I had to stop watching it after the first few years. I had enough drama and pain in my own life, I didn't need to see more fabricated drama, no matter how "good" it was acted. I used to LOVE this show back when it started though, before real life came knocking at my door.
I think the reason that part hits me every time is because it reminds me of 14 year old me sitting next to my dads bed (before he died of cancer) telling him I understood what was happening and that it was ok for him to go
Zola should be grown up and a good surgeon and Mer should be a really old women. My favorite imagination ist that Mer dies, happy with her life and goes to heaven where she'll meet everyone that died again. Maybe we could say that Christina died a few months before and in heaven MAGIC will be reunited, and Mer will be together with Derek while they're looking down to their daughter. And Zola stays in the OR saying: "It's a beautiful day to save lifes".
This broke Mer in a way she will never come back from. No matter who she's with now. Derek will ALWAYS be her soulmate. RIP Derek. We'll never forget you.
kayworldd 815 No no the actor also wanted out due to no longer wanting to play the actor but also due to him cheating on his wife and wanting to leave to work on his marriage
That scene where Amelia breaks down hurt me so deeply, also the one where she tells Meredith she's mad because Mer never let her say goodbye. As someone who grew up around drug addiction, Amelia is such a strong character. On private practice she had so many brilliant scenes. If Charlotte wasn't on there, I'd say she was the best.
@@Andsoitgoes1 In that case, even if i don't blame her to not think about it because it was a brutal death, she was shocked, she had to fill out papers etc..., Meredith should've called Amelia and Amelia can be angry about it. However, it's true , Amelia always acts like she's the only one to suffer... like when she basically said to Meredith that she didn't suffer enough, when she was blaming Meredith for Penny or when she came to see Meredith after her assault and started to talk about herself without even asking if she was ok...it's always about herself.
@@Andsoitgoes1 Meredith loves Derek, she knew him so well and she knew that Derek would not want to be hooked up to a bunch of machines that help him breath. She knew he would want her to let him go and not wait for a miracle. Knowing Amelia she would not allow Meredith unplug Derek. I know she should have let Amelia say her last words, but people need to appreciate that she was married to him, and had THREE kids with him. Derek said he doesn't want to live in a world without Meredith, and that made her choice very clear, people need to stop blaming her because she lost him too. Meredith was pregnant with Derek's baby when he died.
I think that they tried to replace Derek with a new “MacDreamy”. When Lexie died, they replaced her with a new sister: Maggie. Now when the best couple Arizona and Callie are gone they needed a new gay couple. Because they want to show that they support the LGBTQ community. So they took in a new hot gay guy to get together with the guy with the glasses. What I’m trying to say is that you can’t just replace people. We will never love Maggie as much as we loved Lexie, and we will never love some of Meredith’s love interests as much as we loved Derek. And don’t even get me started on Calzona. Please leave a comment if you agree
The new gay couple doesnt look sincere. It looks like: we just NEED a gay couple in a show . And Maggie.... nothing good I can say Greys anatomy is not that great as it was and never will be again
The reason I love greys is because you can really feel the emotions of the character, even if it is just acting. They perform with such passion and it gives me chills each time
First season: loving the show Second:still loving it Third: got depresso cause o’mally died Fourth:still sad Fifth:more depresso Sixth:a little better still sad Seventh:doing good craving it Eighth: depresso crying my eyes out cause Lexie died Ninth: worse because Mark died Tenth: imokay. Depressedashell. Eleventh: crying my Fudging eyes out cause DEREK DIED Twelfth: depressed dont wanna watch the show anymore
I lost interest in the show when Derek died,,, I mean I still watch it sometimes,,, but I don't like it anymore,,, and I was a huge fan,,, since the very first episode....
It's struggled since then because so many pivotal characters to Meredith's story have died or gone away. I mean they're working with what they've got, but honestly, it's been struggling, the episodes are very lackluster except for the beginning of the seasons and the ends.
I think the show should end with Meredith dead walking through the hospital and seeing everyone she loved that died in the hall, and then walking out the doors Derek is standing there and she grabs his hand, and they walk out together and that is the last scene of the show
I stopped watching a few episodes after they killed Mark.. That was already too much, I couldn't take any more deaths... I heard about Derek... And this was only today that I could watch his death for the first time. I won't re-watch the show though, it hurt me too much.
Omg, same! Also, the whole dynamic with Christina being away was so weird to me, idk the show just felt different (and I missed Lexie so much!). But now that I know Derek dies on season 11, I think I can keep watching til that point. and then decide whether or not I wanna continue.
i stopped the episode before derek, only time i’ve seen is off youtube clips afterwards. good luck if you ever rewatch i’m on my fourth try and still stop before his death😭
31 bad things that happened to Meredith that I remember : 1.Lexie dies 2.her dog Doc dies 3.derek dies as she's pregnant and they have 2 other kids 4.george dies 5.her mom gets Alzheimer's and then dies 6.step mom dies 7.dad leaves and later on dies 8.mark dies 9.izzie gets cancer but then dissapears 10.drowned (died and came back to life) 11.cali almost dies and later on leaves 12.miscarriage 13.saw husband get shot 14.addison puts her underpants on the bulletin board 15. Gets appendicitis on 3×4 16.in s2 had to choose between Derek and Finn 17. Merder multiple breakups 18.watched Derek get shot and in surgery after (shooting) 19.plane crash 20.ptsd 21.gets attacked by patient and is injured severly 22.bomb incident 23.has 3 half sisters she didn't want to meet at first 24.zola was taken away from her (even tho she got her back) 25.cristina leaves 26.falls down the stairs (internal bleeding) 27.in the first episode realizes her boss had sex with her 28.derek said Lexie was "the girl at the bar" While Meredith was also "the girl at the bar" 29.2×5 (or was it 2×15 😂) panick attack 30. Had sex with George and cried so George was mad at her for awhile 31.threw up 4 times throughout the show (once in the first episode 2 times on 3×4 and another time which u don't remember what episode) 32.ptsd after shooting Tell me if I forgot something
I think Derek Shepherd's death is the worst thing that happened in this series and this song is so deep 💔, now I'm a medical student in my last year and I hope one day to become a doctor like Derek Shepherd ✌🏻 , Love from Sudan to everyone who sees this comment❤️
Malinen1997 I love this show so much but i haven’t been watching bc i’m finished and am waiting for season 14 but who was danny and callie ik who callie is (calliope) but i didn’t remember that she left/died
I was okay with all the other deaths (George, Lexie, Mark, Danny) but Derek?! WHY SHONDA WHY? Merder was my otp and Derek was such a big part of the show since season 1.
Unmensch patrick dempsey left the show and she said that she'd rather make him die than leave his family ( honestly she's right we wouldn't want to hate derek for leaving meredeth )
Catherine's acting was brilliant. I love that scene when she's about to fall into the hands of OXY again and instead breaks down and feels Derek's death for the first time.
I personally didn’t find Derek’s death sad, just the way mer dealt with it afterwards. How she was pregnant, how she took her kids and left just like her mother did with her. She gave birth all alone, and the parallels between her and her childhood was just:(
Why does everyone keep hating on Shonda Rhimes? The actor wanted to leave the show so she decided that killing Derek was the best option. Would you rather he divorced Meredith and just left? No, because it would be true to his character.
WHY DID MEREDITH PULL THE PLUG I got over george I got over mark I got over Lexie too But DEREK YOU CANT JUST KILL HIM LIKE HES NOT IMPORTANT HES THE LOVE OF MERES FUCKING LIFE AGHHHHHHHH ok that was my rant I'm gonna go now
+Rebbexa I read somewhere that when people are in this kind state (neither dead nor alive - the spirit has already left the body when the body remained alive), the spirit is torn between two worlds. Derek doesn't belong in the realm of the living anymore, but he can't cross over to the other side, so it's tormenting for the spirit. Though I'm as sad as you are when Derek died, keeping him "alive" would only prolong the pain. Putting an end to it would be mercy.
Y'all act like Amy is the only person grieving that was the hardest thing Meredith ever had to do she loved Derek so much would it have been nice if Mer called her sure but finding out your husband is brain dead is horrible I get why the last thing on her mind was to call people
Police: Hi is this the home of Derek shepard ? Maridith: Yes He’s my husband Police: I’m so sorry ma’am but there has been an accident Me : 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭NOoooOooo
Jesus! This show actually tore thru me! They are all such amazing actors and actresses! Poor Meredith tho, that women went thru more tragedy in a lifetime than anyone deserves! And she kept on keepin on & taking more. That’s the whole point! Doesn’t matter how slow you go, so long as u keep going!
My best friend, a loving LOVING wife and mother to a one year old died a week ago today. Her husband told all of us of her sudden and unexpected death in an eerily similar way... We were greys watchers, my best friend and i.... to watch this scene, listening to Amelia talk about her grief... it's the type of pain I relate to... Most of all... In this very real life... my best friend and her husband were very much the Derek and Meredith love story... I used to cry over this fictional storyline... now to feel myself in it... to understand that grief... for the actors to have sold it so deep to portray this genuine and real pain.... It gives it, it's own new life and meaning.
This show is just incredible. At school, kids call me "Grey's" because of my obsession (lol) but like this show is just filled with incredible actors and actresses and honestly, season 17 is our last and let me just say: this show will be remembered. Meredith, Alex, Goerge, Izzie, Christina, Derek, Amelia, Maggie, Arizona, Callie. All of them. Most have died or are finished in the show but we will remember the dedication put forward and I am not ready for it to end. This show is just magical 😊
one of THE most heart breaking moments in all of Grey's Anatomy history. There are many, but this is in at least top 5 moments. mourned for days after this
Honestly I'm just so mad at how they handled Derek's death and Dempsey's exit in general. There's rumors about what happened backstage and all that and i don't know what's true and what isn't, but this was just sad. Extremely dumb and lazy written accident, then fast forwarding through the funeral and the whole year after his death I mean there were some patients' death that had more emotional impact and he was the second or third most important character in the show for 11 years and this how they end things?! I guess I'm just frustrated that his exit wasn't clean, he signed on for another season and they wanted to get rid of him asap after a very short 11th seaon...and now no one talks to Dempsey anymore..it's sad :(
Mano, a Meredith é muito guerreira, ela já passou por muitos momentos difíceis e continua como uma rocha sempre dando forças a todos. Eu amo essa mulher.
I cried a lot over the seasons from season 2 onwards. Derek’s death had be snot bubbling and everything, the saddest I’ve ever felt for a programme. Shonda does her job a little too well 😭
The last scene, when the cameras focus on Dereks white coat and his cap, this moment in time is when it really gets to me and makes my heart break into a million pieces especially when Meredith puts his hat on. 😭😭
