എന്റെ കുട്ടി.... എനിക്കു ആലോചിക്കാൻ കൂടി വയ്യ എന്തൊക്കെയാണ് ലോകത്തു നടക്കുന്നത്.... എന്നും ഞാൻ ഭാഗവാനോട് പ്രാര്തിക്കുന്നത് നല്ലവരായ സ്ത്രീകളെയും കുട്ടികളെയും കാത്തുകൊള്ളേണമേ എന്നാണ്..... മനസ് വല്ലാതെ വേദനിക്കുന്നു... ഇപ്പൊ മോളു മിടുക്കിയായല്ലോ അത് തന്നെ ഭാഗ്യം പക്ഷെ എത്രയോ കുട്ടികൾ രക്ഷപ്പെടാൻ കഴിയാതെ ഇരിക്കുന്നുണ്ടാകും..ലോകം അവസാനിച്ചാൽ മതിയായിരുന്നു ദൈവമേ 😢😢😢
My god സഹോദരി ഒത്തിരി അനുഭവിച്ചു അല്ലേ. എല്ലാം തുറന്നു പറയാൻ കാണിക്കുന്ന ധൈര്യം ഇപ്പോൾ ഉള്ള ഒരു പുരുഷന് പോലും പറ്റില്ല. സഹോദരിയെ പോലെ ഉള്ള ഒരുപാട് പേര് ഉണ്ട് അവർക്ക് ഒരു പ്രചോദനം ആകട്ടെ ഇനി നല്ലത് വരട്ടെ എന്ന് ഞാൻ പ്രാർത്ഥിക്കുന്നു 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Past മാത്രം highlight ചെയ്ത് ഇവരും thumbnail ഇട്ടത് കൊണ്ടാണ് അങ്ങനെ തോന്നിയത്. Sorry on Joshtalk's behalf for that. പക്ഷേ എന്റെ ഉദ്ദേശ്യം trauma awareness and therapy യുടെ importance എല്ലാവർക്കും പറഞ്ഞു കൊടുക്കുക ആയിരുന്നു. അതാണ് പ്രധാനമായും ഈ talk ൽ ഉള്ളത്. അത് കേട്ട് benefit ആക്കാൻ കഴിയട്ടെ എല്ലാവർക്കും എന്നാണ് എന്റെ ആഗ്രഹം. കഴിയുമെങ്കിൽ താങ്കളും മുഴുവൻ കേൾക്കണം. ~ Haveena
Sister I am so sorry you went through it! But you grew through it and came out like a Phoenix bird ... please never giveup, life will bring the best for you.. Hope your life story gives strength for many and let's get these pedophiles to the law for maximum punishment ... Stay strong 👍
Thank you. But my message wasn't to call them such names. But may be a therapy is what they also need. An awareness on what happened to their inner child. Otherwise simply punishing will only damage them more. It will only create more gudge and not healing. But again when they are continuing mistakes, they will need such methods. But more than that, they should understand what unmet need of theirs made them the way they are today. Otherwise nothing will change. We can keep on punishing culprits. New culprits will get born at some other places. But if the mistakes in parenting, comparison trauma, sibling rivalry, other trauma impacts, trauma response behaviours etc are handled correctly and if trauma awareness and training is given to everyone, i think at least next generation won't give and take trauma to n fro others. Unfortunately even parents itself are giving trauma to their children in present era. ~ Haveena
@@hertravelstories That was such a powerful and grateful insight Haveena! .. Yes I have seen way too many close family induced abuse victims and it make sick to my stomach! I have helped someone to get the help they need through law... yes like you said it is easier to say than be done ! I also agree with you that awareness among our own parents n proper guidance for our kids are they key for the future ... I am a father n a brother ... take care , please continue to do what you been doing... Thanks Sister n good luck 🙏
@Anjana&Justin Meet a good psychologist nearby. Nervous system and brain hormones affected aanenkil (sleep issues, nightmares, flashbacks, anger issues, etc undenkil) medicine koodi vendi varum. Athu psychiatrist aanu tharuka. Nothing to worry. Nalla doctor aayal mathi. Nammude Indian scenario manasilavunna oraal. But blame cheyunna aalkarum undu. Angane aare enkilum aanu first kanunathu enkil, change that doctor. Find a new one. Second opinion is always good. Budget friendly aayi govt hospitals undu. But we need to get over the stigma first. Mental health hospitals nodu ulla kaazhchappadu maatiyal RS.10-15 op ticket il govt hospitals il ninnu nalla doctors ne kanam
Forget past is such a wrong advice, especially to the traumatized. Please don't say that to anyone. "Remember and overcome" is the right strategy. If it's affecting present day life, suggest them therapy. That's the way out.
Trying to forget is what put me in trouble. 'Remember & overcome' is the right way. That's what I learnt through the Cognitive Processing Therapy that i took to overcome C-PTSD issue. Then only we will learn to handle triggers. Otherwise we land in trouble when we live hiding all issues. ~ Haveena
God bless you dear May the almighty shower his blessings on you May you stay healthy wealthy and happy always and forever.. You are strong and determined Love you ❤️
I will pray for you to jesus .Jesus please make this person feel loved by you every time. Let her/him to be happy.Please help this person to overcome their obstacles with your help Jesus.Jesus please heal this person from every of their past and present hurts .Jesus please make them feel like they are precious and chosen.Fill this person with your holy spirit.And help them live in repentance daily.Jesus hear this person's worries and prayers and answer to this person.Give him/her humbleness in their heart. Jesus help them overcome the feeling of loneliness .in Jesus name I pray..amen
Vanitha interview time il i didn't know anything about trauma, it's impacts, PTSD, C-PTSD etc. Right now trying to give awareness based on the the therapy i took for trauma healing. Hope everyone finds it helpful. ~ Haveena
