What Made You Say "THANK GOD WE BROKE UP" After SEEING Your EX? 

I never understand why people will blame the other person rather than their partner. Half the time the other woman/man doesn't even know they are dating a taken person.

My ex wasn't a bad guy. He was actually very sweet and we got along well. We were long distance and whenever I'd get to see him in person I felt like I was getting the friend treatment. He always seemed weirded out to kiss or hold hands or anything and me being an affectionate type of person realized I couldn't stay with someone like that. We had been friends before and are still friends to this day and recently he told me he thinks he may be asexual so I am pretty glad I didn't stay in that relationship.

Broke up with an abusive ex who was getting more n more violent. Next girlfriend he dated he attempted to unalive her. Dodged that bullet

I dated a girl once who had two kids from a previous relationship with a guy 20 years older than her. She had a really rough childhood, including a biological father who SA'ed her. I put my all into the relationship and she gave nothing back. Not even sex. She would promise me things, but always break her promises. Eventually I got fed up and we had a big fight and she went back to another ex. A few months later and she tried to be my friend. She moved on to a new guy and she fought constantly with him. I found a girl who actually treats me well and got me away from the crazy ex. Thank God! Edit: So her new guy is actually done with her because she's been physically abusing him to the point where he bled. Dodged a bullet!

Im glad my ex bf is an ex because he asked me to start trying for a baby. I was 19, and he was 23, but we'd only been going out together for 2 weeks at this time. He said he'd want to be a dad by the time he was 25. He kept saying how much he'd rather be with a blond. He'd constantly point out blonds while we were out and about. He told me i needed a boob job just because they were a handful, not massive but big enough. I was glad when we finally broke up.

I divorced my husband of 20 years, and it was very amicable, no drama. And he's still my best friend. I'm much happier since the divorce, and have a great life so far.

Girl in the first story was in the right. Why waste someone's time whos looking for something serious and you don't actually want them?.

Story 2 Op's ex was a walking red flag, but good god the new boyfriend is an even bigger walking red flag. This man was straight up ok with and even encouraged another man to basically r@pe his girlfriend

Never let someone do something you are not sure and comfortable doing it. They’a re not wrong for having their boundaries and whatnot but you also have the right to have yours. Don’t stay to please them.

Seeing his wife, who he married after trying to repeatedly get me to take him back while they were dating. He was a serial cheater. And still is. I feel so bad for her but I also know she's known all along.

I'm in the process of divorcing from my wife of 13 years, and I THANK ALL THE GODS WHO CAN HEAR IT that it's amicable. We had our differences, but all in all she's a great person and my best friend, and while it's sad that the relationship had to end it's a real blessing that we'll stick together in a different manner (we still visit mutual friends, go partying, take my niece and nephew on trips together, celebrate our birthdays on the same day because they are so close together etc.) All those horror stories about current and former partners made me really apprehensive when we made the decision together. 😅

Dated a guy who had two ex girlfriends and had one kid with each of them. I tried really hard to be sympathetic but I ended the back and forth of the relationship soon after he told me he was going to cheat on me. I knew then that he cheated on me and I didn't have any proof of it but I cut him off and moved 6 hours away. I don't know what he's doing and I don't care.

The first story was so sweet and had a happy ending.

The fact that I’m being more successful, not hung up on her & moved on. HVAC technician 👨‍🔧 💪

Didn’t meet him but heard about how he basically dated an ex mutual who hated me and cheated on her… lied about his height too Absolute train wreck

About a year after I broke up with my ex I found out he had sexually abused and mentally toyed with a mutual friend of ours. I was still in contact with him because of how manipulative and controlling he was, but that was when I realized he was a monster and severed all contact with him. My only regret is not doing it sooner.

what's the game you're playing? Great video!

Sfw answer is i was working at a resturant and an ex came in with their new partner. I couldn't remember my ex's name, and my ex smelled heavily of fecies. Like, overwhelming oder that formed a 5' bubble around them. A coworker served them and I rejoyced that I was not on a date with someone who smelled like they sponge bathed out of a clogged toilet. There were other things that made us super not compatible, and they weren't a bad person. I'm sure they found someone, maybe their date that night, who shares their dreams, and needs. No idea why they stank so badly, or what was going on, they never had any health or hygine problems that would cause that, so your guess is as good as mine

My friend had kinda such a moment when she searched after our old high school class and found the guy she had a major crush on. She never was brave enough enough her brother outed her to him and he was really mean (publicly humiliated her). That was before 6 years - On Facebook we found out he has seven kids (with different woman/ some at the same time) and has a weird situationship with babymommy Nr. 5 and her three years older stepmom.

Had one of my gf's in my teen years that got into some hard drugs (breaking bad kind) before i broke up with her cause i could tell she wasnt into me as much as her drugs anymore . 10 years later i was driveing home and i saw from a distance what i thought was a homeless 50 year old dude walking down my street . But as i got close and i saw the face i realised it was her and couldnt believe someone in their mid 20's could look that old that fast till i met more hardcore addicts then it made more sense. Im just thankful i didnt try to stay and let her drag me down too back then also that she didnt see me and know i lived their.

I hope no one feels this way about anyone.

The first guy doesn't sound very assertive. He must've been super passive in the relationship and his girlfriend was probably so fed up.

The initial tale was incredibly touching and concluded on a joyful note.

with the grooming one, when she got a message form the wife, I'm very surprised she didn't just tell his wife everything and then sit back and let his marriage/life implode under the weight of his human trafficking/pedo BS!

Damn. It is sad that I caanot post my story here. Because I did not dodge the bullet. I survived nuclear blast.

For me it was after I realized he was super emotionally and mentally abusive and then I saw him in a mutual friend post and my first thought was “oh my god whose the neckbeard and holy crap it’s my ex…” the guy I’m with now is nothing like him and he’s wonderful.

A guy I dated two years ago is now sitting in jail with 41 counts against him. One is attempted second degree murder.

She was "supposedly" on BC pills and we used to have wild sex everyday for Months. I found out from her best friend that she was seeing another guy (He was still in High School) on the side. I "hooked up" with that friend of hers who told me and I confronted her. We broke up. A week later she got "knocked up" by that kid, got married, then divorced, remarried, had 2 more kids, got divorced again and was asking about me. After I broke up with her I met the woman who would become my Wife and we've been together for over 30 years with 4 kids, all in college

What is this game name

My ex is an abusive mother, I likely would have left her if that was my child she was abusing and not her ex boyfriends or husbands.*

lol, had a girl try to set the ground rules on the first date that the relationship was going to be open, I noped out immediately. Later she called me and said she changed her ways and we should start dating again, only for a friend of mine to call me basically an hour later and tell me that she had started dating and if I was ok with it. This went on for like half a year; she would date someone new, then try to get me into a three way with her and her new boyfriend. Eventually she broke and just tried to get me to move in with her, I apparently said ‘sure’ then got drunk and forgot about it until a couple weeks later when she called me asking me why I haven’t contacted her or started moving stuff into her apartment, I told her I had forgotten and don’t actually care anymore. Later on I found out she got married to a biker from a coworker and that she’s know for getting into gangbangs whenever there’s a biker party. Good for her, she found a guy who accepts her lifestyle.

My ex who had modeled for motorcycle and hot rod magazines now looks like a refridgerator carton with a face.

First dude is lowkey the one at fault

Hes essentially a 34 year old teenager who is killing himself with alcohol while his parents enable him by letting him live in their basement. He's been forws from every job he had, including two that i got him after the breakup because i felt bad for him. I only heard this recently, and i feel bad for what he did to himself. The dude did some fucked up shit to me and orhers and his fanily will enable him to the end because they actually think he will one day decide not drink anymore.

Why do fools just right into another relationship. Seriously spend some time alone (more than a few months) and even then take things slow. Stop with this “falling in love” so soon bs

This guy has no idea how inflection works

What is the game in the background?

What's the game?

What's the name of the first game?

Seeing her in the street a year later. She had doubled in size.

Yo Rufus, can you please provide the name of the gameplay in the back?

She dumped me, and dude. Couldn't have been better timed. Whole family fell apart

Story 6 sounds like she dated Barney Stinson, but more violent and less polished

one test, ignore the comentary.

“And next time he reaches out, I swear to god I’m setting up a sting” Idk why that was so damn funny lol.

Story 1: this guy sounds exactly like my ex. But these men take no responsibility for the fact that they decided to change, the girlfriend never asked them to be anyone else but themselves

#3 is really bad at taking responsibility for her actions. Other people in her life might be terrible but she still made bad decisions of her own free will.

What's this game?

What is this game?

It’s is just me or was story three someone blaming others for their own choices? The level of self awareness they’re typing at tells me they’re using their ex as an excuse. As someone that knows SA victims they don’t make plans and ask their friends for rides or describe their friend as “flaking” with the person that SA’d them

How old is the girl who ex “ just wanted some” what else imma do with a GF?

The first one he kinda did lead her on.

Okay, i'm probably gonna end up in a video, but lets just say, i have a story like no other... - okay so This was back in 2022... Basically what had happened - my friend introduced me to a chick... entire thing when i was first introduced to her, she declined a chance to meet me, but would later agree on it... Now it wouldn't be a problem, right ? but after we met, everything was fine, until i got sent home, an hour drive away... i was confused, and didnt understand what had happened, i decided to be nice, and figured maybe she felt sick... but later would go on clubbing which was original plan of the double date... me ofc confronted her about it, and she started apologizing... to which i responded : Do this once more, and i'll end things there and then... shortly after we started dating, now things were good for first 5 months ? up until my birthday... afterwards, she started demanding sex, and shit, i denied it... since we messed around... me being me, and having seen what nymphs look like in first sight had my thought named like this "Chicks turn in to beasts after sex, do not give in, even if it kills you..." well turns out, messing around was enough for it to trigger the beast, which mentally made her look like a blood starved beast from bloodborne :D so some time passes, and i lose my job, things are not looking good, and she just kept on complaining how i dont have a job, and harrased me for playing video games on a side, as a hobby to unwind, and when she would be busy, i would keep myself busy, and avoid fighting, which later friends introduced me in to streaming, my ex did not like that... raising the ultimatum its streams or me... to which i fired off : "Do this question agian, you are out, Video games are what saved me from whores, you will not stand in between me and them..." Which i later found out, she's seeing other guys, and after my attempt to maybe change things up, and First few dates were her incentive, i decided okay, now i'll do it, and see how things go... She declined and went off to sleep with another guy... the guy who she targeted, declined her, and i told her this : "You have a month to fix your cheating problem, mess up once, you're out... i had enough" i took her exactly 13 days to screw me over... i broke up with her after 10 months... and sent the gifts back, to erase any and all reminders of her... however i couldnt let her go easily... but over time, things changed, my current fiancee, made me see what type of person i was dating, and eventually my ex tried dating my ex best friend, and by that time ? i was with a new person, look at my ex, and now my ex best friend, and said this : I didn't wake up and choose violence the day i left her... and if you tried dating her, after my warnings about her, you and her both deserve to die, cause you both are dumb as rocks The moral of the story : pay attention to the first date - it can spare you a headache later, if first date goes wrong, girl is for the streets... She even tried to attack me IRL, not knowing she would not probably come out alive, if she met up with me IRL, cause while i'm calm most of the time, attack me or my fiancee, i will go after the attacker, and the family, all the same...

The first dude was stringing her along. Clearly wasn't marriage material. Glad she stood her ground and moved on.

I guess thats why i dont commit to ex

Story 3 person sure loves passing the blame on to everyone but themselves lol. Not saying that she had the best parents, and 200 IQ friends and was born with a silver spoon, but jfc if literally everyone in your life is the issue its time to self reflect and fix yourself.

First story - OP is a total loser who DIDN'T love her.

Did I just hear a r@pe story on this? bruh noone deserves that you could have atleast warned the authorities?

The first person sucks! Just be upfront, you made her stay by being misleading…

Wat game is this?

The game play is such a chaotic mess. It's making me mad how much of a fluster cluck it is. It's like the opposite of those satisfying videos.

a test, ignore the comment

I don’t understand people ragging on the first guy. The girl was clearly affecting his mental health and life and he CLEARLY states that in his story. But just because she wasn’t evil or cheating that suddenly makes OP the bad guy? Yeah he didn’t marry her but that worked out for him in the end. He didn’t feel like marrying her was right so he didn’t do it but just because he made her wait like an extra month everyone’s mad for some reason. I think most people can agree marrying the wrong person is terrible so why the hell would you be mad at someone for NOT doing that?

Story 4: Listen people, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP!

Can you please the put the name of the game being played in the background in the description?

I'm in the process of divorcing from my wife of 13 years, and I THANK ALL THE GODS WHO CAN HEAR IT that it's amicable. We had our differences, but all in all she's a great person and my best friend, and while it's sad that the relationship had to end it's a real blessing that we'll stick together in a different manner (we still visit mutual friends, go partying, take my niece and nephew on trips together, celebrate our birthdays on the same day because they are so close together etc.) All those horror stories about current and former partners made me really apprehensive when we made the decision together. 😅

I never understand why people will blame the other person rather than their partner. Half the time the other woman/man doesn't even know they are dating a taken person.