I’m the crazy type too but if she didn’t know about me and my man lies oh yea ofc I’m boutta go after my man I’m crazy so that’s not a good idea but if he tells me about her and she still goes through with it I might not fight but boy ohh boy am I bout to have some words for her too‼️‼️😂
I disagree.... my brother was drugged at a party and this chick forced herself on him (her crazy self on got a few kisses because he was drugged) even though she knew he was married. He still ended up almost divorced even though he was the victim and he almost died from the drugs....There was a police report, hospital papers, and witnesses that all saw pretty much the same thing. Which is her following him around.... Imagine the movie Obsessed with Beyonce except worse. It's a case by case bases.
Many people cheat because they can. The opportunity presents itself and either the person isn't loyal and/or not committed mentally. Everything could be right in a relationship and the individual would still cheat.
It's just easier to break things off prior. Cowards, the juvenile and immature individuals cheat, hoping you will get a clue. Their reason is "sparing" the drama when it's really testing waters.
It’s real cowardly the cheating does nothing but create unnecessary pain and hurt, when you can just be upfront and honest. I think many situations could’ve ended wayyyyy better if the cheating was replaced with honest communication before hand.
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Adrienne always has a “friend”. Y’all remember back when Adrienne said she didn’t want Lenny to be friends with someone who was a cheater because he should be friends with people who “respects relationships and birds of a feather flock together”?? She said it made her uncomfortable. But for someone who feels uncomfortable about that she sure does have a lot of male friends who cheat.
I mean how Old was she when she said that, a lot of things happen in a day alone that makes a person change their mind about something, you can't hold that against her she changed her mind ain't nothing wrong with that
Innocentia Anele She was old enough, she said it on this show. And just know, that when Adrienne said that, around that same time, she was still talking about how she was the “cool chick” that her male friends would talk to about their ain’t shtt activities. This “I have a friend” thing is not new. So it’s not like she said one thing a long time ago, and then said one thing different YEARS later and we pounced on her. She says this all the time, so she was contradicting herself from the beginning. And also, why would she change her mind about something like that? That sounds like going backwards. Who would go from, “people who casually cheat and disrespect relationships make me uncomfortable” to “I have a lot of male friends who are like that and it doesn’t bother me at all anymore”? Her mindset before made more sense, especially being married now. She didn’t change her mind, she just didn’t mean it when she said she didn’t feel comfortable being friends with cheaters the first time. It’s not that serious though, I’m just pointing it out.
Anne Day Exactly I was waiting for somebody to say that I'm glad you pointed that out she don't have that many friends she's talking about herself and maybe close friends experiences but most of those experiences she's talking about or hers she's been through it lol
I totally agree with Loni. Your issue is with the man, not the other woman. The only time you should have an issue with the woman is if she was your friend or your family.
A man of high value can have mistress on the side as long as it doesn't come out and embarrass both of you in public. As long as he doesn't bring back diseases or pays money on the other female then let him have fun on the side because, if you want a high value man, the fact is you may have to share him if he's that way inclined to do so ;) It's not sexist or anything, just that men have a higher sex drive and if he is high value he literally has more options, men can have sex with other females without it meaning anything to us, females cheat emotionally. That's the difference ;)
The entire phrase is “curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back”. I still wanna meet her. Not to compare myself to her, but I think it answers some internal questions about myself. It’s an opportunity to learn.
Gail A. Yeah I thought it was really interesting, I came upon it when I read this article: thoughtcatalog.com/nico-lang/2013/09/31-famous-quotations-youve-been-getting-wrong/ you may want to check it out if you’re interested.
if you’re deciding to stay w that dog, then u have to decide whether you’re going to believe him or not. if u can’t believe him, then that ain’t a good sign and u gotta go.
As a military spouse we all lean on each other's husband's to help fix stuff when our own husband's are deployed etc. BUT we contact the wife and ask HER for her husband's help... Don't ever contact the husband and have no regard for his wife. That's so rude.
Your husband will tell you whatever he wants you to know, it doesn't matter if you trust him or not. The bible instructs us to trust no man, but to put our trust only in God.
If you can't trust your husband, then why would you be with him? When two become one, you're supppsed to honor, trust, and nurture each other. If that's lost, then people should leave.
the bible definitely calls us to trust our husbands 😂 i think you’re referring to scripture warning us against putting our trust in anyone or anything else for our salvation. also, “love believes all things” 1 Corinthians 1:7! A believing heart is a good thing! In general, and especially in marriage, an untrusting, suspicious, or cynical heart is not a loving heart.
If you have to ask your husbands mistress to verify that it’s really over, just leave. There’s no trust there anymore (why would there be anyway?) not to mention if they wanted to continue to see each other on the low they’re going to lie to you anyway.
If someone cheats on you and you're going to give them another chance, you should be able to do that without confirming with the other person that it's over.
It’s never safe to meet the other woman. My hubby told me that his friend had a friend who had a mistress. And one day he decided to fix his life around and broke up with the mistress. Well the mistress lost it and went to his house while he was at work and killed with a bat his kids and wife. :( that guy has to live with that forever! How awful and sad 😢. To loose your kids and wife that way because of your selfish actions. And that guy said that his mistress did not ever act crazy or looked like the crazy type.
You don't need to meet the other woman to know if the affair is REALLY over. If you have doubts about whether its really over and you can't determine the truth based on your interactions with your partner, then you already have your answer.
When Tamera and Adrienne were taking about the double standard I was like hell yea that's the way it is! Guy cheats/girl usually stays. Girl chests/dude leaves like road runner. Haha. We put up with so much from the them, but we do one little thing they explode.
My husband for some reason thinks it’s adorable when I let it go. I do try not to but sometimes you can’t hold it in🤷🏻♀️ he claps and giggles lol it’s endearing in a way
It depends. My bf has a son with another woman and I have to know her to have a future with him, but I don't need to ask her anything because he has made me feel secure the entire time that he will never go back to her. If the man isn't making you feel secure than that is probably what is driving you to go to the other woman for clarity. That, along with an affair, is a red flag.
My ex was the kind of boyfriend that pretended he wasn't jealous, but one time he confided in me that if he ever caught me cheating he would want to punch the dude, AND me. He was only jealous because he was capable of cheating himself. Once when we were on a break, he had the audacity to go make out with my best friend behind my back. So.......why was he mad at the mere *thought* of me being with someone else despite the fact that he got involved with my best friend. So, yes. There is a double standard
@@zarahshabs7936 thank you for your kind comment. It was rough, and I still have trust issues because of it even though it has been 6+ years since it ended. I think a secure, genuine, loving, boyfriend would trust that you wouldn't cheat because he himself wouldn't dare even think about doing that to you. But not everyone has those morals. I am sorry that happened with your ex (that he cheated). I don't wish being cheated on upon anyone because not only does it break your heart, but it also sometimes leaves you questioning yourself, and also leaves emotional scars that take years to heal. I think it is a thing among people, not just men, to suspect of others doing what you think of doing. Not sure if that makes sense
I think it's a GREAT idea. Get all the tea about what your husband did because you know the man isn't gone tell the truth. THEN make your decision. A lot of women are delusional and think it's just about sex. Nah they be out here having whole connections and relationships with these sidechicks/mistresses. THAT is what would hurt me the most.
I'm nosey too BUT I'd never meet the mistress. I'm the one who runs when this happens, I'd feel sooo hurt that I'd just want to forget and heal somewhere far far away.
Hmmm looks like they are preparing us for just the 4 of them next season lol. But boy how I missed the chemistry with the original 4. I do like Amanda and she is smart. But these 4 are everything to me, they all get to individually shine. And I get to see Tamera’s beautiful face more clearly, and she’s more relaxed! ❤️❤️❤️
The moment I have to front and force myself to hold something in that happens NATURALLY is the moment I realize I SHOULD NOT be with you ! Why tf should I waste my energy trying to be perfect and not do anything around you that will make you leave... if you leave , oh well !
Yes, I been there! I was engaged and was cheated on I sat down with the other woman and we talked. I stayed afterwards and they did it again so I left and they are now together I think.... If u feel the need to meet with the mistress do so get clarification, and get closure.... But at the end you should always walk away from a cheater because they not only don't respect u, they don't respect y'all relationship, nor themselves. Walk away ALWAYS there's no exceptions! Even in a one time thing walk away even if u know u are walking away for just a moment do that but you need to walk away ALWAYS.
What did the other woman tell you? How did you meet her? I wonder if she even had feelings of remorse, I guess not since she still stayed with him. Glad you were able to leave
Karen Trejo I cant speak for her (the other woman) but what I can and will say, is that love will make you do crazy and stupid things... and I hate to say it but I’m thinking that he maybe we back to her bc she “E C” didn’t take him back... I could be wrong though. 🤷🏻♀️
@@karentrejo1714 She told me that she loved him too and she was sorry for hurting because we were once friends. I met her through him because we all went to college together and they had a fling before him and I got together that I wasn't aware of. I'm a forgiving person BUT, not a stupid one. I told him to make a choice he said he chose me and would cut her off so I believed him until I planned a surprise bday party for him and she sent him a masterbation video of herself to his emails which I saw before he did and at that point I told him I couldn't do this anymore. He tried to fight for me to stay but, at that point my trust was gone.
@@karina_824 I don't think that love making me do crazy and stupid things was the reason for the talk. For me I wanted her to see me and know that what she was doing was hurting me and was wrong and I wanted to see her face after knowing that I knew because she was super in my face all friendly and what not and then I found out she was having an affair with my guy at the same time. Which isn't cool at all. But I only talk to her after making him chose ither me or her.
I wouldn’t feel like it’s a good idea only because you’re entertaining BS! Why would you be willing to have a conversation with her when the person you should be sitting down and talking to is the person who’s cheating in the first doggone place...
I totally agree! If I want a friend's husband to do something for me I let my friends know first. I'm married btw. I don't play that. And I expect the same courtesy in return. We don't want any wires crossed and anything to be taken out of context.
There is no right affair, if there is marriage involved. Do not meet the mistress,unless in court. THAT CAN BE A VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION TO CONFRONT THE OTHER WOMAN OR MAN. What you eat,determines if you will pass gas. Somethings can't be helped. The worse is you lose complete control and actually, mess on yourself. Adrian was right on target, about helping someone. If a woman asks your husband to help her, then you need to know more.
When I was cheated on, I regret knowing the name and face of the girl. My partner and I reconciled and have a great relationship. We moved on. But It creeps in the back of my head randomly, not often. Something that scars you. So I wish I didn’t know the face and name.
My first husband cheated on me. We have a daughter and he was bringing the woman around her after we separated. I chose to meet her because I wanted to know who was around my daughter. It was awkward.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and I have yet to really hear my boyfriend fart. I heard him fart once in his sleep and it was so funny to me because I never heard him fart. He evens runs the water in when he boo boo. Me, on the other hand, after 6 years I'm comfortable and letting it go🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And Adrienne calls herself a Christian. Some "grown" women can't help themselves because of certain situations. Not everyone has money like she does. 🙄
THANK YOU STELLA I SAID THE SAME EXACT THING. SOMETIMES ADRIAN FORGETS THOSE STORIES OF THE TIMES SHE COULDN'T AFFORD ANYTHING BECAUSE THEY WHERE POOR . WHICH IS WHY I GET ANNOYED
Anytime Adrienne says "my guy friends" she is lying to make her point more valid. Adrienne do and say anything to be viewed as the cool chick to a guy even if it means blaming the woman
My Husband niece cheated on her Husband before she got married a week after her wedding 😵💫 Not only that but it was her Dad’s best friend. Everyone is saying it’s all good their in a happy place…. I locked off those people I can’t deal with that type of crazy.
For the last part!!!! What?? Men (women too) aren’t the Jireh so they can’t meet all of their partners needs so them meeting another persons need when they aren’t even meeting their partners needs in full can be painful. I agree with Adrienne and Tamera - if someone needs help from my partner it’s better if they’re a mutual or known friend and if something is off then we should let each other know