Groom Has No Idea What He's Getting Into - Rich Bride Poor Bride 410 - Dollars And Sense 

So disrespectful. I get it it’s her wedding. she should’ve saved up if she wanted a grandiose wedding 🤦🏽‍♀️

Spoilt brat!!!

I’m pretty sure they paid her to act that way, some of it was so fake

Cathryn Hesketh, I am 1000% with you.

💯

exactly!

I'm sorry but if my parents or inlaws were putting forth that kind of money I would not be upset about them taking some control. It's only one day anyways.

Good idea!

That's a very clever idea I stand by your words they came up with the budget of $20,000 hand over the $20,000 if it comes up to 50 they got to pay the balance sounds like a plan to me

That’s what I did for my one son that wanted a big wedding. I told husband that we were giving them $2000 and they spend it how they want to. My husband was surprised that we were going to give that much. And I said the things they are talking about are going to be expensive and we need to put our limit out there so they know what they can expect from us and that’s all they’re getting.They were both working adults. My next son to get married was a working adult with a house and he just wanted to go out in the woods way up a trail and get married just with them the preacher and photographer. They also got $2000 to spend as they wanted for their wedding, but no more.

Fr 😂🤣🤣😂😂

I watched the show Bridezillas once n this girl Karen she made this bride look sane!! This girl Karen was arguing w someone n she said " listen you 9 dollar an hour human being" just yikes

And unattractive.

@@leonard2880 Yes, I would too, but the mother was also no prize. It seems this is a very manipulative family. To say yes, and then to change things behind the bride’s back is scummy. Why not just hand the bride a set amount, and let her decide how she wants to spend it? Why argue over every article? I get the feeling mom just likes to mess with her daughter.

How could anyone marry that primadonna low-class moocher mess? What is wrong with this man? She's got more red flags than a communist parade. I don't even blame her. I blame ALL of her eneablers.

@@sulcatagrl Bingo.

I was thinking the same

She’ll look back at this and probably be embarrassed . Or maybe not? The entitlement is strong in this one. 😵‍💫

She a spoil effing brat

It's because she's not paying that she feels like she can act like this... what a brat.

What happened to respect to our elders and self respect. they will divorce I guarantee, They are so very disgusting and put it on line thinking it is okay. Lord help us all.

Think she's lying about her age

extra weight is aging

THE groom has not lived with this witch yet. He will have an affair eventually.

@@shyaalexa5710 or a nervous breakdown

Total narcissist.

@@shyaalexa5710 He'll leave hey if he's smart.

The sound of her whiny voice wud drive me alone.

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I think she is a spoiled brat and he is big trouble with her that poor guy

Wow how selfish spend your own money spoiled brat! How disrespectful bit..!

@@claragranja3854 🤔

Spoiled Brat Syndrome.

I didn't pay anything for our wedding. The parents did. Granted, we were 19 and 21 at the time....and that was 1999. :)

@@fivemjs Yeah but how much did they pay? It appears this woman wants her parents to take out a second mortgage, which is very unreasonable.

EXACTLY!!!!

They're not even the A in adult

She is an ungrateful person

Totally agree with this comment

I have been married one time. My mother (widow) paid for dress, hairdo and boquet. We paid (my husband and I) for the dinner for us and our 2 witnesses. No guests. My Grandmother sent an unexpected boquet for our table at the hotel where we ate and it was greatly appreciated. We paid for the photostudio and the shoot and the photos. I went to a big wedding at a rented place with full dinner and a lot of extras. The bride's father was a lawyer. Mine was dead. We both got divorced later. Stupid stuff based on stupid decisions. Not worth the excess use at all.

50% of all married in the United States end with divorce, it's pathetic.

she's a spoilt brat

He got some real shady vibes

A 4000 dollars philosophy is a "harmelin flute". Philosophy doesn't pay they school, electricist, gasoline, etc. Also, gold can be symbol on some culture, however, It isn't the most important nor the only symbol that exist on these cultures.

A creative shyster!...The bride was his muse (sucker)

It’s just a cake with a some decorations on it at the end of the day. My mum made and decorated my wedding cake (and her own and my brothers) which made it more special than some tacky, overpriced creation. Unfortunately people get sucked in by others who convince them that they’re paying for their creative vision. Weddings do not need to cost a fortune. This woman is acting like a spoilt child.

I bet he was the stripper at her bachelorette party

Thank you!!! See this is what I said... She's talking about she wants this, deserves that, my wedding, my wedding, but hadn't said anything about life AFTER that wedding with all of those silly wants of hers! Too many times ppl have put all of the focus on the wedding forgetting that once those few hours are over, you must go on and live life with the person.....

@@yvettewilliams4893 I was 7 months pregnant when I got married, on my 4th baby. My husband and I had been together since we were 14 and had our babies at 14, 16, 18 and 20. Knowing it was our last baby, we wanted to ‘do it right’ and be married before he came and everyone had been bugging us for 6 years to finally get married, we were obviously made for each other, complete teenage sweethearts and soul mates. The ONLY thing I wouldn’t budge on was the men in the wedding party had to wear the traditional Filipino formal shirt (custom made with gold threading and gold colored buttons I picked, the men had to be measured and the shirts were made in the Philippines and sent here to Seattle), but everything else....flowers, cake, decor, music, food...I compromised with my husband and made sure he was JUST as apart of the decisions. We didn’t fight about anything, he didn’t have to check me, I didn’t throw a fit and I was HUGE prego and hormonal with a 6, 4 and 2 year old. I could have easily pulled rank being prego but nawwwww, this was about US, not me being a princess and look at me, look at me!! I got 6 more years with the love of my life, but he passed away suddenly at 26 from a heart attack while playing in a 3 on 3 basketball tournament. At 27, I was a widow with a 12, 10, 8 and 6 year old. Had I known then what I know now, I’d still marry his ass in a hot second!

Agreed!!! And I HATE how they aalll want to be a "Princess" aaarrrgghhhh

They why watch the show? This show is about the wedding not the marriage.

We went to city hall and then my aunts gave us a dinner at a local restaurant. We will be married 28 years in October. All our friends who had big fancy weddings are now divorced!

I can't stand her! I can't believe she's a nurse!

EXACTLY …… She’s SOO incredibly rude! !!

When people don't have to pay for things why do they insist on some much more? I know I was working overtime in order to pay half of the cost with my future husband to pay the other half of the cost of my wedding. No parent paid but it irritated me that demanded money from me on top of what I was paying. It truly upset me.

Not to mention she has no class and doesn’t even ask kindly.

Almost?? Cant Stand Her PERIOD. There...fixed it for you. 😆

Lol it’s the price of two beautiful weddings in France!!!

I was thinking that too yikes

Whatttt?! Where in the world do you live?! I just dropped $500k on my 3BR house! 😩 (Though I did buy it in this insane market)

@@mothermayi9545 I live in Missouri . $500k for 3 bedroom? Man that must be some house! Here you can get 4-5 bedroom with fenced land for around $150k.

@@christinamenhennett to be fair it is a new construction. And I live on the water in New England. Sadly, it costs a few organs to live around here.

Don't forget when she threatened to kill him if he didn't leave when he wasn't on her side but his mother's. I'd be hurt if my husband took his mom's side, but I wouldn't threaten to KILL him.

Sorry my beloved late mother said to me you are just as married spending less within a budget. Blowing the bank is a huge waste of money for just one day. She is lucky to have her parents for the ceremony. But it's her day, so spend away.

Truth! I'm in the same boat.

I have a strong feeling this is a Canadian production :( all the STUPID sound effects. It really does'nt do us ANY justice! No wonder there are so many talented Canadians in the states. This kind of production value does nothing for their talents.

Classless, your center pieces should not be so big that your guests need to talk around them.

No respect for her mother.

So did I. I was 19. I had a nice dress, married in a Catholic church mass, venue was at a Italian restaurant and piped in music. This was in the 70s.

I can't see them staying married because she feels so entitled. She's a spoiled brat. I raised strong independent women who are rational and financially independent.

@@fcllc4217 You know I said the same thing, I can't see Frank wanting to put up with this "entitled" person's silliness for the rest of his life

The mom sounds like she is used to getting what she wants and the daughter has the same attitude. Neither of them understand negotiating or compromise.

@@tastx3142 you have that right and the groom must be very stupid if he can't see by the way Mom and daughter behave now what he is going to have to put up with being in this family! My condolences to him and his parents.

Hate to be this Bridezillas nurse-patient

Exactly my thoughts! A nurse makes $100,000+ a year - so she can pay for her own things that her mom doesn’t want to pay for. A $4000 cake suddenly doesn’t sound so great when you have to pay for it yourself.

@@lostcontrol1981 a nurse makes how much???? I just googled average nurse pay in UK, it's around £35k, and that's with 5 years experience.

@@purplepixie274 I’m Canadian. Average full time nurse here makes around $100,000 CAD a year. I work at the Ottawa Hospital and every year a ‘Sunshine’ list is put out that lists anyone who makes $100K+ and most of the full time nurses and nurse managers are listed. £35,000 is about $60,000 CAD. So if that’s what the average full time nurse makes, you’re worse off in the UK than Canada.

@@purplepixie274 lol come be a nurse across the pond, they need people in healthcare and you get paid well :)

They absolutely do!

oh im sure they do...and for reasons that are completely incomprehensible to me, there are an awful lot of men out there who seem to positively enjoy and encourage needy, grasping, spoilt drama queens..they seem to love the attention it brings, good or bad..also gives them a great get out eventually...

Yes, then it's also scripted for dramatic entertainment.

Exactly...she's that type who will wear him down bit by bit over a lot of long miserable years, until he's just a husk of a man, who is barely allowed to speak. Sad.

My mom used to swear that a lot of men love a b****. Her words. Since I haven’t gotten a man yet, I hope that means I’m not a b****. Lol

Then her mum should get married lol. I agree the bride is a brat but her mum is too

88k on a wedding is absolutely crazy but I guess I can see why the daughter acts the way she did! Spoiled brat and probably never had to worry about paying for much in her life...must be nice having parents so you don't have to work a day! I'm not a hater or jealous though because I will continue to work daily if it means never act like people like her!

@@user-tv1zx2ms3e she does work, it says she is a nurse, but she is a spoiled narcissist

Except she doesn't do what she wants with it, she totally gave in on the cake. $4k on a cake is obscene.

Yes but she created this monster and 99% of the time the mother gives in.

I found I couldn't turn away either to watch something else, the outrageous behavior kept me glued to see just how far she would go. Lol

It was like watching a rofl sitcom!

Me too🤣 I couldn’t turn it off. Makes me very thankful for my partner

She shocks because this is entertainment not real life. I cannot believe many Italian wives behave in this manner. Reasonableness does not draw crowds- unfortunately.

My relationship with my boyfriend is founded on our love for trainwreck television

Robyn deddens 🤣🤣🤣 so am I . I keep thinking I am going to turn this off but like the train wreck I can't look away

Same here.😂😂😂

Kept saying to myself.. "nooo" smh but ended up watching the whole mess 🤣

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🤣🤣👋 LMAO

Yeah, like she was marrying herself. The poor groom didn't get a look in!!

I'm trying to figure out, if the Bride, Jaime got anything she wanted and the groom refused to choose anything but a car. The Bride's dress was under budget so she isn't as bad as everyone says. The Mom made all the decisions by the end of the day, and she spent money on what she wanted. How much of the guest list was for the two Moms' friends and not the bride and groom's friends????? I think the Bride was correct, her Mom was planning her own wedding. The Mom spent a lot on her own dress and her cheese and talked to the other Mom behind the Bride's back.

…. I can’t Believe the way she speaks to her mother(No prize herself)…And Frank needs to grow a Pair or “Run like Pizza is on Sale!”😂😂😂😤🇨🇦

She is this way 😬🙄 in part because she was raised that way- and she probably has spent too much time watching Downton Abbey….I would’ve never had been allowed to behave that way.

🤣🤣 lmao

my thoughts exactly

@@priscillemartin696 And mine.

She’s seriously horrible

oh what horrible child growing up to be spoil and brat. How she get away with it.Poor mother had to pay all this for one day, you know only she say married to this one guy. no kidding.

That is literally his job lol

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Perfect

Unlike this bride...you obviously raised your daughter right...and that's lovely of you to offer the cheque...most parents don't do that these days.

Point

Your daughter is both SANE and not selfish. Jamie is not either one.

That's what we did, too, for three of our children. Two others, #1 and #4, have yet to marry.

U are right … That respect and care for each other are very much missing these days.. only show off or ego !!

Absolutely!

I got married 6 months ago in city hall had a small get together in a restaurant with 30 people and the money we saved it’s for a house. And we couldn’t be any happier!!!

@@stevenrosado3950 You are still newlyweds lol :)

Most costs go to food and drink these days though, which is unavoidable if you want to be a good host- although five course menus with caviar and french champagne are unnecessary. But most of the extras with the exception of maybe a good photographer for the memories and music source, are a waste and cone be done without or more cheaply. The money would be better spent on a honeymoon. Even with a big wedding I would not come close to what they spent on this.

That's what we did. Kept wedding to minimum and saved for honeymoon, apartment, furniture, etc. No regrets.

I'm not paying 4k for a cake...where entimanns?

You would want to be mad to pay that much for a cake 🎂

$4k for a cake???? Oh my gosh!!! Mom made mine and it was beautiful!! The bride is spoiled!!!!! Mercy she is acting like a spoiled child!!

@@christinamenhennett same here and like yours it was gorgeous tasted beautiful and looked beautiful. And meant so much more to me because my mother made it.

@@deborahmcgee7970 definitely!!! My mother had never made anything but box cakes before. She was terrified she'd mess it up. It was gorgeous!

LOL That’s why I hate strapless dresses!

That's a sign of an improperly fitted dress or one that needed more boning. Wedding dresses with any weight to them, when properly fitted at the waist don't slide down.

The way she's doing it shows that she's really not properly trained on etiquette

I thought the exact same thing! I'm shocked that she only spent 1k on her dress

That was exactly what I was thinking...

I don’t think that it is real. They definitely played it up for the camera.

@Jess Stone yes

@@sunshinendaisies1545 😂😂😂👀👀👀

With her attitude, what is she like at the bedside? Just saying as a nurse myself?

@@lauriesliz2731 I don't understand?

@@lauriesliz2731 they are the worst type of nurses

I feel sorry for her patients and colleagues who have to deal with that witch.

@@vanessawyndham8791 you and I both she is so ungrateful. If someone offers to pay for your wedding as expensive as weddings are the least she could’ve done was stay within the price range

She obviously planned it

Revenge!

Totally thought the same thing lol

I thought the EXACT same thing! That’s so funny! 🤣

I know this is a preference but burgundy is just an ugly color to me...

Current wedding budget estimates that you can find online are ridiculous! I don't remember our exact budget, it was between $1,000 and $2,000 with 200 guests. Our cake was a gift and I made my dress with help from my sisters which helped our budget.

That was 16 years ago though

Hispanics make everything look expensive but we actually MAKE most of our de decorations. I don't know anyone that's spent over 30k for any wedding and we usually have around 600-1,000 ppl parties

88,000 is that what she spent?? That's ridiculous she is so spoiled

My thoughts exactly all that money just for stuff

That's what we did 47 years ago. It was either the grand ballroom and 200 people or deposit for house. Still together although caring for hubby with dementia now. The cost of the one day compared to a lifetime, no comparison. How often does one even look at the wedding photo album except for the one picture framed on the mantle?

My mom borrowed a dress from a girl we grew up with and my wedding didn't cost over 500.00 dollars and our wedding was beautiful this girl is totally insane and needs to wake up money isn't that important and my husband and I were happy

yep poor planner reallllly worked for his money!

Thruth

That favour idea is so cool

The only things you get to keep after the day are the ring, the photos, and the video. And most importantly, the spouse! So those are the only things worth investing in. Investing in your spouse and marriage is the top priority, so you have the right idea!

My parents gave each like $15k in “help” and then stepped out of the way. That was all they were going to give and they could not care less about intervening.

I've told my mother if I ever get married I am making my own cake. Sure it won't look like that but who cares. I've heard of a bridesmaid buying cake from the supermarket, sticking them together with icing and adding some dragees and iced flowers from the baking aisle, plus some real flowers from the garden. No one knew the difference

@@MsJubjubbird lol people knew the difference but would not be rude while being guests and telling you that the cake has an industrial taste…

or a 20% down payment on a shoebox-size unit with no backyard in Melbourne 😂

That is a 35% down payment on a beautiful family home with a finished walk out basement and a huge fenced backyard in an area of West Des Moines with a very low crime rate, no child sex offenders for miles & excellent schools.

40% down on our home for my wedding. We paid 5,000 hold church wedding bam. House or 35,000 wedding? We chose House 🏠🤷🏽‍♀️. Thanks 🙏 daddy.

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@@nicolewashington829 You're practical! Jamie is spoiled, irrational, and so incredibly disrespectful. She's old enough to pay for her own wedding. Frank should see he's going to be paying out the nose for the divorce!

So funny. The closer she got the cheaper the dress looked. I gave seen many brides who paid considerably less for their gowns that looked amazing

SMH

It’s probably the whole “well .. she’s getting a $4k wedding cake… so $2k on cheese not too bad” thinking

$7,000. ?what did the whole thing cost????

@@JustMe-gs9xi I forget but something above $60k

The whole thing just cost 89K.