Guys, you are so funny in your own way 😂 thanks for the video and remembering my tip ❤ the story of the search for an apartment was at the same time tense, cute and incredible😂 You must have felt hot boys in Costa Rica and you are absolutely right about that😂❤ I agree with talking about the difficult moments in a relationship, because it's good to know both sides! And again, thank you so much for the attention ❤️❤️
We are just thankful for the support you showed us over the first couple months of our journey. We had to take some time away to focus on ourselves and our life but we’re glad to be back! There will be many more videos just like this…. Maybe a bit more funny next time 🤣 can’t wait to share some heartwarming moments/hard moments/loving moments between us as well. And hopefully we can find ways to hear that from you and others in this community too! We hope this year has been going well for you! 😘
@@LavenderLingo What made me want to watch you even more was your charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent! (yes, I recited Rupaul just for you 🤣). I'm happy you're back and I wish you success 🫶🏼
This is the first video of yours that I watched! I could see the love and devotion of one to the other: it is heartwarming to see gay couples leading ordinary and yet fulfilling lives. I was last night in a bar in the West Village and felt somehow that everyone was living behind a smoke curtain; I felt differently about your lives. I hope to see more of purely authentic moments between the two of you. P.S. I am gonna definitely check out that amazing view, thanks for the tip ❤️
Goodness!! Thank you so much! We truly appreciate your kind words and affirmation. We've spent a lot of time together... almost half our lives. We are best friends in every way. That is the whole point of this channel! We're here celebrating the mundane lives we get to live because so many people fought for us to have this life and we're thankful. Plus.... throw in a bit of art, travel, history, fashion, music, politics and you pretty much have a snapshot of us as people and as a couple. lol Truly, thank you for watching; we can't wait to share more with you!!
@@LavenderLingo I can’t wait for you to share more. Honestly, your channel should have more recognition: what you do is highly positive for the community. As for mundanity, taken in its highest possible meaning, it reminds me of Thorin’s words, at the end of the Hobbit: “if more of us valued food and cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.” Are you going to ever touch upon the unhealthy beauty standards of our community? I feel that is one of the gravest problems the (mainly male) homosexual community has to deal with! Ad maiora, semper!
We are on a similar wavelength friend!!! We are currently in the works for a video that will come in November about the "gay body".... specifically referencing the unrealistic beauty standards and the different types of bodies of the entire LGBTQIA+ community! This topic won't focus on negativity but will point out the truth, both positive and negative, about the "gay body." We hope to discuss this topic from an internal and external point of view... but we will see!! Next week we will talk about gay beaches... while spending time at Jacob Riis then we head off to Italy (a five-part video series) To split that up a bit, a video about the gayness of the Renaissance and gay politics in the US. SOOOOOO much coming up. ***btw... love the pic of Hadrian!🖤
@@LavenderLingo love it for you! OMG guys! Btw, I am a PhD student and focus on the study on the ancient world in a big university on the UWS ;) and am Italian!!!🇮🇹 have been interested in the “Ufficiali della Notte” of Renaissance Florence, and I have published a bit on other aspects of Renaissance culture! Where are you visiting in Italy? OMG so excited for more to come!!!! P.S. Hadrian and Antinous has been in my mind for ages! Maybe after the PhD I’ll work on a novel/retelling of the whole story from Antinous’ point of view!
Oh my gosh totally! We have a couple videos on our channel about LGBT relationships and marriage already! They apply to all relationships even if you’re not lgbt! That’s being said…. That’s also one of the cornerstones of our channel so you will definitely see more videos to come. One quick bit of advice: “have patience, learn to communicate and understand how your partner communicates, intimacy is key, and put you and your growth equal to the growth of your relationship.” Thanks for watching! You’re awesome! 😘
(Shel) No. Unfortunately my parents are no longer around. Either by choice or because they passed away. Fortunately, I still have some of my siblings, my chosen family, and Tyler’s parents have taken me on as one of their kids. They feel like my parents too. 🖤 Maybe we will talk a bit more about family and chosen family in a later video. When it comes to LGBT people family is often a touchy subject for any number of reasons. Something we would be glad to talk about.
Congratulations to you too! Relationships are hard work but we do the best we can! Especially thankful when we can find the moments to laugh together 💕 thanks for watching and commenting! 😘