Gay Couple Encounters Homophobic Nurse During Adoption Process. 

That's how bigots work :(

I know. That would upset most people, but she really didn't need to deal with that after she had just given birth

I’d slap her right across the face right there.

Brian Mino- Thank you for giving me some reasons to block you!😄 Have a nice day!😁

Brian Mino | Worth it if I got to slap a Homophobe. Might Slap you too 😳

Agreed.

Yes she is. You're the one who's not stable. She had the guts to call out a woman who decided to give away her baby to a male 'couple'. No doubt she was well paid for betraying her baby to its fate.

@@williambunter3311 I'm curious what you think makes this a betrayal. Would you say the same about other people who choose adoption, or do you have some reason that two men in a loving relationship would be less equipped to raise a child?

@@williambunter3311 I assume you don't think it's abuse to have one father, so why would it be if you had two?

@@williambunter3311 Kinda pathetic if you can't even answer a stupid question, but alright.

You sir are a real man!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!!

That's not a lifestyle

@@guadaluperincon1889 yea

I love your comment except the part when you say it's a lifestyle. Its not a lifestyle, it's just the fact one person loves another.

*THE TYPE OF DADS WE NEED*

r u lgbt?

+Mr Cocky Does it matter? Having a straight child with two gay parents doesn't mean the child's views and opinions are automatically invalid. Stop acting like lgbt is an exclusive group that only the "approved" few can get into.

Does it matter?

Y’all I think Calvin was just curious... I get what you guys are saying, but I truly think he/she was just asking a question. The truth is we will never change the world if we only answer questions as if they’re all insults. No “alternative relationships” will he accepted if we only get angry. Fighting anger with anger does not rid the world of anger. It simply makes anger more tolerable.

I was adopted and I’m 100% straight so dont Even start

Thomas Smith the synonym for a bigot is also homophobe my guy. Thats what came up as soon as i did what you asked lol

@Thomas Smith Bigot Noun A person who is intolerant towards those holding different beliefs Similar: dogmatist, partisan, racist, sexist, homophobia Don't say for someone to look up the definition before doing so yourself

*homophobe

Thomas Smith i literally stated a fact, the synonym of bigotry is homophobe. A synonym is a word that relates, correlates, or means the same as another word. Thats all. So by text book definition, a person who believes that a person attracted to the same gender as theres is wrong or has prejudice towards a homosexual, can be considered a bigot.

Thomas Smith as someone who uses a dictionary to prove a point, your grammar is literally the worst ive seen. If you want to try and convey your point to me, i suggest you work on that with actual evidence instead of relying on insults. Have a great day!!

What about a loving father and a loving mother, which is God's revealed will?

@@williambunter3311 you really missed the point of the comment. The point is that They would be happy with two loving fathers, never said anything about not a loving father and mother. It's god's will to give a child parents, whether that's two men, two women, a dad and a mum, a step dad and a mum, a step mum and a dad, a single mum, a single dad, foster parents, you name it. No matter who they are, god's will is for kids to have loving parents, even if they aren't always loving. I don't believe in God, but I have been to Christian school, so I know about Christianity somewhat.

@@gloriamcinerney7383 No, Gloria, you know nothing about 'Christianity somewhat'. Show me from the bible a single verse that champions same-sex marriage, 'parenthood', or homosexual relations' You will not be able to do so. Though if you look with the smallest degree of honesty and integrity you will find a multiplicity of prohibition of these sins. By the way, how can you state, as you do that god's will is for kids to have loving parents, and then in the very next statement say you don't believe in God? Confused much?

@@williambunter3311 Why are you here? Why do you feel it necessary to promote your religion? This video has nothing to do about religion, it's about homophobia. My mother taught me that if you don't have anything nice to say - then don't say it at all. So, go to another channel where you can bitch to someone who cares.

@@gloriamcinerney7383 read my comment to him lol

I suggest you talk to friends you trust about your homophobic surroundings. Make the right friends. Friends you wouldn't expect to make. It's really magical how much a good and open-minded friend can do to help and maintain optimism.

Listen man. I'm 19 and bisexual. My name is Jack. I just wanted to let you know that there are gonna be ignorant people but you are perfectly ok and just advising you not to be influenced by bigoted people who've chosen not to be tolerant. I wish you the best of luck finding love and having an amazing life!

I believe that one fact of being gay is that, in modern society, you can never live a "normal" life.

CharlotteNCJack Uh, yeah you can live a normal life. Society is more accepting now, and will be more accepting as society develops. Sexuality shouldn't determine whether you can or cannot live a normal life, and it depends on what you mean by normal.

+DonutAssassin No, in today's society you will always be marginalized and scrutinized by people. At the same time you will have people who love and care for you for who you are, yet you will still be treated differently. Your life won't be exactly normal, but different. Probably in a good way

꧁FrêêzysFørêvêr꧂ I’d say its more infantilism. Like mid-20s women getting called ‘girl’

꧁FrêêzysFørêvêr꧂ WHAT DO YOU MEAN AGEIST, WHAT THE FUCK BAHAHAHHA

꧁FrêêzysFørêvêr꧂ Yes, I know it’s fucking real smart one. But this is in no way ageist, likes that’s dumb to think it is.

꧁FrêêzysFørêvêr꧂ Dont even try to pull some dumb ass r/whooosh bullshit because ain’t nobody getting whooshed puffy.

꧁FrêêzysFørêvêr꧂ you’re so funny

@Patrick Cage Well that would imply they care about people's marriage or the children in question. They don't. They're just using it as an excuse to attack LGBT people. You can tell that because they never have anything to say on the matters of divorce or orphanhood outside of these specific circumstances.

Patrick Cage What? People can divorce if they want to. Why should they stay married if their relationship is so bad they think they should separate. Staying together wouldn’t be good for either of them and they would be much happier away from each other if it’s really that bad.

@Patrick Cage well maybe not for divorce, divorce was originally put in place so that women way back could get out of forced and abusive marriages

@Patrick Cage also why get rid of abortion? you don't know how a woman might have gotten pregnant, its her fucking body and if she wants to get an abortion(not past the second trimester) then she should be allowed to without any hate or backlash except for the possibility of medical problems following the abortion and orphanhood will always be here in humanity because people do die suddenly(car crashes, undetectable unstoppable health problems), there will always be orphans, whether we like it or not

@Patrick Cage I'm sorry but that's not how it works... You can't just "protest orphanhood" that doesn't get orphaned children out of an orphanage. You can't just protest against divorce/abortion that's a human right that should not be taken away, even when you don't agree with it

omg u got 666 likes!!

Right could you imagine someone telling this child in the future the reason she wasn’t adopted was because some people thought that two dads wouldn’t be able to raise him correctly

@Waffles Yes they can! :)

Waffles yes they could

Waffles you are wrong. Please let me know why you think this way though.

If someone did this at any other job, they would be fired or at the very least reprimanded. It's a job. Besides, most kids dont get into university and then turn out just fine. Get down off your rich ass soap box.

2lεgiϯܢ no the nurse was a bitch. The couple couldn't have a baby and she wanted to help. The kid is in safe hands. You're only saying this because they're both man but I bet if it was a heterosexual couple you wouldn't even be bitching. People like you always have something bad to say about same sex couples.

Starscream91 The kid is fine. He has great parents. The gender of their parents has nothing to do with how well their parenting is. This is coming from someone raised by a single mom.

@@aributera4905 And how do you know that the kid is fine? Perhaps you should read the research done by Mark Regnerus showing that kids raised in same-sex couples showing distress after learning that they have been used to promote adult's political agenda. Just because majority of psychological organizations that are connected with homosexual agenda say that children with gay parents do fine, it is not necessarily so.

@@samtkach5255 Kids aren't use for politcal agenda. You're acting as if all kids with same sex parents are studied. And I have read many studies. Kids with same sex parents who show distress report being bullied by their peers, this isn't the parents fault. Other studies shows that many same sex parents struggle with income

That's awesome. I'm glad your doing well.

@Lauren L I think he's saying that they are normal, smart kids, even having gay parents.

@Lauren L bragging?:what did you drop out or something? You sound triggered bitch

@Lauren L What he means is, two astounding dads managed to raise four magnificent children.

@Lauren L good keep laughing lmaoo you still a hater

C Zab How lovely.

Pm

Conservatives: Gays can’t raise children! Also conservatives: *Raises a drug addicted, illiterate, hateful mess that has no critical thinking skills.* Gays: *Raises badasses.*

I have two aunts, but I'm only related to one, the other is her partner. I spent A LOT of time with them growing up. I didn't realize until I was about 18 or 19 that they were lesbians. It struck me like a thunderbolt to the head. Being Pansexual myself, it didn't bother me. I was just surprised I didn't notice it earlier. The point is I never questioned it, to me they were my aunts and since no one made a point of it and they didn't really say anything about it, I just automatically thought it normal. Which leads me to this: Same sex parents can be seen as normal by their children. Sure, there might eventually be questions, but it's not all that different from any other question. I think it's outside influences, example that nurse, or perhaps some priest or just someone who's homophobic, that make it not normal. They want it not to be normal because they're too ignorant to accept people for, well, being people.

Of course he was never ashamed of it. Between the two of you, you brainwashed the poor lad into thinking his situation was 'normal' or morally acceptable. And what the hell does a single man think he's doing adopting a child in the first place? Maybe one day you will be full of shame.

A. E. I’m sorry for what your parents went through, but at least that’s a cute family!

hi, im a person with alot of opinions yESS

A. E. Eeeey I had gay moms too and I wouldn’t say I’m exceptional but at least I’m not a bigot. And they had problems regarding homophobia as well raising me and my siblings.

Simone Castro I wish this world had more religious people like you.

Me, too.

Thank you, i wish all religious people were as accepting as you, but some of them give you guys a bad name, and that really sucks.

@@starrynight1165 absolutely. Slowly acceptance is happening.

And this is why lgbtq people respect religious people until they are jerks. In truth most religious people are fine with gay people, it’s just the most ignorant people are always the loudest. Thank you stranger for giving religious people a good name.

Exactly!

Exactly!!

Yeah!

Perfectly said

Probably Karen

That's a good answer

@Talitha Untono actually no I'm not I was lucky enough to be adopted. But the family I had broke and due to the system in place I was forced to live with an abuser. CPS was called and nothing happened. Cops were called and nothing happened. Every time I asked for help they decided not to do anything to actually help. And I was lucky. There are children that have it so much worse because there wasn't anyone willing to help. There are children now in a horrible situation because our system is broken and no one is standing up. Id rather been adopted by gay parents who loved me over the woman who ruined every moment of my childhood. No I'm not okay.

@@marzukrashid5673 I think they mean because of how they grew up.

I am so sorry. I know that doesn't change anything but you're loved and you didn't deserve that.❤

Geoff Alnutt I also smell organized religion. That nurse needs to be relieved of duty. Can't stand homophobes or haters or hypocrites of any kind.

Lollipopfop If you dislike gay people so much, then why are you watching a gay oriented video on RU-vid?

The nurse should be given a medal of accommodation

David Rodgers But she DIDN'T accommodate. She was doing her best to screw up a perfectly legal arrangement. Legal. Civil. Constitution. It's hard only if you can't or won't read and compare.

MsSoundguy I think David Rodgers intended to say ".....a medal of commendation," which is entirely different. Sounds homophobic to me.

I agree with you! That nurse should have been reported!

hah yes it is so stfu plsss

MrJuiceBerry okay in what way, bigot?

Bruh your sexuality dosnt determine your abillity to raise a child. Plus gay couples biologicaly cant have "accidents" its not cause they are carefull lmao.

@@ivagrujic248 bisexual people: 👄

@@ivagrujic248 you missed the point. They're pointing out that a couple who's actively trying to have a child, whether or not through adoption or birth, are more likely going to be prepared parents. Their sexuality isn't the point, but they're pointing out that deciding a couple's ability to raise a child SHOULDN'T be based on the genders of the parents involved, and that gay couples looking to adopt shouldn't have half the stigma, especially when you consider how many hoops you need to jump through to do it.

For what? Trying to do what's best in the interest of children?

Sam Tkach Oh shut up. She’s not doing anything in the “interest of the children”- they don’t care. SHE cares.

@@samtkach5255 Having loving parents who want the child is what's in the best interest of the child. Some hospital nurse butting her nose where it doesn't belong isn't in anyone's best interest but her own self gratification.

@@dmnemaine it is always in the best interests to have children being raised by their biological parents. Hence, it's appropriate to ask if putting up children for adoption is the right decision, and nurses always ask those questions to both heterosexual and homosexual couples. There are times, when giving up children for adoption is the only way, depending on circumstances. There's no way of knowing that the nurse demeaned these men for their sexual orientation, hence it's only their assumption that they were being discriminated. If there was a man and a woman couple and the nurse , you wouldn't be having qualms about it. I see that gay rights activists want to have their irrational feelings to be the legal norm.

@@samtkach5255 Children who are put up for adoption do not have the luxury of being raised by their biological parents. Their best interest lies with their adoptive parents. Neither you nor that nurse had any idea what that birth mother's situation was. And no, nurses do not "always" ask those questions. Nurses are there for medical care, not social work. The birth mother had a social worker for that. None of anyone's business but the birth mother and the adoptive parents. And absolutely, positively, yes, I would have a huge problem with that nurse asking those questions in the case of a heterosexual couple adopting that little boy. Asking a vulnerable patient who has just given birth nosy questions about her decision regarding the adoption of the child is insidiously evil at worst and highly insensitive at best.

IKR like parent is parent their genders don’t matter they as a PERSON matters

+garybsg You are just a Right Wing hateful bigot trolling this video. Why don't you get your jollies some way other than trying to smear others?

+garybsg You're not disagreeing with gays, you're preventing people from living their lives and there is no "wealth of research" claiming what you claim. I feel sorry for you because your hate and anger is peculiar and entirely irrational.

I'm a psychologist. I'm not sure where you are getting your research from - the vast majority of research shows there is nothing damaging about homosexual parents. I'm happy to debate that with you, referring to actual evidence, if you want to? Also, I think you're sorely misunderstanding why this incident is being considered homophobic - and no, it's not just a case of 'disagreeing' with 'gays'. The nurse believed their homosexuality made them a risk to a young male child (I sincerely doubt she was saying to other mothers, 'watch your husband around your baby daughter. He might molest her'.) That is homophobic, and it could have lost them their child. There are no higher rates of paedophilia amongst homosexual men compared to straight men. If you can't see how her actions were far more than having an innocent disagreement with a gay person, and getting falsely accused of homophobia, you are both very blinkered, and lacking empathy.

It WILL end. This is the exact same type of hysteria that plagued us sixty years ago when interracial marriage was the big taboo of the country. There will always be haters, but they're doomed to become the minority

@@crazyhai8155 What about the study of Mark Regnerus? You see, your profession is being hijacked by gay activists therefore it almost impossible to find an unbiased research. Please, explain to me, how do you expect for a child to be happy when he learns that his biological mother has abandoned him for the sake of two unrelated men?

Grace Griffith They didn't need to.

Grace Griffith I don't hate or dislike Christians. Much of my family and friends are chrisians. But that doesn't change the fact that virtually all homophobic people are extremely religious, and in the US a vast majority of them are Christian.

shlev im christian and i think what that woman did was disgusting as well

I'm bisexual and a Christian. Think again. 🐸☕

garybsg haha...loosing your job certainly does equate to being sent to a PRISON CAMP! Really?......Discriminatory personal opinions have no place in a health care setting. It is not a nurses business to tell someone who they should or shouldn't give their child too. You think there isn't a "wealth of research" totally contradicting what you seem to believe? Whether you or anyone else likes it or not, the LGBT community, like many other minorities, have progressed and are taking their place in this world. It is their home as much as it is yours, and they will continue to advance in all aspects.

garybsg Ffs why do you sad specimens always have to bring politics into what is simply a ‘doing the right thing’ situation?? That nurse most definitely should not have said that to this woman in her vulnerable state.......what a miserable human being you must be for not knowing that!

garybsg A wealth of evidence?!? Christ, now you’re resorting to lying....how hilarious 😂😂😂

garybsg Just look around you, miserable pos; you’ll see many same sex couples doing a GREAT job of raising their children. The many I have encountered throughout my life are hard workers who put in the effective raise well-balanced, caring kids despite you saddoes making it more difficult for them....you creeps need to crawl back under your stones as your of no use to anyone.

Maybe he was ejected from under the rock, and they won't take him back now. Or maybe he's too busy cruising guys for sex....

What 'god' are you referring to? Certainly not he one true God of the bible. You are not fit to polish the shoes of that brave nurse who was concerned for the welfare of an innocent infant.

@@williambunter3311 You have assigned attributes to me with no knowledge whatsoever.

@@catmom1322 True. But I can only go by what you say. You have criticised a noble and courageous God-fearing nurse of whom you should be proud rather than ashamed. You really are perverse in your attitude without knowing it. You are not superior to her, just the opposite. Stop being a hypocrite and a traitor to 'your own', indeed the best type of your own, and for goodness sake humble yourself before the Lord. Stop judging her and start judging yourself or else you will one day come under God's judgement. This nurse was concerned for the future and welfare of an innocent infant. You are not concerned by flesh and blood reality but by political correctness, no matter how perverse it has become, and you dare to associate it with a blasphemous reference. to God's blessing.

William Bunter I knew it, you’re a religious extremist......your kind have caused so much damage to others, sad specimen. What brought you to this sorry state....have you had no love in your life?

@@williambunter3311 Preach on, brother

Has karma got a medical qualification then?

William Bunter As usual Billy, you totally missed the point. Is there NO love in your life, sad man?

Genghis Smith hey at least this comment is dedicated to “god forsakes same-sex couples” bullshit that he USUALLY says

@@williambunter3311 Get out here with your manmade bible, Homophobes are not accepted

@@HisDeik Estin lodis cirpallun este fornatium! Illiranut gerphillios gerphillium este!

No child should have to go through that! 😁

had me in the first half ngl

Eliza Hamilton lol I was gonna say that

The horror! The ones I get from my father are bad enough- I can't imagine having to deal with twice as many!

this joke actually became a dad joke and i love it

Look it up a gay couple recently was arrested for sodomizing and pimping their two adopted boys

+85timotheus Christians don't hate gay people? Review your comments so far and get back to me.

85timotheus You're using your crazy book to justify your distrust and dislike of gay people. It gives you a shield from behind which you can be as bigoted and insulting as you like.

Sorry I'm not going to respond after this, your stubborn misguided bullshit is actually making me cross. God does not exist, he's a convenient way of getting people to obey by bribing them with heaven. Christianity was sold to slaves to make them content and resigned to their lot, no one of African descent should fall for it again.

85timotheus How fucking dare you. You know nothing about me, don't presume things when you have no basis for believing them. I've read the Bible tthrough a few times and I'm willing to bet you haven't. If you had you'd realise that the verses against homosexuality are right up next to the dietary laws, which I guess you don't keep. Why can Satan deceive and confuse humans? Can't god stop him? Is he more powerful than god? Surely nothing happens that isn't the will of god. So why does he allow Satan to make them sin and go to hell? Any way you look at it it doesn't make sense.

85timotheus Oh, I understand what the bible teaches, I just don't care. I'm an atheist so you probably think I'm the scum of the earth but I think my moral standards are superior to yours, going by what you've told me.

Most dislikes are bots luckily.

Kenia Fart um... *WHY!?!?*

Kenia Fart well you can’t say I was wrong then 😏 Also I am Christian too, idk why u included that, but ok

Kenia Fart ya I know. I was right about the people who disliked the video.

@Kenia Fart Being homophobic isn’t disliking the person, it is disliking homosexuality in general.

If anything, it should be the opposite. With a medical degree, she should know that being gay isn’t a choice so it’s not fair for gay people to be denied adoption rights for how they were born.

When people arent pandering to public opinion like you were when you wrote that validation seeking comment, the nurse would have been promoted trust me 😅😅

@JOYCE KEMP public begger shouldnt you be outside some shop scrounging pennies

Cheeze Smoker Well yes, the nurse would have been promoted. To patient. Or even better, to scraping off toenails for actual loving people.

@@khoiphan2990 k

It is true. A gay couple just arrested because they were sodomizing and pimping their two adopted boys

Sorry, Sean, but all the modern research studies show absolutely NO negative effects upon children from same sex parents. You can Google that and see the numbers. Just as the recent Marriage Equality Act demonstrated: Love is Love. It's the love between the parents that is important on the lives of the children, not the genitalia. I can back that up with my 30 years of teaching over 7000 children. As far as bullying goes, we now have federal laws on the books to put an end to that nonsense. Society matures and gets educated eventually. Children are not born homophobic, adults teach that to them. As we as a society become more mature and more educated, homophobia will die a natural death. Education is the answer.

first of all, I don't know where you get your "modern" research because it is completely wrong because statistics actually do show that there are more psychological problems in kids who were raised by same sex parents as opposed to heterosexual parents. Secondly, I don't care what research you bring forth. It is a known fact that the kid will definitely live a tougher life and definitely have some sort of psychological issue that a normal child wouldn't have. You are right, children are not born homophobic but adults don't teach that either. It is part of human nature. Human nature tells us that men and women belong together and when something goes against our natural instincts we are definitely going to raise an eyebrow. Get it? It is natural and it is just unfortunate for the LGBT community that they are greatly outnumbered. That would be nice if homosexuality is accepted some day but in reality it will probably never be looked at as normal. You can't disprove science. Science of humans=reproduction. Gay=no reproduction

Sean McNuts You're wrong. They've legalized gay marriage in so many countries. More to come.

GMD D1sc what are you talking about? no one said anything about gay marriage. i said gay parents shouldn't be able to adopt kids

+Jake Anderson oh well since YOU said so then let's change the progress that this country is making and take away the rights of same sex parents to make Jake happy!

Yep! More than 450 species are homosexual, but only one animal is homophobic. Humans.

Daniel Newman 1-i think youl find that in the case of HIV/aids the higher percent in in straight couples. its just homosexuals made it "famous" when they couldnt seek medical treatment without being ostracized before people realized how stupid they were for ostracizing. as to any other std, if you dont wear a condom ofc your at a higher risk of catching an std. and homosexuals arent the only ones to have anal sex. 2. i dont see the relevance at all. even for a straight person you may like someone and theres no guarantee they will return the feelings. and with all the ways to meet people these days its pretty much certain if ur after a relationship youl find someone. how many dating sites, singles bars, "blind" or "speed" dating events are there now? 3. and for straight couples who cant conceive, they also have alternatives. i think you yourself have pretty much debunked your own point. 4. youl need to elaborate here. as far as im aware love is love. as mentioned above straight couples also practice anal, and a relationship isnt all about sex. in saying that- given the way the human male is structured, the shaft of the penis goes through the inside of the body in such a way that if something was inserted in the anus it would be akin to a form of mutual masturbation. so im failing to see your point at all here. 5.ill give you the benefit of assuming that was a joke :p ------------- my challenge stands, and the prize remains. a single un-refuted non religious argument against homosexuality. my next question to you then, because of your first statement- is something moral because god says so, or does god say so because its moral?

Daniel Newman few citations- www.who.int/reproductivehealth/news/stis-estimates-2015/en/ journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0143304 www.cdc.gov/std/stats14/std-trends-508.pdf

+garybsg any citations of the "data" you mentioned? Can you provide links to any studies, do you know of any peer reviewed reports to back up your assertions.

+Daniel Newman The Europeans are right about us. We have the highest percentage of ignorant people in the free world!

+garybsg WHAT data? Citations, please. Typical Right Wing fascist troll.

@@hassanabubakryousaf4841 amen.

@@hassanabubakryousaf4841 bigots gonna bigot.

hassan abu bakr yousaf they are the same god. Jewish tradition Christian tradition and Muslim tradition all stem from Abraham. It’s the same god. But uhhh yeah leave the homophobia somewhere else please!

Joseph Mulpeter i want to adopt as well, no matter who i end up with

So do I

Autumn come to Europe my friend here we have adoption rights!

most certainly