Emily is to Lorelai what Lorelai is to Jess and as soon as Emily got on Lorelai’s case she should have realized oh shit this is what Jess must be feeling only magnified by an entire town of people, but no she says to herself I’ve gone this far so I might as well just keeping on going instead of apologizing to Luke and Jess and quite frankly Rory for driving away her only other friend besides Lane.
I recently remembered that Jess actually has a pretty evil arc. You will (hopefully and judging from your previous reactions) be disgusted. Lorelai is actually right except he wouldn’t treat Rory like she’s afraid he will, just other girls 😒