@@akshaynatu1084 so kurt should just apologize for wearing what he wants to wear? he shouldn't have to wear what the world wants him to wear, he should wear what he's comfortable in. plus, even if he didn't wear that he was still going to be nominated prom queen. the outfit was never the problem and frankly i'm tired of people saying it was.
@@akshaynatu1084 the thing is the skirt was never the problem. no matter what he wore he was going to get nominated for prom queen. did the skirt add something more? sure. but they were always going to do that to him.
@@akshaynatu1084 first of all he was only a teenager there. Secondly what we admire Kurt is that he never backed down and stopped being himself. At the end of the episode he once again showed us his bravery and strength.
@@akshaynatu1084 what reality are you talking about? aren't you indian? you live in a third world country, it's no wonder your mindset is so homophobic and bigoted. hopefully, you'll grow up too someday
@@akshaynatu1084 tell me you hate gnc people without telling me you hate gnc people. victim blaming at its finest, as if kurt is at fault for the other children being fucking childish assholes who havent developed compassion
I think Blaine and Burt were just trying to protect Kurt. Blaine has a traumatic experience and Burt wanted to protect. But I love Finn in this scene he really came a long way. I felt like the writers could of gave them more scenes.
am i the ONLY one who feels bad for blaine here?! the poor kid is terrified. he just doesn’t want kurt getting hurt like he did. yes, kurt has a right to wear whatever he wants, but blaine is perfectly justified in having his concerns.
Megan Karow ikr Blaine went through a brutal experience and he fears that kurt could be hurt in a similar fashion and doesn’t want to provoke anyone into hurting him. I feel sorry Blaine cus he’s terrified of having a repeat of the situation and getting hurt again. Blaine is completely justified in not being okay with this
It is Kurt’s body and Kurt can wear whatever he wants too. Kurt was the one actually threatened to be killed but he’s brave enough to wear anything he wants to. Blaine is not allowed to control what Kurt wears. Kurt literally told Blaine too that he didn’t have to go with him.
@@lha7735 kurt has a target on his back everyday whether he wants to or not. he can’t pass. blaine gets physically bullied when he goes to prom with a guy, kurt gets physically bullied basically every day. doesn’t need a kilt for that
@@lha7735 Stop blaming Kurt for what he had been through. It wasn’t his fault that the world was so fuck up he couldn’t wear whatever he wanted. Yes he did love to challenge the view of those homophobes by dressing himself up. But I see no wrong of him by doing so. He didn’t hurt anyone. He was just hitting back years of discriminations that aimed at him in the only way he knew.
As a previously established football fan, Blaine should know who Tony Orlando is though. They kind of retconned that just for the sake of a throwaway gay joke.
finn was so supportive that i actually couldn’t stop smiling, and then they like started telling kurt no and finn just kept making a face like he wanted his little brother to enjoy himself. finn is the best brother ever and if i wasn’t so in love with him i would want him to be my brother because i need a brother like that. Rest in Peace Cory 🥰❤️ watching glee for the 7th time and i just wanted to see if anyone commented on finn’s big brother ness 🌟🌟
I love 💘 finn but no God didnt take him, he had problems nobody saw because he was good at hiding them. Please respect the faith and realize God gives each and everyone of us free will to live our lifes.
Okay, I love how Finn and Kurt's relationship has grown. I also get Blaine and Burt's concerns, especially Blaine. He's been through a really traumatic experience and tbh, Kurt was pretty guilt trippy in this episode. I'm proud of Kurt for refusing to be anything that's not 100% him but I don't think he understands that other people, like Blaine (especially with his experiences with dances), struggle with that. It's not just "facing his fears", it's trauma and trauma doesn't just go away like that.
Burt: I think you’re trying to get some attention Me: yeah, it’s prom! The one night in high school where you should get to dress up, get attention, and feel amazing about yourself. Kurt would be so disappointed if he didn’t get to wear the outfit he made and wouldn’t have had fun anyway. Let him bask in his fabulousness.
People who deliberately go against the grain JUST for the sake of getting some attention for themselves are pathetic and insufferable. I hate attention-whoring in all its forms. Stay in your lane.
@@CheerfullyCynical829 there’s a difference between owning your own style and personality and attention whoring. Attention whores do anything to get attention. They’ll wreck their lives just to get someone to pity then. Or they’ll wreck someone else’s life because that person was drawing attention away from them. People who own who they are and wear what they love are just trying to live their best lives. They should get to feel good about themselves and stop having to worry about facing so much hatred just for being who they are.
Jerus AYTONA why do you like that? All clothes Kurt wear are a little special, so why shouldn’t his boyfriend support that that’s his style? Kurt should be able to wear whatever he wants and they should be supportive. Kurt’s kilt was amazing and his choice.
@@rbishop95 Blaine not as much, but somewhat still, especially in the way that he dresses and the fact that he does theater/preforming arts-yes I know straight guys can do those things, but primarily/lots of gay guys do, and of course his knowledge of fashion designers/fashion in general.
This scene shows a lot about Blaine. He definitely had some unaddressed mental health issues that really came out in this scene. Kurt was definitely in the wrong, especially because he knew about what happened to Blaine in the past.
he’s not though... he’s not forcing blaine to go, he’s just not going to compromise and do what other people want just to make them more comfortable. plus, he made the outfit himself. blaine’s mental issues are his and his alone, and he decided to go with kurt.
What Kurt does here is so not okay. I'm not talking about the outfit of course, because he should be allowed to wear whatever he wants. But the thing is, it is obnoxious, it is provocative and really not something that is wise to wear to prom in Lima, Ohio in school full of homophobic assholes. And as much as I'm all for expressing yourself, you also have to be rational. Is it really worth it to get yourself and your boyfriend potentially beat up just so you can wear an outfit? It wouldn't matter that he didn't really do anything wrong, they would still get hurt because world is not fair and sometimes you just have to compromise for your own safety. But what is really messed up here is how Kurt reacts when Blaine agrees with Burt. Blaine, who's already rightfully afraid of going due to his own traumatic experience. It's obvious that he would rather stay on the down low and just enjoy themselves without drawing unnecessary attention. And didn't Kurt say when asking him that if he was uncomfortable with going they could just go see a movie instead? And Blaine agreed to go and face his own fears to make Kurt happy and instead of trying to make it easier for him, Kurt completely dismisses him when he objects to the outfit and then emotionally manipulates him into going anyway. Because really, the "you can always not go" is guilt tripping at it's finest. People often antagonise Blaine in this relationship and I'm not saying he's perfect but really, neither is Kurt. What Kurt does may be more subtle, but he tends to be neglectful and manipulative. Don't get me wrong, I love him and I don't think he's by any means a bad person but really, we have to acknowledge that he has his flaws and he did have a part in their relationship failing at certain points. And just for the record, I'm still a hardcore Klaine shipper and believe they belong together, they just need to work a bit on their communication
there are tons of examples of blaine being subtly manipulative. he gaslights more than anyone in the series. kurt doesn’t have to tone down himself to make blaine more comfortable and told him he doesn’t have to go with him
juicy peaches ok first of all, do you even know what gaslighting means? Because Blaine never purposely tried to make Kurt question his self worth or sanity. Second, did you even read my comment? This situation is not about Blaine forcing Kurt to tone it down. I don't think there was any other situation throughout the show when he in any way complained about Kurt's clothing. He wasn't trying to tone it down in general, but in this one situation, where he was clearly scared and didn't want to draw any more attention than necessary. Yes, Kurt has the right to dress as he pleases. But Blaine also has the right to feel as safe as possible in an uncomfortable situation. For Kurt to just ignore it is simply selfish. Of course Kurt should stand up for himself, but being in a relationship means comprising, on both sides. From your comment it looks like you just want Blaine to give up whatever he has to for Kurt's happiness. That's the definition of an abusive relationship
@@midnightsparkle3276 Kurt wasn’t being selfish at all though. He had been tormented and harassed(and potential sexual assault with the locker room kiss) so he wanted to be able to express himself, because for the first time in a long time he felt free. He told Blaine several times throughout the episode that he didn’t have to go. Kurt shouldn’t have to change himself when he’s been through things too.
kurt didn‘t do anything wrong, as he himself said. he doesn‘t have to tone himself down to make others comfortable yall literally always antagonize kurt just bc you find his flamboyant behaviour „annoying“ and it showd
I agree with everything but it's impossible to criticize Kurt in the context of the relationship because his stans just don't want to listen. Glee is a drama/comedy so people will do really wild, unrealistic, OOC things, but I think what Kurt does here, and his biphobic words in Blame it on the alcohol (even though he should have apologized), make him a more realistic character with flaws. But most glee fans see everything as black and white, so if you criticize Kurt you're a monster. Real people like you, me, and everybody that commented under this video, do much worse than being a little passive aggressive. Kurt is 17 and obviously he will make some mistakes. If the scene was reversed, you already know there would be streams of "Blaine is an abusive asshole who doesn't care about his boyfriend's trauma and well being!!!1!!1" comments 🤷♀️
Burt and Blaine aren’t wrong though. Finn asked him why he had to always make a spectacle of himself. Spencer called him out on wearing his sexuality as an identity all through school. He wasn’t a kid who was gay. He was the “gay kid” always trying to stir the pot, always trying to make a statement. He could never just be himself and let that be enough. At least not at McKinley.
Because he wore what he WANTED to wear I am everybody's always preaching be yourself and except gay people via but as soon it comes down to it you can't even do it yourself
actually this is you trying to police people into the “right” kind of gay. the gay teens who listen to whitney houston and watch murder she wrote are REAL because i was them and went to high school with them lmao. kurt genuinely IS a SPECTACLE. that is him being honest. finn said that because he was embarrassed of him at the time, and spencer said that because he has the luxury of passing, unlike kurt. kurt is himself, aside from moments where it’s blatantly obvious he’s pretending, from the first scene where finn recognizes that he can’t stop kurt from being thrown in the trash without being on the other side of the bullying himself, what he can do is help kurt not get his expensive jacket that means a lot to him, dirty. don’t accuse him of “not being himself” because you refuse to acknowledge that there are real people like him. especially considering he’s one of the best developed, most human characters on the show
No he was just himself, just bc that correlates with many stereotypes about what gay guy are like doesn‘t mean he is acting or dressing like that in order to fit a stereotype. It‘s not his responsibility to break stereotypes or something.
@@quirkypurple3 correction he IS THE best and most human character in the show. Some people only like „straight passing“ gay characters, „it‘s fine to be gay just don‘t be so overly gay“ is code for „be gay but only in the very specific way I see as fine“. And it‘s not the woke, pro-gay take some people genuinely seem to think it is.
@@lha7735 he just wore sth and apparently that‘s him „making everything about his sexuality“ do you not see the problem in that though process? this ain‘t the hot take you think it is buddy
@@pambinobequeno5062 well, I don’t see a photo of you, it should be really sad not being proud of your face/body/the clothes you wear. You can talk all you want about how “awful” my outfit is, but I am cute enough to rock anything I wear and show it proudly, have a great day.😘
