Mashallah. I will say that if you want your home to operate a particular way, choose only a spouse that wants the same thing regardless of the country you live in.
Man, Alhamdulillah! I have been waiting the last few days for a new Yasir Qadhi upload! I see this, you better belief I’m watching right away! Words don’t explain how much I have benefited from this man. May Allah bless him to the fullest extent in this world and the hereafter. I have seen few people as knowledgeable, accepting of diversity in thought and opinion, kind, and nuanced as he is. He is a gem for this Muslim ummah! Jazzakallahkhair Shaikh for all you have done for me! You have helped me in so many ways. My love and gratitude for you knows no bounds!
In fact, Dr. Has bluntly dealt with this topic, may Allah make it an eye opener to the truth for all gender. May Allah preserve shayk upon goodness and continue to protect you and guide you.
Masha'allah, I am happy this issue is being discussed openly, unjust and unfair treatment in marriages is Haram and not what Allah ordered. وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ﴿٢١﴾ 21. And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquility in them; and He planted between you love and compassion. In this are signs for people who think.
