I’m a 78 year old woman that loves your channel. I have a granddaughter around your age, I think it helps me connect with her on a wonderful level. Thank you. You are a very remarkable young woman.
I am a 70 year old who also enjoys your channel! You have handled all this very respectfully to yourself and your ex. It’s good to see you moving on but remember it’s ok to have tough times, too.
Awww...Linda...this is the sweetest comment & totally agree. I am 71 and love Michel too. I don't have any grandkids...but think she gives awesome advice. You & I didn't have social media when we were young...I know it can be bad. However, people like Michel make is so fun & helpful.
I'm also in my mid 70's and was born with Celiac! They actually knew what it was even back when. GF foods were nearly non existent. I found you on a search for Celiac. As a bonus to finding your channel you have your degree in nutrition. You are a delight. My granddaughters are close in age to you! Your topics, style, and genuine instilled values appeal to a wide range of ages!
I hope this doesn’t come out wrong because I mean it in the best way…I have noticed since your divorce you seem lighter, freer, more open, more genuine and like you’re finally being yourself. I can’t put my finger on it exactly but it’s awesome to see.
That's what happens when you free yourself from the wrong person :) You begin to become your true and complete self. This is the reason why it is important to be careful about who you choose to be with
I feel like I don’t have enough girlfriends so I’m loving these girl chat videos! So nice to have these important discussions with such a good community of people. Thank you Michel, love from Canada 💕
I’m glad I’m not alone on this. After I got married, I drifted apart from my girl friends. Michel feels like a friend now that I watch all her videos 🥺
same here!! anti social/awkward girl crew here haha 🙋🏼♀️ i feel like this channel brings a community of women together. it’s hard to find healthy friendships these days and this channel seems like such a safe place to share ideas, learn frm and support each other 💖
To the person with the cheated on question - If he'll do it with her, he'll do it to her. Move on and focus on something else, you can't change him and you can't help her. Focus on your own happiness.
I agree. I quickly got to the point where I was very grateful that he chose her over me and got out of my life. I was unable, or perhaps unwilling, to see the real him and, to my detriment, I would have stayed if it had been my choice. So they did me a favor.
Cheating really reflects on the cheater, not the faithful partner. If he cheats on you, he will cheat on anyone. He does not understand the strength of loyalty or the value of saving himself for his partner. He doesn't understand how his intense betrayal cuts worse than a knife. It sounds too simplistic, but he really doesn't deserve you. He did you a favor by showing his true self. Remind yourself that you deserve to be loved and cherished Beyond All Else (BAE) and don't settle for less.
Michel you have such a gentle soul absolutely blown away how you handle day to day situations and then do a well done Q&A. YOU HAVE SUCH AN UNBELIEVABLE STRENGTH SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
Hello Beautiful Michel! I’m seeing all of the comments from older women and it warms my heart! I’m 68 and have just fallen in love with you. I have a daughter in her 40s and a daughter in her 30s and you remind me so much of them. You are just precious. I know your parents are proud of the you. As someone who has been stuck in a not so pleasant marriage for 50 years, I appreciate that you’ve given hope to many young women and even men that you can’t always stay in a situation. You’ve been an amazing example of starting over and it can be done. You show so much grace and dignity. I appreciate your “older” followers!! They’ve given me the courage to comment. I’ve wanted to comment before but I thought, “what does a 68 year old woman have to offer a beautiful young lady like Michel”. From now on I’ll be willing to just offer support and a great big thank you for your videos!! Be blessed my Dear!!
Going thru a breakup and every time I’m starting to have a meltdown being home alone, I put on one of your videos. You feel like a friend who understands me. Thank you!
I turned your Channel onto my 28 yr old daughter who is currently going through a tough breakup with her boyfriend of 5yrs. Moving her into a new place, etc. You have been a Godsend. Thank you so much for your content, personality and you!
For anyone reading this, in response to voicing concerns about a friend’s partner, let me share my advice as someone who was in an abusive marriage (and had no red flag warnings from anyone before the marriage): I wish someone would have said something to me if they had suspicions or concerning observations about my spouse. Since I was being gaslit about my experiences, if someone outside the relationship had said something to me, it likely would have helped me regain some much needed perspective and felt less alone. So while I know the fear of offending a friend is a real one, you also might just be giving them a bit of hope and support that you didn’t even know they truly needed. Best wishes to all. ❤️🙏🏻
Unrelated but I like that you post videos more closely to when they were filmed now. I totally respect how organized you are and how much you plan ahead (sometimes out of necessity for brands), but it’s nice seeing stuff that’s still pretty up-to-date 😊
As for the cold feet, advice that really helped me navigate friendships is "who benefits from your benefit of the doubt? Others do. By doubting yourself you are choosing others over your intuition." This has helped me see things as face value and not make excuses for others' behaviors.
My mother told me when I was a teenager that waiting to have sex until I'm married is not realistic at this time in germany where I live but sex has an impact on you and power so to be careful with it and not give it lightly and I really like that advice😊 love this honest q&a Michel!
I’m so dang proud of you Michel! If I had a daughter, I’d want her to grow up to be just like you🥰 And don’t ever forget, infidelity is a reflection of the unfaithful one, not you! More than likely, history will repeat itself. I always look forward to your time with us! Super thankful for you🙏🏻💞
I agree, follow your gut! The best thing I did was call off my first engagement, it was also the hardest thing I ever did. Just know you don't have to explain your feelings to anyone! I also agree with saying "my ex" That is still how I refer to my ex-fiance, for very similar reasons.
Something I really am interested in seeing in your content is money talk! I miss when you did those. I’d love to know the actual numbers of divorce and what Austin bills are like. How much do you budget now that you’re single? What’s a good budget for a single person? I’m so curious!! 😫
Here is something that me and my husband came up with that maybe it might help with the would you do that relationship over again question.....we figured out that what we went through with those people in those relationships helped prepare us for the right relationship. Now is ours perfect, oh heck no. There are things about one another that drives the other crazy and with my health issues, it has added a lot of stress to our marriage. But, he is a good man and I know he loves us (me and our daughter) and there are not so nice people out there. So just remember, as rough as it might have been with your ex, that has prepared you for your future mate and how to handle that relationship differently. Much love
I loved this! I'm quite a bit older than you (49) but really enjoy your videos. Most of your topics in this one were about things far behind me now but you're so engaging that I stuck around anyway, lol. Reminds me of the girl chats I used to have with my gf's. You're a strong, smart and beautiful young woman and I truly believe that your best life started the day you made that trip back to Texas. Btw.... just got my order of Seed in the mail today because of your recommendations. Have been looking for a good probiotic and an excited to get started with it.
Also, the diva cup (or any cup in general) is life changing. I literally forget I’m on my period. I just empty it once a day in the shower! So much cleaner/more sanitary than tampon strings or pads in my opinion. Definitely recommend trying.
I think you hinted at being cheated on by your ex and I just wanted to say that I LOVE you and that you do not deserve that. Getting “over” something like that takes time. You are grieving as well as feeling betrayed. Girly, you’re doing what you can. You’re doing your best. And we all support you. One day, God will bless you with the most perfect partner to satisfy every need and wish and desire you’ve had and fill every hole that your last relationships have left. In the meantime, I am so proud of you for finding fulfillment in yourself. You’ve got this!
Hey. I just found your channel from your video talking about your divorce (I'm a recently-divorced Christian) and this is my second video of yours I'm watching. I subscribed right away and wish we could be "physical" friends as well as "virtual" friends because I love your demeanor 😊 God bless you, sister! All the best to both of us in our healing journey
I, speaking for self, found it more helpful to healing from a broken relationship to make a clean break from people that are related or friends with my ex….. it hurts to have to lose friends in the process but for me it just kept reopening the old “chapter “ every time I would see them.
You don’t talk to much! I love watching all of your videos :) I’m newly married and in a different life stage compared to you, but I love just watching you heal and grow and be true!
I loved my diva cup (currently pregnant so haven’t touched mine in months) When you’re comfortable, definitely try it and please let us know your thoughts! It saves so much money and unnecessary waste for our planet! Love your channel!
I'm a diva cup user and would recommend them forever! Its a steep learning curve and you have to get familiar with your body but I find my period is a lot more manageable, less crampy. Also trim the stem on a diva cup! They make them long so they fit the most people, but they don't fit everyone and its 100% okay to trim the stem.
New subscriber from Mexico! Just found you yesterday and been binged watching your videos. Really enjoyed them. Not trying to be disrespectful but you seem much more happier and light and free in your videos after your divorce.
The first two weeks of my marriage were wonderful. Long walks, holding hands, Berry picking...wild black berries. Cuddles and love. Then it all came to a screeching hault. Imagine being told to sit in a kitchen chair, not allowed to get up or speak...while he rants and raves, on and on about everything under the sun. From 4pm often until 4am...yelling, shouting calling you every dirty name he can think of. Mind you I grew up in the Christian faith, both parents loving christians, my first real relationship with a man, giving my heart to God at the tender age of 9...and spending my life growing in the Lord. Yup met him in church. Becoming sick after 3 months...with the worst case of herpies they ( the doctors ever saw). Having him leave me in the hospital...yes on returning home he would not let me in. It was awful...heartbreaking and oh so painful. I had to stuff my mouth with a hand towel to muffle the screams, when using the bathroom. Yes he gave it to me on purpose..so no other man would ever want me. Gals 2 years is not enough to know the man your going to marry. He hid so much...that if I had known I would never in a million years, have married him. And that is just the tip of the iceburg. When in doubt don't do it! I should have paid attention to my doubts. Oh the windows were also covered at all times...not allowed to look out as I might lust after some other man...back at home recuperating. I stood at the window, watching it rain. Tears flowing because it was so good to see outside. Sigh!
Reusable pads are actually super comfy! I totally recommend. Yeah, you gotta ring them out with water after but it’s comfier than a normal pad and then you just throw them in the wash. I just got mine on Amazon.
For menstrual cup, 10/10 recommend them! I absolutely love mine. It is very hands on and there is a trial and error associated with it with the size and brand etc. But it’s awesome just using it and not having to worry about it until shower time. Definitely look into it.
The question was from someone else. She’s never came out and said it specifically that I have heard, but she has kinda talked around it to where you can put it together. I know she’s avoided coming out and just telling the story trying to be respectful to every one it involves and herself. But , it is part of the reason, I believe, she is trying to avoid some social media.
Love menstrual cups! They are a lot more comfortable than tampons, but are a bit messier so it's good for home use as you get started. They hold a lot more so you don't need to change as often! Also great for light days because you can just keep it in for 12 hours. I have used the Diva and June cup and prefer the June cup shape.
How does this work for young teens that have started their cycle? Any advice for someone who has never used a cup before? I had a full hysterectomy a few years ago and prior to that just used tampons but it seems like there are so many other options available now! I’m trying to help out my 12 yo daughter that been having her cycles a few months ago.
@@aliciamartens125 It just takes practice! You can put it in even without having your period (it could be a bit more challenging because it might be drier down there) so you're ready to go when it comes. And in my opinion, after a few months it gets to be a lot more natural.
I love these videos. Thank you! For period products, I have been loving my Thinx underwear! I started using them about 8 months ago and can't imagine going back!
I’ve always wondered this about period underwear so hopefully this isn’t too TMI to answer: do you have to do laundry everyday when you’re on your period then? I would love to try to period underwear but worried it could get kinda gross unless I wash it right away?
@@2cwn2 I try to wash mine soonish but they can go a few days before washing (they’re really absorbent and sort of dry out once you take them off). I think rinsing them out after wearing is a good middle ground between having to do laundry every day.
I have been LOVING these chatty videos. You have seemed to really change for the better these past few, difficult months and as a random stranger on the internet I just want to say how proud I am of you, and that you should be EXTREMELY proud of yourself. I love that you’ve felt empowered doing everything you’ve been doing alone. And I love your chattiness, I’m the same way so I totally vibe with your answers to these and when you start rapid fire I’m like noooo tell me more 😂😂. You’re such an inspiration.
I have loved watching your videos for a while now but I am loving watching you in this new season of your life. I can see such a change in you and really feel that you are blooming and seem much more comfortable in your skin ❤ thank uou for putting so much hard work into your channel and sharing so much fab content with us x
I have been using a cup for years and really enjoy it! I have a Diva Cup and the June cup both are great, and I like the June cup better. The first couple of months are a learning curve as you get used to inserting and taking it out. It's so easy. I would definitely recommend having two for when you're out in public and have to change the cup. You can wear it for hours and not worry about leaks if you have a good seal. Always break the seal before taking out the cup. If you don't, it's harder.
You are seriously the cutest person I’ve ever seen! So sweet and thoughtful, I’m sorry you’ve gone through what you have, but you’re very strong and I can see that God is taking your mess and turning it into a message.
I love how you talk about pads and tampons. And I agree with you about the marriage stuff and moving in with a partner. It’s important to have the tough conversations early on.
These chats are my favorite! Love openness like this 🤗🥰 never would’ve known it was a rainy day, you always do such a good job with your lighting Michel! Girllllll such a good tip on not boxing yourself into a style type. Haha and totally agree on the pet peeve suggestion - however, know that new pet peeves may develop over time as we grow and get more comfy with whomever we live with 😂 these can end up being quite different than pet peeves with family members or friends lol communication is key for sure! Love your outlook on cosmetic surgeries/enhancements, couldn’t agree more! At this rate I don’t think you’ll ever need Botox lol your skin is flawless (and wrinkleless lol) 🥰 Could you please share more skincare tips in upcoming vlogs?! 😫🙏 25 hit and my fine lines are setting in 😭🤣
I cannot recommend the Flex Disc enough !!! It’s so amazing and comfortable. Look into how it’s different from the menstrual cups too. I’ve learned so much about my body from it, it’s really cool. Lol I sound like an ad, but I seriously cannot recommend it enough.
For a future video: are there any specific questions you wished you asked in engagement with your ex? I feel like I'm on cloud nine with how well we fit together in values and faith, but I don't want to be foolish in assuming every day is going to be easy. We both want to set ourselves up for a solid newlywed life.
I love these chatty girl vlogs! Gives me a sense of girl time I don't really get being a texas country girl living in an Itty bitty town. Thanks for the time you spend with us! As soon as a video pops up I get excited and it's like getting a video message from a friend I've known personally. Thanks for being so real and being a friend 🤗
I love my diva cup and just started venturing to menstrual disks! It’s a learning curve but I love it! I don’t have to think about my period like all day!
@@Iris-gy2mi it’s amazing, if tried it only 2x, as I had 2 disposable ones that came with my saalt cup! They have reusable ones too that I’m going to buy. Harder to put in and tell if it’s in correct, but empties itself when you pee, so you can wear it all day!
The Diva Cup is AMAZING! I am NEVER going back to pads or tampons. It was a hard adjustment (maybe just me), on how to insert/take out but once you get it down, its so worth it. It doesnt smell and I typically take out/put in every shower! I shower everyday and I know this might be different depending on your flow. I cant STOP raving about a mensural cup! To clean, I boil in hot water every month :) I hope this helps SOMEONE!!
I don’t comment much but I’ve been following since you lived in the studio apartment and posted videos about wedding planning (which really helped me so thank you). But I appreciate your ability to be transparent about your experiences and emotions and being able to voice them so eloquently!! Also I have been using menstrual cups for years now and precious star vlogs was so helpful! She has multiple reviews on different brands of menstrual cups. I will usually keep it in for up to 12 hours since it is made on silicone and will not cause toxic shock syndrome. Just needs to be boiled in hot water to be disinfected. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!!
I’ve been using my diva cup for the last six months and I love it never going back to pads or tampons. It literally for me feels like I’m not even on my period. Game changer…
Thanks for the video! You mentioned knowing that you'll have to deal with not feeling loved, or "touched," or respected in a future relationship, but I hope you have the opposite experience, and have a happy relationship that doesn't force you to compromise your self-esteem and self worth. No one should have to do that. You're doing a great job keeping your chin up! :) Good luck! 🍀
Love you and how real and authentic you are with your chats. I think you do an amazing job and I usually feel like I learned about something new, be it about a product or a life lesson. Keep rockin it girl!
Those pads are LIFE. I started my period probably a decade ago while traveling, ran into a drug store and grabbed them- and haven't looked back since. Now they offer chlorine-free, pure cotton ones. I supplement with period panties and reusable overnight pads, but those are still definitely my go-to when on the road.
I'm a huge fan of menstrual cups! The best one for my body shape is one of the ogs, the diva cup. The more rigid material is easier for me to manage. Definitely a learning curve though so I'd be prepared for leaks when first starting!
I love these types of videos! I do a lot of driving for work so it's really nice to listen to. Also, I love mighty patches! They work really well for me!
I just want to say you’re glowing in this video. I’ve been following your channel for awhile and have always enjoyed your vlogs. You give such loving and supportive advice and have such a patient and grounded energy that has always gravitated me towards your videos. Please keep making content because I(and probably other people in the community) look up to you like a big sister:)
I agree with sitting down and discussing pet peeves. Before we got engaged my husband and I sat down and had a list of things that typically cause break ups and discussed all of them. Things like money, pets, kids, housing, etc. Got all of it out in the open before things got too serious. Also, I love my menstrual cups! It took a bit to find one I like, but once I found it I was in love. I don't even mind getting my period as much anymore. Diva, Cora, and Flex cups are easy to find at Target and it definitely saves me money every month.
I am so thankful for you! I hope you know how much you really mean to your RU-vid family. I know we’ve never met but I always feel like you are just sitting talking to your best friend.
I switched to menstrual cups years ago, and will never ever ever go back! I’m always recommending them. I’ve tried the diva cup and the dot cup. I liked both, but I prefer the dot cup - slightly less rigid, black in color, so it doesn’t stain, a solid stem (easier to clean), the *cutest* bag, and the company donates cups to women in need. Cups are just the best - better for the environment, better for your wallet, more comfortable, no smell, and you don’t need to change them nearly as often as disposable products. I change mine morning and night.
Totally agree about listening to your loved ones when they mention red flags! My ex’s dad told me his son was a pathological liar - yikes In terms of the in laws getting too involved with wedding planning - I think decisions belong to the two people getting married. It’s not appropriate for in laws, parents, etc. to offer money and then want to dictate decisions
Thank you for talking about these topics. I loved the lighting, felt like sitting next to a best friend 🥰 thank you reminding me of the value to follow my own gut. I love my menstrual cup, used it for over ten years. It takes a few cycles to get used to but it was completely worth it. Don’t apologize for talking a lot, I’m talking right back at you but you can’t hear me 😍🌺 I appreciate you very very much ♥️
I think this is been one of my favorite vlogs. I love your genuinity and your authenticity and the fact that you feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable with us. Love you girl!
I just love your vlogs. I turn them on and get ready for the day. They bring me joy. Thank you... you are truely amazing . I would love to hear more about struggles in your past and what has helped you over come them.
Hey all, just a note that Midol is literally only extra strength Tylenol and a mild diuretic to make you pee so you don’t bloat. Midol can be expensive, but you can literally just use a generic Tylenol!
You are a joy to listen to you have come a long way and it was a very difficult situation for you but I think you are handling things so well, and I can see a great future ahead for you
Ooooo thanks for sharing about the heating pad. I was stuck in bed for a few hours and I had so many things I needed to get done. That would have been such a good thing to have on that day. Thanks again!
Love your honest heart! I think it would also be so fun to switch some of your old clothes and sell them at like a Plato’s Closet or similar and try some more feminine styles like you are wanting to try! I think you did a thrift version of this and it was so fun to see what you got in return😍
I've had a diva cup for four years now, and could never see me going back to traditional pads/tampons. I will say, the first two months I wore back up protection as it is a learning curve to get the right angle & fit. (You also have to be pretty comfortable with your body). No major leaks, but some minor ones. However, since the learning period (haha punny) it is so convenient and I honestly don't even know it's there. It is not messy, as you would think. I don't have to worry if I don't have additional feminine products when I'm going to be out for a long day,. The fact that it can stay in for up to 12 hours is a game changer. Clean it in the morning clean it at night. Plus the amount I've saved on pads and tampons, not to mention how clean my purse is also nice.
Thank you for sharing your experiences and your story, especially as a young Christian woman, because you absolutely are helping others. You help people feel not alone and that is so important! You 👏🏼 go 👏🏼 girl! On another note, not a fan of reusable pads, menstrual cups are pretty great, but I’ve enjoyed Thinx period pantries the most!
