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I pray that everything works out with your life coaching business Jackie 😊🫶🏽✨ May God lead you in the right direction with it and the women can get something fruitful out of it. Keep going and don't give up on your dream. Just thought I leave an encouraging word. As long as your actions are genuine; big blessings will follow.
Who needs this? Everybody needs to hear this. I have discovered, that those who lie, cheat too, those who cheat steal too those who steal are unfaithful too. One usually leads to another. Thanks for this message. The scripture states "prove all things (including people) hold fast to that which is good." 🙏🙏📖📖
We all fall short. It's true that we can also all grow and change. When you see something in another It's because your reality is mirroring something to you. If you are continually judging and labeling people as liars, there is some work YOU NEED TO DO WITHIN YOU. He will finish the work He started in you. His work will finally be finished on the day Christ returns. Perhaps it is that you are judging other's while you are guilty of the same thing? Or some in our childhood hurt us by not keeping promises? When we work on healing ourselves we also heal others. We are co creating with God. These reflections are synchronicities that we create when we put our attention on something. Ask yourself why would I want to perceive this person as lying to me? What am I to learn about myself from this? I then speak to the person's soul or my own saying I'm sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you. I'm sorry I ever perceived you as a liar, there is a wounded and unhealed trauma or circumstance within me that has kept me from seeing you as your best self. The highest self is connected to God at the highest level or in the highest dimension. I know God has created you to be perfect in his image. So, I am sorry, please forgive me, you are perfect, I love you, thank you! Continuely do this and God will reveal to you what it is you need to heal in order to completely love yourself. Healed people don't see others as liars or less than perfect. When we do the work we will be elevated and Christ will come home. We will come home to self and love every part of ourselves, even our darkness. The darkness that God, our creator, already knew we would have and has still loved us completely. We are cherished regardless of any perceived flaw we see in ourselves. We were created in His image and he knows every hair on our head, every lie we would tell, every mistake we would make, yet He loves us completely. GOD is inviting us everyday to do the same thing. We are invited to love ourselves completely. It's only then that we will truly see unconditional LOVE AND RECEIVE IT AS WELL AS GIVE IT! The world of duality will then melt away. We came here to experience life(contrast) and life is messy and beautiful at the same time. A loving relationship is the same way. Our person may be imperfect and if we are waiting for someone to be perfect we are waiting on ourselves. We are the one we have been waiting for all along! Be love, just try this for an hour, a day, a week and watch your world transform. Fully love, go all in and love the unlovable and watch your world transform right before your eyes. God bless all eyes that rolled over this comment. If your here know you are perfect, God loves you and you're going to have a beautiful life. Please love yourself and please love the unlovable! Who are those you see as difficult to love? Perhaps an ex, a friend that hurt you, the homeless, the addicted..... love them anyway. Love transforms... love transcends all... even time. I love you!
Had a friend who constantly gossip. She would tell me her sad past, and I have a lot of compassion and empathy for her, but I lowkey feel like she is using me and gossiping about me behind my back. She would ignore me and then all sudden be nice to me. Maybe God is revealing to me that this relationship needs to go.
If you have those thoughts she’s doing that and she would gossip to you about others I wouldn’t doubt she would do it to to you. Talk to her about it and pray for her but don’t give anymore info and put some distance if she fails to apologize.
My husband cheated and I left him. I’m 36 and feel so alone. I tried to go back to a a different ex and he so narcissistic, I’ve never been so disrespected in my life. I walked away. The dating pool is so awful and I don’t know how I am ever going to meet a decent man. I just pray that god will bring a good man into my life somehow. I am so tired.
You are not alone, I've never been with the right man in my life and I truly would love a Godly and God fearing man in my life! I truly feel exhausted myself, physically , mentally ,,emotionally, even Spiritually sometimes!
I can relate, so I know it’s hard🫂 Please stick to your boundaries. You don’t have to try. God will make it happen. Some testimony from me: I had to walk away from a friendship yet again and found myself yearning for friends who would truly understand me. As I was watching a sister in Christ’s video, I felt like we’d make really good friends🥺 But there was no way to contact her besides email, which felt a bit awkward for that purpose, so I said God will make a way if it’s meant to happen. *She* reached out to *me* the same week. God made it happen, even while I was in isolation. I know he’ll do the same for a partner when it’s time. God’s got you! TRUST HIM💗
@@Unique247official “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” - Psalms 34:18. and Psalm 107:19-21 as well. Meditate on these and pray to God about them. God will keep His word and heal you. I felt absolutely heartbroken for 4 years until I got saved and He healed me. Those verses helped me a lot. You can also look up “bible verses for a broken heart” etc. and find prayers. I found that so helpful when I was struggling to find the words.
This is a very important message! You must choose your friends wisely, if they are liers and toxic just walk away! They will drag you down a dark rabbit hole.
Exactly what I needed. I just got know this young woman. But she couldn't be further away from God. My blindness drives me insane and makes me hit the walls of my room until my hands hurt so bad I can barely move them. Please God deliver her and me. And let me be in peace with parting ways with her again. Although I already fell for her.
YOU CAN DO IT! The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else (that someone being God) lean on Him through it all. Part ways and if you need to cry and scream from emotional pain in His presence do it. But do what you need to do. He will be with you every step of the way!
Keep praying for both of you to God like you already do and ask to give what is the best for both of you no matter if you like the outcome or not. And don't pursue her if all signs are clearly negative from her side that she doesn't want you in her life, that is not love at that point but rather a crush that you should move away from. Love is not selfish at all, you are just happy if the other person is happy and well, even if that means it is with someone else.
I watched a video from you about relationships signs . the same day i had a dream about that girl and god showed me her insecurities in a very symbolic way , which reminded me of the bible. It was like god said: " its not all about you, if you persue her, make sure not to push her at those two things" I only thought about me and god showed me to care about her. ❤
Truth, people stop believing that a person will change for the better. NOBODY changes from who you meet initially, sometimes they get worse. Find that person that does not have a mean, manipulative, controling bone in their body. Yes you are looking at 10% of todays women as possible keepers. But that is the reality. Twenty five years ago 90% of women were keepers. Wheather she is a believer in Christ makes no difference if she is damaged and flawed it will not change. Alot of women that are nonbelievers will happily go to church and commit to Christ. Guys times have changed......be very careful in choosing a wife.
@@ca6248 He will TRUST ME :) I know you may not be able to see the end of this, but trust the one who HOLDS your beginning and end. His plans for you are GOOD and He has BETTER FOR YOU. Trust me sis!!! You may think there’s nothing better… I can’t leave him… he’s got so many good qualities. Girl let me tell you who God has for you is FAR BETTER ! 😊 just walk in His way, obey Him with love, and trust Him with all of your heart, placing Him first above all else!
@jackieVanTine_ Thank you for taking the time to respond to me! Your words mean so much! I spent the majority of the morning crying, but reading your comments has improved my mood. I will be consulting with God about everything from now on. I've failed enough to know that I just can't do it alone. Clearly, I'm not the best judge of character. Thank you again! 😊
I need to confess, that verse you mentioned in the beginning i saw it randomly today as i was surfing through LinkedIn from an article to another. It was the first time i read it. I don’t lie, i got goosebumps when you mentioned it again here. God is pointing out this subject to me… Thanks Blessed
_This word was definitely for me. I really needed an advice about this one person. He has been my friend since 8th grade, and now I have been feeling like I felt something for him, but I'm not 100% sure if he is actually the one that God has for me. I don't see him anymore, though, since his life has changed; now he has to work hard to keep on track, but he doesn't go to church, and I have been inviting him, but sometimes he is too busy, or he is even being "too busy" to answer me now. He wasn't like that, before..so I felt like desiring an advice, and I found this video just when I clicked on RU-vid. I know and believe the Lord always speaks through people, that is why I love these videos._ 🫶✝️🤍🥺 _May Jesus keep blessing you and your ministry._ 🫶✝️🌱🌷🩵
I need to hear this! Thanks for sharing, Jackie. I recently got out of a long-distance relationship. While processing it, I’ve realized what you shared and God’s sign along the way. My ex failed to fulfill what he promised from time to time, and eventually, he chose someone else over me. I kind of saw that coming, but I trusted him blindly since he seemed valid when we weren't apart, said and texted all the words I wished to hear. Now, I would spend more time with God to heal, to be in his presence, and guard my heart
This friend made plans with me for last Thursday and BAILED. We are house mates and he's been ignoring me since, even failing to show up for a conversation about him flaking on Monday. Id see him talk to other people but not to me! And it hurts because i worry that he'll change for another person but not apologize to me and forget about me, which would have meant i wasnt good enough. Ive put him onto resources for his passion and career, ive supported him, ive listened to him speak of his past and refrained from condemning him, and have been told he's never met anyone like me before. That i am so many things gift wrapped into one. I feel so unvaluable, unworthy, and not feminine enough.
I needed to see this. I've been on a spiritual journey since leaving my son's abusive father. And this is helping me let go, and walk with our creator (God)
Thank you so much, I needed to hear this I had to listen to it twice. I've had a friendship for the past three years. Later, God worked through myself and change my self completely to become a true follower. But my friend gives me little lies, and I dismiss it even though I know... I saw her do the sin, but I just pretended like I didn't know... first I need to repent for not telling her sooner, and second as a sister in Christ, I should tell her, because she doesn't know that it is making her walk into a dark pit and that the sin has her in bondage and I can see that. I also need to repent for not guarding my heart well... I would also open up to others. This video has encouraged me to have a talk with it about her and open up about how I've felt for awhile. Please pray for us. Thank you so much!
Yes Jay. Confront her in love and PRAY BEFORE YOU DO. If she doesn’t repent and stop lying you need to put distance. Nonetheless, guard your heart and share no more info with her or anybody unless the Lord has confirmed you can trust them.
I really needed to hear this. I feel like I needed this over a year ago when I was dealing with a lying and unfaithful girlfriend, but honestly its probably in Gods timing that I am hearing it now. Thank you so much for this.
My girlfriend seems to just want to use me for my car so she can move her equipment around for her business. She didn't even offer to have lunch with me the last 3 days in a row...I had to like constantly almost beg to have lunch with me. And then she tells me that she said that she did want to have lunch but I reminded her no she never did... I asked her three times what time she wanted to see me and she never mentioned lunch time.
This actually gave me much comfort. I recently befriended a girl that I initially did not feel right about. She made up a major lie and refused to confront, which was so scary because this lie has major consequences. When I confronted her, she chooses to ignore it. Then and there, ended the friendship. I will not give someone the chance twice to show me how they really feel. And very true regarding how if they dont honor the little, they're dishonor the large! Liars do not stop, unless they surrender to Jesus alone!
Just focus on becoming the husband that proverbs 31 wife you want will need… you do that by learning from the best, Jesus our bridegroom! You are who you spend time with so spend time with Him! He’s got you brother. Don’t settle ever. He knows your type better than you do and if you’ll wait patiently and productively in Him He will bring her to you naturally
Im alot older, and terrified to be alone. Im with a woman now who has told me two huge lies. and im still hanging out with her, since im older, I feel scared like im going to die alone. I keep messing up with her sexually, and asked Gods forgiveness over and over. Im just defeated and have no clue what to do.
You know what to do brother. You need to obey the Lord over your flesh and trust Him. End that relationship and explain it’s because you want to follow Jesus with your whole heart and do things right. The longer you entertain the wrong thing the longer you Prolong the RIGHT thing from entering your life. Don’t waste time.
Thank you as always Steven! Your blessing to us has a ripple effect. One day you will know when the Lord shows you! Lance and I are always very grateful for your donations!!
It's great to hear this part .The one who created you me and every thing skies earth and why ever between them . The one who is not faithful to his creator how he or she could be faithful to any one. The one who brings to you from nothing we were nothing and he created us to explore this beautiful life and gift of Al mighty
*Don't you realize JESUS spoke of three different Fathers ??? 1/. His Father and 2/. The Father and 3/. the father of the human species... From "The Gospel [ ACCORDING TO ] John", in chapter 8, verses 43 to 46, Quote; 43. Why do ye not understand my speech? even because ye cannot hear my word.... 44. Ye are of your father the DEVIL, and the lusts of your father ye will do... He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it... 45. And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not... 46. Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I say the truth, why do ye not believe me? End Quote...*
“But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.” James 5:12
Hi sis in Christ I hear what you are saying the word of God has a lot more to say about things .now I am not trying to judge anyone but I have had three different lady's that are Christian ladies that I was with and they had spend the night with another man There is a lot more to God's word than what a lot of people know like Just because we have Jesus christ in our heart we are not perfect because we still sin and there is a lot more in God's word that a lot of people don't see and understand because they can't handle the meat in God's word.
Thank you so much god bless you your family and your friends I hope you are having a wonderful fantastic awesome amazing beautiful lovely bless safe day wherever you are I love you🙏📖😊🥰❤🌹👑
And it's unbelievable how sometimes we can even give a few chances seeing that every time it was not worth it... sometimes it takes some time to get out of something, especially if you still have a little hope that suddenly things will turn out well
My name is Aaron Lologo bro and this lady asked if she can pray with my parents at their home cause I wasn't in the right state of mind. And I said yes and a month later I started hearing voices and I believe my family including my neices say what the voices are saying. I believe she is a witch and the voices say they have control of me and my family souls when we die. It's all because I gave the Mexican lady permission to go see my parents to pray for me when I was in the hospital. But I asked my mom if she came by the house. She never seen the lady I was talking about. We're a Christian family and we need help defeating these voices who say they have our soul.
*Neither the human body, nor its EVIL spirit, is "LIFE The Real Self", an Offspring, and Child of "The LIGHT" which is "The LIFE of GOD" ! From "The Gospel [ ACCORDING TO ] John", in chapter 1, verse 4, Quote; In Him ( GOD ) was LIFE; and the LIFE was the LIGHT of Men... End Quote...*
I needed this it speaks to me its a girl we are friends not a relationship. She lies I see the little things she does and lie about. I give her so much Grace J. I want to stay friends with here believe me there are no aspirations about getting together not at all. I do enjoy her friendship company we go to lunch hang out sometimes. I noticed little things she only calls when she wants something money pay her bills. She says she will pay me back sometimes she does or she pushes it off. Like today she text me saying she have not forgotten about the money she owes me she will pay me when she get her next pay check. She was suppose to pay me this paycheck she paid her bills. Plus she goes out with her friends sometimes she will hit me up to send her money so she can go with her friends. She is broke real talk i give it to her she says i will pay you back I promise. This message was for me J real talk your right we have to stop it its good to give grace but yeah i like her thats why I do it J being honest. I know we just friends and I want more but i know she is not the one i know that. Yes she very pretty etc smart girl hard working etc. Enjoy her company she enjoys mine. But your right J
I think she using you for money, I am in same situation, but I continue to help the one I am with solely because she disabled and it is a Christian thing to do. But I need to get away from this one sometime.
Hey Jacky ! I love and appreciate all of your videos , this one included. i really do like the separating from the wrong people advice. However , do we really as christians want to abandon those that are without God? If we are to seperate from a certain people it would have to be the lukewarm type right?IMHO.
Yes, let's hope God will restore our spirit and body. Asking God that this person will have been exposed if they're not faithful! ...nota in the sense of having an affair bit just by taking care for us.
