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The amount of people defending sexual assault and hiding it behind “culture” is absolutely insane.

Sexualizing girls from the time they're born, dressing them up like "prostitutes" at 10 years old, and saying sexual harassment = attraction, but meanwhile prohibiting premarital sex and preventing them from going out or choosing their spouses is NOT high morals. The lady who mentioned that is a little off her rocker

the way Cheyenne's voice break after she said it "wasn't a violent grabbing" will always haunt me. She tries so hard to convince herself she wasn't just assaulted. And no, this isn't culture, this is straight up abuse, plain and simple

Idk why I find these documentaries so fascinating. They need to do a where are they now season.

I love how when they asked him what he liked about her all he could say was that she cooked and cleaned for him. Didn't say she was pretty or smart just shows why he's really marrying her.

That little girl when her brother called her a princess instead of a rat 😂 So cute

I feel so bad for the blond girl. the way her friend just leaves saying she can fight for herself when she's clearly uncomfortable and asking for help... gross. and this happens everytime, not only with travelers. surround yourself with good friends who care please

One half of me is faszinated with the culture, the other is furious about a community that only allows/offers women an identity as pretty princess, womb and housekeeper. That is all their identeties are allowed to be.

"The girls go out in large packs" The biology documentary style narration is always killing me

Grabbing is not a normal thing... it's assault and it is really DISGUSTING AND An ANCIENT and outdated mindset

Its absolutely heart-wrenching to think about all the sexual assault these girls go thru. Cheyenne tryingnto convince herself that what happened made me cry. Hell I was 22 when I got married, to a old religion catholic family I was even informed that my place was in the kitchen & taking care of the family. Which still gives me the chills; to be told "Im happy if my husband is happy, and if he strays that's just him getting what he needs" It broke my heart, and after he turned violent everyone turned a blind eye. Because I was now his property (smfh). That's not love 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️, that's torture

I googled Josie, curious to know what’s happened to her now. She and Swanley divorced after two years. She said ‘cracks started showing days after the wedding and he bullied her’ (are we surprised). She and her baby girl moved with her mother after. And her kid is also named Josie.

So if a guy wants a girls number he gets to essentially kidnap her, hold her hostage and even go as far as breaking her arm? What happened to just asking for it? I know this is an old one because Josie and Swanley are divorced with a kid and Cheyenne is married with 2 kids and her husband (Josie’s brother) went to prison for armed robbery and attempted kidnapping on some poor lady in broad daylight. These people talk about how they’re discriminated against yet they’re incredibly judgmental of "country" people and very rude towards them.

My father is a true blood Romani gypsy, he was a hard working honest man he was from the older generation and very traditional in his way and lived a simple life , I grew up with the Romani ways even though my mother is a country woman, I work full time and got an education because my father wanted me to do better for myself

How sad that Josie looks for a husband who won’t beat her.

That poor little girl looked miserable trying to walk in that dress while the other children laughed

There's nothing wrong with staying at home mom but I think having a responsible and considerate husband is also a must

4 months at 16. These girls don't stand a chance when their husband gets violent. 🥺🥺🥺 Of course they bring Disney and movie pictures, they're not even adults.

So not allowed to have sex before marriage or do pretty much anything except cook clean and reproduce, but are allowed to be sexually harassed, dress in clothes that leave little to the imagination and dance like a stripper???

I love how he felt so comfortable calling it a "paki wedding" but would flip his shit if you called him a racial slur

Cheyenne sounded close to tears. And the "I've had much worse" Comment, this poor girl

It's a SHAME how Montana didn't stand up for her friend during grabbing. It shows us that we should avoid type TOXIC people.

Having been pulled into a dark corner by a man who forced himself onto me (kisses only but that's enough) I really feel for poor Cheyenne. That's traumatic and not in any way romantic or the start of a relationship.

Physical abuse, both late to the wedding, an aspiring trailer residence, superficiality…pure class! I mean…she was literally laughing while taking her vows…WOW!

I've noticed that the Mom's of these girls look quite old for their ages, which I assume 35- 40. Says alot about the life they live.

I can’t be the only one who thinks the giant pink communion dress is iconic?🤣

"shes a good cook...she cleans throughout most of the day - thats a good sign .. yh those are the main things to look for" bloody hell are u looking for a maid or wife ???

They have the sheer nerve to moan that other people are 'racist' towards them, but use racist language themselves. The bloody cheek of it 😤🤬😡

Imagine buying a wedding dress so big, its bigger than the caravan you will be living in.

How much housework can the wife do every day in such a small trailer

I can't be the only one who thinks it's just ironic that Swanley thought it was HORRIBLE for Josie to be late when 1. she wasn't the one driving 2. she wasn't the reason she was late, while he, got lost while he was driving, he was the reason he was late - if her limo was not late, I wonder what he would've said 😂

I really hate how this girl left her friend while a MAN was grabbing her, and the audacity that she says “She can fight for herself”

These girls are more in love with getting married and having the perfect wedding dress to outdo everyone else. Most don't seem to excited about the actual marriage and who they are marrying. I give it a year at most ... plus a kid, then divorce followed by another wedding ,or 2!

My family are Romani/English travellers. (Family’s from both sides married into each-other.) My family are extremely old fashioned and very into their spirituality like tarot cards, rune stones, crystals, fortune telling and witchcraft. I feel sometimes ashamed to tell people where my family are from because they then jump to conclusions and assume we are like what you see on TV. When that really isn’t the case! My family used to live on a site until early 2000s and then move into houses, last person to live on our site was my grandad who died in 2018. Now my cousin and her baby have moved into a shalley there also with a distant relative in a caravan to keep it ours, rest of the plot is rented out to people. We would own horses and dogs back in the day, As usual. But never would women wear the kinds of things you see in these modern day “travellers”. Our clothing was more bohemian with bangles, head scarfs and beautiful patterned dresses that were not showing cleavage and belly’s and under bum. I do feel our culture has been corrupted in a way by this new modern day aesthetic of what a traveler should be. And the beautiful vardos (wagons) we would own which had beautiful patterns and gold outlining with those beautiful painted shutters for the windows. Its such a shame to hardly see them around anymore.. 😔 Please do not think we are all like what is being portrayed on tv! 🙏🏻

Pretty disgusting how production watched Cheyenne get assaulted by the guy in the pink tank top and didn't intervene in any way.

I think the person who invented all these beliefs and tradition passionately and cunningly despised marriage and women.

the sexual assault is the only thing I’ll never support. It’s so normal for them 🤢

they hurt you until they get a kiss? What! that's disgusting

Imagine going from living in a house with 9 siblings to a caravan with no curtains. Talk about downgrade

'when they wont accept no for an answer and grab and twist your arms until it hurts that means they like you'

Just showed this to my mom. She said "Clothes that tight are sure to cause a yeast infection " 🤣😂 My dear Mum. She has no filter

physical abuse right from the beginning, grabbing a girl, pushing her up against the wall and hurting her if she says no to kissing you? and constantly hurting her until she submits or you give up….? good lord. wow

I hope all the girls from this documentary are safe and happy 😔

I think its terrible how the people are conditioned to believe all this. That it's fine to be sexually harassed and assaulted. The fact hat they think it's normal for boys to grab them and attack them until they get a kiss is just disgusting.

Margaritha yawning at church was a big mood for me

BARF.... Sexual harassment starts early with these folks.🤮

So they call Indian/ Asians packis but if someone called them a pikey they would throw a fit… kmt double standards is crazy

I think it’s sad that they accept that “grabbing” is just part of their life😢

SHAME ON THE MOTHERS WHO LETS THERE 16 YEAR OLD GET MARRIED SMH

Her dress is toooo big on her, and the other girls were making fun of her, she looked like a cotton candy with a head on the middle! Poor girl! Nice friend, she left her there, when she clearly wanted help, but by the look of her face, I can tell that she was jealous of her! Because none of the boys make a move on her.

what they call grabbing most intelligent human beings call sexual assault. women are doomed in the Traveller community

So nobodys gonna talk about The Irish Travellers that had their sons first communion outfit as a fictional African Prince? But they dont like to mix with other breeds? The math aint mathin’

And I think her friend montana or whatever was jealous Just they way she acted!!! And her friend was even yelling for her! Wow what a good friend she was!

I know not everyone knows Audrey Hepburn but at the same time I’m like ‘How can you not know about this beautiful soul?!??!’

I wAs shocked they didn’t know Audrey Hepburn being she is the essence of glamour

He abandons her and his daughter, took 110k and ran off after a court settlement. She lives back with her parents.

“He’s gonna be the AFRICAN prince” excuse me

If she doesn’t know who Audrey Hepburn is then she’s too young for you lol

The little girl taking her first communion can barley even move in that dress.

Grabbing is an utterly disgraceful "tradition" and these poor young ladies dont even realise it 😢

Do you think it ever occurs to them that painting a tiny baby's nails can in fact seep toxins in to baby's bloodstream? 🤦

They were having seizures all up on that dance floor 😂😂

How do they finance that lifestyle? Like the weddings, the dresses and a 10 person trip to Lanzerote are no small expenses in my mind...

Grabbing is not endearing, it's sexual assault.

The one boy who tried to make my daughter kiss him probably won't be able to have kids of his own and is likely never going to force anything from a female again. I'm from the south and a few females in my family have been through some shit so I taught my daughter how to defend herself from a very young age. I can't watch this no more...

"She can fight for herself." As soon as she said my name I would've bodied that dude.

"Travelers aren't allowed to drink before marriage" Minutes later there are 8 year olds drinking champagne🤔

Why would a girl want a boy to grab her then squeeze and hurt her arms until she kisses him...I guess I'll never understand it 🤔

All I can think about is I’ve seen the episode of Cheyennes wedding and she’s such a sweet girl

I’d secretly take birth control and study online at night. Hell no! Edit: Wait so she needs to clean her own trailer? He couldn’t even buy a brand new clean one or gee a cleaning company?

They can’t be alone with guys, they can’t drink, till after they are married. But, they dress so provocatively. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I can't believe she asked who Audrey Hepburn is??? Lol... Breakfast at Tiffany's is a classic

A world where 15 year olds can dress very mature and possibly get kidnapped by boys/men yet has to save sex for marriage and live by traditional gender rules? I’m so confused yet so curious. And perhaps this is all misrepresented but the girls seem more interested or at least highly romanticize the wedding than actually being married.

These poor girls!!! My daughter is 15, and she is focused on graduating from high school and becoming an ER nurse before she gets married. The idea of her even looking at me and saying she wants to marry someone before she turned 18 is horrifying.

josie (mcfadyen) and swanley had at least one daughter together but got divorced a few years later as he was apparently abusive towards her. her family have been in the papers quite a lot for different things such as accusations of attacks and threatening behaviour josies sister also got married but divorced later on and got caught trying to smuggle a mobile phone to her ex-boyfriend in jail by hiding it in her baby's nappy cheyanne got married to john, the guy who grabbed her and they have 4 kids together

This first communion thing is wild af. My first communion was NOTHING like this lol. I looked more like the other little girls with the plain veil on lol

I've just realised, throughout the years, Thelma has a cast or support on her wrist. She must have rsi or carple tunnel from making those dresses 😔

How can her friend just walk away when she is clearly uncomfortable and struggling...

Chyanne is married to a lad whom became one off the most notorious biker gang whom dragged a woman’s baby off her and got sent to prison. But everyone said she is happy. Well he has led her a hard life

They appear to use the word “Spanish” and stripper, synonymously.

You here your friend screaming your name and you still walk away Wtf is wrong with her the girl looked like she wanted to cry

The weddings that these people throw are the true definition of “valuing the wedding more than the marriage.” They spend loads of money on these trashy, tacky weddings and wedding dresses and put so much thought and effort into the wedding only for most of these couples to divorce within five years of marriage. Sad and ridiculous. Maybe more of their thoughts, time, and other resources should go towards the actual marriage and then the marriages might have a better chance of lasting. Just a thought.

That girl walking away as a girl was grabbed and clearly didn't want to be in that situation. Absolutely unacceptable

"So how did u meet"? "He grabbed me, twisted my arm and forced a kiss on me!! It was love at first sight?!?!?....."

Forget the elaborate dress, get the child to a good dentist

Wait wait wait, there’s no way I just saw someone force a girl for a kiss by literally dragging them away and pinning them against the wall. Fucking disgusting.

Poor little girl. She can't walk but certainly stand out and looks beautiful

Montana is the worst friend ever. Her bestie was getting “Grabbed” ( sexually assaulted) and she just walked away. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Geez, Girl!

This is a dumb question but since they often move into caravans after the wedding (even if they eventually move into a house to send their kids to school), where do they store their wedding dresses?

Getting married at 17!!!!! That’s insane

that poor little girl was swallowed by that massive dress

Swanly changed into his wife beater before he even left reception! That’s dedicated

My question is...who pays for this...and HOW?!...I kinda want to see the aftermath. TLC portrays this as so beautiful and lavish (like, who WOULDN'T want a wedding as lush as this?!)....living conditions are living in a fecken' trailer....I want to se the continuation of these circumstances ...This is OK?!...Someone give me insight, 'cause I ain't gettin' it.

Cheyenne ending up marrying the boy who grabbed her. It ended up being Josie’s brother. It was his sisters wedding.

NO ONE GONNA TALK BOUT HOW THE DUDE WAS BEING RUDE ABOUT PAKISTANI PEOPLE AND CALLING THEM PAKIS AND CONTINUING TO LAUGH AT THEIR CULTURE AND WEDDINGS LIKE WTF

I literally made sure I could sit in my wedding gown before I bought it lol

My favorite moment clearly the kids living it up all on their own in the limousine.. 😂😂👌✨

Cheyenne ended up marrying the guy who grabbed her. They ended up with 3 children before her husband went to jail

I love how they use Eddie Murphy's movie Coming to America as the template for their communion outfits that is awesome

The fantasy perfume….. iconic 💅