This is my first time here, I came because of Layi, and I must say never watched a show for 1 hour. I'm glued 😂😂 Subscribed ❤ Thank you for a healthy content ❤
That’s her boundaries. She’s not saying everyone should break up, she’s saying she would. I’m with her, I can forgive you but I won’t forget it and that would be eating up my mental health.
First Dilemma: I understand your position Sharon. To me, it seems to be a porn addiction. Going to the extent of paying for such content is not normal, especially when you're in a relationship. I would absolutely feel betrayed and hurt if I found out my partner was paying for a specific woman to perform sexual acts continuously, any woman would. It's doubtful that he didn't know he was subscribed. Also, his response also removes any honest communication that could have happened between them. If he fessed up, they could have discussed why he decided to, whether he was missing something and if this was something he struggles with. I get it Sharon, everyone has different boundaries and you shouldn't doubt yours just because the others see it as a small issue.
Ladies, it is essential to uphold your self-worth and appreciate yourself for who you are. Do not feel pressured to make physical changes for anyone else-make them for YOURSELF. You made the right decision by letting him go🙏🏽🫶🏽
I’m with Sharon on the first dilemma but I guess it has to do with wanting to honor God and be in a God honoring relationship. We all struggle with things and a lot of things can be seen as strongholds so we have to show others and ourselves grace but at the same time, actively engaging in activities and not wanting to overcome it is enough for me to leave. It reflects a lack of self control and that’s something I want my man to have and something I want to make sure I also have in a relationship if I expect it to last. Because if he’s watching it now, he’ll be watching it when she’s just given birth to their child and can’t have sex.
We have really normalized engaging in adult content, and even scientifically speaking, it's not healthy. At the end of the day, whether porn or only fans, he's lusting all the time. Why are you ok with him lusting over another woman? Watching a specific persons sexual content is actually not okay, especially in a committed relationship. But then again, everyone has different standards in their relationships
For the first dilemma I totally agree with Sharon I could see where the other ladies are coming from but nah. I feel like if you’re able to do that whilst you have a partner ur basically saying I’m not enough. And I won’t want to feel as though it’s this thing that’s basically holding us together because without it you will leave. sha I even see it as an equivalent of cheating lowkey 😅. Also my brother that’s an addiction especially if you can’t stop. But that’s just me 🤷♀️
I had the most stressful day yesterday, I worked on my project morning till 10pm, and I’m supposed to resume this morning. Saw this on Beatrice’s story this morning and I hurried here because I thought it has to be a lie. I love you guys so much. I’m so excited, this just made my morning. Scrimmmmmmmmmmmm. Love Layi so much
This episode was sooo wholesome! I laughed and giggled the whole time. Thanks to you guys I’ve now gone to follow Layi! Much love from Sydney, Australia 🥳🥳
First Dilemma I'm deffo leaving u if u are on only fans or watch corn because its just saying that u are okay with ur partner being promiscuous and living in lust. That's just me though.
😂😂😂 Omg i laughed from start to finish,the law is effortlessly funny. For the first dilemma i completely agree with sharon, 'na from clap e go enter dance'.. Paying for such explicit content shows you are getting attached to it, who knows you might wake up one day and i no longer look attractive to you,i have to now look like someone in only fan ,God abeg ooo
In an ideal world I think many of us would share Sharon’s position (re: the onlyfans situation), but I think Tammy’s position is more reflective of reality. When you think of all the things that have to align to make a relationship work, watching corn/paying for content on OF is icky but might not be enough to breakup a whole relationship IF it’s a good relationship, with a good person, who is willing to adjust their behaviour to make you more comfortable.
Not every man watches that. An addiction is like running away from the reality and it might affect your intimate relationship. You don’t want that baggage, it’s not worth it. You should find someone that is extremely attractive to you and finds you extremely attractive and doesn’t need extra help to feel attraction online.
First dilemma: I think anyone who’s actively subscribing to porn or sexual content of other women will cheat on you physically in a heartbeat when the opportunity presents itself. It’s enough grounds to break up please.
sana the way I have been cackling i even forgot its midnight😂😂😂 nah gworl you are really funny and this is why I love yall. can't wait to join patrion and to one day see you love.
For the first dilemma, since he never checks his statements go and take out money every month and wait for him to confront you, since he never looks 😂 Don’t do this and end up in trouble 🤣
The first dilemma, how can money be going out of your account and you'll say you don't know? Like how? How can she even believe him? Dude LITERALLY subscribed to thr site and he's blatantly denying it. Imagine money being constantly deducted in your account, won't you go to your bank for complaints? Some lies can never stand with me sha
