My mother in law had passed away before I got married. I remember, when I got married and came to my in laws place, my father in law told me.. Don't worry, my son knows everything. He will help you and manage and slowly you can learn. In fact in my saaga maccha ritual which is like bahu has to cook for the first time in the in laws home and feed others.. My husband was in the kitchen cooking on behalf of me and none of his relatives objected or exchanged weird looks. So, such families exist but yes they are rare and I'm happy and blessed to have such a beautiful and rare family in my life. Thank you God.
May God bless you and your family. Special kudos to your father in law. Please convey my regards for raising such a wonderful son. Hope you will pass on the same values ahead. Whether it is a girl or a boy, household work means work of everyone in the house.
Are you feeling proud or feeling ashamed, my mom trained her sons to do house hold work, we girls enjoyed, working together. Thank my mom, we all feel proud of her.
@@sandhyabhadri1132 I feel upset doing household chores alone. I also want my brother to help me or at least do some small household chores. But my mom never agrees in making him work.
@@Crystal-mx4gr she will be angry when she comes to know that her son is doing all the chores after marriage. So it's better to make a habit of that now.
I would say I am lucky my husband helps in house chores and serving to the guest including family. We distribute our work as per our schedule so that we can have quality time together
I would say don't call yourself lucky and give him brownie points for doing something that is his duty. He is doing what a sane adult would do irrespective of their gender.
In India.. mothers advice their sons tk get married so that "ek ghar sambhalne wali aa jaegi"..... My cousin brothers have lost both parents two years back..... Dono bhaiii aawaron ko tarh rhete hai..... My mother(their bua).... She always says ki jaldi se shadi krlo... Ek Ghar sambhalne wale ki zaroorat hai .... I am like... Wtf.... Do Jawan ladke h ghr Mei... Isn't two people enough to manage home??? But wait.... Not two people... Two boys are there...... And they are dependant on women to look after their stupid household so that they can enjoy life..... While on the other hand my cousin sister had been living in PG for past four years.... Wo apna saara kaam khud krti thi... Saara..... I have seen both scenarios..... Women living alone independently... And men living alone... Still seeking wives to manage homes
Yes, see man needs women for " ghar chalana" and still there are many who believe women is "abla" They dont know what they are saying, people should know exact meaning of equality Great efforts from this video to make people understand, its not sort of blaming, just learning and understanding to get better life...
This video is a message to those people who think, if a guy is doing the housechores after marriage, then that guy became henpecked. I fall in love with your thoughts, your contents. Because #WhyNot
In our house, both my daughter and son were taught to do the house hold chores. There's no shame in helping your spouse in managing the house. Very good video.
Your video is an eye opener to all those mothers who think that their sons should never do household chores & its only the duty of daughters & daughter in laws to look after it. Hope if not all but a few will understand this fact after seeing your video & teach their sons right from beginning to do household chores & respect women for what they for their family. Great fan of you guys.
Respect for everyone is fine now a days both do the work not only women so yes plus many do respect its not 1920s anymore though we respect our mothers work for the family
My Mother in law have trained her sons in all household chores. Before my marriage, When my parents told to my mother in law that our daughter don't know cooking, then she said but my son can cook, So don't worry he will provide training to her. Her these words made me fan of her.
Yes.. Equality begins at home and I will definitely teach my son to do house hold chores but still in India educated people think men shouldn't do any household chores.
No it's not. It depends on how you are brought up. My brother- in- law always like to cook whenever he visits. My father-in-law always helps my mother-in-law by assisting in kitchen. My husband always helps me. But in my house my brothers have prejudice because my mother brought them up this way but now she is understood that this is a big problem. And m trying to rectify my younger brother atleast as he sometimes visits me and my husband draws him in to few tasks 😉.
I wish every mother-in-law could behave like her. Women, especially working women need this kind of support from husband and their family. Love this video. Keep making such videos. Good job!
True... But in reality still man is unable to handle any responsibility but get married and produce kids.. Still I see my mom and my female friends doing both work houshold and ofc.. Pls man treat female too as human.. They too need rest
@@vishalmanchandani6587wow! What a horrible thinking…small people have small thinking and this comment shows who you are! How about men learn to take care of half of the housework and split home responsibilities, rather than suggesting pick easier work, etc. In what country work with less responsibility exist that will allow professional growth? By adopting western food and fashion does not make Indians progressive, it’s the thinking that does and this backward thinking will not make India progressive for another 100 years!
Huge fan of yours. My husband is really supportive and helps me a lot in household work however even our elders and our youngers too sometimes make us feel that I am at fault if he takes equal responsibility at home. I encourage both my kids irrespective of gender to be equal participants as per their age appropriate chores. Afterall we can change the society when started from our home. Hope this video reaches all those people.
That's great! But one correction, husband doesn't 'help' you in household work, he just does his share of household work, by saying he 'helped' we already subconsciously instill the idea the the main responsibility of household chores falls on woman
Beautifully said. Everytime my subconscious says my husband helps me, I correct myself and says he does work. Although I am extremely grateful to God for supporting husband and in-laws, but I keep training my subconscious not to be absolutely obliged and stuff like that and let my son learn that it takes both the parents for household chores and office. Nothing in our home is gender biased and I am extremely grateful to God that I never had to fight for this.
These guys never fails to surprise & shock the viewers.. keep it up guys... Ya it's a gud message for the society that men can do work and never fell awkward to do the same in front of their parents
My mother in law was like this my brother in law and sis in law"s couldn't see she treated me like daughter they devastated everything I still follow my m-i-l values 🙏
It does happen. My mom was such a MIL , and all my brothers & nephews know and do cooking, cleaning, washing, every other household chore to share their respective working wives.. My husband who doesn't know proper cooking (nor has inclination) helps in other household chores, my father in law used to chop vegetables ( MIL is a home maker), and My BIL is actually fond of cooking and does that on daily basis and shares other works with my teacher SIL... All share work even in front of guests..
This is really a very nice video. Husband and wife should share work equally and home. This brings satisfaction in doing their share of job and relationships also stay in good place. I like aunty she is such a perfect actress and people like this in a family inspire. Anyways lovely series 🥰❤️👏👏
Truly great content. I am very fortunate that my in-laws have raised their son right. I feel blessed because growing up I saw my dad help mom with household chores though he did not manage to learn cooking per se. Now my husband not only helps me with chores he is also a great cook & a very hands-on father! 🙏🏼
Good one.. both son or daughter should know basic house hold work to maange themself. Things are changing .. I could see girls proud ly saying "I don't know to cook" and boys saying "I know to cook well"
Wonderful portrayal of the hidden requirements of our hindu society , this gender difference is the core problem of our society which every working nd non working girl faces , congratulations to the whole team of the movie how simply they conveyed everything 👍
Very nice ... Everybody talks about change when it comes to their daughter n when it comes to sons.. They follow the same thing which they didn't like themselves in their... People need to understand that when we change ourselves then our society will change.. Excellent message .. Keep up the good work people.
Good one. In these modern times, both spouses pursue their respective careers, either by choice or by compulsion of high cost of living in cities. So, both boys & girls should learn key life skills like cooking n cleaning, and other domestic chores. Then they can assist their parents with household chores, and after marriage too they can run their houshold smoothly with their spouse. Both spouses should share the responsibility of running the family, incl raising their kids.
Getting money and doing household chores are both men and women jobs great message great job life tak hats off to the life tak team for normalizing and speaking and confronting this topic
I'm really happy that my mother and father have always told my brother to do household chores and help in doing work at home. Because it's a big problem in society nowadays but slowly and steadily our generation is changing.
Feels like a dream. Never going to happen in my case, coz I have a coward husband who is a parents puppet (I should be saying Puppy), and in-laws are just a piece of shiiit who hurt my kid, had it been US I should have sent them behind the bars for hurting a kid. Anyways I could get away from such awful people and atmosphere. Let them tell entire world that I am a bad daughter-in-law. Who cares. I need my peace of mind and I have it now 🙏
I was blessed with an amazing mother-in-law who is no more today but she was a mother to me so I called her in Konkani as Mai meaning mom ,so love my mai till we meet again may her loving soul rest in peace.
Today I have taught both my fatherless son's to be good hubby's to their wives god willing when they settle down,my eldest son is an amazing chef he learnt to cook on his own.
Because my husband always helped me, today we are what we are! I am proud to be a team. He is my best partener. Every one should do house chores, no shame in that. It shows you care for your spouse.
I am proud mother can say that my sons who do give a helping hand , earlier they helped me, now they help their life partners, they are good at cooking too.
Wow it is very nice concept my husband also do the same when anyone comes he don't do any help and he feels shame about it specially infront of my MIL ....change should begin
Always awesome, what a tasty dinner after this beautiful thought, Mom's should ask our Dad's for help in the home so that the boys can learn & follow suit. ☺
Then in this content hats off to my parents coz they taught my brothers to treat a sister as a sister and a wife as a wife and not like their slaves or maid. They help equally. ❤
In the present Era, its infact interesting if both are working for earning as well as both are doing household. It gives equal importance to your better half, as well you spend some quality time talking to each other, knowing each other food choice etc too. In fact usually every Sunday I like to make Morning Tea for my better half.
That's so true one day i told my husband to serve me food and she was like are beta ye to aurto ke kam hote hai admiyo ke thodi tab se i felt she is my mother in law not actual mother yeah so its the reality of the story
Meri chachi ka sirf ek hi beta hai aur unhone apne bete ko saare ghar ke kaam sikhayi hai aur vo bolti bhi hai mere bhai ko ki tum aur tumhari future wife mil ke saare kaam karaoge. Mujhe pata hai vo bohot achi mother in law banegi 😌
Same as my mother in law mein aati baad mein hoon office se , ye kam krle wo krle, mera phn pkda de , apne pti ko dekh le , yar pehle mein to kuch khaa loo, pani bhi ni peene dete,
Very good msg 🙌 I wish Her Educated couple jo ek dusre ko financially support krte hai unko same attention milni chahiye mutual understanding me family ko issue kyu hota hai 🙄Live & let live 🙏
I wish to get a husband & mother in law like them. 🤭 We women literally feel like slaves in our house...even if you are earning equally household work is only your responsibility..not fair n..Wives are your life partners..not maids..why people dont understand this🥺
Loved the video and message. Yes still there are many homes where wives work alone and husbands don't contribute at all. Yes definitely all husbands should share the load, then life would be much easier for wives
It's responsibility of both partners. Many a times now a days males feel they are helping wife..but it's just sharing responsibility... especially if females are office going.
I wish such soch occurred when I was married in a so called joint family How I wish # why not existed in 1988 But now I will bring this change in my family Infact I have started to bring changes already.Thank you# why not
Awesome video. Very good and positive approach towards household chores. Keep getting more such best videos. I like shivan's acting a lot. And of course others.
Being husband or wife but for work doesn't have any gender discrimination.after all the best way is helping eachother in the family the love and affection improves exponentially. Looking forward to watch like this family members issues how they are addressed by the elders for the sake of the present generation 👍
Bht badiaa mtlb apki story mtlb ya Puri vd bht achi lgi kafi psnd ayi acha lga jaankr ki ap is vd k through ek soch ko change krne ki koshish kri ha aj k time m jitna ghr ka km ldkiyon ko ana chhya utnaaa hi same ldkon ko bhi ana chhya or usm km ko krta hua koi shrm ki bt mtlb feel nh hona chhya...😊well done guyzz ....nice story 👍👍👍
I don't understand... If women are comfortable in earning money... Going to office.. working late hours.... Then why isn't men not comfortable in doing household chores...??? If electricity bill is shared among two.. then why can't preparing two meals of day???? That's because "purush satta" is too rigid in the society.... Men fear to come out of their comfort zones coz they fear that the world they have created for women can reconcile and cause harm to them ....
My wife does not allows me to work in home, I m not allowed in the kitchen . She has strictly said. The house may be mine , but home belongs to her . And yes my wife quit her well paying job for us after marrige and yes mine is an arranged marrige
M simply n love with dis chnl bcz dey portrays real life issues.... Specially I like Shivan & Mana a lot for der wonderful craft and chemistry.... Yup,der Shud not be any damn shame or embarrassment in doing housework,helping family members or ur partner.... It Shud be out of love.... But shudnt be mistaken as pottering.... LOL from Neelanjanaa.... U guys Rock....!!🤘💖
