interrogated and afraid that Gabby was laying charges against him, from what he said. Guilt talking from him is what I call it. My boyfriend was always accusing ME of stuff he had done. Also, if anyone looked MY way, he looked AT ME to see if I was looking back! Then, he would take it out on me, if someone found me attractive enough to take a second or long first look at me. I was always on guard and on edge but that was his insecure plan, to keep me controlled with threats and inuendos so that I would not leave. He used to do things and say things that would make me want to leave, but if I did, he would come hunting me down like some tracker. I am lucky to be alive. I had to move in with a big guy to get this coward to back off. He finally did. Thank God, but it could have ended up like Gabby.
If you watch the whole body cam video it’s about 1h17min you can hear police talkin about how they actually want to book her - so they can check her body for injuries. The cops gets shit they don’t deserve in this one. They get it - the smartest thing is to hit so there be no markings on her body, maybe under clothes, I don’t know 🤷🏼♂️. Sorry you had to go through that shit yourself, actually I have to even though I am a man. Cheers from Scandinavia
@@SleepMeditationandAffirmations my ex husband, I was married 14 years, was hugely abusive. I didn't even know how bad I was controlled untill HE left, I never would have. But yes, he would yell, belittle me, little slaps, among other things, oh the gaslighting, he would literally smile and almost giggle while I was a sobbing mess and yes, I would fight back and attack. But that just made him happier as it was MY aggression that he would point to, and how I needed to control myself. .... Sad thing is, I THOUGHT that I was the worst person alive because as he would point out, I would get physical, but it was actually me trying to protect myself as he would push and bully me into corners. however, it was just another thing he used to grind me down, to show me how bad I was. But oh how EVERYONE believed that he could do no wrong, especially my parents, and my whole family. When he finally got tired of me, he left. But EVERYONE blamed me and wanted to know what I had done for him to leave. So yes, a victim can fight back, but then the victim will also take all the blame, and believe it completely. And be so scarred of how their perpetrator will use this against them that they, or I at least, would get physically sick.
@@SleepMeditationandAffirmations For me it was a bullying step father. He used to push every button I had at once. Then I’d react. Lose my shit etc. Then that would set him off more. So yes. There can be times of reactive abuse by the victim until they learn better and how it never helps anything. It was at that point I became scared af. When you’re getting abused like that, they aren’t always “ugly” and so we go up and down and back and forth with being angry and scared and sad and then hoping it’ll get better etc. That kind of abuse has a lot of grooming involved. If they were horrible 24/7, nobody would ever stay with them or try to have hope for things getting better. But we do eventually get to some fed up point or a point where we know we have to get away from them. Often many of them Def lay on the charm and fake apologies and so on at each point we get so fed up like that. So it’s just not that simple is what I’d say. There is a general atmosphere of being rather slave like and there are moments when they’re acting like a saint or a prince and other moments when you’re shaking like a leaf and consumed with fear. Some abusers provoke you to no end and then use your reaction as “proof” to others that you’re the abusive or unhinged one. But in private, if I got mad that I’m being treated like shit and react, it can make some of them totally go off the rails and you really aren’t sure just what they’re capable of or what they’d do to you. It’s a very scary thing. You try to clumsily stand up for yourself, and the more you do, the more they want to smack you down harder and worse into utter submission. It often escalates until one party backs off which is usually the victim who they scare the hell out of. Cant speak for everyone but this was often my experience. He would come after me relentlessly yelling and posturing and raising his hand and towering over me until I was reduced to a trembling heap in the fetal position crouched in some corner just praying for it to end. Next day tho. We’re all supposed to just carry on like nothing happened. It’s maddening. So soon after we are walking on eggshells trying to be super meek so as not to set them off again like that...until maybe weeks later when they push all our anger buttons once again and we blow up at some point. And then it all happens again. Wash. Rinse. Repeat. Truly it can drive someone right into a straight jacket if they don’t actually do us in physically. They’ll either deny everything or just be making everyone think you’re the only reason they get so mad. (Aka their anger issues are somehow always our fault). If not that, they just flip it and play the victim getting others to believe you’re just some kind of impossible instigator or the actual aggressor rather than them who are the real instigators and aggressors toward us. Somehow I was always this “problem child” and he was just this “awesome” hero. Funny tho how I never have such issues with anyone else on the planet tho except for him. 🤷🏻♀️ So fortunately, I eventually got myself the hell on up out of there away from him. Most people even to this day would never peg him for being near as bad as he really is. Some people think he’s just a bit of an ass but they don’t see him as “dangerous.” And so it goes. They often get away with murder or at least so many things that seem to fly under the radar like that in the public eye. What people see on the surface is just the tiny tip of the iceberg tho. They don’t know the half of it.
Forgot to add that no way did I ever have the guts to talk back to him or be so forward as a child. My younger years were spent walking on those eggshells 24/7 until I broke down and later would frequently snap on him after I was provoked by him. The enablers would often stand by doing nothing or join him against me in their victim blaming rhetoric. Just like they fool so many such as that cop who he had eating out of his hand. They CAN be very charming and oh so personable and friendly looking at times. And they can turn it on and off like a light switch. After the worst car incident, I was in bad shape. I couldn’t just turn my feelings off and I DID cry uncontrollably for days after on and off. And that one was pretty much my wake up call. (Like never again do I ever allow myself to wind up alone with him under any circumstance esp not in a car). This all happened when I was age 24-38 or so. On and off when I hadn’t tried to flee 50 times in between. It took me THAT long to stop going back for more and to stop thinking (deep down) that I was the “mental” one. Gabby was so young. She simply didn’t know any better...just like the rest of us didn’t for the longest. I just really wish she could’ve gotten out of his vortex before it came to this for her. 🥲 It sucks to be so misunderstood and to have the whole world not really believe you, (and to previously be so confused for so long and to not know it yourself even), but it Def sucks way worse to have your life cut short like that Bcuz of it. And survivors are fortunate indeed to be able to finally get on the other side of this kind of long term abuse. There are many who don’t. And there are many still who are just existing as slaves to these demented people. So a case like this pretty much just makes me want to shout all the warning signs from the rooftops. Scream to all those stuck in it....GET OUT before it’s too late. We might walk with a limp now and have a lot of scars, but we somehow survived. It is so much better now to WANT to be alive and really LIVE rather than how it used to be just wishing maybe we had never been born in the first place constantly living life as a mere slave or property to someone else. They don’t always just physically smack us around tho. Most days they just heavily influence us and pretty much get us to keep doing it to ourselves mentally. The physical part is just an escalation of what has been happening under the radar all along. Often when we don’t please them or if we push back or just want something they don’t want or if we want to leave them. Etc. That’s when it goes up a notch Bcuz they can’t deal with not being utterly dominant and entitled. Rarely (if ever) will you see any physical abuse that is not utterly chock full of mental and emotional abuse. And many times some of them never laid a hand on anyone and yet their victims are still tormented day and night. Like wasn’t it her van. Her money? Yet there he was acting like psycho Charles in charge as if it was all just his or as if he thinks he is so entitled to it...plus “owning” her as well. SMDH. I doubt he’d have the guts to off himself tho. He is a coward to his core imo.
Thank you for the update and I really hope you do one when Brian is located dead/alive. If you can find enough info, please consider doing a video on the disappearance of Tracy Kroh in 1989
I appreciate your knowledge and insight into this case. There are so many unknowns, yet you make valid observations and critique the entire scenario to consider various possible conclusions. The way that you pull together the evidence and statements or reports made, causes me to open my mind more to alternate possibilities. Thank you for your expertise ... and for not trying to diagnose anyone in the course of the review! Keep posting! ... and I will keep watching!
Thanks for clarifying this story as it stands now. I’m finding news reports to be filled with conjecture and complicated information and I was getting confused with the timeline. It’s astonishing how badly the news is delivered these days. There is too much opinion and not enough solid facts.
Great analysis of the case with the information we have available at the present time. Everything indicates he is the only suspect in this case but we need to wait for the forensic results. I liked the video and subscribed to the channel.
@@veroniquecastel9582 would u not agree?? It would be alot worse of an ending for Gabby's family to never find her remains, to never get to bring her home for burial, to never know what happened to her... I am HAPPY that they found Gabby and she can now rest in peace. If winter would have made its way in, they may not have found her until next summer, if at all!
I agree with you Ms Lewis. It would be terrible for the Petito family if the authorities never found her. Of course, Brian's family knows exactly where he is.
Thank you for your insight. My heart breaks for her family. Do you think it’s possible Brian thought the couple was headed to Jackson, MS which is why he offered them $200 (thinking he could then hitch a ride home to FL), but freaked out when he realized they meant Jackson Hole? He might have been trying to distance himself as much as possible from Gabby and the van and when he realized he couldn’t make it to FL hitchhiking he switched plans and went back to try to hide the body and drove home instead? This is just all so sad 💔
nope. dont think so cuz the ticktocker wrote he said Jackson Hall and when she replied Jackson Hole things got weird...theres an article from her out online
The recent movie adaptation of Annihilation was shot in the nature Preserve Park in Florida that Bryan lives by and may be hiding in. I think that's the connection with the book
Annihilation was SUCH a great film!!! It seriously creeped me out. As a biologist, the idea of a continuous mutation fractal alien being is just...mind bendingly disturbing. I agree with you about the fact that it probably has nothing to do with this case.
Wow Dr. Grande, congratulations on almost 1 million subscribers! I look forward to more of your insights and analysis once more information is available.
Ty for your videos on Gabby. I live here in Sarasota and the story has been very close to my heart this whole time. I appreciate your details and accuracy. Hard to find these days. I hate to say I am not surprised at the outcome of everything now as I thought it seemed like he was abusive just from the body cam footage from Moab. Add all the time in close contact with each other and most people can't handle it. Just wanted to thank you for the updates and I will check out your other videos after seeing how thorough you are. Just bc we are right here where they've been searching for him doesn't mean we get better news!
Exactly what I thought when I heard about the $200 'tip'. You're on a van trip, most likely on a budget (even though parents make for good ATM). It had nothing to do with him being desperate to get a ride, only making sure he was seen at a certain location/time with an explanation as to where and what Gabby had been up to whilst he went 'camping'. Dude will most likely be found, hanging from a tree (or 10 years later in a cave..). He does seem to have some self preservation though, otherwise, he might've not driven back to his parent's place. That could've been motivated by wanting to give them his side of the story before pulling a Houdini and ending it...Sure, innocent until proven guilty, but difficult when absolutely everything is pointing back to 1 person. Might've been an 'accident', maybe he went camping, whilst she stayed in the van editing videos and 'something' happened? Still, guilty of not reporting it and fleeing the scene. Had she gotten lost or whatever, he wouldn't have driven back to Florida, do nothing for days like trying to call authorities for help etc..(well, he got lawyered up but that's not exactly helping her). Sad outcome even more so if he somehow manages to get away with it.
Thank you! Just as an addition a local near Jackson told reporters that there are two roads into Jackson. Only the scenic one passes near the dispersed camping site. Brian saw they were crossing the dam and as such take the highway which would take him away from the van and then wanted to get out. Theory is that he had gone to shower and clean up before heading to Florida.
You actually got it backwards. The scenic road that they actually did turn onto, did not go near the van, the main road did. Soon after they went onto the scenic road, he decided to get out. Clearly he would have decided to get out if they'd gone the better way for him also, as he really just needed a ride partway to Jackson to get within a few miles of the van, not a ride all the way to Jackson.
@@EfficientRVer Ah ok I was just reciting the interview but the theme stays he was agitated and wanted out because of wanting to get to the van via the other way. Thanks!
You have the most comforting voice ! Even though this story is soo grim you deliver it well & soo calmly. This is such a harsh horrible story just awful worst end to ANY DV situation.
Thanks so much, Dr. Todd Grande. Very awesome points brought up. I didn't think about the $200 offer being tied to an alibi, great call. Not sure why, but I really feel his parents know more than what they are saying. It's like he is being protected. The guy leaves with his girlfriend on a cross-country trip. He comes home without her and she is declared missing. Prior to her being determined as missing, the guy is questioned by the police if I'm not mistaken. if he was questioned by the police, they should produce the video footage if available of the questioning. The cop that saw them while on the trip that saw they were having a mental crisis also dropped the ball by not taking them both in for an evaluation or some other solution to where their time would be tied up where they would not be alone. So far, in my opinion, the ball has been dropped twice when they saw the cop while on the trip and when he was questioned when he returned home. Please let me know if I have my facts right. Thanks again for the update.
The relationship seems to be a textbook kind of scenario. Girl is a beautiful,creative, light.(maybe naive) The boy is empty,evil and on meds and hearing voices!!!.And the relationship gets progressively chaotic, he gets possesive, and isolates her, takes her ID. She has her dreams and he goes along. Puts her down,cannot control as much, and she pushes back. Fighting, between them. Possible abusing some substances. He explodes and she is silenced forever. RIP Gabby* Help us to protect all our beautiful children,teens, adults from this Very Dangerous & Sick model.
My condolences to her family if sit is her that has been found , thank you Dr Grande for clarification . I watched Bella Grande and I admire how in depth it discusses certain cases xxx
