Gok Helps Bride After Mum Threatens To Not Attend The Wedding | Say Yes To The Dress: Lancashire 

People criticizing the mother. You people don't get it, it's not simply about the parent not liking the dress or trying to control the child, it's about the culture and generation gap, that thought process is built into the mind of a lot of African and Asian parents culturally, they would find that plunging dress unbearably immodest, doesn't mean they are trying to manipulate the kid, they just find it very indecent and disrespectful specially in front of elders or the house of god to wear anything that revealing, so much that they couldn't bear to watch it. It's similar to how a western parent would feel of their child was walking into the church in a bikini with a g string or even naked, a lot of western parents wouldn't want to be in that wedding, i know it's hard for you guys to wrap your head around the concept but that's how a south Asian or African parent would see that dress in their heads in a similar manner. The mother in this episode clearly said if she wants to have the wedding anywhere other than the church, she would be sort of okay but she won't go to the church with her daughter looking like that. This was less about religion or about selfish intentions and more about culture.You have no idea how much internal battle it took for the mother to agree at the end, just for the love of her child. Sensibilities and modesty is subjective to different cultures.

@@harshitabhuyan8892 I’m asian and my family is actively going against such generational gaps. there was no excuse for the mother to be that rude to her own daughter on what she chooses to wear. both of my parents love me enough so much so they allow me to wear whatever makes ME comfortable and happy, not caring about how others may view them, me or my family. i’m glad the mother changed her mind at the end, but it’s concerning parents these days care more about their own reputation/ego rather than their child’s happiness. if they care that much to not go against the toxic “culture” and “gap” then they should not be raising a child in the first place.

@@harshitabhuyan8892 but to not go to your own daughter’s wedding, that’s too much

She never said that. She said only if she wore that in a church. The child wants the mom to go over her beliefs cause she wants to wear a dress. The mom doesn't. That's all

@@harshitabhuyan8892 It's even possible that the clergy of their church wouldn't allow that dress because of the neckline plunge. I've known of several priests and ministers who have vetoed very low cut or see through wedding dresses in their church and have refused to perform the ceremony if the bride wore a revealing dress. It's only been in about the last ten years some churches here in the middle of the US have allowed strapless wedding dresses-and only those that aren't cut too low-inside the church building. Each denomination and sometimes each priest/minister has the authority to set the rules for dress inside their own church. It hasn't been that long since any woman or girl over about the age of 5 could even enter a Roman Catholic church without having either a hat or at least a pretty scarf-usually a lace one, but that was mostly a fashion choice-covering her head. My family was Protestant, but a lot of our friends were Catholic, and I bought a lace scarf to wear to weddings, funerals, christenings, and other celebrations out of respect for their rules and traditions. We also wouldn't have dreamed of wearing any sort of trousers, even very fancy trousers or slacks, into a church service. Like a lot of small churches the one in which I grew up didn't have paid staff to clean the church and we were allowed to wear jeans or slacks if we were part of the volunteer crew cleaning the church because that was more practical than wearing a dress and actually covered the body better than a dress if someone were down on their hands and knees cleaning the bathrooms, dusting the low parts of the insides of the pew ends, and other cleaning of low down areas or up on a ladder cleaning the light fixtures or replacing light bulbs. Any time we attended a service, dresses, skirts and blouses, or even a dressy suit were the only acceptable clothing for a woman and the skirt had better at least go down to the tops of your knees and the blouse had better not show any cleavage. Spaghetti strap sun dresses were a no no.You could wear a hat, but as Protestants we weren't required to cover our heads. There are traditions for what is acceptable to wear inside a place of worship that show respect for the fact that it is a sacred place of worship and ceremony. The rules have become a lot more relaxed for many faiths, but there are still limits to what is acceptable in churches and other places of worship. It's a matter of faith and respect for one's faith and its standards of conduct and dress. Before people get mad and say I have no respect for an individual's right to choose, I want to point out that I'm no longer a church member anywhere and practice Wicca. In my faith worshipping or having ceremonies skyclad (nude) is completely acceptable. Most of us choose *not* to go skyclad simply because of our background programming *and* very few of us have total body confidence because of that programming. Gravity also affects us all and even some of the leaders in the various traditions have admitted publicly they aren't as comfortable skyclad in middle age and into the elderly years as they were in their 20's and 30's. As someone who has the body of a goddess (in my case the Venus of Willendorf-Google her) I prefer to practice clothed except alone in my own home with the curtains drawn.

I'd be so sad if my mom said she wouldn't come to my wedding because of what I want to wear. So manipulative.

They are Nigerian and most Nigeria churches will see the dress as indecent and some churches will not allow the marriage to take place because of the dress

@@ebunoluwaoyebanji6501 Took the words right out my mouth. I guess people missed the part where she said she would attend if it was anywhere else but that cannot be worn in the church. Its called cultural differences people.

Exactly! I felt so bad for Temi and I figured they were Nigerian but still it hurt her feelings when her mom said that.

True

That friend was pissing me off, she had a whole lot of negative to say but no positive whatsoever. It was giving judgemental with a hint of jealousy

@Linda: That’s why brides should leave their friends and bridesmaids at home. Make it a day for your parents after all they are sending their baby off to a new adventure.

@@robertdavis1217 parents can be just as bad sometimes! You really just need to pick the person or people who really have your best interests at heart. Who also have similar tastes to you or know your taste/style well enough to not let their own get in the way.

Couldn't you see the difference?

I think the dress was perfect with a small cover. It looked like it belonged there too. The princess shape dress is so her!

She was completely out of line and I said the same thing she seems like she's jealous only person that had her back was her sister but even she seemed scared to go against what their mum was saying

Totally agree with everything you wrote. She's one to watch.

I thought the same. She was bad vibes 😪

Right? She called the 2nd dress "trashy" because of the plunge. How offensive to the soon to be bride, the consultants who are standing RIGHT THERE and chose the dress, and the designer of the dress. Shameless. She couldn't see that her behavior is 1000x more trashy than any dress.

No her friend was being honest that's what I saw and I have friends like that too and I'm like that and I'm definitely not jealous of my friends that's what she felt and I'd rather my friend tell me the truth

W dad

F

Way to go Dad🙌🏾

Way to go Dad🙌🏾

Well done Dad!🙂

I totally agree. I can't get over her skin tone!!! She is a doll!!!!

She has the PERFECT complexion! Your right, it is unreal!

You are right. It is unreal. It's makeup!

I was just gonna say that. The contrast with that first gown was lovely

@@28105wsking I'm pretty sure that the melanin is very much real. She may have some concealer and foundation that the average woman wears but her Complexion is very much real and very much beautiful. She certainly doesn't have make up down her arms and whole body lol. I dont understand why women always find it necessary to pick at one another instead of just accepting the beauty of the woman standing before us

id go no contact if my mother did that to me. i will not have ANY of that toxicity in my life.

​@Ka chi yeah well, unfortunately this isn't the 1960s and a woman (or man) doesn't have to bend over backwards to please everyone when it's their wedding day to celebrate their love for each other. Threatening to not attend your flesh and bloods special day over your own beliefs that don't have anything to do with anyone else is the definition of being a self-centered, self-entitled, brat.

​@Ka chi okay just because of you're okay with being disrespected and manipulated and controlled does not mean everybody else is😅

@Ka chi if your blood is disrespectful, manipulative, controlling, or just all around toxic there's no point in keeping them around 🤷🏾‍♀️ that goes for all ppl you meet in life anyway and if someone's spouse is treating them better than their own BLOOD family then they can get cut off tf you're mad a lot of ppl choose peace over bs nowadays instead of being spineless doormats? Sounds insane to me💀

​@@kachi9293nah she wouldn't attend if she didn't get her way. No matter what you say not attending your child's wedding over a dress is the most toxic and insensitive thing ever.

Some PPL value their parents and their input in their lives, no matter how different from them they are. 🙄

Vibrant in most non western culture

I think the mother was only concerned about the church. The compromise fixed that and I am sure the mother did not care after the church

African mothers too often use emotional manipulation to get you to do what they want.

Yeh exactly. I don't understand how that makes any difference?

Right it’s barely anything

Yeah...esp when 300 years ago dresses had boobs practically spilling out of them but people fainted when a woman showed an ankle...

@@shadanaljanabi2929 because some people's traditions won't allow it in church - and others cannot get past breasts as sexual objects.

It's crazy how some people think that a ceremony in which you swear eternal fidelity to each other would somehow be more beautiful in slutty clothes.

The living through your children method NEEDS TO STOP

I’m at a point in my life where if my mom pulls that stunt I’ll tell her “ok, see you at the reception” in the calmest most controlled voice, and keep the appointment moving.

I agree that it isn't the mom's day however I understand her standpoint on modesty

y'all gotta understand its a cultural thing and about respecting the church. she said she cant wear that int he church...it has to do about modesty. ofc she looks gorgeous its not that bad of a dress but its bigger than just looks.

@@febenkebede7080 well then that culture has to change.

dont enable abusive behaviour then, like those girls sitting next to the mother. its obvious the daughter is desperate for her mothers approval and the mother knows that, she made her to be like that so she wont call her out for the abuse. if your crave the abuse you wont say shit to the abuser

@@namjoonie936 shut up

I CAN RELATE. That's the reason I decided that after the divorce, if I have the opportunity, I WILL ELOPE

I totally get this. On my wedding day was the ONLY time I saw approval on my mom's face. Eventually, after my divorce from the abusive man she chose for me, she was so judgemental that I literally ran away to a different country.

@@OO-be3jz wow! I am so sorry sweetheart

Same I felt that too.

Religion and women who have been brainwashed by religion to feel shame for showing off their natural, beautiful bodies have gone hand and hand for centuries. I pity both for growing up in such an environment and wish her mom wouldn't perpetuate these misogynistic myths onto her beautiful daughter.

@@amm6569 This. I really hope we're the last generation to have gotten instinctively instilled shame and fear as a way to teach lessons.

@@cheesecakelasagna believe me you are. The last.

@@flamingpieherman9822 good

The first thing I thought was to add more material alterations. He probably thought that too but, you know, drama.

Mom was just jealous bc the brides so pretty

I’m loving how modestly he handled her too. And if they add some sequins and studs on material in the cleavage, it would match the beaded belt

@@ashleyhoward3333 ?

@Leonie This is a Nigerian mother, not a Western mother. Church congregations will not accept cleavage and things like that. Don't compare the two cultures. That insert made the dress acceptable. The bride herself knew, she was just chancing.

Nah. That’s just how African mothers are. My mother to this day hears me complain about her wedding because it clearly wasn’t my wedding . I just happened to get married that day. Looking forward to my vow renewal where she just has a seat and has no say so in anything

On some level I understand her mother. It seems like she was fine with Temi removing the panel, just not in church. She also said she could get married somewhere other than a church if that's what she wants to wear I'm not Christian, but if you choose to enter a place of worship you should be mindful of respecting the religion. However, threatening not to come is not the way to get that point across. She could have calmly told her that she is beautiful and the dress is beautiful, but it needed to be modified for church

is this your way of going through life? Ignoring social conventions, blackmailing parents and choosing antisocial ignorant behaviour? You don't expect many guests, do you?

@@reginakniprode246 Thats not blackmailing your parents. Its if your parents acculy love and care about you thy will respect your decision. From what you've said I can see your one of those parents.

@@reginakniprode246 no. it’s actually just not tolerating abusive and manipulative behavior from people in your life. If you so choose to keep negative people in your life then so be it. I for one will not be doing that and neither should anyone else.

@@Mr.And.Mrs.Wedding if you love me, you will respect my wishes. This isn't blackmail? How infantile.

@phoe3030 phoe3030 I see it, here. Narcissistic brats who put their own desires above everything and trample on social conventions and the feelings of others. I would never marry such women. Simply has no value.

A true caring mother wouldn't give a shit what others think. Its their daughters day and she can wear whatever she feels the best in.

Yeah very true

@@lemongrenade1826 that’s just as judgmental as the guests that would blame the mother. A truly caring mother would find and agree to a compromise, which she did.

Well our parents thinking is different ,you can't do anything about this

I am African and I know what you are saying.

It about showing respect in the house of God.

@@rosahacketts1668 she not wearing something that's shows them off at all not like some dress wear there very open and they look like they could fall out

@@rosahacketts1668 “God” made breasts for child feeding, not to be sexual objects. They aren’t sexual objects.

​@@rosahacketts1668 not everyone is religious, and not all weddings happen in a church.

@autumnhall4449 Well, she wanted to get married in the church. The one she and her family go to. The mom said that she could wear that if she WEREN'T getting married in the church. So apparently her only opposition to the dress was that it wasn't appropriate for the church they go to. The bride can't have it both ways. And I bet she wasn't paying for the dress either. Only an entitled brat would expect her mom to pay for a dress for a wedding in the church where the mom (and the sister) both said were inappropriate. So the bride could have had the dress exactly like she wanted if she paid for it and had the wedding in a nonreligious ceremony. How disrespectful of her to expect EVERYONE (including the pastor and the church members) to have to bow to her desire to be sexy.

how

Omg. I swear comments like these are so annoying. Whenever y'all see a black person everyone is all so quick to say "Their skin is so beautiful", etc. And it gives extreme "Look everyone I'm not racist" vibes.

@@KrabbyPattySecretForumla didnt you say this in another comment section complimenting a girls skin

@@ennuisolar Yep. Because it's true. The moment they see a black girl they compliment her skin, call her beautiful because her skin and skin only, and it really gives off those bad vibes.

@@KrabbyPattySecretForumla I understand your point but let's be real here. Whether someone's black, white, coloured, Asian at cetera, if they are beautiful, they are beautiful. I doubt the people commenting on her skin was trying to give off the effect you mentioned. Her skin IS beautiful in my opinion. If the girl was white and had beautiful skin, I'd say the same thing. I doubt most people here are saying this Just because she's black. Her skin is pretty.

you can and one day you sure will! ill be waiting to watch your video💕

@@celinesalloum5678 thanks for the wishes. It is very nice of you to say that . But I am from Turkey and even the plane ticket probably will cost more than the gown so… But if that happens one day instead of watching the episode you can come and be one of my entourage. 😊

But

yes.. he is a lovely person.

@@celinesalloum5678 l

Mom was thinking about what all the Christiany bitties would be saying about her as a mother. They would mirror her own words…cause she’s just like all of them!

@faze194 I've seen spoiled children cry like that. It is meant to manipulate. The mom was paying for the dress. Why should she pay for something she knows will be worn in the church to disrespect her and her religion? Her mom said that she could wear that dress anywhere but the church. So the bride said she wanted the church wedding AND the dress as it was. How petulant and disrespectful! If the bride was independent and an adult, she'd buy the dress herself. If she was respectful and nice, she'd either change her venue or compromise on her dress choice. Only a spoiled narcisst would have tears to try to get all she wanted. An adult compromises when they have desires that conflict with each other. Only a baby who is used to getting her way would expect her mom to pay for the dress as is, knowing she was going to disrespect the whole church. And you supporting her behavior says much more about you and your lack of values than anything else. And by the way, I didn't feel the dress was inappropriate either. But I wasn't paying for the dress, and I don't go to their church. So I respect the mother and friend's opinions, understanding that they know more about it than I do.

Only a selfish person would make such a comment. It might not be her mother's wedding, but you dont seem to understand is that, in most African communities, you don't question your mum, her words are final, that's first. Secondly anything you do in public reflects on your family name. Nothing is just about you and you feel, only selfish and self centered people think that everything is about them. It stake a village to raise a child.

The mom wasn't controlling anything. She just stuck by her beliefs. It's like someone forcing you to go see a pig getting killed when you are vegetarian, you have the right to not to attend. The mom said she could wear that anywhere, just not in the church, because she doesn't believe that's appropriate for a church. That's her belief. She shouldn't have to go against it because her daughter wants to

@Nonaya Bidness Go learn your history. For the most part of human history, there were never such thing as a child bride. Once a girl has had her first period, that the way nature tells you that, the girl is ready to get maried and have children. so i don't know what the hell you are talking about. i guess you are spewing some BS.

Was she PAYING for the dress?

Its called patenting from where we come from (AFRICA). No apologies. The level of indecency in the name of fashion is out of this world. And more so, as long as u are alive as a parent it is your duty to keep your children on the right path. ❤

Me too

Same here!

I AGREE! Gok has a way of solving everyone’s concerns. 🤗

Indeed!

Facts....

no because youre right our moms only let sons get away w bs

Well coming from a black mother not all black mothers blackmail and manipulate our daughters. I want my daughter to be her very best and make her own decisions and I will stand by her regardless but I will teach her right from wrong. Also let’s be real you have these types of moms in all races but that’s my take on it

So true. 😭

@@user-yt3gc5xn5n So true. Just sad. Smdh and they never see the pattern of their destruction.

sad but this is so true .

My brother and his wife will have to elope when back in the UK as Indonesian marriages aren't legal in the UK.. Which is stupid, they have a wedding ceremony and speeches like we do as well as their own wedding clothing.

Only a selfish person would make such a comment. It might not be her mother's wedding, but you dont seem to understand is that, in most African communities, you don't question your mum, her words are final, that's first. Secondly anything you do in public reflects on your family name. Nothing is just about you and you feel, only selfish and self centered people think that everything is about them. It stake a village to raise a child.

@@adamkofi5683 not on my wedding day sorry mum

@@chxrbb_dxllhouse5403 What can i say. If you dont think that the person who brought you into this world, breast fed and raised you, so that one day you can wear your pretty dress and get married, and repeat the cycle of life, by raising your own children. IF YOU DON'T THINK THAT, YOUR MUM HAS THE RIGHT TO ASK YOU A AFAVOUR, then ..........i have no words for you. The only reason why, this woman is healty, happy and ready to get married, is because of her mum who put in the work, day in day out. If on this special day you can't make an effort to please your mum, put a smile on her face. Thank her to let her know that you are greatful, and that you understand that, it's because of her that you are the woman that you are today, Then there must be something wrong with.......

@@adamkofi5683 my mom would get an opinion on it. I would try on her favorite dress. But if im paying for it. I'm wearing it. It's my wedding then im wearing what I want. A mother bringing up how she raised me during the appointment would be emotional blackmail and abuse to me. Mothers decide whether or not to have children. Children don't have a choice on whether they can be born. You don't get points for doing the bare minimum of keeping me a life when that's your job.

@@adamkofi5683 and back to the 1800s it is

All wedding dresses can be adjusted to please the needs of the bride.

@@haileyfields5190 It requires someone who has the talent to come up with a solution to the problem and the skills to go through with it without having to spend as much or more as the gown's original price to get the fix. It's not practical for a bride to basically have to buy her gown twice, once for the gown and another time for the fitting and fixing the issue.

I strongly agree!

wtf is gok i dont understand'

Yes.. he is so kind to people to. Always.

Exactly, I fully understand the mother's religious restrictions but she could've gone about it differently. Something along the lines of "you look beautiful and that dress really suits you, but I don't think it's appropriate for church" would've gone over better and done wonders for the bride's happiness

@zohabaig6426 Apparently you don't understand. The mom only said that the dress was inappropriate for a church wedding. What is wrong with that? Do you know more about the morals of the church they go to than I do? The mom said she could have that dress if she didn't marry in the church. But the bride wanted it both ways. And I bet she wasn't even paying for the dress either. So you support her not only making her mom pay for a dress she doesn't approve of AND the bride giving her middle finger to the pastor and all the church members. That definitely sounds like what a beautiful, respectful, independent woman does.

Nah her friend is a hater lowkey and her mum is just annoying there was nothing wrong with that dress I’ve watched more episodes and other dresses were so much more dramatic 😂🥸

@@giovannafoletto4911 not in church, the friend is right. I've been to a church for a Nigerian friend's wedding, even the guests were very classy, no boobs and butts hanging out.

@@jemmaj2919 it makes no difference how many wore what. It’s sexist to tell a woman what she can’t wear and to make a woman’s body shameful. I’m not going all woke but it really is

@@jemmaj2919 agree with you. For better or worse, many Nigerian churches are quite strict about wedding attire and that dress would be considered quite risque without the placquet. It's a different culture.

@@logiclanguagelearningFrench it is a two way street, if a man comes in to church topless, he'll be told to dress appropriately, this isn't a gender issue, so please don't divert the problem into a pointless gender argument

I see Gok i hit the button

If it would matter, I'd hit the Like repeatedly for Gok Wan. I can't decide whether he's a diplomat with a phenomenal sense of style, or a stylist with a knack for diplomacy.

I did the same thing

Nope, not just you. Gok is amazing!!

ALWAYS! Makes me so happy

A_grape_in_space The girl knew it was the rules of the church, she could have got married somewhere else. It was not her mother.

BOOM

you right!

@@valerieosborne at what point did they say it was the rules of the church, it was her mother's personal opinion that it would not be appropriate for church not the church saying she can't wear it and why should she have to compromise on HER wedding its HER day not her mother's if she wants to get married in the church and the church has no issues then her mother needs to swallow her pride and let her daughter be happy culture or not

@@lindasamba4816 Well the mother did go with the dress as she was still showing some. My girls chose their won dresses and I am glad they did not show everything. They looked beautiful.

I don't know if tearing down all cultural barriers and swearing allegiance in a slutty dress is really the great happiness.

@@reginakniprode246 u dont even know if the daughter wants a religious wedding or if shes just doing it to please her religious mother, yes ik weddings are usually a religious event but where i live people get married for love, not god. also how does her showing a little bit more of her body affect their love in any way? answer -it doesnt.

I fully agree. And this dress isn't even that revealing, and I'm a traditional Christian as well. If I could pull that off, I'd definitely wear that to my wedding! I don't believe that our wedding dresses are God's highest priority.

@@Emma-dp8lh I find it unbelievable what kind of war spoiled narcissists start when it comes to accepting the limits of others. Did the daughter renounce the church to wear her sexy dress? No, she wants the ceremony and the whole show including her mother. But the mother doesn't want her Christian values to be perverted. I respect and admire her for that. Not because she is very conservative or strong but because her values are not empty phrases. Something that mindless consumer girlies can't handle at all.

@@katemask3904 I don't know what God's priorities are, you seem to know more, but I do know that looking too deeply at a woman's secondary genitals definitely crosses a line in Christian culture. Your personal ones don't. But I don't think you have any other boundaries either.

true! gok was my favorite but then i met jo and al of the curvy brides boutique and shanelle of haute & co. four-way tie for favorite stylist! all of them are extraordinary in how gently they speak to the brides, get into the brides’ heads to know what the brides want, comfort the brides and guide the brides to the perfect and most beautiful gowns!

Gok doesn't work there - he's a well known tv personality and fashion stylist who was brought in for the tv series.

Going to Lancashire would destroy any semblance of a budget or I definitely would

He's about the only one I watch.

Literally!!

It shows her willingness to compromise and a considerate and respectful attitude. Bridezillas còuld learn something from her

you missed the point, the mother is right. She is going to church not to the club and she told her you can wear it but not in the church

A woman's body is not sinful. Don't let any religion tell you otherwise!

@@George-rk3ii The Bride can decide what she wants to wear, even in church. Also, the dress wasn’t even bad? A bit of tit, boohoo.

@@sadist8902 chile she’s african … african church is very hypocritical and you won’t imagine the backlash they would face

@@miriamyeboah6094 I understand that (my family in law) BUT “she is going to church not to the club” goes way too far? It was a tiny bit of cleavage, she didn’t look like she was going to a club.

You could always do a vow renewal and get the dress from him :)

You coul always go get a dress and organize a vows renewal!!!

It was an opinion which didn't read as jealousy to me..

@@nellyndinda8119 it read abusive family to me

I don’t know about jealousy. It felt more like abusive manipulation. And her entourage I feel like just went along with moms verbal abuse because they’re afraid to say anything.

“Ptsd” from your own wedding? Don’t call it ptsd unless it actually is

As someone who's actually experienced trauma, please don't throw around the term this way.

all the best xxx

Congrats!

How did everything go?!?!?!?! Congratulations!!!!💖💖💖💖

I TOTALLY disagree! If a mom says something "reasonable and sensible- I repeat reasonable and sensible " one has to listen as the mom cares like NO OTHER ... Arrogance is a sign of stupidity..

Unfortunately, traditional moms can have an outdated sense of what is tasteful. It gets more complicated if they were raised in a conservative setting. My grandma would've flipped if I tried anything with a plunging neckline, but I would understand where she was coming from. I think the small compromise with the cover-up was the best solution in this case.

Ikr..BTW How did you feel in your wedding dress?

@@netra7383 never married. Not even a boyfriend since birth. Im not pretty in my community. I am in my World though so please don’t pity on me

@@dardarmissesv I think ypu already know No one is born ugly we live in a judgemental society, I believe it a lot, even though sometimes I also think that I'm not so pretty, but I'm happy for who am I as a person .I think that's all matters. No i don't pity on you, and it's okay to live in your own world, ik that's better than to deal with people. Have a nice day or good night

He's that "hip grandma" personality type. He comforted her, and he let her know, "It's your day." Also, it's a plus that he has good taste.

I agree! out of all the other locations Lancashire has THE most stunning dressing hands down

I definitely would travel that far for those dresses ! Soooo stunning

If I ever get married I might have to make the trip to Lancashire 😂

Absolutely🙂✨

I agree but that’s a long expensive flight

The fairy Gok mother lol

I’m 100% with you. She looks absolutely stunning in all the dresses!

I hear you.

Thank you

I can agree w that!! She looks gorgeous

She has a beautiful complexion

Angry at the mom / entourage? This one has been pretty tame compared to others though.

@@danielleking262 I use angry for lack of a better word. I’ve never been any form of mad at anyone in this version. It was the threatening not to go to the wedding that got me.

@@ndisfoshiz Ahh, that part. Yeah, that's pretty messed up.

@@danielleking262 she's using the bride's emotional attachment to her family and her culture to get her way.

Slit until the belly button in church is a disgrace

@@ang5798 ooh a bride who is forced to wear something she don't like is not a disgrace right?

Some people have what's called standards, many for religious reasons. You don't have to compromise those standards for someone's "moment".

@@AS-yz2iz not her wedding so not her call. simple as that. her mother's standards are not the daughter's and it should be that way.

@@teaffeeblend Her daughter didn't have to change what she wanted. She could have held to her first choice unchanged. No one's forcing anyone.

If you start crying every time you can't have it your way, that's manipulative too darling

@@thesupergreenjudy I think she was mad because of what her mom said

@@thesupergreenjudy that’s her wedding. The mom can’t be saying “you wear the dress I like or I’m not going.” I’d cry too.

@@thesupergreenjudy Thank you! I see all these people failing to realize this is there religion, there beliefs, there culture, and seeing all these people saying how “toxic” the mother is growing up like this.

@@kamii_bugg me, me, me - that's what the problem is. If you want everything your way get married in a hotel in LasVegas without family. If you want to get married in a church with your family around you, you have to learn to compromise and take into account everybody's feelings - including those who grew up in a different era and culture. Imagine your bridesmaids turned up to your wedding in tracksuits just because they like it? This me first attitude really just makes a person look self-absorbed. You also forget it's also the grooms wedding. Not just hers. She isn't marrying herself is she?

But have you seen this Dando London dress? It's only $1.5k over your budget. Let's put a veil on.

@@elise4026 LMAO HELP THIS SENT ME 😭 The shade fans throw at David is immaculate

@@elise4026 i don't even watch UK episodes anymore cause I'm sick and tired of seeing that one dando dress every single episode.

Yeah but they’re pretty itchy, I had a rash after trying them on, went for a smaller couture designer with an amazing fabric but it cost double

@@kara8892 the NYC one keeps shoving Pnina dresses on brides. Should have put one of those on this bride and when mom recovered then put her in the first dress

I also thought her feedback was fair, it was too much boob for a church...

@@alexandrachitty1287 Was it tho? What about her sinful shoulders? Why aren't those being shamed and covered up?

@@alexandrachitty1287 Her wedding, her dress. Besides churches allow all sorts of sins so a bit of what God gave her isn't going to hurt anyone

@@alexandrachitty1287 honestly tho it’s subjective, even her shoulders should be covered by that logic… but honestly it’s up to the church whether they would allow it, not the mom. In my opinion, if she wanted to be truly like Jesus, she would go, as hurting her daughters feelings so much would not make her out to be a very kind person

@@alexandrachitty1287 priests touching children is more sinful, but the church likes to keep that under wraps. Maybe don't talk about women's bodies being shameful when much worse things happen in the church.

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Anyone who wants to go through the wall like a goat should not invite any guests at all.

I don't see her as a girl who will think her mum is one person less to worry about. She looks well brought up than that.

@@Surestart106 I see it the same way. No surprise with this mum who is a lady of firm principles. Of course she wants to make her wishes come true. But at least she doesn't trample everything in the process.

Sometimes you just have to let certain people go. Even your parents. At the end of the day it's supposed to be God first and foremost, and then you are to concentrate on your marriage. You can love your family, but they should never disrupt your life like that.