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Tired of getting triggered? Join me in today's video as I break down the powerful lesson that I learned that helped me stop reacting and start responding.
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@Kris_Reece 11 месяцев назад

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@k.c.sunshine1934 11 месяцев назад

This message has absolutely perfect timing for me! Thank you. Please pray for us that are struggling with these characteristics.

@Kris_Reece 11 месяцев назад

Praying for you!

@vickigonya9432 11 месяцев назад

For me it was a drugged out bi-polar, paranoid schizophrenic neighbor. She was starting fires, marching up and down the street trying to get me and others to fight her. Accusing me if following her just because we happened to end up on the same street for 4 minutes- despite me being on 4 different video cameras in businesses. I prayed for God to change her but instead he changed my heart to compassion. And gratitude I'm not plagued by demons and mental illness. 🙏 😊

@faithl4105 11 месяцев назад

Sociopathic next-door neighbor also tormented me for 2+ years. Till I moved. Made me so traumatized & I'll. Praise God we were able to sell our house & move. May God bless you immensely!😊

@vickigonya9432 11 месяцев назад

@@faithl4105 Thank you. I am NOT MOVING.I own my house, lived here for 23 yrs with zero problems with my neighbors. She doesn't own ANYTH I NG not the house, property, car, furniture, NOTHING. It belongs to a truck driver who is rarely there. This morning as I text this, she's outside firing a gun. So far about 60 rounds. We live in the country and its common for people to target practice. Haven't heard her hit anything yet- most likely no target- just willy nilly firing into oblivion. My dogs are inside with me. If you haven't seen Lakeside Terrace. Watch it. Very inspirational😉

@vickigonya9432 11 месяцев назад

@@faithl4105 I have a private investigator digging into her background. It was some kind of rush rush thing when she moved in. I guarantee she's hiding from someone or several people. Who will now find out where she is. She has a 14 yr old son drop out, who was living there until the truancy officer found out he was not enrolled in school. He then went to school 3 months before dropping out of 7th grade! so pathetic for him. She's worthless. I just found a 9 mm bullet on my back patio. So she's fired over my property. I'm leaving it there, not touching it and letting the police deal with it She is without doubt the least intelligent person alive. No logical reason for a bullet with her fingerprints to be on my property.

@faithl4105 11 месяцев назад

I'll keep you in prayer, Vicki. May the Lord protect & keep you. May He keep warrior angels to watch over you. May He open doors for you to relocate. The danger & toxicity/ stress may make moving away necessary, for safety & peace. Do you know God's calling on your life? Will you be able to run forward & fulfill yr destiny in Christ, if you permanently continue to live there? Blessings always! 🙏🏻💜🥰

@beem6792 11 месяцев назад

Going through this right now. 4 years straight no break

@lindalaplante7078 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for helping me from a Godly perspective. I am a 60 year previous victim of a narcissist mother. She has done the best to her abilities to destroy family around her. Neighbors and the community of course thought she was wonderful. From my mother's abuse over the years of strangling to called me the devil. I finally went no contact. She manipulated my aunt to move states away...because she said that she had no one😢. My mother with her 1/2 million dollars...took me out of her will and promised it to my Aunt. My aunt now realizes she can't handle my mother, her dementia and narcissist behavior and says its my duty as the daughter to handle it. All I ever wanted was my mother's love. Via why losing out on the money means nothing to me. Fyi.. my Aunt moved my mother states away from me without notifying me or asking what is going on. I am grateful for scripture that has led me to having understanding about narcissist behaviors and my responsibilities and responses to handling my Aunt and mother. Ezekiel 28: 11-19 and Psalms 27:10-12. It's painful to have been mentally and physically abused by someone that is supposed to protect you. I have tried to keep contact (since she moved away) once a week for a few minutes on the phone. I am considering going no contact again due to unsettling recent events that are causing recurring emotional triggers. My Aunt says its time to put her in a nursing facility. But most likely doesn't want to spend the 1/2 million inheritance. Via why the Aunt wants me to take over. Not happening. I pray for strength and continued guidance during these dark days. Your channel helps me to know that I am not alone. Life is a struggle but...when I feel forsaken I know that my God...my Savior is with me❤

@lindalaplante7078 11 месяцев назад

By the way...thank you for Galatians 5:16. I feel the Lord with me. Thank you for this blessing ❤

@Corinna_Schuett_GER 11 месяцев назад

@@lindalaplante7078Linda, my own parents disinherited me as their single daughter in Germany just because I would not follow their idiotic life model. After a long battle for my due share (Proverbs 13:22 which is possible over here) I now told her from Proverbs 1:31 she had to "eat of the fruit of (her) own way, and be filled with (her) own devices." I'm not letting her step over anything, anymore. She hates Jesus and calls me 'psychotic' anyway. Much love and blessings your way, MARANATHA! 🙏👰💖

@vickigonya9432 11 месяцев назад

Yes he is!!! He will bring you peace. I'm sorry you have to go through this. 😰 I had to say boundaries with a family member. I simply Saud if you cannot treat me with kindness and respect, don't call me. An entire year went by- never heard from him. Not once. So I changed my number, withdrew from all forms of social media, and now he is just a person I used to know. No amount of money is worth dealing with the devil.

@lindalaplante7078 11 месяцев назад

@@vickigonya9432 thank you for your support. Yes...no amount of money is worth that kind of abuse. Thanks for your kindness. God bless you

@lindalaplante7078 11 месяцев назад

@@karenlebron-morales8672 thank youuuuu so much. Yes...my aunt is livid with me...even though she has all the money now...she is also realizing that money isn't worth it. May God bless you

@pC-zd4qj 11 месяцев назад

You are so good at what you do and sharing what you have in such a fun and creative way!!! LOVE IT and appreciate you much!!! 💗😊

@Kris_Reece 11 месяцев назад

Aww, thank you. I appreciate that :)

@TributetoCanada 8 месяцев назад

After watching several of your videos, Kris, I have a lot of respect for you. You are REALLY incisive, kind, you really get things.

@jojow8416 11 месяцев назад

After an encounter with a bully, if we allow that person to reside rent-free in our mind, we are giving them our power. That is a direct quote from my daughter is so wise and never allows nastiness to impact her. She shrugs at them and walks away without a word, or a glance. She is just a low key and grounded person and always has been. Amazingly, her dogs behave in the same manner when another dog barks at them. Oh how I wish I had the same self control.

@miguelguzman405 10 месяцев назад

You’re a great teacher, God blessed you woman of God!

Месяц назад

Observe, don't absorb, and quit caring about it. nobody else cares.

@Barbie_Esther 11 месяцев назад

Beautiful parable of the sower parallel

@td6259 11 месяцев назад

I recently lost it with my manager after many years and yes she triggers me big time. Now i have been written up and need to get counseling through work. I accepted that but am so exhausted by being a pilot cause the pilot ends up jumping through more stuff when she doesn't blow it and give into the satisfaction a manager is looking for. I feel like this is a losing battle and no support for my frustration. Ive been at this healthcare facility for 26 years and 60 years old so it's a lose lose it seems.

@td6259 11 месяцев назад

@@buzzyuncle340 the energy drain wrecks us physically and emotionally.

@mrba825 11 месяцев назад

Awesome content! I always enjoy the role playing to provide context! Thank you!

@Kris_Reece 11 месяцев назад

I'm so glad. thanks!

@camiloalbertosalazar6291 10 месяцев назад

I’m only reacted to my FATHER GOD, from Colombia sending you blessings

@Corinna_Schuett_GER 11 месяцев назад

I do still get triggered by the mere voice of my mother, and I'm 57 and walking with Christ since 18 years. That's why I have to avoid her completely on the phone and in person. But with other people, Jesus taught me a whole lot in spiritual warfare and holding fast the shield of faith over the breastplate of righteousness. The basic endtimes armour is named here: 1Thess 5:8 "But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on *the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation."*

@user-bl4lf9rg8m 10 месяцев назад

Oh me too, I think I will never learn not to be triggered 😢

@gwendolynwehage6336 11 месяцев назад

I have learned that feelings can alert me to problems but I cannot live by them. There are certain people I have encountered who trigger yucky feelings in me because they are mean people, but I don't respond to their foolishness, the feelings advice me to avoid these people.

@eleanorpitt8190 11 месяцев назад

My goodness I really needed this teaching of wisdom and direction 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 God is Faithful!!!!

@JENALYNE 11 месяцев назад

Very concise, helpful, and timely!! Thanks be to God and to you!!!

@dianereid5716 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Kris!!

@alisonj9533 11 месяцев назад

I kept my cool and was still lied about!

@warrenn.165 11 месяцев назад

Love this analogy! Thanks, Kris!

@storytimewithkellybeth 11 месяцев назад

Perfect timing Kris!

@A.Delizia 11 месяцев назад

Amazing explanation

@Saint.questions 11 месяцев назад

Let's be honest.. that trunk stuff was intense 😅😅.... but accurate 😂

@riimak4575 11 месяцев назад

😂😂 right

@AngelaDavis-yz3xf 11 месяцев назад

This was good. Triggers are like being surrounded by mousetraps, order my steps Lord🙏 😄

@denise0777 10 месяцев назад

I remain calm and respond in the majority of situations I'm in. The problem is that my narc has upped his game, lately. The amount of gaslighting and manipulation has increased so much that the "good ground" I had gained has slipped, because now I'm just trying to get through a day without being abused or triggered and I'm exhausted. But, with each occurrence, I'm praying and am able to turn it around...usually just in time for my narc do to his next unexpected thing! Signed..."worn out"!

@astridkruger4919 11 месяцев назад

Very helpful advice 🌹

@ernestnphoebe 10 месяцев назад

So good! Thank God for the your channel helping me a lot! Didn’t know I need to heal myself

@1975Godmade 9 месяцев назад

I love this video so much! Thank you. So wonderful to be taught in this visual aid with emotions. So important, very helpful, & so encouraged. Wish I would have grasped this a long time ago.

@TinaBrooks-x9y 11 месяцев назад

Thanks, Alice, for a good chuckle! And thanks for this session!

@desiderata333 11 месяцев назад

I LOVE THIS. THANK YOU.

@carolynedgar1090 11 месяцев назад

Frame by frame funny..except when it’s actually happening to us..but Kris always gives us the answers! Like putting a pin on a map 🗺️ of emotions, she shows how to go where we want..and not where we don’t want to go..by using the Ultimate Roadmap..God’s Word😉Kudos Kris❣️🙏🏼✝️

@Kris_Reece 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Carolyn. I'm so glad you're blessed by the content.

@TributetoCanada 8 месяцев назад

I feel so too

@TributetoCanada 8 месяцев назад

This channel is amazing

@ushawngooding1295 11 месяцев назад

I would say to surrender your emotions to God and let him help you manage them the correct way!

@tanishapetertv2298 11 месяцев назад

Wow this is so precise, I absolutely get it

@UKjudith 11 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@md.mostafa6478 11 месяцев назад

this video is very informative and great

@TheeyeOftruth-yx2np 6 месяцев назад

This was just superb, I'm just like the 3rd one Penny, Thank you so much for this Kris, I love your channel and teachings, Peace, love, Respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the universe, The most high, God is great 😊👽🌷💚😘🐎🦁😃❤💙✌🤗🌚🌹💜🦄🐉🌈😇💛🌲🌌

@ob8793 11 месяцев назад

It’s not a coincidence that I’m named Alice, and that the first years of my marriage with a covered narcissist, I lived like a Flaky Franny, and that caused more problems. And the second part of my marriage, I lived like Alice the avoider, and that made me live like a gray rock, for bad emotions, but also for good emotions. And now with the help of God, I decided to separate from my toxic husband, and start to live like Penny the pilot. Thank you Kris, for your channel, because it helped me discover what happened with my husband and me. God bless you!

@discerningtruth6848 10 месяцев назад

@Kris Reese you're an inspiration to many people and especially to me as well as others. However, when we second guess about our situation and beat ourselves up to the realization of down playing the hurt and pain. Thank you for solidify what our experience are valid.😊

@GodiscomingBhappy 9 месяцев назад

thank you .

@michaellogan7507 7 дней назад

'Penny'...wasn't your great-Uncle Sky King! Great to meet you, and Hallelujah to the Lamb of God!

@WillowHopeBartlett Месяц назад

I enjoyed the video with the characters…very effective!

@mariapescifeltri953 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Mrs. Reece. It SHOULD be a perpetual reminder. God bless you. Best regards from Caracas Venezuela ❤

@marlelarmarlelar9547 11 месяцев назад

I understand the differences, but HOW do we learn to become a pilot. How do we give up the toxic responses and remain calm? What am I missing?

@noelineheynsbergh8538 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for inspiring and helpful messages dear Kris Rees ❤️

@nicholecornes1915 Месяц назад

Yes 100 percent

@VioletQuayson 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for sharing, I practice your advice and its really peaceful.

@ChildofGod315 11 месяцев назад

Jesus, hear my prayers these past three years have been difficult on me I am weak. Give me guidance. Please come back soon I don’t know how much longer I can hold on. As a single parent things are hard on me both of my sons are autistic and my hours to work are limited because I’m now homeschooling them. I’m constantly struggling to provide the basic necessities for them I’m so ashamed. I suffered an heart attack and I’m battling lupus I’m overwhelmed. Father God hear my prayers. I constantly struggle to pay my bills and struggle to provide groceries. BUT I KEEP FAITH. Even though I want to give up. Jesus please take the fear from my heart. Father God it is you that gives me the strength to keep going. I praise you Father even as I fear homelessness please continue to give me strength.

@arcacia2773 11 месяцев назад

This lady has been called out before on other channels. It's a tactic to scam people out of money. Please pray for her.

@sanr6816 10 месяцев назад

@arcacia2773 I've seen this comment on other totally unrelated channels... must have it on her clipboard to copy and paste

@camiloalbertosalazar6291 10 месяцев назад

I’m from Colombia, GOD bless you

@angelajackson3258 11 месяцев назад

Great Great Message

@sherrilynn8043 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for this awesome reminder! Love the colors, you look beautiful, which you always do my friend! God Bless!🙏

@kimberlycox158 11 месяцев назад

I have severe depression and triggered all the time. I've Sked Jesus to help me for 30 years with no improvement. Just praying it away doesn't make it so

@bananaanna1373 10 месяцев назад

My sister told me about you. I have subscribed. Great content and teaching style.

@trevorfrayne6418 11 месяцев назад

Such a great message.

@tanishapetertv2298 11 месяцев назад

Thank you very much

@alicerice8506 11 месяцев назад

I’m definitely Alice the avoider and my name is actually Alice. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Kris_Reece 11 месяцев назад

No way!!?? 😄

@nichill7474 11 месяцев назад

I have just been contemplating this topic recently. I am tired of being triggered by negativity. I am tired of reacting to people. I wanna be the pilot.

@leighb.-jg7bj 11 месяцев назад

I find that the hurts still hurt and the "negativity" still poisons, but I am more mature about it, as I pray and rely on the Lord to get me through. There is no way to survive this bizarro wicked life but by constant abidance in Him. Think of it like stubbing your toe on poisoned cinder blocks that people put in your way on purpose. ... So you stub your toe: take deep breaths, walk it off and thank the Lord for another opportunity to mature. HE will take the hurt and poison away. Keep walking. He's coming for a mature bride, not an hysterical, angry, defeated victim. We must be ready for Him. Be the pilot. You can do it. Practice makes perfect. Perfect means mature, complete, ready.

@eclectickatalyst2442 11 месяцев назад

Spot on!!, Kris… Glory BE to God; It’s as I’ve relayed in my LifeCoaching as well: “There’s a difference between RESPONSE & REACTION [2 different verbs!], BOTH of which ARE Godgiven FREEWILL CHOICE of either 💥empowerment… (when…IN Him)…or NOT [empowerment].” (See also:James 4:17!!…THAT which iS rather all encompassing) 🤍Loving your ever so accurate illustrations via your skits, Kris!; You’re soo wise| cute| clever! …😜😆😉✨

@jnndel9 10 месяцев назад

WOW just found your channel, God bless you. You are doing the Lords work, this video helped a ton!!

@itsmebutterfly65 11 месяцев назад

I happened to come across ur videos. Very helpful! Ty ❤

@amandasturgeon90 11 месяцев назад

This is good advice for the average individual, but how do you deal with triggers when you have PTSD?

@Saint.questions 11 месяцев назад

I had the same thought.

@leighb.-jg7bj 11 месяцев назад

You learn to overcome by the power of the Holy Spirit. "There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13. Start practicing the skills of the pilot character. RESPOND to the triggers, don't "react" to them. Think of how the apostle Paul might have claimed PTSD because of constant scourging for preaching about Jesus. '...oh no...I can't possibly go to Jerusalem again...terror! panic! paralysis! depression!' No, what he did was pray and overcome, day by day. He had a course to finish and so do we. Read the psalms. David suffered plenty of emotional trauma and stress and he overcame. We are to overcome the same way. You can do it. "Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.” 1 Peter 3:6. We are to overcome hysteria, panic attacks, sudden frights and terrors, etc. Don't accept labels and diagnoses given by men. Satan would have you debilitated and unfruitful because of them. You must learn to overcome. This is what the "Helper," the Holy Spirit is in you to do. "Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.” Isaiah 41:10.

@azaleaslight3599 11 месяцев назад

Your a human with everything that comes with it, sometimes these types forget that, have you beating yrself up for being what you are. PTSD is not a disorder, it's actually a natural inbuilt safety mechanism, that gets triggered after a life threatening event. As we are 'wired to survive' once it's set to protect you you can't unset it, because your designed to register and remember a threat so you don't get killed the next time, it's NATURAL and without it we'd be dead, so understand when your 'triggered' it's perfectly natural & normal, it's a warning to scan check yr environment because it's detected a threat near you, a threat an energy it recognises from a past threatening experience, once you understand this, you will see the so called trigger as a kind of superpower, especially once you understand how to use it to yr advantage, once understood properly & honed it's AMAZING because you will see what others can't, because your brain body is warning you of a potential danger to you, wants you to scan your environment to analyse the the threat, to gage how threatening it actually is, you might need to leave the environment. Example I Can ' feel' when a particular type (narcissist) of person walks in a room, I don't even need to see them don't need to turn around, my mind -body alerts me to check it out, annalise them then says 'no need to leave, because even though this person is a predator person they're not there to prey upon you, so it's safe to stay. Hope this helps you understand NATSR - Natural automatic trauma stress response (not ptsd) your not disordered your actually in perfect working order, your actually working naturally much better than most that don't have this natural gift within them 😀

@travelwithsouthernchick5112 11 месяцев назад

Yes same here husband has it and it is overwhelming

@nicholecornes1915 Месяц назад

This is so good

@lovejoy71422 11 месяцев назад

When people are manipulating and deceiving you and get others of your family or their friends to join in, your first reaction is not going to be to pray. You will definitely react and most likely not in a good way! You may pray later, but after that point what's been said or done has already been said or done!

@annaa6259 10 месяцев назад

Penny the Pilot😂❤ Love it. I will Penny the Pilot next time.

@lisawells9905 10 месяцев назад

I held my emotions for years. I would constantly eat junk food and gained a lot of weight. Eventually I would explode over nothing.

@richellepeace4457 11 месяцев назад

In a manner which makes everyone feel comfortable... We wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

@monaperry2635 11 месяцев назад

Great teaching!❤ Kris Reece do you offer individual therapy/ coaching?

@sandracrandall4561 11 месяцев назад

Thank You SO much....my damily us Christian but an X is tearing them to shreds. Im praying🙏

@helensales2872 11 месяцев назад

Narc mom 😢

@phyllistouchstone7136 11 месяцев назад

I had not been around my great nephew and his wife in a long time. When I did get around her, i could feel her negativity. It made me not feel good at all,

@leighb.-jg7bj 11 месяцев назад

Do not marry your thoughts to your emotions. If you are presented with troublesome thoughts, process them like you're reading a receipt you do not intend to keep. Don't let the information enter your spirit. Get rid of it. If something tries to persist in getting through, imagine it's a solicitor knocking on your door. Don't answer. They WILL go away. "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” James 4:7

@87cocoa 11 месяцев назад

Good hair color

@deefee8278 11 месяцев назад

Im flaky Franny lol, but now I know and can do something about it.

@roberttrough6439 11 месяцев назад

Turn off my mind! 😊

@leighb.-jg7bj 11 месяцев назад

Can't turn it off, we must renew it. "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” Roman's 12:2

@roberttrough6439 11 месяцев назад

@@leighb.-jg7bj sorry you women can’t turn off your mind. But that’s a great Bible passage! 👍

@arvinpaule144K 10 месяцев назад

According to the Bible, women are not allowed to be a preacher or a leader, as you can see, God appointed a leader and a prophet is a "man" in stature and spirituality, Jesus, Elijah, Moses, King David, Ezekiel, St. Paul etc... God didn't apoint Jezebel the prophetess.