GET READY WITH ME | Worst Dates Storytime 

Tati you dodged a bullet with guy number two. That’s the kind of man that can very easily turn violent and abusive. I’m so so glad you avoided that.

I dated a guy that constantly let out little squeaky farts in public that smelled awful. I was always in a state of emotional turmoil because I had no clue how to react. He 100% ignored that I could hear and smell it and would just keep talking/eating/watching the movie. For some reason I didn't let that end our journey after 2 weeks of dealing with mouse farts. It took him saying that I sounded uneducated when I talk because I'm from Alabama and have a deep southern accent. To which I replied, "At least I don't FART every 10 seconds and smell like a barn animal!" I then left him to sit in his own toxic cloud of gas and breathed a sigh of relief as I power walked away never to smell him again.

About the "sushi" date, an important reminder is : a woman never owe a men sexe or whatever physical interactions because he offered dinner/anything. If you are not comfortable/ready to have that kind of intimacy with a men, you don't have to It is important to reminder because girls are always told to "reward" men's gifts, but they are not told it doesn't have to be at the expense of their personal desires

Does anyone think Tati has the most soothing voice?? I could watch her videos for hours...

I full on sneezed a handful of snot into a guy's hand on our second date. We were in a movie and he had his arm around me, holding my left hand and I was coming down with a really bad flu (not that I knew that at the time) and I felt the sneeze coming and tried to yank my hand away to cover my nose/mouth (I'm left handed so my brain automatically waned the occupied hand) but it came too fast (that's what she said) and he didn't let go so I filled his hand with snot and slobber. Amazingly, he asked me out again even with my grossness, and he's been dealing with that grossness now for almost 19 years, 18 + of which we've been married.

Damn! So glad Tati found James after all this stories. She went through enough and deserves to be happy.

My now husband took me out my first birthday dinner together to my fav restaurant, bbq. Well, I learned that day that he doesn’t take it well. After a terrifying trip back to his house he threw open the front door and screamed “Still love me!” As he ran down the hall. From the other end of the house I herd him going super sayian on that toilet. I’m an awkward person so I just sat there and tried not to make him more embarrassed, but I laughed the whole time he was in the bathroom.

Omg I've had too many experiences with men like Mr. Jekyll and Hyde who think that just because they bought us a nice dinner or put in a little bit of effort that it automatically entitles them to intimacy. And that if we don't give them what they want we're ungrateful. Because god forbid he treat us with respect and kindness without there being some kind of reward for him after.

Tati - I had a similar experience to your second date. A guy that got mad at me because I wouldn't go home with him after a great date. To anyone reading this: sex is not a transaction. Do not let someone pressure you into sex because they bought you a dinner or concert ticket, etc. Sex is never something you owe. If they get mad then they're telling you that they aren't worth your time.

Lol Okay, Tati. I really hope you see this... I’m 27 now. When I was a senior in college, I started dating a guy who I had been friends with for about three years. I met him as the boyfriend of a friend of mine, and never really thought of him that way until we had both been single for some time and it ended up just kind of happening on its own. We dated for probably three weeks before we finally had sex at my apartment. He gets up afterward and heads into the bathroom, and I’m laying there thinking, “Wow, he’s a really NICE guy!” and I’m like imagining where this is gonna go next, when he starts farting... SO loud. Loud, long, echoing, one right after the other type of farts. And I’m laying there like, not breathing, having no idea what to say or how to feel... and he starts maniacally laughing. So I started maniacally laughing. He comes out, and we are both just laughing way too hard to even acknowledge what just happened. He finally got back into bed with me and he goes, “Dude... I hope you know I held that in for you the entire time.” I married him three years later. He’s sleeping next to me now, another three years later. I’m eight months pregnant with our baby girl. Farts don’t always ruin everything. 😂😂

Once on a first date at a nice restaurant the guy somehow got on the subject of how white his legs were. I tried to be polite and said I’m sure they aren’t too pale and he goes “wanna bet????” He then popped his shoe and whole leg up on the table and pulled up the leg of his pants to reveal his scrawny calves for the whole restaurant to see. They were indeed very pale and he didn’t get a second date

Lol the first story reminded me of when my boyfriend at the time left me alone on my birthday. No phone call, no text, I got one text from him that day telling me he's coming so I got ready and waited on my couch. He never came. It was the most depressing birthday I've ever had. I just had a baby(my daughter is NOT his child), my family lived 3 hours away and had no money to come see me, I remember I cried like a baby mainly because I was going through post partum depression and to be left alone like that was a nightmare for me. turns out he was married and I was just a side chick but I had no clue. Needless to say we are not together. I'm so happy I eventually married a wonderful man :)

So glad you ended up with James, he’s great!

Whenever she was going off topic talking about her make up, I was like "TATI! TELL ME THE STORIES!" P.S.- Love your make up today! With lashes and the extra highlighter on, it looked darn good!

Men who think they can buy sex with you by being nice/ paying for dinner can go choke. I'd rather pay for my own dinner and not be pressured into anything. Don't let anyone ever guilt-trip you into doing something youre not comfortable with!

One more story with farts. :D I hope you will enjoy as much as I did enjoy your stories :) So, we were dating for about 5-6 weeks, and we had a really great time. Laying in his dorm room, talking in the middle of the night, really romantic. Then he said "I love you", after just a couple of weeks of dating. I was kind of shocked, because I really liked him, but did not love him yet, so I immediately asked back "What? What did you say?". And than he replied with a poker face: "Nothing. I just farted". I started laughing so hard, I was literally crying... :D Two years later now, living together, loving him :)

hearing about guy #2 makes me so upset bc there are SO many guys like him out there. they think just bc they bought you dinner, you owe them sex and they're entitled to your body as if you were just some object. glad you got out of this situation and were okay!

Your second story is one of those dudes that says he’s a “nice guy” and “doesn’t understand” why girls don’t like him. It’s scary when someone gets actually mad because they think you owe them something. Gives me the creeps.

I’m 36 and still internet dating. I wish I was done already. I’m ready to give up. Don’t take that man of yours for granted for one tiny second. I know u don’t. ⭐️

My ex broke up with me for serving food to homeless people lol . . . So as we all know, regardless of what side you were on, the end of 2016 was ROUGH. I’m extremely liberal and my ex was very conservative, but we tried to make it work. Anyways, every year for Thanksgiving my family and I serve food at a homeless shelter. He saw on Snapchat that I was serving homeless people and broke things off the next day. He called me an “enabler” and told me that he’d rather tell a homeless person to go to hell than ever do anything for them. Boy bye ✌🏻 I don’t need that kind of negativity. I honestly laugh about it all the time now.

JUST BECAUSE MEN BUY US DINNER AND ARE NICE, DOESN'T MEAN WE OWE THEM SEX. OR ANYTHING. THEY CHOSE TO BE NICE.

I once had a guy show up at my house for a date with champagne, play-doh, and board games. I thought I was for sure in for a lame night with some loser. Been married to that guy for 5 years now 🤷🏻‍♀️

Okay those stories were heartbreaking but nice being able to get to know you. You made a very good point after the 1st story. Ladies, girls, boys, whoever...please please I beg you, if you're not in a loving relationship where love is from both sides; leave! Once you start letting things slide it just gets worse b/c they know you'll tolerate it & wont leave so they start treating you like a doormat. You're so much better than that & deserve so much more. Never just settle b/c you think you can't do any better. Oh & if they ever lay a finger on you PLEASE leave right then & there & don't EVER look back!! I've been through it all, learned a lot & finally found the perfect person for me. He loves me w/ all my flaws, never tries to change me & still does sweet things for me everyday. It's been 10yrs now & I couldn't be happier!

Took me over seven years for me to decide I wouldn't be a doormat.

Best relationship moments with James!! Whether it be dates or just a nice memory. I feel like you guys don't try and sugar coat your relationship so it'd be really relatable to know real moments you guys have had together

My own husband of four years never acknowledged Valentine's Day or my Birthday, or even our Anniversary. Never got a card, flowers or a gift. The one and only time he got me anything for Valentine's Day, he actually went and bought the day after while everything was on sale... it was a card..... I gave birth to his child and he never even treated me like I was worth anything. Finally walked away a year ago.. best thing I ever did for myself!

I loved this. I just got cheated on, and you talking about giving someone every chance, even when they treat you poorly, really resounds with me. Thank you for sharing.

Ahhhhh the second one gives me chills, which I've had a similar not as bad experience! After speaking for a while/going on dates me and this guy started making out, he tried to make a move and I said no I'm not ready, I didnt know him enough for me to be comfortable for that kind of thing. This led to an awkward few moments to which I had to go home because it got too uncomfortable with him looking at me like I'd offended all his ancestors, aaaaaand he never spoke to me again 😑 But then a month or so later I met the love of my life and we are now engaged 6 years later! Everything happens for a reason ❤

Tati , regarding the second story, you shouldn't have felt confused. The guy was a jerk and you didn't owe him anything, no matter how much he spent on you! Glad it ended there and that you met James!

Tati is basically my RU-vid Mom. She gives great life advice, great beauty advice, and is such a humble person. ❤️

I could literally sit here and listen to Tati talk for 10 hours lol something in her voice is just so calming

I was driving to a date with this guy. First date. I was about half an hour away and had to get gas first which I told him when I left. It was also dark and raining out. I have cataracts which makes those conditions difficult for me to drive in so I also took it kind of slow. I don't answer my phone while driving for obvious reasons. So I get there, look at my phone and he's cussing me out about how I stood him up and if I didn't want to come I should have said so how I was ignoring him ect... Messaged him back saying there is no way in hell I'm going in because I didn't feel safe. He freaked out more. Turned around and went straight back home. Still don't regret that decision. It's clear he wasn't a very nice guy.

These guys are just douches that couldn't handle someone as amazing as Tati. I'm so glad you found James, you two help me to believe that there is someone for everyone. xx

I really enjoyed this. Pls do more of these

Tati, I am so happy you made this video. I just broke off contact with my ex of 2 1/2 years after it being a back and forth for 8 months. I really needed this because I just thought that there's literally no hope. Don't get me wrong, I feel sorry that all that stuff happened to a woman as beautiful as you but it makes me feel better that you eventually found the perfect guy.

This is the first makeup video I've ever watched (I don't have girl friends... like at all) and I legit felt my inner feminine gal just going "GUURRL!" I'm making hand motions, SOMETHING I NEVER DO, flipping my hair, snapping my fingers. Geez this is the most girly I've probably ever felt. Thanks Tati for giving me some girl talk, it was actually... really nice 😊

I'm so glad you didn't invite that so-called gentlemen up to your apartment. I can't stand those kinds of guys who think that you/ your body is worth a dinner or a drink. Good for you. I'm glad you found your soulmate in James!

You went through many frogs to finally find your prince! James is a great catch and hes lucky as well

DO MORE OF THESE!!! Fun 50/50 of makeup and chit chatting and hearing funny stories

i love these videos Tati. i've been watching you for so long for this exact reason, you're so honest and transparent. This video actually made me feel a lot better im just really stressed by college right now and this video just kind of gave me a breath of fresh air. Love you.

Am I the only one who thinks Tati's voice is super relaxing to hear?!?!!! No right?

These stories have really shown me that I'm not alone on going to terrible dates. I've had three different guys do similar things in regards to expecting sex because they "spent money/time" on me. It's so scary that men are actually like that. So glad you found James, coincidentally I'm dating someone named James too and he's so awesome :) I loved this video!

I have watched this video 10 times. I’ve had so many similar bad days (not with a date but something like missing my bus, having to pee, etc.) but at the end, I knew it was going to be okay. I, so happy for you that now you are doing so great in your relationship and your career. It really shows people the happy ending after struggles and hard work! You are such a great inspiration! Love you Tati!

Binge watching your videos after a long week and this exactly what I needed! ❤️ sending love always!

YOUR NAILS ACTUALLY LOOK STUNNING 👏🏼

Do story time more often, it’s working for me lol!

My favorite video ever, I’m in a situation like your one story and you saying “don’t wait around for someone to change leave” and after 3 years of really hard times it’s crazy how much that has stuck with me and made me feel like I can get out of it.

I LOVED this video! I really like it when you tell these kinds of stories, even (or especially!) the ones that are embarrassing, because it's sortof a reminder you're not just this beautiful glam youtuber. It really connects with me because I'm not someone who can buy high end makeup, I don't have a car, I'm still trying to get on my feet in life and find the right one for me, etc.--so I related to every one of your dating stories. I've literally been in your shoes in the first story, minus it being a birthday. It's refreshing to hear you talk about the times you were struggling or got caught in the rain waiting for the bus or whatever because it shows where you come from and what your attitude is. You always carry a level of gratitude for where you are and for your followers and that's one of the things I like about you. You haven't forgotten where you came from. I'd love to hear more stories about young Tati and what growing up was like for you. These get-ready clips are fun to watch. Thanks for another great video!

No one should ever expect sex as a payment for anything including an experience such as a date. No one owes their body to anyone. Don’t let anyone guilt trip you into thinking that you owe them sex for treating you well.

I got out of an abusive, year and a half long relationship during my senior year. My best friend of two years told me he wanted more. I was so terrified I almost bailed; three years later, I'm treated like a princess. He showers me with roses and affection and comfort

Tati, your content only gets better and better. love this storytime style get ready with me. Love the comedic edits. I hope I continuously improve my channel over time like you have!

I love your videos Tati. You are so elegant and classy and I love how you tell stories and describe products at the same time so beautifully! I could watch you all day! Love you ❤️

PLEASE DO MORE OF THESE! Your voice is so relaxing, also that first story! 😳 Especially on your birthday, that's awful oh my god! So glad you went on that date with James because look at you guys now. 😻🙌🏼 Perfect couple, love you Tati!

*STORYTIME IDEA* How did Puka came into your life, and other pet/pets storytelling from the both of your pasts maybe?

I truly enjoy all your videos, it feels like we’ve been friends for years!! So much love for you Tati!!!

I love your "Get ready with me" videos! I am semi new to your channel and have been trying to go back to past videos to get to know you better and I love these!! So much fun!

ew the guy who expected sex after the second date just because he bought you dinner. I hate that! it's so embarrassing when a guy thinks a nice date guarantees him sex. love you for getting out of that situation and not looking back!

That speech after your first story....... PREACH 🙌🏼

You are everyone's mum we Love you and your advices

I love these videos, Tati!! You can literally share any stories because we love hearing from you!!

Why is it that some guys think of dating as classy prostitution? I just bought you a really nice dinner... that's my prepayment for sleeping with you...

Tati you should do a GRWM the James and Tati love story 💕 it would be great especially because the love seems so genuine ☺

Story time with you is so freaking fun. These videos are so good!!

Please do more of these I loved it! I’m so glad those horrible dating stories led you to James! Y’all are the cutest

I think that Tatis stories are my new favorite things EVER

I would love to know about ur youtube stories when you were just starting out.. how was it like? Hardships u faced, friends u made, ur first brand recognition, ur first event.. how was it getting ur first 100 or 1000 subscribers.. 😊

I've been following you for years Tati. Love you lots! Your videos are very informative on the products as well as fun and interesting at the same time! You have your way of getting over uncomfortable situations and I find it very interesting ! thank you!!

I feel for you Tati, and I would love to tell you my birthday story from probably about 4 years ago. I was living with several roommates and my boyfriend of the time. He was military, so it wasn't like he couldn't afford to go out. The day of my birthday I'm off, I thought maybe he would have something planned or would want to do something special with me, but the day was horrible. I wake up, make lunch for the both of us. He doesn't say happy birthday. He's on his computer gaming. So I decided to do my own thing. I'm so sad at this point. I thought maybe he would want to invest some time of his with me. But then he decides he wants to go shopping with one of my roommates as the local computer store. We get there and he asks me to pick out my own gift. Like, why can't you just surprise me? do something different? why does technology have to be the option and why do I have to choose it? so I try to pick my gift, he tells me what im picking is not the right thing. We argue in the middle of the store. He pretty much at that point makes me feel stupid and uneducated about computer accessories (a mouse and headphones were the choice). So I'm more upset than before, we head back home, and it turns out I was right and he was wrong. We start arguing again and I start to cry. He makes me feel worse that I'm crying, takes me back to the store and we exchange it for the one I originally had wanted. We go back home and hes right back to his computer. Maybe about an hour later, my roommate and his girlfriend invite us to go out to dinner. Still no plans from the boyfriend. He decides that he wants to go and doesn't even ask me what I would like to do. I just agree and try to suck it up. We finally get in his car, we're halfway to a place, and my roommates finally clue in that its my birthday and decided to have me choose the place. so we go to my place of work for dinner. I end up paying for my meal and my boyfriends. My roommates say we should go and get a cake and they feel sorry for not knowing sooner. My boyfriend ignores their suggestion, we go home and I end up crying in my bedroom while he sits on his computer for the rest of the night. I would say that was one of the worst interations we had when we were together, but We ended up splitting and months later I had to have the cops involved. He was super abusive and I wish I could have seen it... But like you said, you give every chance for a person you love to fix their mistakes. It takes experiences like that to know your own value and worth! If you or I hadn't have experienced those moments, we wouldnt be the people we are today, nor would you have found the one.

Second date is like prime red flags for an abusive partner. I'm so glad you held your ground. I'm studying to be a therapist/psychiatrist and I'm incredibly sensitive to small group communications and relationship communications. I'm so glad you didn't cave into the intimidation he was trying to put out.

#2 is a narcassist. They do things to get your love and affection, and then when he didn't get what he felt was owed to him (in your pants) he turned on you trying to make you feel like you owed him something in return for his date. I fell in love with one, and now here I am...in misery. So glad you finally met James. Love ya Tati, I hope one day to get the hell out of here.

I really appreciate these videos! I play them when I'm getting ready as well and it's nice to listen to something besides music when I get ready! thank you tati!

Tati thank you so much for sharing these stories! I love that you're using your platform to teach people to not settle for less than a fantastic partner. Love you and your channel!

I felt so bad when you were talking about him going out and giving you LEFTOVER Mexican food. This only makes me happy because I know you are so happy with your husband as you deserve!!!

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months who didn’t care 99% of the time, but I kept clinging on to the 1% I got and made so many excuses for him. Then I watched this video, and I can’t thank you enough Tati. I know my worth, and it’s like you made this for me💗

I just discovered you and Ive been binge watching for the last week! Do more of these videos please! P.s I’ve referred your videos to family you’re so sweet and I love the way you carry yourself-you are such a humble person!

yes yes yes ! im obsessed, need a whole series of this!

I absolutely LOVE how you conversate with us as if we were having lunch and catching up on life or something 😊💕I feel the connection when you speak to us and I think that is why I love you and your channel so much😘 you are just awesome 😊

Those stories though!!!! Looks like James saved you. Bless his sweet soul! 😁🤗😇 Xx

Tati I really love your videos omg they are so funny and interesting, ILYSM💕💕

I’m convinced Tati can’t say something mean without sounding calm af. Her voice is so soothing lol

The first one what she said after it, its helping me get the courage to finally break up with my boyfriend that defiantly doesn't treat me right. I've told him he didn't and he didn't try to fix it he just made excuses, thank you Tati!

I LOVE THIS TYPE OF VIDEO!!! It feels like you're chatting to us like we're your girlfriends and we're getting ready for a night out and I absolutely adore this style of video! Love your beautiful makeup and your amazing and hilarious personality girl! Xx 💋

This was definitely the most fun make a morning I’ve had in a long time! I hope you’ll do more of these!

freaking love this type of video!!! keep them coming please!!!!

Im actually feeling sad that the video ended... i loved the video😍

That glitch literally made me think my phone was possessed

Her enactment of the noises :') really got me

Thank you for the videos you post, you’re a pleasure to watch and get to know. You have taught me so much about makeup application and where not to waste my money! I’d given up on trying to look good after gaining some weight and so unhappy and low - you’re videos have brightened my day (life). Thank you. Long may they continue! Xx

I met my husband online, and I too had those really bad online dates... the bathroom story 😂😂😂 i think everyone has one. But my worst date was actually this guy I met at my friend’s church in college. He picked me up and we went to the dollar store first, he told me I could pick out anything I wanted (I’m laughing typing this) I told him it was okay, I was just looking forward to the movie. So we go to pick up the tickets and he has two free movie passes. It’s okay, he’s not a big spender, whatever. Well during the previews he starts having this conversation with me. I was polite but once the movie started and he didn’t stop talking it got really uncomfortable. The people behind us kept shushing but he was totally clueless. When he dropped me off he told me he had such a fun time and he felt like we really connected and wanted to take me out again. It was such an uncomfortable experience for me, but I had no idea how to express that without coming off as shallow. I guess if you want to get to know a girl, but are balling on a budget, take her for a beautiful walk, or take a tour of your city...

I would love to hear stories about bad Sephora or ULTA experiences or PR packages experiences!

Tati you are one of very few vloggers i can always trust and count on in giving real open and honest reviews. You're truly amazing.

Tati is hands down the best makeup guru / person out there. Always real and amazing. Never change Tati! 💕

more please! I feel like the lack of respect and being taken advantage of/intensely manipulated seriously destroys your soul and harms your ego. And just being naive. I agree. be around those who respect you. PLEASE MORE TALKS LIKE THESE. IT IS HELPFUL.

About the guy who got so angry when you wouldn't invite him in after the second date, I think you dodged a bullet. Listening to the story I heard some red flags being raised.

I love ALL your videos (I’ve been binge watching for a few weeks now) but this one really is one of my faves. Thank you for sharing!

Yessss love your chatty GRWMs!!

literally in my room crying my eyes out my boyfriend has ignored me for 5 days... we have been togeather for 2 years.. our anniversary is on sunday.. balling needing comfort i thought of tati.. and your right.. i do desserve better.. thank you. love you. Edit: thank you so so so much for all of your guys support.. it's help alot.. Love all of you 💕💕

I went out with this guy that was friends with my best guy friend so I thought he'd be nice but he ended up being the most pretentious guy I've ever met. We went to a fancy steak restaurant where he ordered an expensive bottle of red wine but when it came to the table for him to taste he told the waiter that it wasn't chilled enough and asked for an ice bucket...for red wine!!!! I was mortified. Then before we were even through the salads he flat out said so since I'm buying this expensive dinner are we going to your place or mine!! I got up threw a $100 bill on the table, told him a nice red wine isn't supposed to be chilled and had the hostess call me a cab to go home. Needless to say I never saw him again!

I love these GRWM's! This one and the one about your different jobs you've had are my favourite!

Loveee you Tati!!!❤️❤️ this video is so fun!! It’s so nice to get to actually know you and be able to relate or learn from your experiences xox