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Yeah, while I completely understand her motivation that was carrying things too far, especially when it hurt someone who'd gone out of her way to make accommodations.

@@ttintagel Exactly, I understand it's very hard for a young lady to have this pressure hanging over her head and that potentially losing your venue is not a great feeling, it's unfair. But being in a bad situation isn't a pass to be disrespectful to someone else. Especially someone who you want service from.

Yep!

Agreed. It’s almost like someone getting into a relationship after constantly being hurt or fucked over. It isn’t that current bf or gf’s fault for all that, but people sometimes can’t help but not be able to trust these new people or be scared to open up. It doesn’t make it right that they just have trust issues from others and not them but they also shouldn’t take it out in them yk? That’s the best way I can explain it. They also shouldn’t uphold their reputation proudly when every person or business doesnt want anything to do w them. just like one can’t blame all men/women for one or a few bad ones.

@@embadly Be like King David and own it. Travellers never take responsibility. That is why their "reputations" are dirty. Gypsy honour? They have the most debase morals.

There you go, being so understanding of traditions, strange way to be

@@cindycollins4040 The "muh culture" card. Just because you claim a culture, doesn't mean everyone has to tiptoe the non-sense.

@@anthonyhassett problem is, they aren't going to change, and trying not to let it bother you and live in peace, best of luck to you

@@anthonyhassett go take a chill pill, geez

@@cindycollins4040 I will when you bring back my dog Rex a little jack Russell terrier your lot took for baiting for dog fighting.

The wife is a trained domestic house slave

I’m sure his wife was happy to do it. Why do you care so much seems kinda sad.

@@jeannabuccini5679 it's pitiful looking at a grown man who doesn't have the skill set to look after himself for a few days.

@@jeannabuccini5679 Because you would call me a misogynist if I didnt. But it is rather pitiful to see a full grown man who doesn't have basic life skills.

So true and then talking about her as if she's the idiot. smh rude!

That Irish bride to be had no right to scam Thelma who follows every bride to be's wishes.that Irish brides's mother should be forced to pay back all the money she cost you and your other colleague back for trav tickets,the hotel and underskirt costing over £2,000 and banned from having any asociation with Thelma and her team. They have NEVER disclosed private business of the families she has helped. She has been the soul of discretion, that's why l travelller girls hire her because they trust her and she makes them the dresses they ask for which are beautiful. Many of the girls are lovely people and so grateful to Tbelma for her hard work and dedication to give them the the weddingday of their dreams. For one bride the team worked non stop alll day and right. The young lady was so greateful that they did that she was I tears of joy that they did that for her. Stick to the traveller brides In UK Thelma, both English and Irish in the here who are thankful for your hard work She has never disclosed private information about any of you giving permission to do so. She respects your right to privacy. Keep up the good work, your loyal customers know you can be trusted. Sue that mother and daughter in Ireland for your money back, you have many satisfied customers fighting your corner. Not only did they cheat you, but also your loyal workmates too. The girls here have never done that to you. Only do work for those in Ireland that the girls here can vouch for, sure they would hate you see you a ripped off. Your customers are a tight knit friendly bunch of girls always happy for each others success, that's the sign of a kind soul. They look out for each other. Please ask them to wear seat belts in the cars while travelling, especially little lite girls, worries me when they don't, don't want to see any of them hurt in a crash.

she got scammed by one person who just happens to be a travler. the majority of travelers she works with don't do this role her

Definition of bigotry - obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction; in particular, prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group. You can defend bigotry all you want but to judge and entire group of people because of your assumptions of their lifestyle and their actions is bigotry, end of story!

@@megansarat so I’m a bigot because I don’t condone child rape? Lmao you need help girl.

@@megansarat also are you deaf? It’s not an assumption. They’re straight up telling you that they do this and they’re proud of it.

@@megansarat I’m not being funny but it’s true. I’ve had many Gypsies come into our towns every year and I’ve had nothing but bad experiences with them. All the things said above are true. It’s absolutely a fact that they take girls out of education at 11, if not younger, that’s not only illegal but extremely sexist, leading to girls having to rely on the men in their lives as they have no independence. Any other group who have done this in the past have been penalized and written in the history books as the bad guys, it’s worth thinking about that when u try and stick up for them. Yes some r different but that’s a minority not the majority. It’s their culture/tradition to do this.

Thank you!

Well she can show them in the future by refusing to dress her sisters and cousins. All she needs to say is the lead time is too short (as the assembly deadlines always are). That will put manners on them.

He's a lazy, arrogant good for nothing . In all my 35 years married to my late husband of 10 years passed away, he not only looked after our kids but me to after endless surgery. He washed, ironed, cooked and cleaned, and went to work leaving relatives with me who worked without word of complaint to care for and the boys we took our vows seriously.for me as stated in sickness and in health. Called love and respect. When we found out he had stage 4 cancer I brought him home from hospital and nursed him myself despite being seriously I'll myself with a bad Crohn's flare up, he was more Important. he died a week and a half after leaving hospital with me his brother and our middle son and Marie Curie Nurse. Our other sons' were, our were away, one at work conference in Scotland and youngest working in London, both arrived home next day as it was after 10pm at night when he died and last trains had already left. None of us new he would die that night, he was given month, he told the. To go to work as normal, he had plenty of time so he thought. The ladies should have told her husband to get off his backside and cook his own tea. I'd have hit him with a cast iron skillet and put him in hospita wlhile I packed and left him.A REAL man would have prepared me a meal and fed our kids and, not send me out for food. I never married again or dated after be died, still married to him until I die and join him in Heaven, at 65 I expect it will be in next 20 years all being well. All women I our female family members lived to late 90.s, tough ladies.

Not difficult at all, but correct grammar and structure seem to be...

​​@@bethewalt7385 Grammar and spelling is what you're focused on here!? 😂 Bore off 🥱😴

You're right, it really isn't hard. They play the victim, but they display bad behaviour and then cry discrimination. Try not being an arsehole and maybe people wouldn't think you're an arsehole. It really is very simple

Few bad apples spoiĺ it for the well behaved, so sad for the nice ones. I get 3 at a hotel In Chestsr around I years ago, a mum and 2 daughters on a shopping weekend. They saw md sitting g alone and inviited me to join them, nicest ladies I'd, polite, caring and genuine.they td me straight away that they were travellers, and hoped I was'nt put off,I said no, did'nt bother me at all and it wa kind of them to ask me over as I was feeling lonely on my own. They were staying t nother hotel but stopped off for coffee into eone I popped information pot of tea. They were ready I tested In mysight seeing tour around the city andkedbout as of interest. Said try tbe Cathedral as they are very religious. The Ro.an Gardens that took you downtown river Dee for boat trips, facing it was nice it was a gastropub, Easily the nicest ladies I had ever told them to visit for meal and drink. I am a sociable lady and never judge a book by its cover If people are polite to me I return the compliment. Good manners cost nothing. Wish I'd booked extra night but all hotels B&B'S all fully booked for Chester rorses races, she never got more time with them. They even paid for a taxi to railway station for train home. Often think aboutt them anď wonder how they are? Not all travellers are the same, the older ones'splus30

It is a pile of crap

honestly! i get why Thelma’s hurt over the whole situation but once she said she didnt “trust” them i already knew what they thought about her she should’ve said something different ykk

they would be dressing themselves tell mom here's your dresses and we are done. I have other brides.

They should have trusted Thelma with the dates without giving the exact venue. Northern Ireland is a small place where a last minute notification wouldn't make a big difference. Where a date would.

Dude some romani brides give the dress makers 10 frikin days to make a huge dress before the wedding, complete bs

Yeah tinkers will shake their ass for money and worry about the morality later

There is guaranteed trouble at that wedding. If they are found out the hotel will cancel, the staff will refuse to work and the venue will be cancelled.

They aren't criminals it's just a culture

​@@portiawilliams2554 Stealing and destroying is not a cultural thing, it's criminal. Stop trying to wrap bad and criminal behaviour up in the word 'cultural'. Female genital mutilation is also cultural, doesn't make it right.

Sorry to say but a lot of accounts suggest that this is the reason that they are travellers....because they were once settled people who insisted on indulging in criminal behaviour in different spheres of life and were no longer acccepted so they realized that if they could not be found out, they could do whatever they want. Ive heard they never pay full price and if they are denied services or products they find a way to 'pay themselves back'.

​@@portiawilliams2554they r always on the rob, isn't stealing criminal?!

My question, also. If the daughters are in charge of the children and keeping the house clean, what does the mother do all day?

Make more siblings

@@katsarethebest9465 😂 probably the truth!

Why doesn’t someone build a venue that caters to Gypsies? You could make some bucks!

@@117Pinkyflower im sure its complicated. With permits, vendors and such not wanting to have business with them could be hard. Im sure there are ways to get around it but i dunno. I don't live in england to say for sure.

You for to mention assaulting minimum wage staff in catering. Another reason to get out of the catering business.

when you watch the show, you realise that they never feel responsible for anything they do wrong... they always play the victim card! so no it won't occur to them...

i would love to travel in one of those...just for a vacation.

Me as well

My Great Grandfather refused to stay in a “static home” in the early 1900’s. His wife & family lived indoors & Ned lived in his wagon on the hill outside.

Have you looked at a career in sociology or social science?

I know me to i think it's good to keep values weather they seem old fashioned or not I think outsiders would expect them more if they didn't have to fight at ever event I see how clean they keep their homes but the outside always seems so gross

That is no culture - just a gang that has survived by being thugs

Oh they are interesting.

I do as well

It’s not just blind prejudice.

@@leighcarlson87 no its not!!! They steal, they fight, they have no respect for anyone or anything!! How much experience have you had with travellers? The kids shit anywhere they want, LITERALLY. I had loads move in on an open area near me and their kids ran riot on people's garden, shit in the lifts of nearby flats which the elderly and mother's with babies and toddlers had to use to get to their flats, they were fighting with each other, throwing each others shoes over into people's gardens, pulling up their flowers and plants, they stole everything that wasn't nailed down and simply destroyed everything they could for no reason other than they could. The kids spat at us, swore at us even though we said and did nothing to them, local children were beaten up and when they were thankfully finally moved on, they left tons of rubbish strewn all over the open area. They were the most vile, disrespectful people I have ever seen in my life and yet they act like victims who are bullied and condemned just for their lifestyle and take zero responsibility asto why people close their businesses to them!! You and so many others on here are plain stupid and ignorant. They aren't these amazing, wonderful community of people, this isn't a glamorous, exciting lifestyle, its ravaged by sexual abuse on children, domestic violence on woman, no education for children, girls who are taught to clean a caravan all day, raise their siblibgs as "practice" for their own future children, there's "grabbing", they dress their toddler daughters like hookers and they dance like lap dancers so that they can meet a man and get married at 16 yrs old just for some excitement in their boring lives. Instead, they marry and their husbands bugger off out all day cheating with other women, ripping people off and drinking. Its a lonely life for a woman whilst the unskilled men that rip off elderly and vulnerable doing piss poor, unnecessary work on roofs, tarmacing etc they don't pay taxes, they don't pay bills, they don't pay for anything and rip off honest hardworking businesses and steal from shops!! Do your research before you label those that KNOW the truth as ignorant because the only one that's ignorant and blind is YOU!!

Lol I'll explain why. I run a party business where I do candy carts, seat covers, centre pieces,back drops etc for occasions. I did a traveller one thar was booked over the Internet and wasn't aware until the day. I went ahead because I could not leave them with nothing. The next morning I went to collect my things and the candy cart had been smashed up, the centre pieces all stolen and the white linen all ruined. Don't get me started on my husband. He runs an electric gate company and has ALWAYS done work for travellers... however over the last few years he's had to stop due to non payments, threats, them purposefully breaking the motors etc to get out of paying. Some of his good friends are travellers but they are not all good and they like to try intimidate and bully.

You said it....I can go on about that but I am going to leave it alone

People of every race or sort have "bad eggs" or ppl that make their community look bad. Its not any different w Gypsies. No one community is perfect or right.

That's a massive "If", you know there is there is going to be trouble...... There always is. Someone turns up, someone has an axe to grind then there is a fight, the staff are abused, the bathroom are smashed and the next morning they are nowhere to be seen.

I think they look cheap AF & incredibly itchy. Very skilled dress makers but those designs & Chinese fabric are hideous.

​@Georgina OHara 100% the dresses are very well made but they are horrendous and so tacky.

@@pkk639 I’d love to see a creation of Thelma’s but with beautiful, quality fabrics. Very talented team but crikey it’s wasted on these. Wishing you a blessed weekend when it arrives ✌🏻

@@georginaohara42some fabrics arent chinese made as they had to use REAL FOX FUR for one dress.

Beautiful?!? r u kidding?!

How pathetic that they cannot start a fire and cook beans potatoes and sausage on a cast iron skillet.

I was thinking why didn't he bring a packed lunch.

@@Gigi0408 I was thinking why didn't he bring his mommy to wipe his bombom

That doesn't sound so bad you should hear about their other antics

Travellers are stupid that way. They expect everyone to both make themselves available And drop everything at a moment's notice. Delusions of grandeur

She's condescending Lol

Gypsies r a nightmare!! It's not bigoted. My personal experience has been terrible, they've got a bad rep 4 a reason!!

I got the same vibe

Yeah that got that indigo girl thing going on

Legit came into the comment section to see if anybody else saw it, ma’am was a bit fruity for her bestie. It’s very sad when you think about it bc obviously y queer people aren’t accepted at all in their community

arent they cousins? 25:14 thelma says “they’re not just cousins they’re best friends as well”

You forgot that they assault hotel staff too.

@@anthonyhassett wtf

Uhmmmm you probably missed something there...

If she’s still your best friend? Dance with her the next time you see her, seize the moment & make memories.

It wasn’t for nothing. She got paid. Not too many people noticed but the mother took all the dresses AND the underskirts so they could dress everybody themselves. There’s no way Thelma let all the dresses and underthings out of her shop unless she was paid in full. Gypsy’s are dishonest and Thelma’s a smart woman so trust me, she got paid.

@@MiffetBlue not all gypsies are dishonest.

@@MiffetBlue the money I was talking about was the hotel and plane tickets. She was supposed to go help dress the bride

@@lacyhay9022 Ah, gotcha. Allowing Thelma to book tickets and hotel rooms knowing full well it was for the wrong day is dishonest and deplorable but I’ll retract my original statement that all gypsy’s are dishonest. I spoke in haste. :)

@@MiffetBlue I appreciate your honesty. May the good Lord bless you 🙏

So who do you think is being abusive to the horses at Appleby fair if it's not the gypsies?

What’s the difference between travelers and gypsies?

Very well put

How do you suggest you change the "group think" or culture of 30 generations that resists change? I mean in 4 generations my family have gone from farm labourers to university graduates with no state assistance. How do you propose to change traveller culture with extra social welfare, grinds, easy access, free fees and top ups..... And they still can't make it work.

@@anthonyhassett i suppose the difference between your family and gypsie is that the aspects mentioned above are their culture and traditions, much harder to break. I believe that they are very determined to stick to their culture and traditions as it is dying out, they want to preserve it. I certainly dont propose more state assistance, if I’m being honest i think its ridiculous how they dont pay even council tax, however i do think perhaps more stricter regulations on how their schooling is managed. I assume that they take them out of school under the pretences that they are to be homeschooled, however we both know that doesn’t occur. If they were more or less forced to stay in school I would like to think that it may help. Perhaps now that social media is now so vast that even may help, help them see the outside world, communicate with people. However i simply do not know, as someone in the final year of a law degree i can only really suggest tighter laws lol

@@mia-mf5xt there is also the other aspect, is it fair on settled children to have the burden of traveller children in a classroom. I mean they are not encouraged from at home (most important), there is no homework or preparation done. So why go to school or even finish it if there is no vision for the future?

@@anthonyhassett I understand however that would massively go against the Equality Act, which was created due to HRA art 14, due to the ECHR. Although we’re not part of European convention anymore I highly doubt that this would change as it’s an integral legislative piece, if we’re tryna to think realistically, I think best shot is tighter restrictions on schooling

What rights do they not have?

They don’t have the right to do what they do to women. When they follow the law, they’ll be accepted

You don't have the right to go down the motor way in a horse and cart that is dangerous.

@@angussneef grow up.

@@angussneef they haven't followed the law of the land or god for 30 generations, what makes you think they will start anytime soon. But aren't they great to cry discrimination when they get refused entry to the Garda college?

I would imagine it's because they travel around often

They would wreck it. They only like to ruin other people's properties.

@@pigeon51 well if the Gypsies were the ones buying it they would be wrecking their own property that was my point, nobody would mind.

It might be hard to get anyone to sell them the land and grant them building permits.

@@ttintagel true, I hadn’t thought of that.

Dog breading as in dipped in flour, then egg, then bread crumbs and fried...hmmmm I suspect you mean breeding...

This is a repeat. Maybe I'm wrong and just saw this on another channel...

@@VladmirPoopN it is a repeat. Her & her family screw Thelma over. Sad but true.

This show has been over for years …

I would have at least just dropped the dresses off and said find someone else to help you dress on the day.

very little truth, but also black ppl have a similar reputation but you cant judge all of them for it

@@montanawebb846 it's called a sense of intuition, it's a basic part of psychology.

@@ttintagel Thelma works to near impossible timelines, like booking to delivery of three weeks which is really two weeks when you take consultation, assembly into consideration. The bride would have to go to a charity shop to buy off the shelf and have it altered. Total abuse of the shop and Thelma.

See the Ballinasloe horse festival this week. No pubs or catering venues are open. What does that tell you?

Come over next year to Ireland to the horse fair in Ballinasloe and you can get the live show. Shure, myself and the wife will put you up for the week.

Gypsies get treated like that because they have a history......

Get treated like what?

Those horses that aren't stabled? Never seen a vet or farrier ? Used for Sulkie racing on the open roads? Those horses?

@@anthonyhassett my heart goes out to those poor animals. They look unhappy. Even those little dogs who run around the yards. Well let’s be honest, they breed like rabbits themselves so those dogs aren’t never getting nurtured .

Yeah if u want 2 look like a meringue!!

And it's funny

And drama! dont froget drama we love drama haha

Sit and do nothing that's the whole point she has the kids can't get her long talons messed up can she..

Do you mean, what do they do when the oldest girl gets married and moves out? I expect the work goes to the next-oldest. Same thing that happens in Quiverfull families in the U.S.

Making more little travelers on the flat of her back

she didn't drive 2 hours she got lost she only drove 10 mi but she couldn't find them cuz she wasn't going down the right road

I was thinking he knew it was a two week trip… he didn’t think of snacks???

Are you sure on that? Irish travellers are 60 times more likely to have a criminal record than average Irish citizens.

he obviously charmed you, probably has a criminal record as long as your arm.

@elizabethhansen6984 Did this migrant workers presented themself as an ethnic group? Called themselves as a group in particular name?

Yeah after a plasterer applied the make up

Yeah if u like the tango look!!

Who’s Violet and why is she poor..?

@@eleftherialouizalagoudaki9027 watch it.

In theory, yes. In practice they would have to declare tax and deal with banking. Most are at best illiterate. You also need to be of good character to either hold or apply for a liqour lisence. Then you have to apply for planning permission for a venue......locals won't allow that because of the trouble it draws. Worse than that travellers have bad credit histories. Totally undesirable in an area

Yeah, I also think that American weddings wouldn't be so extravagant if there were more opportunities for people to get dressed up and push the boat out every now and then.

Nah traveller girls love that gammon meat. This is why they are mad to be riding as soon as possible

So what is your plan to turn around their 30 generation history and reputation?

Fighting, smashing stuff up, not paying, stealing... The list is endless.

@@kathykitchen3316 exactly. And they cry discrimination.

The few? You need to check your numbers. You are far out 80% of traveller males over 22 years old have criminal records.

You are responsible for your own individual actions. Assaulting venue staff and destroying a venue ensures you will never get service again.