Gabe’s favorite thing! Autism and Stimming! 

Have a great day Gabe and enjoy the donuts 🍩 😊

I feel like he’s saying “come on mom, we both know you also want a donut!” 😆

Hi! An idea: remember the story about the little boy who wanted to take his whole blankie to kindergarten, but the teacher said "no"? His clever mother took a piece off the blankie, and he was allowed to have that in his pocket! My elementary students enjoyed that story. Perhaps a mini-belt, around the wrist, or on a little lanyard would help reduce the size but keep the prize?! peace and hello's

I have to say, Gabe is a very handsome young man. Despite him being non-verbal, he always has a smile on his face. Just remember if you see a rude comment, just block the user who posted it then delete the comment. The Rude users are just people who do not understand autism.

Gabe is such a handsome boy.

I,m sure it can be a bit frustrating for you ladies...but the end result is so worth the effort,.

So proud of you Gabe🩵

i just love y'all so much ! 😩😩🤍🤍

May I make a suggestion in regard 2his fidget belt? Maybe not have it in the car on the way 2school~instead have sumthin from school that he likes in the car 4the drive there. But leave it in car wen U drop him off. & is his instructors could give him sumthin realy small & quiet 2handle & can keep in his pocket 4the day should he need sumthin?? Later when U pick him up bring his belt with U & 'trade' 4the 1 that was left in the car 4the drive 2school??? We finaly worked this out 4my 5yr old granson. He only goes 2½hrs a day but that will change this summer wen he goes for a longer day & different campus😮. We're hoping his new instructors will let him have sumthn there during the day🤞🙏.

If I was. Non verbal autistic teen, my parents would yell at me and be mad that I ain’t talking

I hope it's okay to ask, but where did you get his fidget belt? My son is also Autistic and it looks like something he would love.

Boa Tarde para vocês

My son has autism

I'd love to see him married someday ❤.

I love your smile, Gabe! I have a 31 year old autistic son and an 11 year old autistic grandson. I was wondering if you have ever tried any kind of diet for autism? Not for a cure but to ease some symptoms.

? hey buddy come to England trip of a lifetime we can't wait to see you and mums let me know York City FC Man City FC just let me know thank you look after is a great guy

Is he allowed his belt during school hours?

Gabe has the most awesome smile. You see such a kind hearted soul within him. I hope and pray that he will be able to voice everything you see in his eyes and expressions. You're doing a great job Gabe in all you do.

Awesome job, Gabe!! ❤ I want a donut too. 🤣

When ever I see Gabe and his family I see such a great energy and a positive pool of calm well being. You make the human existence a thing of joy.

That laughter was too cute 💓💓💓💓💓

He answered very quickly. I would too. I love donuts. Gabe is always so happy.

What is his fidget belt exactly? Can I buy one somewhere?

Sorry to ask but Gabe makes noises sometimes, would it be possible for him to start speaking after all?

WOW. Great having the device.

Love the communication you guys🎉 Btw it's like this with MANY TEENAGERS.❤

His smile is just beautiful

I hope he enjoyed his donut. Every time I watch Gabe, tears come to my eyes. He is a precious child.

Gabe it very nice to see you and in joy your donuts 🍩 with your mom byrobert

Who doesn’t want a doughnut?

He's hilarious I just Adore him 💓

He's a good kid.

I like how you tell him that he needs to communicate read my comment below because I am walking proof that contingent on the parenting with autism is a direct correlated outcome to their like milestone achievement my stepson at four years old did not say a word not mama not dad not a word and after me being in his life for six months was talking with a vocabulary of 300 to 500 words and after 1 years of him being part time at dads , and me being a nurse and my mom being a teacher , this little Boy , he was talking at normal age developmental level of a five-year-old ! I emphasize this because it literally makes me almost sick to my stomach to see the autistic diagnosis on the rise now I am totally well aware that there is a percentage like your son who have the best parents excellent parenting skills and it’s a genetic composition why he is how he is But I truly believe that only about 5 to 10% of cases I firmly believe from my experience as a nurse that majority of this is bad parenting and I’m gonna explain so I get very concerned that there is a genetic ism that is very real but there’s also with social media and horrible parenting. I’ve witnessed due to parenting children not reach milestones because of bad parenting and I think that there does need to be way more awareness spread on this child abuse is on the rise. Child neglect is on the rise and the doctors are just, throwing the autism label on multiple children it like white rice it’s insanity because what happens is there is child neglect going and becoming missed and abuse and stuff every single case as a nurse that I have noticed where there was sexual abuse and trauma involved the child had an autistic diagnosis and I’m trying to get some research in here because I think Gabe is the 5% of the population where it’s a genetic where it is not parenting. It’s not obviously look at how good of a mother you are, but I don’t want people to get so throwing this diagnosis on every child that doesn’t talk because look at the situation with my stepson. It was the parenting of his mother why he was not communicating she would just give in and she was very paranoid about everything. She wasn’t letting him run on the grass barefoot at two years old she wasn’t letting him, make a mess eating spaghetti with his hands like a normal one year old would like she was actually holding him back from the milestones and he wasn’t actually autistic. It was the parenting and I’m getting fearful because this diagnoses is on the rise insane on the rise and I just hope you can use your platform to spread awareness about this and think of my stepson, instead of instantly autistic diagnosis that is behind milestones I think a lot of other things that should be assessed or that actually are not being assessed and it’s really really scary, because many times really bad neglect is going on or child abuse or simply just too much screen time and horrible parenting with social media. This is a very real thing and it’s some type of taboo that no one wants to talk about but it needs to be spread away because doctors physicians teachers therapist they need to do a full up on the dynamics in a home when a child is not reaching their developmental milestones you cannot just go and slap an autistic diagnosis on a child because they don’t speak or because they’re not reaching certain milestone and socially tactile sensory OK with my stepson case he could’ve gone and ended up in a bad situation in life because he got that autistic diagnosis slapped on him wrongly when it was horrific parenting and unfortunately, I am seeing way too much of this being a homecare nurse in the pediatric population there’s too many cases where I come into a child and they weren’t saying one word after me being their nurse for a year or so. The vocabulary is 1000 words so that tells me there’s something going on in the dynamic of the home.

I really hope you enjoy the donut.

Oh my granson would love that belt. Could you tell where I could buy? I can find anywhere thank you ❤

Just be careful bc research is showing we want autistic kids to also have same structure as regular children so therefore we don’t want regular children constantly being distracted, and I just encourage people to not use stemming during lessons or teaching or certain things that he needs to know societal norms of that’s gonna distract you from what we’re trying to focus on that’ssomething that is not being shared enough about how skimming is really good, but unfortunately, at times it can be a distraction and I think you have to raise the risk of being distracted Because I have noticed that some parents use a child’s disability to make excuse for everything like and when you do that, you’re actually holding the child back. There’s still has to be rules. There still has to be norms even if a child is paralyzed a wheelchair. Yes, we accommodate children, but I think sometimes I’ve noticed being a nurse myself. Some parents have in advertently held their kid back like my stepson was completely nonverbal until four years old when I met him after six months of me being in his life, he could fluidly talk like he talk now is completely normal for his age development because I would not give him things. He used to just grunt in point at things and the mother would always just give him what he wanted without making him try to communicate, whether it was sign language whether it was verbally when he would come to his dad‘s house on the weekends, we didn’t give him what he would in point. We made him communicate and slowly, but surely after I had my daughter with his father so now he has a sister and he saw his baby sister communicate it encouraged him more as well, just like the incident with Gabe in the car with the music. He didn’t have any other way to communicate that he wanted the music up other than using his words and that’s why he used his words because you were in the front seat he couldn’t just go to his natural look at my mom and she’s gonna give me and do what Iwant because she’s my mom knows my needs because she created me so I’m just trying to spread awareness that if you want your child to reach these milestones, it is possible and somewhat cases and don’t just give in try to make sure that they are not distracted try to make sure that they are communicating at the end of the day. It is for their best interest. It’s not being mean.

I hope you can decipher out the message. I’m trying to communicate below because my screen is broke and I’m talk texting driving which I know is not safe, but I had to get this off my chest and I really hope your wife and you can marinate on what I’m saying And maybe later I will go and edit the typos so it can be better. Understood what I’m trying to get out here cause this is something that people with a platform and who have a child that is in that 5 to 10% where it is completely genetic and it is an actual real autistic. Diagnosis need to start spreading awareness about because this diagnosis at times is placed on way too many children wrongly because of horrible assessment skills beteachers physicians, nurses OK and there’s some bad things going on in the home that actually is the cause of the child not reaching milestones, not speaking, having tactile sensory and developmental issues and I know it’s something people don’t wanna talk about these things ,but for love of children we must spread awareness on this if we want our children to reach their best potential that God has given them, because a lot of the times two parents are not even being transparent with the dynamics within a home and unfortunately, 70% of cases that I’ve dealt with it was not genetic and there’s no clinical research done on this but the statistics are there and we know this diagnoses on the rise and it’s being wrongly diagnosed unfortunately on many neglected children, abuse children things that are really, really scary going on in homes or just really bad parenting combined with too much screen time that’s not educational screen time and I could give countless examples of this but remember remember people, big Pharma big big big big Pharma and the Biden administration so I just encourage anybody that a teacher or a nurse working in the homecare setting and you see a child that is not hitting their milestones that is falling behind on their speech or doesn’t speak at all. It is not appropriate to suggest to a physician that the child has autism. There needs to be a complete work a complete assessment of those family dynamics, and the specific parent and going on and if you want the reason why I’m saying this, please read my comments below

❤ como me inspiras tanta ternura mi cielo, hermoso 💚 Dios te Bendiga por siempre 💕 💕

He has a cheeky wicked streak. Everything said yes, and he made you work for it.

❤ Enjoy your 🍩 Gabe

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Beautiful 🌸

HE HAS MODELS FACE.. SOO HANDSOME YOUNG MAN

It must take a lot of patients and understanding to parent someone like Gabe.

😄😄😄😄😄 jajajaja 😉 🙃

Where do you get the fidget belt?

His beautiful smile makes my day 🙂

Su sonrisa ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🌠🌠🌟🌟🌠🌠🌟💜💜

Where did buy the blue belt?

Yummy i love donuts too Gabe ❤❤❤

Love this kid!

AWESOME JOB GABE!!

This is so cute ❤

Don't forget the sprinkles on those donuts, Gabe!

He is so sweet. I pray for him to be able to communicate with people someday somehow.

🤝🙏🙏🙏✋💯❤

Since he enjoys music, have you thought of getting him a “Thumb Piano”?….It’s a small musical instrument you use your thumbs to play and you can purchase the rubber/silicone thumb guards that fit the tips of his thumbs, should he want to play it often …

Gabby look after yourself you know what you doing

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Hope you find a way for him to use it less, either way right now is something that really helps him, so go easy, until he can find a way to figure it out, to solve whatever that belt brings him comfort. I enjoy a lot swimming is my way to liberate all the stress of each day at this moment I won’t change it for nothing, it helps me a lot through the day, in that way i will stand for Gabe not the teacher, if it help him, let it be, he is the one dealing with whatever he es going through good and bad, so let’s be with him all the way. #team Gabe always

Hes a happy kid , good for you two sweet ladys, your doing so great with him.. i feel very, very sorry for Abbey, on fathering autism. I cant believe he yanked her outta school, and is training her..without correct knoldgement. Just sayin..u can delete if u like.