Gok Helps Bride With Lupus To Feel More Confident | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire 

33 years old dating a 20 year old and expecting her to help with childcare. Disgusting really. I hope she gets out of that relationship when she is ready❤️❤️ She seems like SUCH a sweetheart. And also beautiful!

I love Gok. He knows how to meet his brides’ emotional needs throughout the entire appointment, even if those needs aren’t directly related to “the final dress.” That he found the perfect dress for this bride to play dress up in was such a sweet gesture.

I enjoyed all of the dress's. 20 years old step mom to 3 thats extreme. Can't help but feel a bit icky about it. He's 33, 3 kids and she's 20... If she's happy I'm happy for her. That is just a lot all at once and soooo young.

I feel so sad with her saying she feels like she's lost herself. I know that illness can definitely do that to you, but I almost feel like she meant it more about going from 20 to being in a relationship with 3 children and a future husband. I wish her the best, she seems like such a sweet person. Her family is amazing too.

We need more GOK in this world!

Oh no, what is the rush love? Your 20s is about finding yourself, why jump into this marriage (and parenting!) feeling the opposite of that? My heart goes out to her, I hope things go well for her.

20 years old and 3 step kids... why do I not see this ending well.

Gok is not only a consultant, he is also a therapist ❤️

Being a step mum is very difficult. They have a mum and it’s a fine line to walk. I did it at 40 and it was hard. Can’t imagine doing it at 20. This poor wee thing has no idea what she’s getting into.

Oh dear, she's getting married and feels like she's lost herself? Doesn't bode well for the future. I'm speaking from experience.

She's so young she's only 20 and been through a lot already. I can't imagine how hard it would be to be a stepmum at 20 to 3 boys..that's taking on a lot, no wonder she feels like she's lost herself..that made me feel sad for her..I wonder if she's still with that guy?? 😢

I can't help but wonder what kind of selfish 33-year-old would want to rope a 20-year-old girl (i.e. just out of her teen years) into being a mother to 3 children that aren't hers. The fact that she said she felt like she got lost in the role makes sense. She is too young to take on so much responsibility and she knows it subconsciously. I feel like she will regret marrying this man someday. Women beware: If you are going to be with a man who has children, make sure that he really wants to be with you and isn't just looking for a mother for his kids.

It kinda feels like that guy is using her? Date a twenty year old who after six months is being a step mother to your kids? To the point where she feels like she lost herself. Sure she should support the guy and be involved with the kids but to have so much responsibility so soon sounds like it’s been a lot for this girl. I really wish her the best, she’s obviously so loving but it feels like there are some red flags here

As someone with Lupus I cried my eyes out watching this cuz I don’t think ppl understand the flare ups and other side effects and how it affects your whole life. Gorgeous bride, I wish you so much health and happiness

Gok is such an empathetic person. Just wow. I need someone like that in my life.

Her feeling like she lost herself is such a red flag for the relationship. Why do they have to get married now? Why not let her grow up and deal with her issues first?

She looked stunning in each of the 3 dresses.

I think Gok called it when he asked if she felt like she wasn't ready.

Auntie Gok is the absolute best humanity has to offer.

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She’s 20 and everyone is harping on her becoming a stepmom… that doesn’t negate the fact that she is ONLY 20 years old. Glitter and sparkle doesn’t have to be toned down. She’s college-aged! And her family saying it’s her childhood dream dress to the second one…. Yeah she was a child less than 5 years ago. So ridiculous that they tore apart the glittery glitzy dress. I’m 30 unmarried and have no stepchildren, if I was to get married in a feathered glitter ball according to their logic, I’d be “more suited” to that dress because I’m not adopting children into my life despite my “old age”. The whole thing is just silly… she looked great in everything and it was all appropriate to her body and age.

When I watch Gok on Say Yes to the Dress I never want to see any other version. Not only are the dresses the most beautiful at a reasonable price but he really helps these brides truly feel confident and beautiful.

When grandma came to give her a hug I just couldn’t stop my tears. I won’t ever have that. She’s gone 💔

I really loved that second dress on her. However, the dress she chose was beautiful as well. Lovely Bride.

I love Gok! I'm sure he would never acknowledge this, but the positive impact he has on each bride has now extended to all those millions of people (like me) who get to watch him via this show. He truly makes us all want to be better people. What a legacy!

I loved the second dress. So sparkly, I can imagine myself in that one on my wedding day.

She looked stunning in her dress. Wish you nothing but happiness.

I absolutely believe GOK is a psychologist and a therapist. The way he listens to his clients, validates their feelings and works to find the perfect dresses for them is phenomenal 😍

I think Gok's dressing room is more intimate with the warm yellow lights so that the dress reveals for the bride seem more special for too than the flourescent lighting of other syttd shops

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I LOVE Gok!!!! If I were to ever get married again, I would want Gok to be the one to dress me. He just knows how to make everything come together perfectly and he really has a deep empathy for his brides.

I think getting married is a mistake, she’s only 20 years old and within 6 months has become a stepmother for 3 children, she probably isn’t even old enough to be their mother. She’s going to regret this.

I want a Gok hug -- a real connection of spirits! He has such a big and caring heart and seems to help each bride be more comfortable with herself, not just the dress!

That first dress is so elegant. Simple beauty!

She looked incredible in all three dresses. Love the one she chose. And love seeing Gok again.

All the dresses were beautiful on her. My favorite was the second dress.

Gok is such a doll.........so caring. Adore him

The dresses look great but I can't help feeling like they're missing that wow factor. But still this is a gok episode. It's wholesome as always and I'm happy that the bride found her dress

We KNOW before even clicking on the video that Gok is going to absolutely nail it!!!! AND take her on a journey of joy, discovery and confidence while getting there!!!

A 20 year old woman with lupus shouldn't be taking care of 3 children, (and a husband). How sad.

Oh when you say you don't feel like yourself and haven't had a chance to even live for yourself, --getting out of this episode.

I’m really sad that everyone told the bride NOT to choose her dream dress. It’s HER day and HER dress.

I absolutely cried watching this! Gok is phenomenal ❤️ Kleinfeld of New York needs to take lessons! Gok has spectacular gowns without the astronomical price tags that Kleinfeld’s has. Gok my darling, you are an absolute blessing to ALL brides!

Love all 3 dresses, there's no wrong choice. She looked beautiful in all of them. I would love to go there, and have fun trying dresses on.

I loved the first one. she was stunning in it.

They didn't show it in this but in the show she tried on a dress she hated so much she didn't even want to leave the changing room, but it looked absolutely INCREDIBLE on her, it was my fave out of all of them

I liked the first dress on her. It looked fresh and modern and not like all the other dresses we see.

So glad to see Gok and his understanding way to know the right dress every time.

Personally, I loved the second dress on her but to be honest, she looked beautiful in all three dresses. Wishing all the best in the future ❤️❤️

Essence of Australia makes the most beautiful dresses 😍

her situation makes me so sad

gok if you are reading this.... i just wanna say i love you.... i adore you....❤️

I really loved the first dress as it complimented her as a whole from top to bottom.

Gran is just precious, beautiful bride

What a story! The dress she chose was lovely. It was simple yet sophisticated and looked beautiful on HER. Gok, you perform miracles. You really do. 🌟🌟🌟

Goks amazing personality shines through in every one of his appointments.

Gok always nails it - but I preferred the first one! So flattering on her! ☺️

She is so beautiful! Gok, I wish there were more people in this world like you!!!!

She looks stunning in all the dresses!! It takes a big heart to love someone else's as your own. I wish them all the best as a couple & as a family 💕

She looked stunning in all three dresses!

Gok is so special , so is this version of the show and she is stunning... and sweet Nan. I wish we all had a Nan to hug us !

The second dress was gorgeous on her

I really do wish her that her marriage is a long and happy one for all of them.

This is the best Say yes to the Dress channel

Lovely choice. Gok is a gem. I bought my wedding dress on my own and still can’t imagine having an entourage tell me what they would want me to wear.

OK, so the nan made me cry... she is so adorable. ❤❤❤ gosh I miss my nan

Gok is my favorite of all the wedding shows, along with the two wonderful ladies with the plus size shop in Englandz

Got is the best psychologist around!

Amazing episode ❤ amazing bride ❤ Gok as ALWAYS do talented ❤❤❤

I loved her in the first dress.

Gok is an amazing person. A truly loving soul. ❤

GOK totally rocks!!!

Goks chuckle is everything ✨

I love how Gok tries to find a dress that the bride will like but doesn’t try to force the bride out of her comfort zone. It’s important to feel comfortable on your wedding too.

I love Gok, he’s the best

Gok is wonderful!💙

she's sooooo beautiful

She's so beautiful and young to be a mother of three when she's a child herself,,,i pray she doesn't loose herself

Gok, you always get it right.

This girl looks fantastic in everything

I love plain fabric dresses like this. Gok is a prince.

Gok is so lovely and so genuine.. and he is amazing at what he does ..just love him

I liked the first dress the most. Made her body look amazing

Ohhh Grandma 😭😭😭 love her!!

That second dress was beautiful on her!!!!!

I want that sophisticated gown!

I feel like Millie is gone...Wow, so sad!

She looks gorgeous in any dress 🌹

I'm 18 and I'm getting married soon...I still haven't found the dress I want but whenever I watch gok helping the brides I feel so comforted and like I'll find mine too 🙈

Gok is the best of the best ❤️

Second dress my response before anything "OOo it's pretty'

Another home run for the one and only Gok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This bride looks stunning...I love Gok

This video was the first that made me totaly emotional! Thanks a lot!!

Gok is magic.

I prefer the first and second wedding dresses. Just shows that we all have different tastes and Gok will find one for each bride.

I love Gok. Beautifully , nicely, softly he treat all brides. Waooo 👍🍀💐

Oooooh the first dress is gorgeous, that one would be for me

Had me in tear’s.. Beautiful bride & family

Thanks for sharing. She is a beautiful bride no matter what wedding dress she loves. You are going to be a great mom 👩 these 3 children and any in the future, and a awesome wife.