Girl confronts angry dad for shouting at mum 

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Wow! 😢 ..and here we are acting like selfish babies !! 😐😐🫢😶😶😮😧

Mark my words: when this little girl grows up, she and her Mum are going to gang up on Dad and make him feel insignificant thus making his life miserable.

bless her

@@SaultoPaul thats the world for u

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​@@SaltdCaramel The father was sharing his emotions(anger), but not in a wise or respectful way.

​@@pwatson5766 shee meant feelings tho, cause he wouldn't tell them why he's angry but then he is angry and yells at the mom to shut up when he asks her

maybe he shouldn't have to bring his money home either..

Exactly

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Right 😅

yess like what young people want

Lol😂

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yeah except its fake

@@user-ky2ug2wd9j just like your face

This is doesn't make any sense. Women are created by Allah to obey their husbands, satisfy their needs and bear their children "Your wives are your tilth; go, then, into your tilth as you wish" Quran 2;223

@@AbdulMalik-lq9vj yeah nice bait. everyone reading the above message, its clearly a non-muslim dude pretending to be muslim and spreading negative sides to the Quran that majority of Muslims (from what ive seen and personally experienced) do not agree with. they leave these comments to foster hate, so just ignore them

I got the same thought ​@@tabor5

She's definitely not a toddler that would make her like 2 years old but yes

She's at least 8 years old. But still very smart girl

yeah except its fake

@@user-ky2ug2wd9jKeep assuming that everything on the internet is fake

Women are created by Allah to obey their husbands, satisfy their needs and bear their children "Your wives are your tilth; go, then, into your tilth as you wish" Quran 2;223

she's being told to say that for views on douyin. shame on you.

​@@NoChinaforever17really? If so then how do you expect us to know? Smth

​@@squid5882the cam is the proof. The girl looks at it multiple times and nobody gets a random clip like this.

@@justagenzontheinternet808 well if someone was poking around the corner with a camera while they were in the middle of speaking it makes sense for them to look at it, but im assuming that if it isnt staged, she thought she had more important things to say at the moment

@@justagenzontheinternet808It’s clearly the mother who recorded it though. Seems plausible honestly speaking. The only time she looked at the cam was when she was done speaking. It’s just this video repeated that scene 2-3x

Yes and this video is fake

@@Romy--- Yep it is obviously staged because who would stand behind a corner and film, but it made me feel better in a way.

I feel like it's because our parents are much older. Therefore, more traditional and much much stricter 如果我这样对我父母说话 直接被惩罚了 哈哈哈哈

@@yunyung Very true, so I really try my best not to get on their nerves but I often forget. Thank you for also writing in Chinese, I'm born in America but I was able to read it still.

Same here.. I wished I was as brave as her.. ❤

Sadly, the fathers who struggle with this have probably had bad examples of communicating from their parents. So they fear communication as a trauma response.

Not just fathers, we all have tge capacity for misplaced anger.

@@lighthouselaura4324 True. A solution for most fathers but applicable to everyone.

She's right. Sometimes people take my father's side whenever he gets angry at me or when my mom was still alive by saying that he is just stressed from a lot of work issues but we always tried to speak to him but he never trusted me and my late mum

@@fauzianalwoga1002 As the saying goes, "Hurt people hurt people." It's no excuse for abusers to abuse. But it is a helpful awareness to forgive them. It's also very important to understand this in order to prevent the next generation from developing abusive behaviors. (Note: Forgiveness doesn't equal allowing it to keep happening.)

Sad part is she’s being used by her parents for internet fame, she had to practice and memorize this speech written by her mom and act it out on cue when mom starts filming.

It's clearly a staged video

We don’t see the dad, probably went to get milk.

​@@szbxait isn't like that

She has a big one? I could have sworn it was a girl.

This is doesn't make any sense. Women are created by Allah to obey their husbands, satisfy their needs and bear their children "Your wives are your tilth; go, then, into your tilth as you wish" Quran 2;223

she is on her way to sounding like a true know it all outspoken american. she needs to be careful and tow the line

And only 20% who had passports, whom easily bound to brainwashed by Anglosaxon medias

Man, look at the numbers of crynese bots here, 70 upvotes in an hour and only 2 comments

​@@irritatedanglosaxon1705says a crynese MSS troll farm worker, who is desperate for a better life as 600 million of his fellow crynese live in abject poverty

@@irritatedanglosaxon1705 600 million live on $4.5 per day, they don't afford to buy a ticket to America.

Nahhhhh, I bet she gave instructions to the OBGYN on how to do their job!!!! 😂❤

Oh *😳 thank you for making me laugh .

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Nooo she looked around and decided she's in charge and stated screaming

LOL

Same here! Especially when my dad would get migraines. I could feel the energy when he'd walk through the door sometimes.

I did 40yrs ago

exactly, thats why this sounds scripted

@@dracolnyte i did answer like that when I was about 10

like the most of us. I pray for her safety and well being, hope this will somewhat knock some sense into her selfish father

She is half her father, but better controlled.

​@@Mr.Patrick_Hung In this age. Let her grow up and then speak. Men's struggles are no reason for them to shout at their wives, I agree. But suddenly society is perfectly fine when a woman in her periods shouts at her husband and gets angry? Double standards.

@@harshk9342 Shouting within a family is very bad. However both girls and boys need to be able to speak up and stand up for themselves.

Underrated comment without any likes yet. let me be the one to give you the 1st like 👍🏼 coz that's exactly what i felt too as i was reading the translation of her words. Wow❤

@@angiemon2797 aw thanks beautiful 🫶

@@unknown_8588 🫶

​@@angiemon2797why do you all care about likes and comments that's just really really sad.

Yes, she leaned the lines very well. Practice makes perfect.

u should feel happy abt your daughter.

If your daughter is able to articulate like this, you’ve definitely done something right . This was probably a rare event for the father

@@jeonghoonchoi5046My mom’s answer to everything is yelling and criticizing everyone around her and I constantly remind her that she was in their shoes before.

You should be

Yelling and fights of parents highly disturb children, we in our childhood maybe have witnessed that, so, just stop yelling and behaving insensitive with your family and I don't think our daughters would have to say that to us then😅

thanks for sharing 😢 that must be hard. so many parents are mentally unready to become parents

Id ask my mom to Divorce him and never again speak to him in my life if that ever happens to me…

...and then people who act like that wonder why they end up in a nursing home and their family never calls.

So many men out there are terrible abusive partners that take their anger out on women and children. They are cowards.

​@@mayuko7042and who pay bills of those nursing homes?? I am just curious

Godbless you

As a future therapist, I couldn’t work with immature adults because I’d get too angry at them for the harm they unknowingly cause their children. How do you do it? I’m planning to only work with kids, personally, cos I’d get too angry at the incompetent parents.

@@TofuTeoI’m 19 and I’m quite open-minded

​@@TofuTeo you aren't ready to be an therapist, you need to be detached from the patients

@@Gusr404 Well yeah I’m still a student so of course I’m not ready 🙄

my parents never let me speak because they insisted on being right and even if i was right they would brush it off playfully or will desperately insist on leaving it in the past to save face.

Thank you for these insights. Kindly share your native-speaker's impressions of this recording: would you say it is definitely authentic? Might it have been staged?

@@unreal4good367 Same for me, I agree

yeah except its fake

I think the girl is ''REborn "" and remembers previous actions by a mean father

Yes. The father could have done a lot worse.

Now he just has to learn how to ignore his wives provocations and they can be a happy family. Alternatively he could learn how to pretend the talks about feelings help him unwind so the wife will stop dumping her fears on him and escalating the situation. Too bad it is always one way street with those situations and somebody has to be mature for the entire family.

@@Mytelefe wdym by the wive's provocation and dumbing her fears on him?

@@Mytelefe so the wife provoked him by asking what was wrong? You sound like a real winner

Not just proud. When your kid(s) stand up for you, nothing is unbearable anymore.

Her mom is parentifying her by not being able to stand up for herself as an adult. Adults are supposed to protect kids, not the other way around. Kids like that grow up empathetic and mature, but also experience all kinds of issues because they bore the cost of their parents’ immaturity.

This.

haha I think this child a raising the parents better :)

Except it was fake tho. Recording the prove

​@@janejaney7210mother recorded that as she was not at dinner table, it's not staged

Learn to think clearly! We dont know is any father around. Which mother with a loving heart stand up in a real conversation like that...Films it and Puts it online for fathers blame!? Wake up...dont believe everything.

And here comes the question we will ask ourselves eventually. If we are living in abusive or strained families and we have the means to go back in time would we do it for the sakes of our parents even if it means a beating is waiting for us. I think most of us would choose yes.

I give praise to the father too for not doing exactly that. The gut reaction of most parents would be to yell back at the kid.

I agree with you as someone who has a narcissistic father. If I said that to my father, he would've screamed at me and broke several things at home.

I mean he could always use the excuse is that it is not her place to tell him that. She needs to know her place. So there's always a way for the father to turn it around that you did something wrong.

My guess is he wouldn't... Bcs of the camera present

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It's amazing she has that kind of awareness of adult problems. Or maybe most kids do but just don't have the courage or words to express it like she did.

That’s because those adults have childhood trauma and dump that on their family and don’t know how to handle their issues.

She has more intelligence than our war mongering governments, too.

No teaching can build such attitude in a young girl, she is an old soul. This is why everyone should rethink about reincarnation.

Not the dad as he was yelling at the misses. It's more like she is teaching her dad.

Everyone should have a place to speak up at their own home. You don't have to earn it. If the most mischievous kid is being teased at home, the kid has the right to speak up. Likewise, if the kid feels afraid at home, she should speak up! I think it's a right given to anyone in any relationship. Whether the people in the relationship agree to go forth with the suggestions is another issue. Seriously. Anyone who subscribes to this 'earn your place to speak up' bs needs a mindset change in communication. It's unproductive and lacks accountability. I speak from experience with my own family.

Nah, her mum taught her well.

She taught her father well..

Parents probably tought her well, bat dad is a hypocrite. Do what I say, not what I do type scenario.

@@kassaken6521 if her parents taught her well his dad will not act like that haha

little kids learn about emotional literacy in school

​@@kassaken6521or dad probably had a bad day

​@@greensss6922parents are human. We all make mistakes. More likely dad had a very bad day and snapped. If dad was an abusive husband, he wouldn't let the kid talk peacefully like that.

She’s isfj!!!!!!!

You don't know the full context.

@@Emmanuel-ws3qo Not my fault, the video didnt show the entire video

​@@Emmanuel-ws3qo no matter the full context, yelling and telling someone to shut up is not a solution. It only exacerbate a bad situation. If your wife yell at you to shut up, I hope you will remember that you don't know the full context and swallow your own words and opinion. Man or woman, it doesn't matter.

@@LA-ly1nt 😂😂

@@albertteng1191 but yet your saying you'd be so ashamed and bla bla bla

I agree 💯 Her eyes gave away that she was looking for confirmation she was saying her lines correctly. Body language gives away a lot!

100% fake video.

wow, you are so intelligent

Totally!

I can feel you,this girl is able to say this because there is no violence in the house,it there was violence she would have remained silent and cry

Where does he work ?

​@@maliha-Tarannum05 nah, it's obviously staged, in reality she would keep quiet!

​@@user-pg7cx9wo1mwhy? What u gonna do?

Anger is a legitimate emotion. It just happens that men are way more likely to feel anger than sadness in comparison to women for example even in the same situations. Why is anger so taboo. Do you hold it against your mom when she feels sad and cries ? If you could come home only twice a year wouldn't you get angry ?

Yes, it is the literal translation

If anything, the Chinese sounds even more impressive. The translation "We have to look at your face. We remain silent. We are just kids, this scares us." The "look at your face" in Chinese meant something more along "we have to pay attention to your face/expressions to gauge your mood". Also the "we are just kids" she actually said it more like "little kids would be scared by this" almost like she is speaking as a neutral party, and not from the point of view of a kid. She's hella mature it's crazy.

Yeah, as someone who knows basic Chinese, she's not only saying it better than the translation, she's using proverbs in her speech as well. I actually started wondering if she's reading from a script but it's impossible because of how young she is and how she's conveying herself. She sounds scared. So does her sister. Very impressive. Her parents might fight but their daughters were taught well.

An angel is beside this child, giving her courage to speak

She could not understand why the father was angry or why he blew up or how to help him. All she knew was angry = bad and you should do whatever mom feels like you should do or shut up. It is the opposite of mature but I wouldn't hold it against her seeing how most people in the world struggle with understanding that just because someone is angry it does not mean they are evil aggressors that cannot be right about anything.

I think it normal not to confront an abusive father. the built of a father and also his abusive nature would naturally cause his own kid to turn away/ back off. I think her dad is not a very authoritative type toward her and could have spoken to her nicely. that where her courage come fr. otherwise, a shout of father would just simply send the shock to the child. It's her family setting that's works for her. For abusive cases, retaliation comes only the little children has grown into a big strong young adults. the abusive father is too absorbed into their own unhappiness and also self-imposed logic. they will never understand. they never will. My heart goes out to you.

They wonder that because they never did go no contact with their "abusive" family.

@@chippychip2153 Forgoing the fact that there is like 99% chance the video was staged the reason why the little girl could have the courage to speak up could be that in fact the father was the one being abused and yet because he couldn't hold his anger back to the very end it automatically makes him a villain.

@Mytelefe I don't understand the purpose or staging a camera? to capture her bravery act or capture her father response? to be popular? or having an evident when if the father turns abusive suddenly? she did look at camera to have acknowledgement. could the father being having a bad time and also been long suppressing the anger and resulted in black face and harsh word? why would the father not sharing? how could one not share? or he is having a miscommunication with his wife, and then he started to been in anger.